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By *nLCuriousCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

notts

Mr here. Which “nice” clubs, particularly in the midlands have a dark room and how dark is it? Asking for a friend/Mrs… Not interested in seedy smelly places.

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

In And Around The

We think most clubs have a dark room of some description. The club we attend as one and it’s very dark and lots of fun.

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t think any of the well-renowned clubs are dirty or smelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seedy smelly places are fine with me ... seedy is part of the attraction!

So where are the clubs with dark rooms please? Especially in the Manchester area

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

Dark rooms can be fun if you know a female is in there who wants to be touched, but I found I kept getting touched by hairy arms, think quite a few in the closet Bi guys go in them.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"seedy smelly places are fine with me ... seedy is part of the attraction!

"

Could be a new niche, a dank room...

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Never been in a dark room yet

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm……it’s on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the dark room in Infusions with a friend and was great the first time. Second time a bloke tried wanking me off which put me off. Think I was a bit naive as you have to expect anything.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I think most places have them.

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

We are fascinated by these rooms. But do wonder if the fantasy is better that the reality??

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We want to know we’re doing things with people we find attractive to see and touch. Dark room for I’ll NEVER be in our future lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see the attraction. I saw one in action once and it was full of guys and one woman. Call me old fashioned but I want to see who I'm touching/being touched by.

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I guess the fantasy IS not knowing whom is touching you or whom you're touching.

I know some women also have the additional fantasy of 'being used' so 'who' it is may not factor in.

I definitely would like to try one

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

I had a great time in the dark room at Partners one night with a South Asian woman with the most gorgeous boobs. She'd been very restrained the whole evening but once in the dark room it was if she'd been let off the leash - wild! The woman I'd gone to the club with said afterwards that she didn't know who was doing what to her with what, and that she'd never been so turned on in her life!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I thought dark rooms had gone out of fashion since the advent of digital photography

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A word of warning.

I once visited a club where the dark room was pitch black. To this day, I’m not sure what happened and to be honest, I wouldn’t want to be in that situation again.

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"A word of warning.

I once visited a club where the dark room was pitch black. To this day, I’m not sure what happened and to be honest, I wouldn’t want to be in that situation again. "

Yeah, this is exactly what we mean about fantasy/ reality. You’ve absolutely no way of knowing what is actually happening.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Used to attend a club that had one. Put me off when a guy tried to stealth me.

XX

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We did try the dark room in the old AbFabs once. Didn’t enjoy it, not seeing people was just strange. Well we though so, I (Beth) did not feel comfortable, as I’d rather see who was touching me!

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Anyone got any pictures of a dark room inside?

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Anyone got any pictures of a dark room inside?"

Close your eyes and that's what it'll look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is probably the one thing that intrigues my wife. Being touched by anonymous strangers in the dark is definately a fantasy and turn on for her

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood


"This is probably the one thing that intrigues my wife. Being touched by anonymous strangers in the dark is definately a fantasy and turn on for her "

My wife never liked it

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

We really enjoy the dark room especially in infusion. After a while your eyes get used to the light and you can see certain things.

The first time a guy made my wife cum was in a dark room. Watching her being fingered hard and fast and feeling his fingers in her was amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The first time a guy made my wife cum was in a dark room. Watching her being fingered hard and fast and feeling his fingers in her was amazing. "

Um ... so how did you watch if it was dark?

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By *ancie84Woman
over a year ago

wirral

I've been to a few parties at Townhouse when they have had a dark room, I'm not sure but I don't think it's a permanent thing though x

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By *ancie84Woman
over a year ago

wirral


"I've been to a few parties at Townhouse when they have had a dark room, I'm not sure but I don't think it's a permanent thing though x

Think the TH have a dark room for most nights - spent some time in it myself. Very enjoyable!"

Yeah always great fun xxx

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By *ickedgames88Couple
over a year ago

stoke

We both love a dark room. Not knowing who’s touching who is a big turn on (Mrs). Really love the dark room/glory hole room at Xtasia. Chams glory hole/dark room is good but not really dark enough.

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Your eyes get used to the dark

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"Never been in a dark room yet "

Hmmm! Yet please keep us informed or an invite

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

Good fun for oral and fingering / wanking. Harder when it comes to fucking as hard to tell if a guy has a condom on (and will keep it on)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went in the one at Kestrels/Abfabs - couldn’t see a bloody thing!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Good fun for oral and fingering / wanking. Harder when it comes to fucking as hard to tell if a guy has a condom on (and will keep it on) "

If you touch the base of a penis while it is inside you, you can feel the ridge of a condom to tell if someone is wearing one

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Townhouse has had a temporary one on a few occasions and it's been great fun! It wasn't completely dark and you could make out the shapes of people in there.

We tried the one in Infusions and that was total blackout! We found that a little scary as finding the exit once you got turned around was a challenge!

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border


"Good fun for oral and fingering / wanking. Harder when it comes to fucking as hard to tell if a guy has a condom on (and will keep it on)

If you touch the base of a penis while it is inside you, you can feel the ridge of a condom to tell if someone is wearing one"

True… but that’s not always easy to do if you’re wanking another guy at the time or otherwise occupied with action up at the top end!!

Plus I’ve heard of guys who will put one on to start and then pull out and quickly take it off before starting to fuck again.

In a totally dark room the lady can’t even know who it was afterwards, so guys think they can get away with it.

Very disrespectful practice but ladies need to be especially on their guard in a dark room situation

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Very disrespectful practice but ladies need to be especially on their guard in a dark room situation

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I've only been in one once. Never again !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ladies need to be especially on their guard in a dark room situation"

So there you have it ladies, if you drop something (eg your knickers) take extreme care whan bending over ...

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Glow in the dark jonnies are the answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dark room at Townhouse is temporary, it's the bunk bed room and it's only turned into a dark room on a bi night. We are hosting the bi nights at Townhouse now and we will be bringing the dark room back. We were toying with the idea of having men only and women only areas.. what do you guys think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were toying with the idea of having men only and women only areas.. what do you guys think? "

Well, these days there are apparently about fifty different sexes so good luck with the fifty rooms

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