FabSwingers.com forum: Xtasia in June

By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance.

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance."

Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests.

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance.

Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests. "

Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Great time to enjoy a chilled atmosphere with like minded couples from the lifestyle

Few drinks to get to know new faces and regulars at the club for future events

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Great time to enjoy a chilled atmosphere with like minded couples from the lifestyle

Few drinks to get to know new faces and regulars at the club for future events "

Thanks!

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

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"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance.

Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests.

Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then."

Perfect night out for you both. There’s a good 100+ attending at present and you’ll know half of them by the end of the night

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance.

Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests.

Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then.

Perfect night out for you both. There’s a good 100+ attending at present and you’ll know half of them by the end of the night

Sounds an ideal no pressure environment for our first time.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

We are heading there on 26th June.

Hopefully the restrictions are fully lifted by then and we can socialise normally!

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"We are heading there on 26th June.

Hopefully the restrictions are fully lifted by then and we can socialise normally!"

The noises I’ve been hearing lately make me think that further lifting is likely to be put back.

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge

Looking forward to being there on the 25th even if it is to be socially distanced.

I have been to "socially distance" events of there already, on the sun deck and on a Saturday evening in the open air bar area.

Its great being with like minded people and just chilling out although I can't wait till we can do a little more.

See you soon, whatever Boris decides lol

Michael

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By *iBloomCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

"We are heading there on 26th June.

Hopefully the restrictions are fully lifted by then and we can socialise

normally!"

We'll be there too

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge

Hotel booked for the 23 July, hopefully out of lockdown by then.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

We've already booked a room for Friday 25th. We are going to stick to our plans even though lockdown restrictions have been extended, i guess what goes on in our room is our business

what happens in the dark room? Nobody knows

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn.

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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago

Streatham

Thanks for that! Probably a good time for club virgins like ourselves to visit then."

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By *ustyBBW42Couple
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Your have to let us know what the new premier inn like we there on the 17th July and is it easy to let non staying guess to your room lll

"I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Your have to let us know what the new premier inn like we there on the 17th July and is it easy to let non staying guess to your room lll

I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn.

It looks alot nicer than the old one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually posted this as a new topic earlier, seems like I should of posted it here.

So I've been accepted as a male member for an Xtasia membership.

It's my very first club, as I never been to one before.

As a big chunky BHM I'm quite nervous.

Will I be accepted by one and all as I'm bigger?

What sort of etiquette should I adopt when I go?

Any advice would be gladly appreciated.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I actually posted this as a new topic earlier, seems like I should of posted it here.

So I've been accepted as a male member for an Xtasia membership.

It's my very first club, as I never been to one before.

As a big chunky BHM I'm quite nervous.

Will I be accepted by one and all as I'm bigger?

What sort of etiquette should I adopt when I go?

Any advice would be gladly appreciated."

Of course you will, I'm a chonky wench and I'm accepted. To be fair, people have no choice, I just get in there.

Talk to people! Just chat, not sexual, just casual conversation.

If you're there on Friday I'm sure Paul will bring you over to myself and my friends and I can introduce you.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance."

Let’s just say that Xtasia has managed to transform into a swinging social venue during this challenging time for our wonderful lifestyle.

Granted it’s constrained, but given the circumstances, it beats sitting in a Wetherspoons. I’m sure you’ll have a great time and it’ll be a worthwhile investment for your first time.

It’ll also add to the excitement of thinking what is this place going to be like once restrictions are lifted.

As for playing. None of this on premise at the moment, even with each other, but I’m sure the tension and frustration will be released once at the hotel.

Hot tub should be open when restrictions are lifted.

We’ve been a few times and Saturday was a cracking safe night. A couple ran a game of Play Your Cards Right, which was a fantastic add on to bring everyone together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are attending Xtasia on the 19/6. Can’t wait to see the changes to the club and hopefully see some old friends. Who else is going?

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge

Looking forward to being there on Friday 25th even if limited to the outside area, thanks Boris, couldn't let the hotel booking go to waste. So a natter and drink with like minded people and make some new friends

Michael

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing.

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

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"So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing."

There’s no dancing anywhere in the whole country but what you will find is a club full of likeminded people being treated like adults enjoying each other’s company x

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing.

There’s no dancing anywhere in the whole country but what you will find is a club full of likeminded people being treated like adults enjoying each other’s company x"

Thanks for the reply! Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"So I’m guessing as restrictions are still in place then no dancing will be allowed either. Hopefully there will be at least some music playing.

There’s no dancing anywhere in the whole country but what you will find is a club full of likeminded people being treated like adults enjoying each other’s company x

Thanks for the reply! Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?"

Yes it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will be heading up next weekend either 25th or 26th just to have a nosey and pay our joining fee for future visits

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"We will be heading up next weekend either 25th or 26th just to have a nosey and pay our joining fee for future visits"

Hi, out of interest, where will you be staying the night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we wont am afraid its a busy weekend for us with work etc so hour or two only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the pleasure of visiting here for the first time the other week as a member. I enjoyed a few hours in the bar chatting.

Planning to go back on the 25th and may stay for the evening, although a little shy to begin with, if anyone sees me there please feel free to say hi xx

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?"

As it stands, I believe whilst Xtasia is currently providing a social only club, it is open for everyone. We’ve seen single males there on both nights. We’re not looking for single males and have had no issues. They’ve been polite and respectful.

When it finally opens in it’s full working glory, then Xtasia, coupled with Flirts, is going to give everyone with their personal preferences somewhere to go to on both Friday and Saturday.

Friday will be mixed nights at Xtasia with couples/females only in Flirts. And Saturday will flip to Couples/females only in Xtasia and mixed in Flirts.

My understanding is that couples/females do have the option to flip back and forth and enjoys both venues, but single males will be constrained to either Xtasia on Fridays, and Flirts on Saturdays.

Gives the single men a place to enjoy on a Saturday night and at least they know that, for the most part, couples that visit “their space” are most likely more approachable and looking for single men.

Whilst couples who have no interest in single men have the option of staying in “their zone” without the worry and have somewhere to go on a Friday night.

Winner winner chicken dinner for everyone. Props to Xtasia we say!

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Any idea what it’ll cost us to enter as a couple next weekend? As it’s not fully open will we still need to bring id and become members?

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

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"Any idea what it’ll cost us to enter as a couple next weekend? As it’s not fully open will we still need to bring id and become members?"

With Xtasia being a private members club you will need to become a member and we think a couples lifetime membership fee is a one off payment of £20. Entry to the club is currently free for members.

Hope this helps

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Any idea what it’ll cost us to enter as a couple next weekend? As it’s not fully open will we still need to bring id and become members?

With Xtasia being a private members club you will need to become a member and we think a couples lifetime membership fee is a one off payment of £20. Entry to the club is currently free for members.

Hope this helps

They charged £5 for entry on Friday, they didn't charge 2 weeks ago though. I think Paul introduced a charge, completely reasonable considering the amount if must cost to open.

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Thanks both! ??

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Ignore the question marks, was meant to be a thumbs up.

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge

"Is it still couples and singles next Friday and couples only on Saturday?

When it finally opens in it’s full working glory, then Xtasia, coupled with Flirts, is going to give everyone with their personal preferences somewhere to go to on both Friday and Saturday.

Friday will be mixed nights at Xtasia with couples/females only in Flirts. And Saturday will flip to Couples/females only in Xtasia and mixed in Flirts.

My understanding is that couples/females do have the option to flip back and forth and enjoys both venues, but single males will be constrained to either Xtasia on Fridays, and Flirts on Saturdays.

Whilst couples who have no interest in single men have the option of staying in “their zone” without the worry and have somewhere to go on a Friday night.

Winner winner chicken dinner for everyone. Props to Xtasia we say!

Totally agree everyone's a winner and big thanks for keeping the club open as best as possible considering the restrictions while still forging ahead with some great improvements and refurbishments.

Looking forward to seeing everyone on Friday

Michael

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?"

They have rooms on site

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

"I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn.

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where is the new premier Inn ?

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?

They have rooms on site "

Thanks for that.

How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

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"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?

They have rooms on site

Thanks for that.

How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?"

The hotel onsite is called Flirts and they have a bar. We prefer to drink in there before hand because we know everyone else in there are attending the club that evening. It’s a cool meeting place

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By *untimes7474 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?

They have rooms on site

Thanks for that.

How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?

The hotel onsite is called Flirts and they have a bar. We prefer to drink in there before hand because we know everyone else in there are attending the club that evening. It’s a cool meeting place "

One last question. Any car parking close by? TIA.

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

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"Can anyone tell me if there are any good bars or hotels in close proximity to this club?

They have rooms on site

Thanks for that.

How about any bars we could try out prior to arrival?

The hotel onsite is called Flirts and they have a bar. We prefer to drink in there before hand because we know everyone else in there are attending the club that evening. It’s a cool meeting place

One last question. Any car parking close by? TIA."

Yep loads. Find a spot on the road outside (2 hour max) and pop into Flirts and they’ll point out the best places to park for longer stay.

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By *hetwoofus.Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Our first time 3 weeks ago there and had a ball such a friendly atmosphere

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'm there on the 18th, booked in at the new premier inn.

where is the new premier Inn ? "

Congregation way, about 5 minutes from the club by car. It's really nice, much nicer than the one next door was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aiming to be there for 8.30 hopefully

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By *absFrenchGentMan
over a year ago

stafford

I’m thinking of visiting on Friday as it’s been almost 18 months since I last went to flirt and even longer to Xtasia so does anyone know if they have extended the memberships ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last Friday of the month. I’m looking forward to going to Xtasia tonight. Haven’t had a drink in flirts yet. So might start off there.

Last week was my first time and even with restrictions, it was a fun night if socialising

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By *hetwoofus.Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"We are thinking of heading to Xtasia at the end of the month and from reading other posts it seems that all events at the moment still require social distancing.

If there are no further relaxation to restrictions this month, we are wondering what a night there could entail?

Would we be aloud to play together and maybe be watched in the dogging area?

Would we be aloud to use the hot tub together?

Thanks in advance.

Your night would entail, enjoying a night out with other likeminded people and planting your seeds for future harvests. "

We are going up tomorrow, we went a few weeks ago and we had a great laugh, play wasn't on the cards so there was no expectations we just met some real nice people things will return soon x

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By *lake ElleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Looking forward to another fun night out at Xtasia tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a great night Friday 25th June chatted to some lovely people cant wait to go back

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Had a great night Friday 25th June chatted to some lovely people cant wait to go back"

Friday's are great, I'll be there next week if anyone is going, I don't want to be a loner!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

Anyone stopped at the Mercure near the motorway junction?

Is it ok?

What would we expect to pay for a taxi back please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any idea what xtasia is like on a Saturday for a new member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea what xtasia is like on a Saturday for a new member? "

I may be wrong but i think Saturdays are for couples and women only ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any idea what xtasia is like on a Saturday for a new member?

I may be wrong but i think Saturdays are for couples and women only ?"

Oh OK then... Thanks for your advice. I've just posted a new thread about it, so hopefully I'll get some clarity. Thank you for the heads up.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Any idea what xtasia is like on a Saturday for a new member?

I may be wrong but i think Saturdays are for couples and women only ?"

Single guys allowed in Flirts on a Saturday, but not in the club.

Saturdays in the club are couples and single females only.

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