FabSwingers.com forum: My first swingers club experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm looking to go to my first ever night at a swingers club/spa but I'm looking for a lady to come with me to 'show me the ropes' as such.

Swindon, Bournemouth, Brighton etc...

Message me or reply to this if you're interested x

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Put your big boy pants on and go alone - you'll have a better time and more chance of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I don’t think you’ll have much success with this request. I can’t imagine that many ladies would like to attend a club with a stranger. Perhaps try and arrange a meet at one?

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Take the plunge on your own you won't regret it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that's unanimous....I grow some balls and go alone

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Well that's unanimous....I grow some balls and go alone

Yes sir

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Do what I did when I first started out. Go to clubs on your own, and once you've settled with a regular one, and put in the effort of socialising with people, you'll find your circle of swinging friends should increase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on your own, go with no expectations, talk to people with the aim of having a good night out and meeting new people. If something happens then that’s a bonus

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

"I'm looking to go to my first ever night at a swingers club/spa but I'm looking for a lady to come with me to 'show me the ropes' as such.

Swindon, Bournemouth, Brighton etc...

Message me or reply to this if you're interested x"

If I can go to a club alone you can go to a club on your own plus you would get better luck

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Put your big boy pants on and go alone - you'll have a better time and more chance of success."

To be fair, I found it similar to Moses parting the waves being a solo guy in the clubs, but far easier to chat with other people when in the company of a female. I doubt I will ever visit a club as a solo guy again

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By *rganicVanillaMan
over a year ago

Reading

"Go on your own, go with no expectations, talk to people with the aim of having a good night out and meeting new people. If something happens then that’s a bonus"

Couldn't agree more with this advice

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Go on your own, imagine your just going to the most friendly pub ever and be respectful and friendly, anything after that is a bonus and if nothing happens at least you have had a nice night out and met loads of amazing people x

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By *ornygirlCWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm also a club virgin and really want to try one out. Which is the best in leeds to try?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm also a club virgin and really want to try one out. Which is the best in leeds to try?

I think for a first time visit Quest is better as it is much smaller (easier to get chatting) and all on one level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also a club virgin and really want to try one out. Which is the best in leeds to try?

Pandora is a very friendly club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also a club virgin and really want to try one out. Which is the best in leeds to try?

Tried to inbox you

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By *ornygirlCWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why won't it let you?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why won't it let you? "

No idea. I don't have any filters. Anyone can message me. I don't even have anyone blocked.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Grow a set do not get to d*unk you be fine..

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By *ornygirlCWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Messaged you x

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By *teve 1000Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Can anyone confirm if large guys get any luck at the clubs . Thanks

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Can anyone confirm if large guys get any luck at the clubs . Thanks "

Some do.

It's got more to do with how you conduct yourself than how big you are.

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By *y pleasure.Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Brilliant information as i am considering going to Sutton on the 7th of August. A lady was interested in coming but doesn't feel she is ready. I now will go alone... Is there any advice things i should know?? Keep it positive

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