"We are going to JD's on sat, new at this, want to try a threesome with hubby, mmf, but unsure of how to approach this, do we approach the single guys or do you let them do the work. Would also try a ffm with hubby but thats a bit more unlikely to start with, just a little unsure how to get the ball (or balls lol) rolling?"
I've copied this off The No 3 Club website but it makes a lot of sence and could help you out too....
First Time Visitors
If you are a couple it is helpful if you and your partner discuss your limits or intentions. If you have just come to watch or for atmosphere that is fine. If you are approached a polite "No" will see that you are left alone.
If you are a couple looking for another couple, it is quite normal for you to sit and chat to other couples and during conversation, mention your interests or visit the "Couples Only" Room.
If you are a couple and are looking for a single to join you, then this is the easiest scenario. Single guys are most eager to oblige and not offended in the least if you approach them.
If you are approached by a single, he will not get right to the point, but will normally engage you in small talk conversation, but you can rest assured he is interested in joining you. If you are interested, ask him if he would like to join you in a private room.
Serious swingers can have the time of their lives in our club. Just enter the open rooms for serious attention from anyone in there, but most will not begin until they get the indication that you require their attention.
Looking for bi ladies? lots of couples have bi ladies looking for the same, just mention in conversation that the lady in your partnership is bi and is looking for the same.
Couples who come for the first time who just sit and expect to be approached without any input from yourselves may not enjoy their night, as regulars do not know what you are into; also they do not like to offend. The best approach is to give eye contact or make the effort to chat to others. It is normal to sit next to other people and introduce yourself, starting with with normal everyday conversation. If you find that they are regulars, ask them questions about the club and the best way to go about things, you will find them eager to help guide you in the right direction.
In a nutshell, be friendly, polite and things will happen as everyone in the club are open-minded and are there to swing. Whatever their preferences, just relax and enjoy your evening.
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