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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm new to the club seen but I'm soo intrigued, have other women gone alone to the clubs ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been alone, I've always gone with a mate or an FWB but there are quite a few ladies that do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I have asked a fwb to come with me but not many are up for it,

Did u enjoy it ? X

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I usually go alone and really enjoy it. There is no pressure to do anything at all, I find them very welcoming and now have made a few friends and contacts so that when I go alone I often see quite some familar faces. I so miss the club scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have asked a fwb to come with me but not many are up for it,

Did u enjoy it ? X"

You need better ones!

Yeah, absolutely love going to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually go alone and really enjoy it. There is no pressure to do anything at all, I find them very welcoming and now have made a few friends and contacts so that when I go alone I often see quite some familar faces. I so miss the club scene.

Very much this. Plus going alone i have more control over what I do, theres no expectation to play, i can leave when i’m ready and wont be letting anyone down if i change my mind at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its something I'm willing to try when we are allowed to go out again, maybe if I go with someone then maybe feel OK going alone after meeting people like you said

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I'm new to the club seen but I'm soo intrigued, have other women gone alone to the clubs ? "

There's nothing to be scared of but if your a bit apprehensive I know of a lovely lady who's always taking newbies under her wing, I'll send you her way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I have asked a fwb to come with me but not many are up for it,

Did u enjoy it ? X

You need better ones!

Yeah, absolutely love going to a club

I really think I do tbh

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This makes sense it just the safety side of things I was concerned about

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By *etsplay68Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

This makes sense it just the safety side of things I was concerned about "

Always a nice friendly crowd at VA and Jaydees , just do everything at your own pace

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

The Attic is ideal for single ladies, as the men are not allowed to follow you around and there are LOTS of staff around to make sure everyone follows the rules & has a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been to a club..but ive attended organised parties alone, and i prefer it going that way if im honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have asked a fwb to come with me but not many are up for it,

Did u enjoy it ? X

You need better ones!

Yeah, absolutely love going to a club

I really think I do tbh

Lol

You are always welcome to tag along with us, if ya like... Once everything is back n open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost always go alone. That's my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been going alone to clubs for years, I've always had a great time. I'm a regular visitor to townhouse and once I'd been a few times and made some friends, I didn't look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm new to the club seen but I'm soo intrigued, have other women gone alone to the clubs ? "

I often went to clubs alone, obviously not at the moment though.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I'm new to the club seen but I'm soo intrigued, have other women gone alone to the clubs ? "

We used to see several single women in clubs (when they were open) much to the delight of my partner who particularly enjoys a double blow job!

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By *efthandMan
over a year ago

Halton, Cheshire

I've several lady friends who enjoy going to a club on their own.

They find it a safe place.

And as above, they prefer going alone so they can do what they want as such. And by that I mean, turn up or leave when they want and are only responsible for themself.

Unless you've a very good friend? Then I'd only arrange to meet someone inside the club (as you do find some men just want to 'couple' up to gain entry as sometimes it's cheaper), or you don't know how they'll behave and you'll be lumped together as a couple as such if you go in together.

Also some clubs, don't like casual coupling up.

So it's easier for you to go in and control your own time and interests for the evening on your own.

Yes for the first couple of times, just let them know you're new and they'll take even more care of you as such.

But you'll enjoy it, once over the hard step of stepping through the door.

Honestly, if you feel comfortable going out somewhere for a drink on your own as such (pub etc.) Then this is easier, safer and more fun.

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By *iptoptottyWoman
over a year ago

Watford, Herts

I have always gone to clubs on my own. I make sure I’m friendly with the staff and they know I’m there alone. I’ve never had any bad experiences and have actually made lots of friends of both sexes. I like the freedom of making my own choices and I can come and go as I please. I’ve always had a great time and highly recommend it. Good luck and take the plunge!!!!

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By *aughtyminx300Woman
over a year ago

london

Hi OP

I agree with what everyone has said.

My first club visit was with a FWB and after that I went alone as I prefer not to be attached to anyone. That was over four years ago and I’ve never looked back.

Honestly once you make that first step inside the nerves will turn to excitement.

The other bit of advice I would give is to let the club know it’s your first visit and they normally introduce you to some of the friendly regulars when giving you a tour.

Wishing you the best for your exciting adventure, once we can get back swinging that is x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Yeah op. If you are a woman and you go to a club on your own, the world is your oyster. I’d say there’s zero disadvantages. Have fun... soon, we hope. X

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By *artogCouple
over a year ago

Thurrock

if you get the chance, you should try pleasures in kent.x

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There are lots of ladies who go solo to various clubs. Through the forums when you're ready put a post up for a wing lady and I'm sure you will be taken care of

obviously do your verification checks on the person before you go.

Most of all, have fun and enjoy doing what the hell you want x

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By *ntony dennisMan
over a year ago

swansea/castleford

What's best clubs to go to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I have asked a fwb to come with me but not many are up for it,

Did u enjoy it ? X

You need better ones!

Yeah, absolutely love going to a club

I really think I do tbh

Lol

You are always welcome to tag along with us, if ya like... Once everything is back n open

Yea that sounds good thank you I'd like that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been going alone to clubs for years, I've always had a great time. I'm a regular visitor to townhouse and once I'd been a few times and made some friends, I didn't look back. "

Aww sounds amazing I have no doubt everyone is very friendly and its a side I want to explore but my mates are dead against it xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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You will make new friends from the community

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are lots of ladies who go solo to various clubs. Through the forums when you're ready put a post up for a wing lady and I'm sure you will be taken care of

obviously do your verification checks on the person before you go.

Most of all, have fun and enjoy doing what the hell you want x"

Didn't think of taking a wing lady, my friends are dead against this so I'm exploring this side alone.

I'm looking forward to it when we are allowed again.

Thank you

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Usually some single ladies in Chams, always treated with respect, with no pressure or obligation to do anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You will make new friends from the community"

Thank you x

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Once we can go again, I am planning to try on my own. I really enjoy Clubs with my partner, but I’d love to just go on my own

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

No doubt on average that single ladies get on much better at clubs than single guys... but you still need a degree of sociability we think.

Very occasionally we see slightly socially awkward - or possibly d*unk - single ladies, not convinced they enjoyed themselves.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"No doubt on average that single ladies get on much better at clubs than single guys... but you still need a degree of sociability we think.

Very occasionally we see slightly socially awkward - or possibly d*unk - single ladies, not convinced they enjoyed themselves. "

You make a good point. Because we’ve been together, I feel I know how to ‘work’ a Club & it wouldn’t involve significant booze!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to quute a few clubs and would very willing to escort you...Pete would love to assist in the corruption of a young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We go to quute a few clubs and would very willing to escort you...Pete would love to assist in the corruption of a young lady

I think he wouldn't mind that with an older lady either! Lmao... I know your game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went alone on my 1st ever visit to a club. Enjoyed it.

I've also been with friends and my ex partner.

Enjoy all.

It would be good to have a set of female club buddies when the clubs reopen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Attic is ideal for single ladies, as the men are not allowed to follow you around and there are LOTS of staff around to make sure everyone follows the rules & has a great time. "

We went to the Attic a few times at the start of last year, and the staff are great. However. We've never been to a club with so many single men following people around! Not somewhere if suggest going alone for a first visit, with friends or when you've been to another club to get your bearings perhaps.

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By *pice-meWoman
over a year ago

Home

Does anybody have experience of the lady days in the Manchester club.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"There are lots of ladies who go solo to various clubs. Through the forums when you're ready put a post up for a wing lady and I'm sure you will be taken care of

obviously do your verification checks on the person before you go.

Most of all, have fun and enjoy doing what the hell you want x

Didn't think of taking a wing lady, my friends are dead against this so I'm exploring this side alone.

I'm looking forward to it when we are allowed again.

Thank you "

Yeah, never never never take a vanilla friend to a club. It is a big no no.

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I've been a fair few times solo and have always enjoyed it! They're a very social affair, you soon get chatting to people in no time, and most clubs will do a show round if it's your first time! X

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By *ndy man 61Man
over a year ago

Chichester

i get HER to go to a club on the own (which shes more than happy to do) and she will ping my phone to give me an update of what naughty things shes been up to,and when she gets home we have the most amazing re claim sex ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have asked a fwb to come with me but not many are up for it,

Did u enjoy it ? X"

There are many guys who would offer to be your wing man at clubs. Within your age range (and many more outside it as well!). Get your FWB to look at this site and when clubs are open again ask on here for another couple of you want some support.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I always went alone , first time definitely yes i was petrified , but i was felt so welcomed that just before this all pandemic started i went to Pandora for one month almost every single day

I do miss Clubs

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

This makes sense it just the safety side of things I was concerned about "

There's no place more safe than clubs , the atmosphere will surprise you defenitly will , is more comfortable than go to your local pub and more safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a males perspective, I see quite a few females attend by themselves. It’s quite rare to see any males misbehave now, as most clubs will not tolerate this. Also other members sort of keep an eye out, if someone’s being to forward, (a pest) there told!

Relax, enjoy it. It’s quite liberating and your in a safe environment. Your in control and can do what you want, ie play or not! just be open to conversation, say no thank you of not for you. And most of all enjoy. Clubs aren’t all about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know quite a few single ladies that go alone to clubs, most state its safer than a night out on the town and vanilla clubs. You do get the odd pesky person who will try and follow you everywhere but generally most single guys behave...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I'm new to the club seen but I'm soo intrigued, have other women gone alone to the clubs ? "

First time I went to a club, I went on my own. And many times since. I like the freedom.

Don't let potential problems deter you. Staff will always help you.

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Does anybody have experience of the lady days in the Manchester club. "

Which Manchester club are you referring to there is a couple x

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

"I'm new to the club seen but I'm soo intrigued, have other women gone alone to the clubs ? "

I go on my own and I’ve really enjoyed it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am part of a couple but have been to clubs on my own usually more to meet up with friends I already know. But if I was single I wouldn’t hesitate to go on my own. Everyone is so friendly and I know I would feel so safe.

Definitely give it a go after this Covid ends x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've always gone with a friend as its a long drive. If Torquay was closer, I would happily go on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to go to one too, so would definitely be up for pairing with you to go together. I was going to go to VA in October with a friend, but I’m not sure if she was really, really into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there

I've been on and off here for a few years, I've attended clubs, alone, as a couple and with others I have gotten to know. I love the club scene, and cannot wait to attend again. It can be very dawnting alone, but exciting too.

any questions or advice feel free to message me x x x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There are lots of ladies that do and the more they go the more friends they have to talk to.

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