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By *litterbabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I just wanted to say how safe I felt after visiting the Vanilla Alternative with it's covid infrastructure in place today.

I appreciate it is extremely difficult for the clubs to be able to offer a safe environment to chat to others in the lifestyle at the moment.

They have worked very hard to make sure that the infrastructure is in place to provide a safe place for people in the lifestyle to have a few drinks within their social bubble, and I very much appreciate the amount of effort they must have put in to make this possible for people like me to arrange to meet up with a couple of friends and relax for a few hours.

A very big thank you to the Vanilla Alternative and to all the other clubs that are also doing their very best to enable us to socialise safely until brighter days are upon us.

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By *onelockMan
over a year ago

Corby

I agree ! Very safe and fun to play at VA, good and safely measures put in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree ! Very safe and fun to play at VA, good and safely measures put in place."

Play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree ! Very safe and fun to play at VA, good and safely measures put in place.

Play? "

There is always one who did not read the memo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree ! Very safe and fun to play at VA, good and safely measures put in place."
Dammm you missed the time limit to delete your comment

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I agree ! Very safe and fun to play at VA, good and safely measures put in place."

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Sounds great, I've only been to VA once (Lux Lounge) but it's not surprise that they've gone above and beyond by the sound of things.

Hopefully get to visit the actual club soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?"

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should probably say we've been to VA and were impressed in how safely and professionally the place was being managed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!"

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF! "

Every time there’s a forum post about club socials your always moaning and very negative!

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Every time there’s a forum post about club socials your always moaning and very negative! "

An unverified guy of 5 weeks. Makes his comments irrelevant. One of thousands above their station.

He wouldn’t know what a club looked like as his likely married and his wife is two scared to go so he cheats on her on forums expecting to get bites.

Or on the other hand his single and lonely and craving attention.

Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In case you havn't read the other VA thread, here's the post from the "management":

"The law is wearing masks unless you are sat with a drink or food. (Or exempt) Currently in tier 1 groups of up to 6 can meet and this 6 is not interchangeable

However we don’t actively encourage this at VA, but as of today it is not illegal in Bedford to meet with people outside of your household. we bubble beds are completely surrounded in plastic sheeting meaning you can enjoy each other as a couple but we don’t encourage mixing. As explained on the website we have a band system, this is working well and people have been respectful and understanding of the law."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF! "

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In case you havn't read the other VA thread, here's the post from the "management":

"The law is wearing masks unless you are sat with a drink or food. (Or exempt) Currently in tier 1 groups of up to 6 can meet and this 6 is not interchangeable

However we don’t actively encourage this at VA, but as of today it is not illegal in Bedford to meet with people outside of your household. we bubble beds are completely surrounded in plastic sheeting meaning you can enjoy each other as a couple but we don’t encourage mixing. As explained on the website we have a band system, this is working well and people have been respectful and understanding of the law."

"

Snappy. prove the point you're refuting by quoting a statement that proves you're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?"

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please "

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly"

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention "

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with."

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

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By *unguy0069Man
over a year ago

Reigate

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

"

I see from your profile that for the last 5 weeks you have "been looking for a naughty adventure ". Presumably being a forum troll is the adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

"

Says the trolling fantasist with no facts? Hilarious.

And since you've asked me to open my eyes to the situation.... Take a wild guess what my profession is. I will guarantee I have a better technical and factual understanding of this pandemic than you can dream of.

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By *unguy0069Man
over a year ago

Reigate

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By *unguy0069Man
over a year ago

Reigate


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

Says the trolling fantasist with no facts? Hilarious.

And since you've asked me to open my eyes to the situation.... Take a wild guess what my profession is. I will guarantee I have a better technical and factual understanding of this pandemic than you can dream of. "

Hard to take a guy seriously when he states on his profile that he's looking for women between the ages of 98 and 99 years old. Nothing wrong with being that age but seriously, what is going through your mind??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

Says the trolling fantasist with no facts? Hilarious.

And since you've asked me to open my eyes to the situation.... Take a wild guess what my profession is. I will guarantee I have a better technical and factual understanding of this pandemic than you can dream of. "

Let me guess....Brain surgeon? So tell me doctor, why did the management of aforementioned establishment admit to facilitating sexual Congress on their premises?

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich


"I just wanted to say how safe I felt after visiting the Vanilla Alternative with it's covid infrastructure in place today.

I appreciate it is extremely difficult for the clubs to be able to offer a safe environment to chat to others in the lifestyle at the

They have worked very hard to make sure that the infrastructure is in place to provide a safe place for people in the lifestyle to have a few drinks within their social bubble, and I very much appreciate the amount of effort they must have put in to make this possible for people like me to arrange to meet up with a couple of friends and relax for a few hours.

A very big thank you to the Vanilla Alternative and to all the other clubs that are also doing their very best to enable us to socialise safely until brighter days are upon us."

That’s great to hear ,l’m sure they are being as professional as 99 .9 percent of us in the hospitality trade.

Good luck to them ,we will look forward to our visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

Says the trolling fantasist with no facts? Hilarious.

And since you've asked me to open my eyes to the situation.... Take a wild guess what my profession is. I will guarantee I have a better technical and factual understanding of this pandemic than you can dream of.

Let me guess....Brain surgeon? So tell me doctor, why did the management of aforementioned establishment admit to facilitating sexual Congress on their premises? "

Will sexual congress be effected by the presidential election ? Or is that a totally different vote ? And if sexual activities are happening in the United States senate building - do our rules apply ?

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By *etsplay68Man
over a year ago

beaconsfield

WTF weird trolling fucker disease is prevalent again eh - only one thing for it - a trip to VA next Friday to check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?

That's a hell of an accusation to make, especially since it could affect people's livelihood.

I'd guess from the hidden profile that you don't have anything to support that and aren't up to facing the feedback for your comments?

Typical internet fantasist troll coward.

Good luck in the lifestyle now!

I suggest you read the other recent VA thread...they have "bubble beds" surrounded by plastic sheets...WTF!

Almost like a safe, sanitary way for people who attend together, like couples, to play together without risk to others. I have to ask if you've ever actually been to a swingers club? Your comments suggest you don't have any experience to base your opinion on?

Have I been to a swingers club? God no! My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal. After that, I dont care who "plays" with who, just try and follow the rules for a little while, pretty please

So you've now gone from "We all know they are allowing sex at va so why try and hide it?" To "My opinion is based on most people wanting this virus to disappear so we can get back to normal." You stated a fact, which is now your opinion. And you've never been to a club, so you can't even say it's from first hand experience. Utterly incomprehensible that you're even here. Be mindful of what you say, and the effect it could have on others. Your 'harmless' trolling could cost people dearly

What fact did I state...I was backing up what someone else had posted, I wish you'd pay attention

Oh I'm paying attention! To the 2 unverified single males in the thread who are trying to cause trouble for people with no evidence.

I genuinely hope you're not banking on any sympathy or support for your mud slinging. You're doing a great job of alienating the lifestyle you've tried to connect with.

I dont want sympathy, but I would like you to open your eyes and get with the real world for a while.

Says the trolling fantasist with no facts? Hilarious.

And since you've asked me to open my eyes to the situation.... Take a wild guess what my profession is. I will guarantee I have a better technical and factual understanding of this pandemic than you can dream of.

Let me guess....Brain surgeon? So tell me doctor, why did the management of aforementioned establishment admit to facilitating sexual Congress on their premises? "

It is irresponsible and putting their financial well-being ahead of customers health. They know sexual desire makes people do stupid and unreasonable things so just capitalising on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've re-read the VA statement and no where does it condone, or encourage sexual interaction between people outside of their own 'bubble'. So a couple that attends as a couple can play, in isolation, and screened from others, safely. There's more screening there than walking around a supermarket! Lots and lots of assumptions. Notably from people who have either never met, or not for a long time. It could be said that those making them, have no idea what they're talking about?

And I'm not a brain surgeon, but I did want to demonstrate how easy it is to make a statement on here, without any substantive support. Anyone can write a post.

No one is arguing with the need for people to behave responsibly and act safely for all our collective good. What's deplorable is throwing dangerous accusations out in a public forum, with absolutely no evidence. Either stupid or malicious but definitely unacceptable.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've re-read the VA statement and no where does it condone, or encourage sexual interaction between people outside of their own 'bubble'. So a couple that attends as a couple can play, in isolation, and screened from others, safely."

If you read the Covid19 section on the VA website you will see they define a bubble as six people who can be from different households.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've re-read the VA statement and no where does it condone, or encourage sexual interaction between people outside of their own 'bubble'. So a couple that attends as a couple can play, in isolation, and screened from others, safely.

If you read the Covid19 section on the VA website you will see they define a bubble as six people who can be from different households. "

The latest update I've seen from VA says:

"The law is wearing masks unless you are sat with a drink or food. (Or exempt) Currently in tier 1 groups of up to 6 can meet and this 6 is not interchangeable

However we don’t actively encourage this at VA, but as of today it is not illegal in Bedford to meet with people outside of your household. we bubble beds are completely surrounded in plastic sheeting meaning you can enjoy each other as a couple but we don’t encourage mixing. As explained on the website we have a band system, this is working well and people have been respectful and understanding of the law."

I don't see the ambiguity?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I was referring to their website Covid section, not that update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was referring to their website Covid section, not that update. "

With the frequency the guidance changes, it's a wonder anyone keeps up!

There are a lot of challenges for the lifestyle due to the pandemic. Not taking risks is advisable, but at some point, there needs to be a lifestyle to come back to, Clubs, parties and people to meet. Burning bridges and destroying positive feeling now while people are struggling will just make the return much harder afterwards.

I'd hope that people interested or participating in the lifestyle would pull together to keep things going until the situation improves. Instead I see more and more negativity, poison and anger than ever before. I'm a naturally positive person but some of the posts on here recently make that a hard way to see things.

Chin up, there's always coffee!

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"I was referring to their website Covid section, not that update.

With the frequency the guidance changes, it's a wonder anyone keeps up!

There are a lot of challenges for the lifestyle due to the pandemic. Not taking risks is advisable, but at some point, there needs to be a lifestyle to come back to, Clubs, parties and people to meet. Burning bridges and destroying positive feeling now while people are struggling will just make the return much harder afterwards.

I'd hope that people interested or participating in the lifestyle would pull together to keep things going until the situation improves. Instead I see more and more negativity, poison and anger than ever before. I'm a naturally positive person but some of the posts on here recently make that a hard way to see things.

Chin up, there's always coffee! "

Totally agree way to much negativity sometimes

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