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By *reeneyedminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

near you

Hey all,

With the clubs hopefully he opening in and summer and as a regular club person I thought it might be a good idea to refresh people’s memories and give some new club goers a generic go over of what people believe are so the do’s and don’ts at a club.

Basically some helpful tips.

Obviously we all know you must ask and get consent before joining in, and always go with an open mind. Never expect sex.

But what are your helpful tips for anyone returning too or going new to the clubs this year...xx

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

My top five pearls of wisdom....

Arrive with zero expectation of play. Go to a club for a fun night out..if you meet people for play it's a bonus. If you do this, you won't be disappointed.

Getting completely shitfaced in a club is never a good thing. It looks bad, it's not attractive, it impairs judgement and you can push your own boundaries as well as those around you.

Set your own boundaries and stick to them. If you're a couple, discuss boundaries before you arrive and look out for each other to ensure others aren't trying to coerce you outside your comfort zone

If you have any issues on the night, tell staff there and then!!! Don't leave it until the next day and contact us on fab or worse still, not tell us at all. We can't do anything about the problem after the fact.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. This is supposed to be fun! Don't get stressed over your shape, size, age etc... swingers come in all guises and we are all beautiful in our own way. We are all attracted to different things, so please please don't think that you won't fit in. Dress to impress yourself first and foremost, hold your head up high and strut your stuff. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is confident and happy in their own skin

Vic xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My top five pearls of wisdom....

Arrive with zero expectation of play. Go to a club for a fun night out..if you meet people for play it's a bonus. If you do this, you won't be disappointed.

Getting completely shitfaced in a club is never a good thing. It looks bad, it's not attractive, it impairs judgement and you can push your own boundaries as well as those around you.

Set your own boundaries and stick to them. If you're a couple, discuss boundaries before you arrive and look out for each other to ensure others aren't trying to coerce you outside your comfort zone

If you have any issues on the night, tell staff there and then!!! Don't leave it until the next day and contact us on fab or worse still, not tell us at all. We can't do anything about the problem after the fact.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. This is supposed to be fun! Don't get stressed over your shape, size, age etc... swingers come in all guises and we are all beautiful in our own way. We are all attracted to different things, so please please don't think that you won't fit in. Dress to impress yourself first and foremost, hold your head up high and strut your stuff. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is confident and happy in their own skin

Vic xxxx"

These are great tips x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"My top five pearls of wisdom....

Arrive with zero expectation of play. Go to a club for a fun night out..if you meet people for play it's a bonus. If you do this, you won't be disappointed.

Getting completely shitfaced in a club is never a good thing. It looks bad, it's not attractive, it impairs judgement and you can push your own boundaries as well as those around you.

Set your own boundaries and stick to them. If you're a couple, discuss boundaries before you arrive and look out for each other to ensure others aren't trying to coerce you outside your comfort zone

If you have any issues on the night, tell staff there and then!!! Don't leave it until the next day and contact us on fab or worse still, not tell us at all. We can't do anything about the problem after the fact.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. This is supposed to be fun! Don't get stressed over your shape, size, age etc... swingers come in all guises and we are all beautiful in our own way. We are all attracted to different things, so please please don't think that you won't fit in. Dress to impress yourself first and foremost, hold your head up high and strut your stuff. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is confident and happy in their own skin

Vic xxxx"

Fabulous advice.

(If fab had stickies....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like great advice and something that we are going to look at again when we get to visit a club for the first time xx

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