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Is there a swingers club you don’t have to dress down in?

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By *orthwestcouple91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

Hey guys we’re just wondering if anyone can help us, we’re hoping to visit our first swingers club together but seem a little uneasy at the fact you have to dress down straight away on arrival, is there any clubs were you can sit in smart casual wear mrs in a dress and mr in shorts and t shirt in summer for example? And then dress down when your going into the playrooms with the selected people you choose to play with?

Thankyou in advance xxx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Quest.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I could be wrong but I think most clubs are like this.

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By *orthwestcouple91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

From what we are hearing they are all dress down on arrival?x

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Only the spa clubs are like this most clubs are smart casual for guys sexy daring for ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to dress down in quest if you go in the play room areas. If you are in the bar you don't need to dress down.

Decadence you don't have to dress down either as its a fully licensed bar as well and you don't need membership so you only pay entry (like you do at all clubs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberty Elite, Xtasia, vanilla alternative are all non dress down in the social areas.

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By *orthwestcouple91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

Great guys! Is there any north west based what anybody knows of?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the attic in Derby, unless you're going to play you can wear what you like... (as long as its acceptable)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia is dress sexy, smart with a little or alot of clothes and u can take it off in or b4 the rooms 4 fun

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Great guys! Is there any north west based what anybody knows of?x"

Townhouse.

Cupid's is generally dress down on arrival but honestly, it's not a lot different to being on the beach. Some women choose to wear babydolls, chemises, sexy dresses which are fine, or basques, corsets which cover more than lingerie. But knickers and bra is no different cover wise to a bikini. For men, they can wear shorts or boxers, so again, not a lot different to the beach. Some guys wear just a towel but that's optional.

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By *lub playCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool, At The Crack Of Dawn!!


"From what we are hearing they are all dress down on arrival?x"

The gound floor of our club (Club Play) where the bar,lounge and all socail areas are you can stay dressed as long as you desire. If you want to go upstairs to the play areas after the tour we provide to all new visitors you would have to dress down.

Each club is different on this with some having dress down times and some being similar to us and other being dress down on arrival. We would suggest contacting each club individually to ask this question

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Great guys! Is there any north west based what anybody knows of?x"

Club Play in Blackpool

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By *obbie BelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston, Lancaster, Blackpool

Gatehouse Farnworth Bolton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atlantis in stoke is not a dress down club .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse you can stay fully clothed all evening in the social areas. You just dress down to enter the playrooms upstairs

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By *amieBdMan
over a year ago

Flint

I can highly recommend Townhouse on the Wirral, you do not have to dress down at all on the ground floor unless you wish to, if you want to go to the playrooms you can stay dressed until 11pm, if you wanted to carry on after the you would have to dress down but your free to stay dressed on the ground floor. Take a look on the website for lots of useful information.

Thanks

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By *lexnNatasha1977Couple
over a year ago

wigan

We was nervous about going to a dress down club but to be honest we found it better everyone’s the same from the get go and you can wander in and out of private area when ever you like we don’t have much experience we’ve only been to Cupid’s a few times but it makes for a relaxing night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse.. gatehouse... _lub play

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

The Attic, Derby.

It's over two floors (massive place) but unlike most clubs, you don't have to undress to go upstairs or to the playrooms (except the naked room).

There are lots of different themed areas too - even an indoor dogging area!

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown


"Great guys! Is there any north west based what anybody knows of?x"
why not just Google it

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We was nervous about going to a dress down club but to be honest we found it better everyone’s the same from the get go and you can wander in and out of private area when ever you like we don’t have much experience we’ve only been to Cupid’s a few times but it makes for a relaxing night out "

I was nervous the first time at chams ...just wearing a towel..but you soon feel very comfortable..I was surprised..

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By *orthwestcouple91 OP   Couple
over a year ago

preston

Is that not what’s swingers club forums are for?? To find out information that we don’t know from people who have had experience? What a silly comment, why don’t you google prostitutes because you won’t be having any fun on here with your attitude Stick to porn hub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great guys! Is there any north west based what anybody knows of?x"

Townhouse

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By *R and BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Bebington, wirral

Townhouse in Wirral

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Pandora in the social area and Quest also

I can't cope having clothes myself , i meam i love sexy lingerie or outfit

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Townhouse.

Attic.

Club f.

Pandoras

Quest.

Libert Elites I believe has non dress down areas

To name just a few.

Dress down is and in my opinion should be optional across all clubs

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...

I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!

My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.

And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.

God, I miss clubs!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...

I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!

My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.

And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.

God, I miss clubs! "

I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Cupid's has a communal changing room too.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

All the club's I've been to don't enforce dressing down until you want to go in a playroom. Check out websites for dress codes as I've been to a few places that wouldn't allow you to get in wearing shorts.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

You have to dress down at chams ...everywhere...there is a couples and single ladies changing area and a single guys changing area ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...

I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!

My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.

And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.

God, I miss clubs!

I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe. "

There are also three lockable bathrooms with mirrors. I tend to wear my dress down outfit under my dress so I can just strip off. Or use one of the bathrooms to get changed in and freshen up throughout the evening. I'm not a fan of anyone seeing me naked or seeing me faff about with stockings

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...

I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!

My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.

And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.

God, I miss clubs!

I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe.

There are also three lockable bathrooms with mirrors. I tend to wear my dress down outfit under my dress so I can just strip off. Or use one of the bathrooms to get changed in and freshen up throughout the evening. I'm not a fan of anyone seeing me naked or seeing me faff about with stockings "

I’m the same and on occasions I don’t wear under my clothes what I’ll wear for dress down. Wonder why they give single guys changing rooms and not single women them? My local clubs have separate and that’s how I like it.

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By *he WickedsCouple
over a year ago

Swingtown

It's not compulsory to dress down on arrival in either Infusion or Club Play in Blackpool - but you can if you want to!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Liberty Elite has a great lounge bar that doesn’t require dress down ( although guests who have dressed down will socialise in the bar)

The play areas require you to dress down but it’s your choice of how much you reveal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're nervous about dressing down I'd skip Townhouse. It's a communal changing room, which felt really odd to me after experiencing separate ladies and gents areas at Pandora's and Quest...

I ended up going to the loo to change! I'm not a prude, but I want folk to see the finished product, not the unsexy gurning and hoiking as I squish myself in!

My first few times at clubs I felt really self conscious and way too timid to just wear bra and knickers so I wore a short, silky robe - unfastened - over the top. Nobody seemed to consider that to be not dressed down.

And, for larger folk out there, Pandora's have a stash of extra large bath sheets if the towel in your locker doesn't quite work for you. Just ask! I wish more places would offer that option.

God, I miss clubs!

I really fancy Townhouse but the changing area you’ve mentioned has put me off a bit. I only like guys I choose to see me naked, not guys in couples who stare! I had this at The Attic and SX and really did not feel safe.

There are also three lockable bathrooms with mirrors. I tend to wear my dress down outfit under my dress so I can just strip off. Or use one of the bathrooms to get changed in and freshen up throughout the evening. I'm not a fan of anyone seeing me naked or seeing me faff about with stockings

I’m the same and on occasions I don’t wear under my clothes what I’ll wear for dress down. Wonder why they give single guys changing rooms and not single women them? My local clubs have separate and that’s how I like it. "

It's just communal at Townhouse and lockable bathrooms for those who prefer some privacy. I love dressing down to lingerie but I'm not so keen on letting anyone see me dress. Shoehorning myself into thigh high boots or a tight outfit and sorting my wedgie is very much something no one needs to see lol

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I love being naked in clubs feels so liberating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At Pleasures Kent it's up to you if you want to dress down, definitely no pressure, and usually it's the ladies at about 10ish. But you want to stay fully dressed you can. That's what we love about it

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks


"I love being naked in clubs feels so liberating "

I don't have the confidence to do that! The most I do is a sucked in tummy waddle from my towel to the hot tub or pool

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