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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a single lady, thinking about going on my own. Nervous as would not want to just sit there by myself. Is it welcoming and friendly? What are the rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the same boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t need to worry at all go without thinking you are going to have to hook up with somebody (that might happen or not) go for a good time socialising and I’m sure you’ll get somebody to show you the ropes don’t forget no means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'd have no problem finding someone to chat too. We are the same but we are a couple. We are just going with an open mind. If you are going tonight fe free to have a chat with us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even worry about it. Everyone is so nice xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. I would be driving so cannot drink to stop the nerves. Still deciding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. Hope it has air con

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

lots of newbies join weekly here so u will not be alone and the staff will make sure ur looked after

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm not drinking either, and I'm usually really shy, but it's just such a chilled and friendly atmosphere. There will be plenty of people to chat with.

As for aircon, it was better in there than outside last night. They also have a swimming pool and jacuzzi you can cool off in if needed.

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By *udds-CDTV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Don’t even give it a second though - staff are so friendly, someone will show you around - large bar area to sit and socialise

I am a single CD and am always conscious of attending clubs on my own, but I have NEVER had any negative attitude or problem at Pandoras

Jump in with both feet - you will soon be a regular !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at going this Saturday be my first time too so excited and nervous any tips help me too

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Looking to get to the club sometime this weekend, it’s over two years since we have last been, sooooo looking forward to it.

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds

Best advice is to go on a couple's/single female night for your first time.

The staff are very friendly and helpful as are the clientele.

You will be shown around the the club by staff where everything is explained and it might even be good to put a meet and see if there are any other single females going you can meet there and chill with. (There are always single females there)

Honestly you will settle in and relax and before you know it you will be looking forward to your next visit.

Have a great time

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

You'll be fine at Pandoras. We visited last year and it's really friendly. Wasn't long till we were chatting to new people. Like others have said tell the staff it's your first time and any concerns you have, they'll see you right. Hope you have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever want someone to go with let me know, I’m also a single lady wanting to try it!

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By *unkinkcoupleCouple
over a year ago

altrincham

In clubs you find people are friendly and chatty and its always upto you what you want to do you can always say no

also alot off the time people are shy to say hello to each other or how to start a conversation so a friendly joke dose break the ice when in clubs

we will be in pandoras this Friday so hello to everyone in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be fine. There are always folk who recognise a newbie and take them on side. Don't leave it too long, because your nerves and anticipation might get the better of you. Big old place to wander round anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking at visiting Pandora's on 14th August for the first time as a club, firstly, what are the chances of us inviting a woman to play with us? Secondly, is anyone going?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"We are looking at visiting Pandora's on 14th August for the first time as a club, firstly, what are the chances of us inviting a woman to play with us? Secondly, is anyone going? "

Play's never guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply much appreciated

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the info, will have a look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too."

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol "

I want to know who is using our fab name!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol "

I agree! Very polite gentleman and very respectful…..and if he’s busy, I’m always available!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!"

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Best advice is to go on a couple's/single female night for your first time.

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I don't agree with this. As a single woman I find it much easier to start a conversation with a single man than a couple.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple "

Not what you said in the orgy.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol "

Only because I know your a very very nice man , extremely adept at putting people at ease and bring them into the conversation.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Going Friday night single man

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

Only because I know your a very very nice man , extremely adept at putting people at ease and bring them into the conversation. "

Takes one to recognise one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

Not what you said in the orgy."

That's because L had her mouth full.. he he Gosh that was 3 years ago now. Very happy memories. I do recall it was a 9 some . Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

Only because I know your a very very nice man , extremely adept at putting people at ease and bring them into the conversation.

Takes one to recognise one."

Sharif is a gentleman. More so than me . Ha

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

Not what you said in the orgy.

That's because L had her mouth full.. he he Gosh that was 3 years ago now. Very happy memories. I do recall it was a 9 some . Ha "

Taught me to always have a bottle of water with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After lots of prodding from Mr Sausage (in the best possible way) I’m attending on Friday

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

Not what you said in the orgy.

That's because L had her mouth full.. he he Gosh that was 3 years ago now. Very happy memories. I do recall it was a 9 some . Ha "

Fond memories of ‘that’ night and wow 3 years ago!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

Not what you said in the orgy.

That's because L had her mouth full.. he he Gosh that was 3 years ago now. Very happy memories. I do recall it was a 9 some . Ha

Fond memories of ‘that’ night and wow 3 years ago!!"

I know, saying that it has been two years since we have been to a club.

We have an awful lot of catching up to do.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

Not what you said in the orgy.

That's because L had her mouth full.. he he Gosh that was 3 years ago now. Very happy memories. I do recall it was a 9 some . Ha

Fond memories of ‘that’ night and wow 3 years ago!!

I know, saying that it has been two years since we have been to a club.

We have an awful lot of catching up to do.

"

Only 18 months for me and we sure as hell do!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"After lots of prodding from Mr Sausage (in the best possible way) I’m attending on Friday "

Finally! Recognition for my prodding skills

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"People are very nice there in my experience so there should be nothing to worry about. But maybe all you newbies and not so newbies going on the same day can setup a kik group or something so you've already broken the ice. I'd also recommend tapping up the lovely Mr Nice on here, he's a very sociable chap so if he's there on the same day I'm sure he can take you under his wing, _icentious are very lovely people too.

Cheers matey for pimping me out.. Lol

I want to know who is using our fab name!

That's because you're a lovely friendly couple

Not what you said in the orgy.

That's because L had her mouth full.. he he Gosh that was 3 years ago now. Very happy memories. I do recall it was a 9 some . Ha

Fond memories of ‘that’ night and wow 3 years ago!!

I know, saying that it has been two years since we have been to a club.

We have an awful lot of catching up to do.

Only 18 months for me and we sure as hell do!"

Ha ha, if you need help catching up….

OP, sorry side tracked your thread a little.

We should have been there on Saturday, unfortunately we have had to put a visit back a week. Which is a shame as you would have been more than welcome to chat while you find your feet.

However, there will be some great people there, who will make you more than welcome - have a stunning time and make fantastic memories.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Me and my female friend are going on Friday come say hi..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my female friend are going on Friday come say hi.. "

Lol I won’t recognise you but say hi if you see me! I’m almost 6ft tall so hard to miss!

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By *eeds Horny BuggerMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Can’t recommend Pandora enough. Been attending there ever since it opened. Definitely struggle to find a better club and so friendly as well. Bonus barmaids are very sexy as well . Sure you’ll have a amazing night and definitely be a regular after it

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"Me and my female friend are going on Friday come say hi..

Lol I won’t recognise you but say hi if you see me! I’m almost 6ft tall so hard to miss! "

There's face pics on my profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves nerves nerves but also excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nerves nerves nerves but also excitement "

The best part .

Do not worry in Leeds people are super friendly and you will have a fab time

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nerves nerves nerves but also excitement

The best part .

Do not worry in Leeds people are super friendly and you will have a fab time

Enjoy "

Thank you I had a great night.

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By *ouple211Couple
over a year ago

warrington

We are off there tonight our first time hope it’s good

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

You'll be fine, honestly the friendliest club I've ever been to, you will be very well looked after and the nerves will dissipate in no time.

Mr Hayes

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Off to pandoras this evening with a lady,looking forward to see leeds and the club sounds great...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a single lady, thinking about going on my own. Nervous as would not want to just sit there by myself. Is it welcoming and friendly? What are the rules?"

Just to add I went on my own last night, I’m also socially shy but everyone made me feel super welcome

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"I am a single lady, thinking about going on my own. Nervous as would not want to just sit there by myself. Is it welcoming and friendly? What are the rules?

Just to add I went on my own last night, I’m also socially shy but everyone made me feel super welcome "

It was lovely to see you. You didn’t seem very shy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a single lady, thinking about going on my own. Nervous as would not want to just sit there by myself. Is it welcoming and friendly? What are the rules?

Just to add I went on my own last night, I’m also socially shy but everyone made me feel super welcome

It was lovely to see you. You didn’t seem very shy lol "

Haha I’m socially shy just not sexually shy!

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds

Was good to see you in the smoking room, you looked chilled.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had so much fun last night at pandoras.

Shame we had to disappear early. Baby sitter issues. We were so looking forward to staying till the end.

If we crossed paths, please feel free to drop us a message.

We had our eyes on the georgus blond sat at the bar with her fella but never got chance to say hi. If you're on here please drop us a line. Would love to hear from you.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

If you was in Pandora’s last night pop up and say hi

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

All being well, we will be there.

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By *orkshire-man2021Man
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"I am a single lady, thinking about going on my own. Nervous as would not want to just sit there by myself. Is it welcoming and friendly? What are the rules?"

I went on my own other week, got chatting to a couple and had a fantastic time, going again Saturday;)

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Finally closing the Covid loop and going to Pandora’s on the 14th.

Know our sexy orgy organiser is coming along (kiss kiss) with other friends.

Just hope the lads can get a look in.

Sooo looking forward to it.

(Wanders off singing, “you’ll always catch me in the dungeon at parties”.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Finally closing the Covid loop and going to Pandora’s on the 14th.

Know our sexy orgy organiser is coming along (kiss kiss) with other friends.

Just hope the lads can get a look in.

Sooo looking forward to it.

(Wanders off singing, “you’ll always catch me in the dungeon at parties”.

"

Does anyone know if the club has sensitive smoke alarms in the dungeon like some hotels have?

Wouldn’t want to go through that again.

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds

The dungeon is perfect for candles and wax play. Probably best to leave your flame thrower at home though

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"The dungeon is perfect for candles and wax play. Probably best to leave your flame thrower at home though "

Erm... what about a blow torch?

Asking for a friend.

Mr Hayes

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"The dungeon is perfect for candles and wax play. Probably best to leave your flame thrower at home though "

Drat, there is always an obstacle.

Hey, thanks!

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds

no probs, I suppose you could always put a sock over it and keep a bottle of water close by

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


" no probs, I suppose you could always put a sock over it and keep a bottle of water close by"

Na, socks aren’t our kink, you might need to explain that one to us. Now water I totally agree with.

Letting ice water run slowly down her body in to her underwear.

Wet underwear is great for holding ice on a clue.

Need to reevaluate the juxtaposition of heat.

Thanks for the heads up.

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