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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I don’t consider myself a veteran of clubs, however as I was bored, and not being able to attend... I thought I’d calculate how much I’d spent. Over the past four yrs of attending clubs in the UK.

On average I spend £45 per visit, entrance fee and drinks. Sometime stay over other nights not. From memory, I get to around 80 visits... £3,900 inc membership fees.

Oops... ah well, still can’t think of a better way to have spent that.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Compared to other hobbies or nights out £1k a year is a good spend

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Ok so I don’t consider myself a veteran of clubs, however as I was bored, and not being able to attend... I thought I’d calculate how much I’d spent. Over the past four yrs of attending clubs in the UK.

On average I spend £45 per visit, entrance fee and drinks. Sometime stay over other nights not. From memory, I get to around 80 visits... £3,900 inc membership fees.

Oops... ah well, still can’t think of a better way to have spent that. "

When we were earning money, we could easily blow £150 on a night out in liverpool on drinks, taxis and a chippy on the way home, plus we'd only get to shag each other hahaha

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Right now we'd all probably pay that to go back in time to pre covid for one last visit when the world was 'normal'

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We find a night in a club is cheeper than a night out in town (as clubs in our area are mostly take your oun alcohol) and definitely more fun lol

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Almost all hobbies cost money. OP could spend as much on one holiday as he spends a year on clubs.

I spend a few hundred a year on camera film. Another few hundred on small local gigs. Some on campsite bookings. And some on swinging clubs.

They all bring pleasure

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"

On average I spend £45 per visit, entrance fee and drinks. Sometime stay over other nights not. From memory, I get to around 80 visits... £3,900 inc membership fees.

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You got in cheap. lol

I reckon a visit to Eureka, VA or Libs was an absolute minimum of £120 per night for a couple if you include transport, drinks, entry and if you stayed over then double that (meals etc)!

Then if you included cancelled holidays to GC and the Cap last year I reckon we saved around £7,000!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it brings you pleasure & it doesn't hurt anyone, don't worry about the expense.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Can't wait for a big blowout

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"If it brings you pleasure & it doesn't hurt anyone, don't worry about the expense."

It does hurt someone if you take a submissive to a fetish event!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still think it’s money well spent... and agreed could east do few hundred on a good night out!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it brings you pleasure & it doesn't hurt anyone, don't worry about the expense."

^ this

I never begrudge money spent on leisure time. I work hard for my money, and life is short......says the woman with mad expensive hobbies

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By *lay PairCouple
over a year ago

Warrington


"If it brings you pleasure & it doesn't hurt anyone, don't worry about the expense.

^ this

I never begrudge money spent on leisure time. I work hard for my money, and life is short......says the woman with mad expensive hobbies "

Exactly

We both work very hard to have the expendable income for our fun trips away and like many others our savings from cancelled lifestyle holidays are circa 10k over the past 9 months.

It is ironic though as we are now working harder than ever, more stressed than ever and can’t lift some of the pressure with a fun holiday

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere


"If it brings you pleasure & it doesn't hurt anyone, don't worry about the expense.

^ this

I never begrudge money spent on leisure time. I work hard for my money, and life is short......says the woman with mad expensive hobbies

Exactly

We both work very hard to have the expendable income for our fun trips away and like many others our savings from cancelled lifestyle holidays are circa 10k over the past 9 months.

It is ironic though as we are now working harder than ever, more stressed than ever and can’t lift some of the pressure with a fun holiday "

what is this hol

-i-day you speak of? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats cheap, a night in chams usually costs us £60 petrol, anywhere between 50 and 150 on a hotel depending on if we feel like being posh for the night , say 35 entrance fee, up to 50 for a new outfit for Mrs, drinks , food and other bits and pieces . Easily £200 minimum but we do it because its adult time away from normal life. Would we be happier having gone to wetherspoons and spending 40 quid ? Nah not in the slightest

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By *lay PairCouple
over a year ago

Warrington


"If it brings you pleasure & it doesn't hurt anyone, don't worry about the expense.

^ this

I never begrudge money spent on leisure time. I work hard for my money, and life is short......says the woman with mad expensive hobbies

Exactly

We both work very hard to have the expendable income for our fun trips away and like many others our savings from cancelled lifestyle holidays are circa 10k over the past 9 months.

It is ironic though as we are now working harder than ever, more stressed than ever and can’t lift some of the pressure with a fun holiday

what is this hol

-i-day you speak of? lol"

We enjoy holidays with a slice of spice.

Many to choose from, Desire, Hedo, swinger Caribbean cruises or Venus Star if you want to stay in Europe but unfortunately with the restrictions nothing is available atm

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

I have saved £1000 since last march...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is were I Defo respect couples and Ladies who attend clubs. In my eyes they are “real swingers”. They put their money where their mouth is.

As a single guy I’ve attended clubs and all in I’d say over the course of 3-4 years heavily on the scene it cost me £7000 ish.

But I’d not change a thing. Swinging clubs I feel made me better for “vanilla” dating. Clubs I find if the guys are sensible promotes your skills. Personally i think it taught me to have more respect for woman, have manners, accept rejection and promote talking/communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss chams.. miss the relaxation and obvious fun.

Cheaper than going to pretentious spas anyway.

Eck my child swimming club was 170 per month ( fuel n fees) plus competitions so relatively cheap in comparison.

Roll on chams opening...

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

I'm not even going to try and add up what we have spent on swinging in 10 years lol. Even a visit to an organised social can cost us £150 by the time you factor in travel, hotel, drinks, food etc. One full-on swinging weekend cost us upwards of £400, but it was a birthday treat, I had a whole new outfit including sexy undies, we had two nights in a hotel and a swinging club, meals out, taxis. It was worth it, but we dont normally spend anywhere near that.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

No point is us counting the cost of our club visits (plus no doubt it'd be completely shocking). Its an expense we'd always find the money for and never begrudge paying. Must have saved a fortune over the last year but can't wait for them to fully open again.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Ok so I don’t consider myself a veteran of clubs, however as I was bored, and not being able to attend... I thought I’d calculate how much I’d spent. Over the past four yrs of attending clubs in the UK.

On average I spend £45 per visit, entrance fee and drinks. Sometime stay over other nights not. From memory, I get to around 80 visits... £3,900 inc membership fees.

Oops... ah well, still can’t think of a better way to have spent that. "

Not that much really, our swinger life costs much more.

2020 doesn't really count but in 2019 we spent at least 5000€.

Average club visit was around 40€ and we went at least 50 times that year, so that's at least 2 grand (not counting fuel and the occasional hotel)

Add to that our 2 week pilgrimage to Cap d'Agde which is never less than 3000€ (usually more)

Thinking about it the total was probably nearer to 6 grand.

We really saved a lot last year.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Oh! Forgot to add. The above doesn't include Mrs H's outfits and SHOES!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We only go swinging club two or three times a year .and at £30 a couple we don’t see that as expensive .we would easily spend a lot more than that at our local,we both have a lot of fun and the facilities at jaydees is well worth the entrance fee even if we don’t hit it off with others which is not very often

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By *us man1957Man
over a year ago

Guildford

All the more or to spend when we get out of this horrible mess

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