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"So looking forward to seeing all my lovely friends at Quest (Church) Sunday club " | |||
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"Rain check " If you don't want to go why bother posting when the thread is clearly about who does! | |||
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"I want to make a visit to quest I am a single fella would it be recommended thank you Jamie " Why not. Great friendly place Theres no in ya face hounders, or pestering | |||
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"This is my first forum What's Quest what's it all about please " It’s a club in leeds | |||
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"Try stopping me Sunday nights and greedy slit girl events " Greedy slits | |||
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"Try stopping me Sunday nights and greedy slit girl events Greedy slits " Made me chuckle too | |||
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"Try stopping me Sunday nights and greedy slit girl events Greedy slits Made me chuckle too " Well smack my bum, a did a typo, doom on me | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. " Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends " I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. " Yes soke can be quiet, depends what else is happening that weekend | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. " We never go on a club visit with expectations. As you say sometimes a club can be quiet but sometimes when we are expecting quiet it can surprise us. As Forest says 'life is like a box of chocolates | |||
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"Aye Sunday, funday. To be fair it’s got a lot busier and Iike F&B I never go expecting to play but I’d also if you’re planning to go it’s best to not expect it being as busy as a Saturday night, some folk are deffo weekend nightbirds and Sunday’s are family time xx" I did not expect it to be as busy as a Saturday but we went on the Sunday as I had seen many posts in the forums about how much fun Sunday’s were busy with the nickname ‘church’ and all and it was completely dead. We left early and went for a Maccie D | |||
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"Although Sundays are much quieter, everyone is there for playing all afternoon, whereas on Friday or Saturday nights a large majority stay in the bar until half an hour before closing. " When I’ve been on Saturday nights there has been lots of playing all evening, it’s hard to get a private room. The Sunday I took my friend no one was playing all afternoon. It’s put me off visiting on a Sunday in future. | |||
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"Although Sundays are much quieter, everyone is there for playing all afternoon, whereas on Friday or Saturday nights a large majority stay in the bar until half an hour before closing. When I’ve been on Saturday nights there has been lots of playing all evening, it’s hard to get a private room. The Sunday I took my friend no one was playing all afternoon. It’s put me off visiting on a Sunday in future. " Interesting to think if I, or another solo male had posted this, people would be firing the words ‘expectations’ and ‘entitled’ at me....... | |||
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"Although Sundays are much quieter, everyone is there for playing all afternoon, whereas on Friday or Saturday nights a large majority stay in the bar until half an hour before closing. When I’ve been on Saturday nights there has been lots of playing all evening, it’s hard to get a private room. The Sunday I took my friend no one was playing all afternoon. It’s put me off visiting on a Sunday in future. Interesting to think if I, or another solo male had posted this, people would be firing the words ‘expectations’ and ‘entitled’ at me....... " Apologies I didn’t mean it to come over like that. My friend had not been to Quest so I took her on the Sunday after telling her all about it. We were both looking forward to not just ‘fun’ but good social, having a laugh but at least 10 guys were hung around the pool table in some kind of pool competition. No one looked our way or made an effort and we did walk round smiling at people. Please don’t make this into something it isn’t. | |||
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"Aye Sunday, funday. To be fair it’s got a lot busier and Iike F&B I never go expecting to play but I’d also if you’re planning to go it’s best to not expect it being as busy as a Saturday night, some folk are deffo weekend nightbirds and Sunday’s are family time xx I did not expect it to be as busy as a Saturday but we went on the Sunday as I had seen many posts in the forums about how much fun Sunday’s were busy with the nickname ‘church’ and all and it was completely dead. We left early and went for a Maccie D " I left on a Sunday too for a mcds prefer the other local clubs much friendlier. | |||
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"Aye Sunday, funday. To be fair it’s got a lot busier and Iike F&B I never go expecting to play but I’d also if you’re planning to go it’s best to not expect it being as busy as a Saturday night, some folk are deffo weekend nightbirds and Sunday’s are family time xx I did not expect it to be as busy as a Saturday but we went on the Sunday as I had seen many posts in the forums about how much fun Sunday’s were busy with the nickname ‘church’ and all and it was completely dead. We left early and went for a Maccie D I left on a Sunday too for a mcds prefer the other local clubs much friendlier. " Yes I agree with you....when I’ve had issues at Quest and reported it to management, they have just laughed | |||
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"Although Sundays are much quieter, everyone is there for playing all afternoon, whereas on Friday or Saturday nights a large majority stay in the bar until half an hour before closing. When I’ve been on Saturday nights there has been lots of playing all evening, it’s hard to get a private room. The Sunday I took my friend no one was playing all afternoon. It’s put me off visiting on a Sunday in future. Interesting to think if I, or another solo male had posted this, people would be firing the words ‘expectations’ and ‘entitled’ at me....... Apologies I didn’t mean it to come over like that. My friend had not been to Quest so I took her on the Sunday after telling her all about it. We were both looking forward to not just ‘fun’ but good social, having a laugh but at least 10 guys were hung around the pool table in some kind of pool competition. No one looked our way or made an effort and we did walk round smiling at people. Please don’t make this into something it isn’t. " Hehe! No worries at all! Welcome to feeling what it's like being a solo male in a swinger club ("no one looked our way or made an effort") | |||
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"Although Sundays are much quieter, everyone is there for playing all afternoon, whereas on Friday or Saturday nights a large majority stay in the bar until half an hour before closing. When I’ve been on Saturday nights there has been lots of playing all evening, it’s hard to get a private room. The Sunday I took my friend no one was playing all afternoon. It’s put me off visiting on a Sunday in future. Interesting to think if I, or another solo male had posted this, people would be firing the words ‘expectations’ and ‘entitled’ at me....... Apologies I didn’t mean it to come over like that. My friend had not been to Quest so I took her on the Sunday after telling her all about it. We were both looking forward to not just ‘fun’ but good social, having a laugh but at least 10 guys were hung around the pool table in some kind of pool competition. No one looked our way or made an effort and we did walk round smiling at people. Please don’t make this into something it isn’t. Hehe! No worries at all! Welcome to feeling what it's like being a solo male in a swinger club ("no one looked our way or made an effort") " You’re making something of this solo male. As I said we walked round and smiled at people and made an effort. Move to another thread with your wooden spoon | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends " Oh I love a Sunday at Church. Can't wait to get back to see all our fab friends. | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked" ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. " Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained" ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. " Ok i hear you but I can only talk from personal experience and I’ve never been to a club and not had any fun with any women, like i said looks play a part and if your desirable to a woman they won’t give too fucks about your personality as long as your not a complete neanderthol. But re-iterating your point no there isn’t any guarantee. But if you have no problems getting women in a vanilla club/bar then your chances will be increased in a swingers club | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. Ok i hear you but I can only talk from personal experience and I’ve never been to a club and not had any fun with any women, like i said looks play a part and if your desirable to a woman they won’t give too fucks about your personality as long as your not a complete neanderthol. But re-iterating your point no there isn’t any guarantee. But if you have no problems getting women in a vanilla club/bar then your chances will be increased in a swingers club" You are still kind of raising expectations for single males. I disagree that the only way to have fun is because a man is good looking. Yes he has to be desirable to the woman but personality plays a part too. The best advice I can give to a single male is go to the club but expect nothing as it depends who is there on the night and if you expect nothing then you’ll not be disappointed if you get nothing. Your attitude is typical of an entitled single male. I’ve dealt with a lot of these types in clubs and it’s not been pretty believe me. | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. Ok i hear you but I can only talk from personal experience and I’ve never been to a club and not had any fun with any women, like i said looks play a part and if your desirable to a woman they won’t give too fucks about your personality as long as your not a complete neanderthol. But re-iterating your point no there isn’t any guarantee. But if you have no problems getting women in a vanilla club/bar then your chances will be increased in a swingers club You are still kind of raising expectations for single males. I disagree that the only way to have fun is because a man is good looking. Yes he has to be desirable to the woman but personality plays a part too. The best advice I can give to a single male is go to the club but expect nothing as it depends who is there on the night and if you expect nothing then you’ll not be disappointed if you get nothing. Your attitude is typical of an entitled single male. I’ve dealt with a lot of these types in clubs and it’s not been pretty believe me. " I don’t think am raising expectations am talking from my own experiences. And again I never said you need to be good looking to be successful, but it does help. If thats not true why do women look you up and down when you arrive. I think they call it peacocking, men do this also. Why do I come across entitled because am saying what is required to be successful based on my personal experience. | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. Ok i hear you but I can only talk from personal experience and I’ve never been to a club and not had any fun with any women, like i said looks play a part and if your desirable to a woman they won’t give too fucks about your personality as long as your not a complete neanderthol. But re-iterating your point no there isn’t any guarantee. But if you have no problems getting women in a vanilla club/bar then your chances will be increased in a swingers club" I have to disagree with you here; I find it much easier to approach and chat with people in a vanilla club/bar, than as a solo guy in a swingers club. I've never 'expected' anything other than an evening of friendly banter with likeminded people, and possibly the opportunity to put a face to a forum profile. Possibly I chose the wrong nights to visit, but I won't visit another without some kind of meet lined up inside | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. Ok i hear you but I can only talk from personal experience and I’ve never been to a club and not had any fun with any women, like i said looks play a part and if your desirable to a woman they won’t give too fucks about your personality as long as your not a complete neanderthol. But re-iterating your point no there isn’t any guarantee. But if you have no problems getting women in a vanilla club/bar then your chances will be increased in a swingers club I have to disagree with you here; I find it much easier to approach and chat with people in a vanilla club/bar, than as a solo guy in a swingers club. I've never 'expected' anything other than an evening of friendly banter with likeminded people, and possibly the opportunity to put a face to a forum profile. Possibly I chose the wrong nights to visit, but I won't visit another without some kind of meet lined up inside " Ok thats your personal experience so I cant argue with you on that. Also I only attend party nights rather than just normal days, party nights theres much more of an atmosphere and as a sole male I imagine they are much more relaxing than a more quieter day. I also attend nights which will be much more favourable to me i.e Black men appreciation nights and curvy girl nights (which is my preference) | |||
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"My first club experience was Quest, it was a Friday night and couldnt believe how busy it was once I walked in. Had the propper feel of a nightclub and some amazing looking women, if your a single male, not weird and can have a conversation with people you should have no problems having some fun, obviously looks plays a part but if you have something about you that can be quickly overlooked ‘Fun’ which if you mean sex, is not guaranteed at any Club! Please don’t visit Quest with this in mind. Not all women go for men with ‘looks’, some like a good personality. Who said it was guaranteed ? I said it shouldn’t be a problem, big difference. When I drive my car to work am confident my engine won’t blow but cant 100% guarantee it and looks do play a part but its not the all and end all as I explained ‘You should have no problems having some fun’ implies to me that they will have fun that evening. ‘Fun’ is not guaranteed so it’s best not giving single males advice like this as it will raise their expectations. Anyone visiting a club whether it be men or women should not have any expectations of ‘fun’ which you mean sex. It’s this kind of attitude that makes it pressuring for us single ladies when we visit clubs alone, dealing with these guys who think they can turn up and sex is on the cards, it is not. Ok i hear you but I can only talk from personal experience and I’ve never been to a club and not had any fun with any women, like i said looks play a part and if your desirable to a woman they won’t give too fucks about your personality as long as your not a complete neanderthol. But re-iterating your point no there isn’t any guarantee. But if you have no problems getting women in a vanilla club/bar then your chances will be increased in a swingers club I have to disagree with you here; I find it much easier to approach and chat with people in a vanilla club/bar, than as a solo guy in a swingers club. I've never 'expected' anything other than an evening of friendly banter with likeminded people, and possibly the opportunity to put a face to a forum profile. Possibly I chose the wrong nights to visit, but I won't visit another without some kind of meet lined up inside Ok thats your personal experience so I cant argue with you on that. Also I only attend party nights rather than just normal days, party nights theres much more of an atmosphere and as a sole male I imagine they are much more relaxing than a more quieter day. I also attend nights which will be much more favourable to me i.e Black men appreciation nights and curvy girl nights (which is my preference)" All fair comments my friend | |||
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"Never been would love to go be my first time at a club and feel nervous Any advice " Do:- Be nice Be respectful Have manners Chat to people Expect nothing Treat it like it’s your local pub Don’t:- Expect sex Stare at women like they are aliens Follow women round Touch without asking Lastly have a good time. Good luck. | |||
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"Never been would love to go be my first time at a club and feel nervous Any advice Do:- Be nice Be respectful Have manners Chat to people Expect nothing Treat it like it’s your local pub Don’t:- Expect sex Stare at women like they are aliens Follow women round Touch without asking Lastly have a good time. Good luck. " Thank you appreciate your reply | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. " You must be unlucky, never seen it quiet on a Sunday afternoon! | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. You must be unlucky, never seen it quiet on a Sunday afternoon! " I've was at Quest every Sunday from July 2019 up to lockdown in March 2020. I didn't miss a Sunday at all. I have to agree I've not seen a quiet Sunday yet | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. You must be unlucky, never seen it quiet on a Sunday afternoon! I've was at Quest every Sunday from July 2019 up to lockdown in March 2020. I didn't miss a Sunday at all. I have to agree I've not seen a quiet Sunday yet " Well it was very quiet the one and only time I went on a Sunday, took my friend as she was curious abc had heard good things about it and she could not believe how quiet it was. 10 guys doing a pool competition in a swingers club! We left early and went for a Maccie D. Total waste of make up and getting dressed up! | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. You must be unlucky, never seen it quiet on a Sunday afternoon! I've was at Quest every Sunday from July 2019 up to lockdown in March 2020. I didn't miss a Sunday at all. I have to agree I've not seen a quiet Sunday yet Well it was very quiet the one and only time I went on a Sunday, took my friend as she was curious abc had heard good things about it and she could not believe how quiet it was. 10 guys doing a pool competition in a swingers club! We left early and went for a Maccie D. Total waste of make up and getting dressed up! " So was you expecting these guys to stop playing pool and give you the attention that you seem to expect? A guy who goes is told not to expect anything but you seem to be saying that as a woman you do expect something?!! | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. You must be unlucky, never seen it quiet on a Sunday afternoon! I've was at Quest every Sunday from July 2019 up to lockdown in March 2020. I didn't miss a Sunday at all. I have to agree I've not seen a quiet Sunday yet Well it was very quiet the one and only time I went on a Sunday, took my friend as she was curious abc had heard good things about it and she could not believe how quiet it was. 10 guys doing a pool competition in a swingers club! We left early and went for a Maccie D. Total waste of make up and getting dressed up! So was you expecting these guys to stop playing pool and give you the attention that you seem to expect? A guy who goes is told not to expect anything but you seem to be saying that as a woman you do expect something?!! " To me FUN isn’t just about sex, it’s having a laugh with someone, playing pool etc. None of that happened and I had read so much on these forums about how busy Sunday’s were and my friend had never been to Quest so thought she would enjoy it but she didn’t and neither did I. Yes guys do expect things at clubs and parties might I add and it’s up to me if I want to partake. If the guy is being a total dick then it’s a no from me!!!!! Enjoy your day! | |||
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"10 guys doing a pool competition in a swingers club! To me FUN isn’t just about sex, it’s having a laugh with someone, playing pool etc. So did you not consider watching the pool game and having a chat and a laugh with the ten men playing ?" We were sat not too far away from the pool table and were smiling at them and walked past a couple of times, said ‘hi’ but seemed it was a pool competition and they were proper focussed on it. Anyway we found out what Sundays were like at Quest. For the record I’m not angry just disappointed as I had read such good reports how busy Quest was on a Sunday so hoped there would be lots of people to have a laugh with. | |||
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"The Timber merchants on the other side are good at banging" Plenty to choose from then, why is she complaining | |||
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"The Timber merchants on the other side are good at banging Plenty to choose from then, why is she complaining " Hey I know a couple of guys that work at the timber place but they were closed LOL....... | |||
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"Better off at KwikFit. Plenty of BigEnds" Oh yes. I’ve seen the reaction of the guys when parking up at Quest one Tuesday afternoon I just walked in swaying my hips lol. | |||
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"Better off at KwikFit. Plenty of BigEnds" They might even lubricate your flange | |||
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"Better off at KwikFit. Plenty of BigEnds They might even lubricate your flange " Or even rev up my engine | |||
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"Better off at KwikFit. Plenty of BigEnds They might even lubricate your flange Or even rev up my engine " LOL not sure when we can fit you in. Those tyres are well worn and we don't have any in that size. | |||
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"I am going to try to come. Sounds like Sundays are very social and busy.. Been before once. Need to try a Sunday seems. Sundays are very sociable. I've met some amazing friends I’ve been on a Sunday with a female friend, nothing doing, very quiet, was shocked as it was my friends first visit and we wanted FUN! We left early with disappointment. " They’re a slow burn in our experience. There’s less alcohol flowing and no loud music so people tend to take a bit longer to get going. They’d be worth another go but arrive a couple of hours in. | |||
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"We will be there once its safe to do so. We missed the gangbangs on a Sunday afternoon in the cinema room with all our friends, Old and New. WE love all getting togeva at church. Believe me we got lots of sins to confess" You two have got that many sins you’ll need overnight accommodation!! Lol | |||
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"What happens to our membership?" I don’t think many will complain at starting from scratch and all pay, they’ve had a pretty rough time and I’m sure the coffers are bare. | |||
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"What happens to our membership? I don’t think many will complain at starting from scratch and all pay, they’ve had a pretty rough time and I’m sure the coffers are bare. " Totally agree x | |||
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"We will be there once its safe to do so. We missed the gangbangs on a Sunday afternoon in the cinema room with all our friends, Old and New. WE love all getting togeva at church. Believe me we got lots of sins to confess You two have got that many sins you’ll need overnight accommodation!! Lol" Thanks R.... Cheeky git.... | |||
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"It’s been a while but as I recall membership was free anyway? Just pay per entry and sign up as a member for security reasons. Nope! I think that may have only been bi/TV days. Couples and single female membership is free . Single guys It's £25 per year. Then it's an entry price to pay. Prices vary depending on the event and what night . Hope this helps " Ah that’ll be why. | |||
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"Was our local from the day it opened. We used to visit at least twice a week and can’t wait to get back" You n me both | |||
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"Would love to go, but the thought of being a single male there scares me to death. So if a couple or lady would like to meet a genuine single male at Quest and ease me into the lifestyle, it would be really appreciated " Well you never know How about just walk in like it's a pub. Get a drink say hi to whoever is sat at bar and chat | |||
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"Would love to go, but the thought of being a single male there scares me to death. So if a couple or lady would like to meet a genuine single male at Quest and ease me into the lifestyle, it would be really appreciated Well you never know I like the sound of that but, if I had the ability to charm the birds out of the trees I wouldn’t be on FAB How about just walk in like it's a pub. Get a drink say hi to whoever is sat at bar and chat " | |||
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"What happens to our membership? I don’t think many will complain at starting from scratch and all pay, they’ve had a pretty rough time and I’m sure the coffers are bare. Totally agree x" It’s the only way | |||
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"We will be there with out a doubt. Was there at least once a week plus Sunday afternoons xx" | |||
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"Would love to go, but the thought of being a single male there scares me to death. So if a couple or lady would like to meet a genuine single male at Quest and ease me into the lifestyle, it would be really appreciated " Ye I’m in same position buddy well nervous | |||
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"Would love to go, but the thought of being a single male there scares me to death. So if a couple or lady would like to meet a genuine single male at Quest and ease me into the lifestyle, it would be really appreciated Ye I’m in same position buddy well nervous " Man up.....lol | |||
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"Would love to go, but the thought of being a single male there scares me to death. So if a couple or lady would like to meet a genuine single male at Quest and ease me into the lifestyle, it would be really appreciated Ye I’m in same position buddy well nervous " No need to be nervous. It's a really friendly club with some really nice people that attend | |||
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"Would love to go, but the thought of being a single male there scares me to death. So if a couple or lady would like to meet a genuine single male at Quest and ease me into the lifestyle, it would be really appreciated Ye I’m in same position buddy well nervous No need to be nervous. It's a really friendly club with some really nice people that attend " You've had plenty of positive feedback. Hope to see you there when it opens. I'm sure you'll be greeted with openess | |||
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"We will be there with out a doubt. Was there at least once a week plus Sunday afternoons xx" Can't wait to share the glory holes with you guys again | |||
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"We’ll be Definetly visiting at some point. See our fab friends and see if we can entice any 1 for some sexy fun. It’s been far too long. Sharing is caring " Always a pleasure to see you guys. My Brother from another Mother. Ha | |||
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"I wonder if quest has had any refurbishment " Torn plastic on the beds replaced I hope and proper air conditioning would be nice. It gets very warm in those private rooms...... | |||
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"I wonder if quest has had any refurbishment Torn plastic on the beds replaced I hope and proper air conditioning would be nice. It gets very warm in those private rooms......" Generally the torn beds are due to customers not following the no heels on beds rule. Seen it in other clubs, remember la chambre recovering their beds and by the next weekend they had holes everywhere. Air con would be lovely for the summer though | |||
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"Is there a holiday Inn or premier Inn near by? Would be cheaper than a taxi lol" Not sure there’s one in walking distance x | |||
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