FabSwingers.com forum: LGBTQ+ Swinging

By *TastePurple OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Hello all. I'm totally inexperienced in either swing or kink parties and was wondering if any clubs or nights are better for LGBTQ+ people? I'm a Single Bisexual Transgender Woman mostly interested in other MF/FF couples and single Women, possibly Bi MM couples (also trans F, NB). I like kink as much as sex so recommendations for places catering to both/either welcome. Norfolk based but can travel to London and other nearby cities.

Suggestions very welcome. I know basically nothing about any clubs or party locations.

Xxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Personally I think it'll be a case of keep your eyes on this area of the forum. I've not been to many clubs myself but they generally have different nights that cater for different kinks and desires.

Good luck

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By *TastePurple OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Thankyou

I was hoping to get more replies but I'll see what other people are saying. Guess it's all up in the air right now.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Your best bet is to look on club websites for the moment.

Clubs all do different events, so it depends what you’re looking for - play heavy, more social, bi-play, straight play, group play etc. Finding an event that suits you is as important as finding a club that you like.

You may find that a bi-night is more what you’re looking for. Or a newbies event might be a good start.

Do a little research on websites & hopefully fab will open forums up sooner or later for you to read club reviews.

Clubs generally are very inclusive. I can only really speak for my experience at Townhouse, but there is a large community of trans male & female members & I think for a lot of them, just the fact they can come along & be who they are in a safe environment is the biggest thing for them. The play element depends on what their play preferences are.

Hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said its a really good idea to research whatever is in your local area and seeing if they have a night or event that caters for yourself and your needs.

If in doubt ask the club.

Pretty much every club or club night may have different rules or clientèle

Your best finding an event where you will "fit in" if you want to maximise your chances of having a good first experience

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Unfortunately I only know of swingers clubs in the North West, but London does have the Way Out Club for the Trans Community (I’ve been a couple of times). I’m sure when Lockdown is over there should be socials or even clubs reopening for people to meet up but probably not to play.

If you ever fancy a weekend in Blackpool, they have clubs I’ve been to that are very inclusive to the LGBTQI community

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

When The Attic (Derby) reopens, you'll find a very varied clientele - especially on Saturday nights. There are two dungeons, a large open one and a smaller, private one, so plenty of opportunities to indulge...

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I know that Vanilla Alternative do bi- nights and have been to a few, they are a good night, and other venues also hold bi- nights too.

I am not sure what other clubs encourage or allow outside of this, but ‘we’ are still somewhat mis understood - you need look no further than the prejudice you sometimes see in here, and fully appreciate we are not everyone’s ‘cup of tea’!

I have seen some clubs who charge TVs the same entry prices as men, which I do find discriminatory (possibly deliberately) and insulting. I like to think I am a little more than a bloke in a frock, it takes me a long time to get ready, and have pride in my appearance.

Clearly, you are a gorgeous woman, so should have no problem anywhere xx

Love R xx

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

The bi nights at VA are excellent. We would recommend them as they are very relaxed and no pressure. The bar area is great for just chatting and relaxing if you’re not ready to dive in!

Hopefully they will be back next year!

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By *uLou69Couple
over a year ago

Glos

Chams at Darlaston run an excellent Bi night normally on Mondays. Staff will look after you and they have nice affordable rooms to stay over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yum xx

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By *roovytodgerMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Clubs generally are very inclusive. I can only really speak for my experience at Townhouse, but there is a large community of trans male & female members & I think for a lot of them, just the fact they can come along & be who they are in a safe environment is the biggest thing for them. The play element depends on what their play preferences are."

Thank you @Morticia, that's really helpful to know! My lovely girlfriend is trans and I'm sure we will feel right at home there!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

As others have said, there are loads of bi nights, fetish nights etc at regular swingers clubs, everyone says they are very sociable and it’s something we were going to explore this year.

However, I do get the impression, certainly in London, that fetish clubs are probably more popular than swingers clubs anyway, based on number of attendees. So might be worth exploring that option a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chams at Darlaston run an excellent Bi night normally on Mondays. Staff will look after you and they have nice affordable rooms to stay over."

I totally agree. Chams in a Monday night is great.

Having a single female membership also gives me more options on nights I can attend. Very friendly and accommodating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello all. I'm totally inexperienced in either swing or kink parties and was wondering if any clubs or nights are better for LGBTQ+ people? I'm a Single Bisexual Transgender Woman mostly interested in other MF/FF couples and single Women, possibly Bi MM couples (also trans F, NB). I like kink as much as sex so recommendations for places catering to both/either welcome. Norfolk based but can travel to London and other nearby cities.

Suggestions very welcome. I know basically nothing about any clubs or party locations.

Xxx"

Try the Jaydees bi night - it just started before lockdown and is very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bi nights at VA are excellent. We would recommend them as they are very relaxed and no pressure. The bar area is great for just chatting and relaxing if you’re not ready to dive in!

Hopefully they will be back next year!"

The lady who ran them I think has moved her night to Jaydees?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bi nights at VA are excellent. We would recommend them as they are very relaxed and no pressure. The bar area is great for just chatting and relaxing if you’re not ready to dive in!

Hopefully they will be back next year!

The lady who ran them I think has moved her night to Jaydees?"

We didn’t realise Spicy had moved. Good to know. Thank you

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"Thankyou

I was hoping to get more replies but I'll see what other people are saying. Guess it's all up in the air right now. "

Check out Crossbreed website is crossbreedworld dot com

Very LGBTQ frindly

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The bi nights at VA are excellent. We would recommend them as they are very relaxed and no pressure. The bar area is great for just chatting and relaxing if you’re not ready to dive in!

Hopefully they will be back next year!

The lady who ran them I think has moved her night to Jaydees?"

We went to the last bi night before the first lockdown and had planned to go to the next one which had to be cancelled due to covid. Think they plan to have them again once able to.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Thankyou

I was hoping to get more replies but I'll see what other people are saying. Guess it's all up in the air right now.

Check out Crossbreed website is crossbreedworld dot com

Very LGBTQ frindly"

That’s a great suggestion I thought I knew most of the places for Tgirls could go and express themselves in a safe environment. But they were totally off my radar.

Looks like a great party, thanks for letting us know

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

The VA bi night is legendary and well worth visiting for an inclusive fun time.

With many clubs and private venues closed, a number of them host virtual ‘swingin nights’ which cater for as much kink and debauchery as anyone can handle.

Search for them online or DM me for further info.

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By *heAnnexWoman
over a year ago

Kings Lynn SWINGERS CLUB, PE33 0BE

Suggestions very welcome. I know basically nothing about any clubs or party locations.

Xxx"

Hi there you

As you know The Annex did run bi nights and transgender nights along with our DV8 Kinky SEX Parties with no gender discrimination pre Covid.

When parties return a few things may be changed we think for the better but our warm welcome will remain to all as will our support to all and most definitely to the LBGTQ community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be an interesting experience to visit a club where there's a bit of everything going on.

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By *inky_katrinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I find that swinging clubs are usually really welcoming, people are generally open, honest and welcoming

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By *TastePurple OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Hey

I certainly plan to hit up the Annex post lockdown when it's open again x

Dv8 in particular sounds like a lot of fun.

Just looking around as I want to travel a bit and see what's out there x

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By *TastePurple OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Always heard good things about the Annex being LGBTQ+ friendly.

Thanks for all the suggestions and advice everyone btw

forgot to check this for a while. Seems like it's been helpful to others too.

Look forward to maybe bumping into some of you in the future x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"The bi nights at VA are excellent. We would recommend them as they are very relaxed and no pressure. The bar area is great for just chatting and relaxing if you’re not ready to dive in!

Hopefully they will be back next year!"

I was just thinking the very same thought! (Althiugh, to be fair, VA welcome all at all events)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggestions very welcome. I know basically nothing about any clubs or party locations.

Xxx"

SparkleHard and KinkySalon are both really queer friendly when they run. I would sign up to both as they are really inclusive. I’ve loved them.

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