FabSwingers.com forum: chams newport

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey guys ima newbie and i really wnat to go to chams , im very nervous tho , im worried about being rejected , do u have to do anything can u just watch if ur not interested in anyone there ?

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

You can do as little or as much as you like.

Being a single female your at the top of the swinging tree. People will talk to you. Let the staff know your new and if you want to, they are likely to introduce you to a few regulars.

Hang around in the social area intially and chat to some people. You will be asked if 'you would like to play' usually meaning how about a shag essentially - Be clear in your own head what you will and will no do, and make that clear with anyone, before you play with them.

If you decide you want to do nothing and just watch, that is absolutely fine, many people goto clubs for this reason, to watch or be watched, so its pretty common and you will not be the only one doing it.

You will find that the social aspect to the scene is really important to alot of people, so your likely to make friends who you can meet there again.

Chams Newport, is not as good as Chams Darlaston, as the Newport venue doubles as a Gay Sauna on some days, and the decor and layout reflects that, so just be aware, while its not a bad venue, there are much better clubs out there in the UK, so if you don't like the venue, but want to give it another go, try some others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing you definately won't be is rejected !!!!!

More likely you will be fending off those you don't feel attracted to .

It's the same in any club - you do what you wanna do - never put up with any hassle or unwanted touching etc .....

Darlaston is so much better than Newport but it's ok and finally you may have a better time if you go with someone ?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A simple rule is that anyone who touches you without an invite is out of order.

So feel free to tell them so!

I usually rely on the old staple of shaming in front of people - "Is this your hand? Did I ask you to put it there? So why did you?" said in a loud and nannyish voice will wither most offenders, especially if any other couples/women are around as they will steer clear of him!

If you do decide to play then decide what you would be happy with - I don't mind being watched but I don't like a commentary and so have asked those who think they are Motty to shut up up or leave the room.

I'm happy to have the silent wankers/towel fumblers - it may be as close as they get to action all night - but I don't want to get splashed or to have any extra hands, or even worse a cock slapped on my face!

So I get well onto the bed (out of easy reach) and I make sure I'm firm with anyone I don't want to play with - a shake of the head will generally suffice.

If anyone does get pushy then enlist the help of the rest of the watchers - if they know you'll stop playing if you get pestered they'll often 'encourage' any misbehaving guys to stop or leave the room.

Above all relax, don't do anything or anyone you don't wholeheartedly want to and enjoy.

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