FabSwingers.com forum: First Time

By *hornyx69 OP Man
over a year ago

down south and up north

Hi once the clubs re- open I would like to experience one for the first time.But as I’m not that good looking I don’t think anybody would invite me to play.Would any of you invite me to play females or couples

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

It's really not all about looks.

I would say tho that when you mention about no couples inviting you to play, when you visit a club you should go having absolutely no expectations that you will be playing with anyone. That's not just for you but for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I do get round to eventually doing the club scene, I’m just going to check it out initially. Not fussed about the reaction I get.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"It's really not all about looks.

This is exactly right.

Too many guys thunk the entrance price is a licence to touch.

Expect absolutely nothing, and if anything comes your way it is a bonus.

We don't think it is fair to answer your question seeing as we don't meet single guys.

However as long as you behave, we wish you well.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Dude I started on the swinging scene as a single guy and believe me looks are nothing to do with it if you have the ability to talk and open a conversation and the ability to build a connection your in a winner just be you

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

O yeh and don't go clubs with expectations and try more then 1 club all are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference between good looking and attractive... We are all attractive... We aren't all good looking... Don't worry about it and have a good time, regardless of whether you get to play or not

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By *ammy4funMan
over a year ago

wantage

Go with the flow and just mingle as if it's a standard party, thats what I have done and have had lots of fun .

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"It's really not all about looks.

This is exactly right.

Too many guys thunk the entrance price is a licence to touch.

Expect absolutely nothing, and if anything comes your way it is a bonus.

We don't think it is fair to answer your question seeing as we don't meet single guys.

However as long as you behave, we wish you well. "

Thats it. Just see it as a social with sexy like minded people. Should only go if you would be happy going home having just had a drink/mingled/danced/sat I hot tub...ect..lol

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

"It's really not all about looks.

This is exactly right.

Too many guys thunk the entrance price is a licence to touch.

Expect absolutely nothing, and if anything comes your way it is a bonus.

We don't think it is fair to answer your question seeing as we don't meet single guys.

However as long as you behave, we wish you well.

Thats it. Just see it as a social with sexy like minded people. Should only go if you would be happy going home having just had a drink/mingled/danced/sat I hot tub...ect..lol "
very true

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