FabSwingers.com forum: Club newbie, how long do you stay?

By *ooBoo95 OP Man
over a year ago

Leyland

As someone who went to a club once in my lifetime, I am not too clued up on them. So out of sheer curiosity how long on average would you personally spend in a club upon arrival? What's your first move when getting there after changing? Tell me your stories

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Spend most of the night in a club. Chatting mingling with friends new and old. Walk around checking out the play rooms and who's playing see if any one catches our eye or visa versa have a sexy play them back to chatting mingling lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I go when it opens and leave as it closes. I prefer a club which isn't dress down on arrival. If I can't find anyone to chat to in the bar I go in the jacuzzi

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Sit yourself at the bar and chat as much as you can with people. Chat about everything and anything, don’t try and force a sexual conversation unless it comes up naturally.

The more vanilla chats you have at the start of the night, the more chance you have of playing latter.

Also stuff doesn’t usually get going till fairly late on!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We spend about 6 hours at a club, though don't need to change as we're already dressed. We get there early as we like to watch the club fill up, and leave late.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I try to arrive around 9:30, and try to mingle before the ‘clicks’ form. You know within about an hour whether anyone is interested in you, by reading the body language of people around the place, if anyone smiles in your direction, holds your gaze etc. Two hours of my own company is about as long as I can last, so by around 11:30/midnight I’m usually leaving, and on my way to find last orders in a pub somewhere

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We try to arrive by 9pm and usually stay until around 2am.

We check out who's where, what - if anything - is new or different in the club, chat with friends, make new acquaintances and relax.

We prefer non dress-down clubs, as we go dressed for a night out and only undress to play. Though on a warm (or busy) night, we often don't bother dressing after playing.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I go when it opens and leave as it closes. I prefer a club which isn't dress down on arrival. If I can't find anyone to chat to in the bar I go in the jacuzzi"

I'm the same, except I will also drop into the smoking area (despite not being a smoker). It's quieter than the bar, with a small group of people who come and go, much like the hot tub. They're both good places to find conversation.

The advice about chatting about anything and everything, and not forcing sex into it is spot on.

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I normally go daytime and I like dress down clubs as I like to be naked and stop till about 5pm

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I am normally there for opening and leave when it closes. I either go alone... with a friend or a group of friends.

First thing I do depends on the club, and the night itself. Greedy girls night I will go for a wander and see who is in and who is playing.

Chams.. probably either a drink at the bar and a sit and chat with people... or soak in the jacuzzi.

I prefer dress down as a rule but the club I attend most isn't a dress down club

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I only go to OP4F as it’s fairly local to me It opens at 10.00 pm so I normally get there about 10.15 if I go on a Tuesday or Thursday I tend to leave around 1.30 as I have work next day and club closes at 3.00 if I go Friday I leave around 3.00 the club closes at 5.00

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

A lot depends on the club. Our local club- we like to get there shortly after they open, usually within the first half an hour. Have a drink (non-alcoholic, normally, as Beast has to drive and Devil hardly ever drinks), go for a wander, then maybe choose to have a private "warm up" play in either couples room or private lockable room, or maybe go into the massive jacuzzi. Then it depends on how the night goes, but we usually stay till near the end of the night.

If we go to Kestrels, then it's day time only. And definitely includes naked swim in their pool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer daytimes.

I arrive as it opens and leave when the evening crowd starts to arrive ( and I'm hungry for my dinner

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

it all depends really, but usually I'm one of the last to leave. I always seem to bump into people I know which ever club I go too so spend a lot of time just socialising. Occasionally I bust some dad dance moves on the dance floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I try and do the whole night if I can get there for opening.... It is always good to have the chance to chat with the early commers first!

And I do tend to still be having fun at the end of the night!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We tend to make the most of it, getting there between 11-12, and leaving around closing time so around midnight. Mostly we head straight for the jacuzzi. Once everything is open again we are aiming to spend a couple of nights there to make up for lost time.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not have huge expectations before a new club visit. And I'd encourage a guy on a first ever club visit to plan on a shorter visit, so that he stays fresh and upbeat. People who look uneasy, bored or desperate aren't going to get the best from their trip.

First time - go to acquaint yourself with the place, the owners who will give you a tour and explain all. Introduce yourself and chat with a few people, potentially try a few facilities and stay light about it - keep it in mind as fact finding and getting settled. Less is more.

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