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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago

County Durham

Hi all.

Just a quick question around the swinging clubs.

I’m tempted but very nervous! (I know pathetic)

How would one approach somewhere like this if I decided to pop along?

Is this a common occurrence? Like a lad going without knowing anybody

Thanks

By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you

I go as a single male most of the time.

I used to go as a couple with a single female taking along.

Listen the most important thing to remember as a Single guy is DON’T BE ‘THAT GUY’

You’ll know who that guy is is he’ll be the guy walking everywhere a woman goes, not leaving her alone, so she never feels comfortable

he’s the guy who gropes a woman thinking that’s okay, because he’s paid the entrance

he’s the guy who gets offended at ‘no’,

he’s the guy who when I was with a beautiful woman decided to stick his head between my legs to “just have a fucking look mate!”

The guy who took his clock out and said to a woman I was with “you eat kebab”

The guy who tried to break into a locked room hoping to “join in”

Basically cool out, be yourself talk to people with no expectation, respect a no even if you’ve been talking to a woman all night

Be fun

Just don’t be that guy

By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

It would be worth doing a forum search and looking at the website for the club your thinking of going to. Im not up to date at all on the entry these days but I think you have to be members now so check out the rules for that and also how much single male memberships are and how much entry fee is on the night and how many men they they let in and stuff as they get limited.