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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am wanting to go to chams again on a sat night...but its couples only....how would females react if a 'financial' treat was offered....would it be am insult ?.....a simple yes or no would sufice..thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am wanting to go to chams again on a sat night...but its couples only....how would females react if a 'financial' treat was offered....would it be am insult ?.....a simple yes or no would sufice..thanks "

Why not just go to an escort site save the hassle.... i should imagine that most of the women on here wouldnt react too well... if you offered to take them, and treat them for the evening i am sure they wouldnt mind,, but to offer to pay them.... some might find it a bit insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as in yes a insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't be Insulted.

I would decline the offer graciously as I'm polite but certainly wouldn't be insulted.

Cakes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finishing you post with a simple yes or no will suffice. Would be enough to offend me.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Just go on a friday night? surely that would be a much simpler option and far less hassle for you

I would not accept anysort of financial incentive if I were single,firstly I would feel you were paying for sex and im never going to be beholden to anyone just because they have paid me to allow then to attend a club on a couples night and secondly because yes I would be insulted about it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

may be the op just has a cpls membership or wants to join,

I do know there is a very long waiting list for single male membership to chams and if he is not a member that would rule out fri or any other night, as you cant use a cpls member ship as a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HOw much ? ha ha

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I wouldn't be offended no. Like the advert says ... I'm worth it lol

Curious though why a sat night ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you try harder with your approach to ladies rather than your wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me wonder how the OP actually views the women on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to have mixed views with excorts so I think your opening a can of worms by posting in the first place, personal I have no problem with excorts,each to there own and why they do it for fun or money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be offended no. Like the advert says ... I'm worth it lol

Curious though why a sat night ... "

Saturday night is couples night at Chams

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Even if you went with a female on a saturday night you wouldnt be able to just roam around on your own you would have to stay with her..

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I wouldn't be offended no. Like the advert says ... I'm worth it lol

Curious though why a sat night ...

Saturday night is couples night at Chams"

yes i know that. just curious why Saturday is so alluring ... unless maybe less competition from single guys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if you went with a female on a saturday night you wouldnt be able to just roam around on your own you would have to stay with her.. "

Really? Me and my partner have often been seperated, as he smokes and I don't and we've never been told to be together at all times? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overall OP....I think you received the answer you were looking for lol Try actually making an effort with a girl instead of taking short cuts using financial muscle. Otherwise, you could be perceived as shallow and insensitive. Plus, you would enjoy the "couples" experience a lot more if it's a girl you have a connection with instead of 'purchasing'. Either way, good luck with your quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why specifically a Saturday I find them rather clicky x Friday nights are fun or why not get your name down on the guest list for the beach party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be offended no. Like the advert says ... I'm worth it lol

Curious though why a sat night ...

Saturday night is couples night at Chams

yes i know that. just curious why Saturday is so alluring ... unless maybe less competition from single guys ?"

Ah right, maybe he wants to play with both males and females but doesn't want to go on bi night or maybe he just doesn't want to pay the single male price?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if you went with a female on a saturday night you wouldnt be able to just roam around on your own you would have to stay with her.. "

I have been there on a Saturday night a couple of times and there was the same guy wandering round on his own, only once saw him with the woman he came with and they certainly weren't playing together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if you went with a female on a saturday night you wouldnt be able to just roam around on your own you would have to stay with her..

Really? Me and my partner have often been seperated, as he smokes and I don't and we've never been told to be together at all times? X"

My friend and I the same; I would go out for a smoke, he would go either to the toilet or downstairs to get a drink

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

sorry didnt mean at all times like that ment he wouldnt be able to go acting like a single guy once inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry didnt mean at all times like that ment he wouldnt be able to go acting like a single guy once inside"

Some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it...i'll do it for £500

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the OP had suggested going to the club and having sex with him...thatd be insulting yes...almost everyone has a price in my opinion lol..I'd suck cock for a £5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the OP had suggested going to the club and having sex with him...thatd be insulting yes...almost everyone has a price in my opinion lol..I'd suck cock for a £5"

oops... £500

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the OP had suggested going to the club and having sex with him...thatd be insulting yes...almost everyone has a price in my opinion lol..I'd suck cock for a £5

oops... £500"

£5000 for up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry didnt mean at all times like that ment he wouldnt be able to go acting like a single guy once inside"

I knew what you meant but I still know of a guy that roams around acting single

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If the OP had suggested going to the club and having sex with him...thatd be insulting yes...almost everyone has a price in my opinion lol..I'd suck cock for a £5

oops... £500

£5000 for up the arse"

You forgot your decimal points in there...

We all know you meant £5.00 and £50.00.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the OP had suggested going to the club and having sex with him...thatd be insulting yes...almost everyone has a price in my opinion lol..I'd suck cock for a £5

oops... £500

£5000 for up the arse

You forgot your decimal points in there...

We all know you meant £5.00 and £50.00. "

ffs if its not the grammar and spelloingf police...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes me wonder how the OP actually views the women on here?"

living blowup doll maybe

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

why does there have to be a financial incentive, why not just say you will pay her in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry i hate it when people say i will pay my treat

im a woman who is independent if i want to take someone to chams why cant it be 50/50

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