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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm fairly young myself and I just wondered what impression older people (older than me) have when they see us?

Do you think it's nice to see a young person into the lifestyle or do you see them and think they're out of place?

Genuine question, please be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been to one club meet. Most I've met as once off.

But it was great. Everyone was very welcoming, and it was all flowing very nicely. My age was mentioned but in a nice, flirty way. Though this can vary I'm sure. )

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're younger than average club goers, but not too young to look out of place. So we wouldn't think anything of your age.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Youngest I've met in a club was 21, as long as you are respectful & social you will be fine.

It's always good to see a mix of ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I've always had pleasant interactions myself and met some great people but I just wondered what the general consensus was x

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

I’ve been to a few clubs and I’ve seen young and old there, to me if you enjoy the lifestyle then you’re not out of place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you are polite and try joining in with conversation then you will be fine we would chat to anyone in a club. If you ever were to see us just come over and say hi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 27, hardly a youngster and nowhere near the youngest we encounter regularly at clubs. Stop worrying so much and just enjoy yourself, that's much more attractive than a number

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It doesn't bother me at all people's ages, I don't even notice.

Normally when we are allowed to socialise in clubs, the group I'm in often will consist of people from their early 20s to people three times their age.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"So I'm fairly young myself and I just wondered what impression older people (older than me) have when they see us?

Do you think it's nice to see a young person into the lifestyle or do you see them and think they're out of place?

Genuine question, please be nice "

We've met much younger than you and no not a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose a follow up to this is that I do find it really hard to find meets or even chat with people on here, I feel like I'm polite enough and I'm not the worst looking bloke in the world. Is there anything that majorly sticks out as a turn off or do you think it's just a luck of the draw kind of thing

*side note my profile is older than the pandemic I just had to start over*

Again please be nice Haha

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury


"I suppose a follow up to this is that I do find it really hard to find meets or even chat with people on here, I feel like I'm polite enough and I'm not the worst looking bloke in the world. Is there anything that majorly sticks out as a turn off or do you think it's just a luck of the draw kind of thing

*side note my profile is older than the pandemic I just had to start over*

Again please be nice Haha "

As a fellow bi guy you look good to me, just be yourself and you’ll succeed

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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I started going to clubs when I was 21, I did get comments about my age but never in a negative way. I’ve been lucky to find some club-going friends who are also in their twenties but I've met people as young as 18 at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most clubs run themed nights aimed at a younger audience

Our local club runs a night for the younger set and draws a big crowed with varied age range.

It's is one of their better nights

Just check the local clubs once things are back to normal

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

We have plenty of younger guests at Townhouse events & there is nothing wrong with it.

Age is irrelevant, it’s about who you are & how you interact with others - and that’s the same if you’re in your 20’s or your 70’s, or anywhere in between!

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

We have met a few guys your age at clubs and in my opinion the only reason you would stand out is that most couples would prob want to talk to you! I know we would

Tbh when guys go to clubs to us it shows they are serious about getting to know people and it’s nice to chat to someone in a relaxed environment as there is no expectations there!

Give it a go when you can! Mrs C

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