FabSwingers.com forum: Single women in clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yes they do , but not a lot. Normally go with friends etc..

I think some clubs are easier for singles in general and single ladies in particular...well run, good clientele, chilled atmosphere etc.. going on a couples and single ladies night might be a bit easier as well..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Thank you "

I'm no expert but I have met a few single ladies in chams ..its very well run ..and a nice atmosphere.

I'm sure if you post on here you can find someone nice to meet there or go with..

The clubs also give you a tour and will look after you I'm sure ...

Good luck x

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Yes there are single women in clubs on there own , might be better to go on couples and single ladies night first off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go alone but I always have ppl to meet inside

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I do. I’ve been many times alone to clubs.

Not all attendees think I am alone, some guys assume I’m with a man who is in the changing room which I find bizarre so they won’t come over then it’s down to me to choose who to talk to and I’m very fussy.

I enjoy going with my fwb but also very happy to go alone, however when I’m alone my guard is up more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp,

I've been going to townhouse as a single woman for quite a while (before covid of course).

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By *octordigitsMan
over a year ago

nearby

Women on their own are always made very welcome and are well respected - especially - in my experience - at day time events - thinking particularly MILF Monday at Townhouse - not near you OP but for anyone else interested

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

It’s always nice to meet a fellow single at a club lol

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By *axine500Woman
over a year ago

Dawlish

Yes I do.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Nearly always alone, I much prefer it that way unless it's with a mate.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

All I've ever needed was a smile and sharp elbows

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "
I have spent most of the last 20 or so years going solo... I have on occasion gone with a partner or good friend but mostly gone by myself.

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By *aughtyminx300Woman
over a year ago

london

I have been to clubs as a single woman and always have a great time x

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By *ewels18Woman
over a year ago

Ashington

Ive gone to alot of clubs on my own, make a weekend of it usually, book somewhere to stay, enjoy looking around new places through the day then clubs in the evening

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "

It depends on which clubs - I go to kink and mixed swing and kink clubs and most of the time I go alone. There have been a few occasions when I arranged to go with someone because I wasn't sure of the place and it definitely is a good idea to go with someone to a small club in my experience.

I've only been once to a swingers club which was a big event. There was a little group of acquaintances going but I went ahead of them and later caught up with them. I wasn't impressed, if not for the tour guide who also offered House Domination, it would have been a disappointing evening. But you never know, it depends on so many things, on people who are there, on luck etc.

It may be worth going with someone else the first time and then return alone if the place is nice to be on the safe side but equally, if you are confident that the place has a good reputation and is safe then why not attend alone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often been to clubs alone

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

It’s scary for single men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s scary for single men too"

Maybe your going with the wrong attitude, I attend clubs as a single guy, with the foresight of it just being a night out.... and if I get to play all well and good. Otherwise I’ll take a fb or fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go alone.

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By *ueenieHWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I go on my own , im a single lady , tbh much prefer it so I dont feeling I have to stay with the guy I came with , but I do enjoy going with a guy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go alone.

Only went with a bf once and we had a great night that night too even tho we were exclusive.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Lots of fun single women in clubs, some buddy up others glide alone.

Never been to a club where there wasn’t great single ladies.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"It’s scary for single men too"

A club is like going to a bar but someone, somewhere may be shagging.

Are you scared to go to a bar?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Yup, and I usually prefer it that way (I have a couple of friends who are great club partners though).

V x

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By *ensousladyWoman
over a year ago

Naughtyville

Yep, have been for a while, love the freedom I have & I've never had any trouble in the club's I frequent, they look out for us single ladies!

I do enjoy going with friends as well though, so I'm a lucky girl!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Depending on my level of trust in the club and its staff, I'll go along solo.

Usually we turn up as a group of single women though, mostly because we are friends and enjoy going out together

be that for a meal or to an event

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I go alone and I know lots of other ladies who also go alone.

I tend to prefer nights when single guys are welcomed, I just feel more comfortable with a mix, than with couples only.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Couples can be nightmares with single women in clubs, they want performing seals usually for the bi curious wife. I’ll chat to them socially but can see they are dying to ask me the question but I don’t play with couples on my own and I’m very choosy!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I went first time alone , i was petrified . Since at day i always went alone because i felt so welcome.

For a month i went almost every single day to my favourite club.

Can wait clubs reopen again

Saying this i don't put off that i would be more than happy having people who would like to go with me or be invited to go with them but of course i do need to be tempted and they need to be tempting

In other hand with the people i have met or they who know me personally of course there's no neet for temptations , the answer always will be, yes i'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples can be nightmares with single women in clubs, they want performing seals usually for the bi curious wife. I’ll chat to them socially but can see they are dying to ask me the question but I don’t play with couples on my own and I’m very choosy! "

I hear you. The couples seeing you that way can be a downside.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Same. Not my thing but I’m not particularly bi. I love a big group but mf-couple-plus-me isn’t usually what I’m interested in. It’s nice chatting and having a laugh though. It’s for this reason I only go to clubs on nights there are single/solo men

V x

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By *rindAndSlamWoman
over a year ago

Bury

"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "

I do! I prefer to go by myself, in fact.

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By *rindAndSlamWoman
over a year ago

Bury

"Yes there are single women in clubs on there own , might be better to go on couples and single ladies night first off "

I've never gone on a couples and singles night... I'm straight and I'm a bit intimidated by couples. You never know the dynamic.

I like a club night with a surplus of men.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I tend to go to events where single men are permitted as well

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree it is better for single woman to go on a night where there are single men too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like the mixed experiences of being alone or with friends or fb. There are always others there who you can socialise with, if you feel the need for social company.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I fly solo, I have friends in the club I go to but I very rarely go with anyone.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

maybe they are genuinely single and haven't got anyone to go with which gives them total freedom to talk to who ever

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Mrs M often goes on her own

Monday Bi nights if she wants some girl on girl fun or a Friday if she is on the prowl.

We aren't fans of couples nights so it suits.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I will go to clubs alone but usually I will arrange to go on a night that I know some familiar people will be there to socialise with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often ride solo. The perfect way to get chatting to people

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Our local club (club f) has lots of single Ladies that go alone on a regular basis

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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Single man and when things get normal going to visit my first club and scarry

And by no means whatsoever a prude and never been, but need to do it and crapping myself where to start,what to say etc etc

Funny world

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've only ever been socially. Either with or to meet up with friends.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

As a single woman I used to go to Chameleons on my own. Loved it.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Regularly went to La Chambre and Quest alone and loved it. Always felt welcome, and always found someone to chat and play with.

Even went to Kage at Partners (BDSM event), but didnt much like that, totally different crowd to the swinging bunch and not a fraction as friendly and sociable.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Yes, but not often. I've played with one single woman at La Chambre a couple of times, and another lovely young lady at Club SX who said sometimes she went alone, other times her partner came along.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I never plucked up the courage to go to clubs on my own... I really regret that now.

If the club scene ever exists again, I’ll definitely be going and doing roadtrips to visit the most popular ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on my own before. Was treated very well and lots of people looking out for you.

I think because it doesn’t seem to happen that often, when it does the other guests want to make sure you have a great time and want to come back again

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep I’ve been quite a few times on my own to the club I’m a member of

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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Yes of course you get single ladies in clubs, mostly because they get to socialise with others and it’s a way of getting sex with out all the dating . The first tine I went to a club about 7 years ago I got chatting to a lady in her early 40s, she said she was single and has a busy lifestyle so going to clubs and meeting others was what she enjoyed, we chatted more then she asked if I fancied going upstairs in the club to have some fun, I said yes we went upstairs and she said do you fancy fun on the open beds or a private room, it was my first time at a club but I said on the open beds, that’s when I found out how much it turned me on to be watched as I fucked , it was so nice to have other guys and two couples watching us playing and have sex in front of them. But met lots of other single ladies and couples since, weather it’s for private meets or club or cinema fun.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Single man and when things get normal going to visit my first club and scarry

And by no means whatsoever a prude and never been, but need to do it and crapping myself where to start,what to say etc etc

Funny world "

Whatever you do don’t start crapping yourself in a club, it’s not attractive lol

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I (mrs) used to go to my local club alone. It’s only a small club and I new everyone there. Found it a bit boring after a while, much prefer to go with Mr.

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By *3xyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

swingers town

I (mrs) been on my own a few times, but would only go to clubs that I trust that management would have my back if I needed them.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've gone solo to clubs

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

I have gone by myself but only when it was a themed night and i knew it would be busy and i would probably know alot of faces there that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes xx

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By *issVenusWoman
over a year ago

East Midlands

Depends on the club but love going to Chams by myself.

I miss Chams

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By *ola81Woman
over a year ago

pond

Yes, always solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the club but love going to Chams by myself.

I miss Chams

Me too.

I’ve not been for a couple of years but I fully intend to again once the initial rush has died down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this has come up before but do any women fly solo? Both actual single women and hotwives attending without a partner "

Yes it has come up before read the last posts???

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

From what we see in clubs, women, both single and in couples, seem to take to the scene more easily and confidently than men.

Maybe they’re more relaxed about having a good time rather than having a tendency to be a bit, er, single minded.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Camden

"From what we see in clubs, women, both single and in couples, seem to take to the scene more easily and confidently than men.

Maybe they’re more relaxed about having a good time rather than having a tendency to be a bit, er, single minded."

Maybe they feel more relaxed, because their presence is actually welcomed, so it is easier for them to feel at home....

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"From what we see in clubs, women, both single and in couples, seem to take to the scene more easily and confidently than men.

Maybe they’re more relaxed about having a good time rather than having a tendency to be a bit, er, single minded.

Maybe they feel more relaxed, because their presence is actually welcomed, so it is easier for them to feel at home...."

When single women visit clubs we are in control of what happens and it’s a good feeling!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have a number of times

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