FabSwingers.com forum: barebacking at clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights.

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

Each to their own if that’s what people are into live and let live we say. Nothing to do with us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah the same if people are enjoying themselves

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

I have been to lot of clubs what you do is up to you

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By *andkitten2Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "

What club on a Monday?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "

Which club? There is a difference between a club promoting a safer sex environment and individuals being reckless. All clubs I have been to have promoted safer sex. Your post could potentially damage a business so I hope you can back up your allegations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go with my partner we play bareback with each other ?

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

If it's consenting then fine, I've seen quite a few instances on greedy girl nights when it's one guy after another and when asked if they are wearing a condom there will be one who lies.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

BB with others isn't our thing. Wouldn't stop us going to a club.

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech

Fail to see why it would put others off. If you know they're barebacking then don't fuck them without protection, or just don't fuck them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not choose to go to an irresponsible club no, however I have been to quite alot and seen nothing but safe sex promoted so skeptic of the truth in this

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights.

Agreed - as far as I am aware, all clubs promote safe sex & I’ve never heard of a bareback event at a club! In fact a lot of clubs even provide testing facilities too!

Townhouse not only have condoms available in every room, but also partner with Sahir House who come along to 2 or 3 different events a year to provide confidential testing & support.

No club can enforce safe sex - it’s ultimately personal choice, and couples will also play without protection -but I’ve never heard of a club openly promoting unsafe sex

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

From day one of us going to clubs we have always witnessed bb everyone to there own as you say

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I play bare with my FWB in private and in clubs, but we use condoms if we play with others in a club.

I wouldn’t attend a BB event as I have no interest in having bare sex with anyone but him

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

There is a lot of bb that goes on in clubs but I've never seen a club advertise a bb night. All seem to promote safe sex

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

What clubs are open ??

Is there a list of clubs open ??

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have seen bareback in clubs - not for me. However do I blame the clubs no. Every club I have been to up and down the country promotes safe sex.

For me it’s just part of the scene put a condom on and make sure you have them with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never known of a club to promote or even suggest Bareback, however every club I’ve been too I’ve seen bareback with strangers other couples. I think most promoters will guide towards safe sex, even quite a few offer condoms, but will never stop consensual BB.

Each to their own, some people love it some people hate it, some people get off on the risk, some it turns them off immediately.

Who is anyone else to judge though, if you don’t like don’t do it, practice safe sex and stay away from the ones that do practice BB. I love it and get tested regularly, but I’m always open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every club I've looked at promotes safe sex heavily. I'm fine with playing BB, but never seen a non private event actually promoting or endorsing it. Xx

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"What clubs are open ??

Is there a list of clubs open ??"

None yet for play

A few are open as licensed premises for social events only

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "

It wouldn’t put us going to clubs in general; we just wouldn’t attend those particular nights.

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By *otenergizerbunnyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Me too, keen to know!

PM me if you dont wanna share here publicly.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'm 17 years in the scene I've only seen clubs and parties advocating safe sex.

I've seen married people use protection with their spouse at parties on the grounds that someone else might have sex with one of them later.

I've also seen bareback sex at clubs, as far as i could tell consensual. It's not necessarily against club rules. If all parties consent it is their business.

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By *bwlover82Man
over a year ago

london

My biggest fantasy is to take my girl to a porn cinema and let strangers use her

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Bareback happens in clubs all the time but it's usually between couples

We ALWAYS use protection with others but together it's not needed.

It's extremely hard for a club to enforce safe sex because you don't

always know who is a couple and who isnt. All they can do is promote safety.

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By *ouplefor funCouple
over a year ago

near kilmarnock

Not for us but in private yes

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ohh my goodness! Not been to a club but would love to go to one but never bareback ! X

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

As a single men, I’ve been asked.

Condom only for me, I’m afraid.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

My personal view is each person is responsible for their own sexual health and choices, the club provides a venue but they are not expected to police people's preferences.

I personally only use protection but I feel it's up to the individual not the club.

It's my responsibility so I make that clear and behave accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "

If that’s what people want...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From day one of us going to clubs we have always witnessed bb everyone to there own as you say "
Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights.

Agreed - as far as I am aware, all clubs promote safe sex & I’ve never heard of a bareback event at a club! In fact a lot of clubs even provide testing facilities too!

Townhouse not only have condoms available in every room, but also partner with Sahir House who come along to 2 or 3 different events a year to provide confidential testing & support.

No club can enforce safe sex - it’s ultimately personal choice, and couples will also play without protection -but I’ve never heard of a club openly promoting unsafe sex

Hear hear!! I agree!

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

It would completely put me off.

Ultimately what goes on between consenting adults is up to them.

But I wouldn’t attend a club that promotes bareback - I would be wary of those attending such events and whether they would presume they can bareback everyone there and the worry of condoms being removed.

For my own peace of mind I’d much rather simply give it a miss and stick to visiting those clubs that promote safe sex.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Interesting seeing how some people seem more relaxed about taking risks with the HIV & STD viruses than they do with COVID-19.

I wonder if this so far un-named Monday Night Club would insist on face masks whilst barebacking?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Sure the point of different club nights is to cater for different preferences and bring people with those preferences together? I don't think its a wise practice but we are all adults. We hope people who do this are at least regularly checked but we know this is not always the case or fool proof. It would not be for us. We are strictly for the use of condoms with other people. So we would no doubt avoid these nights and possibly people we knew attended them. And possibly the club as a whole if it had a reputation for a high number of members bare backing. Because when it comes to oral we don't go as far as taking precautions. We know oral is far lower risk but not 100% risk free. So naturally the thought of a place with a high risk of STI's amongst its attendees would be most off putting and make oral a lot more of a risky prospect as apose to oral with people who don't bare back.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh

"My personal view is each person is responsible for their own sexual health and choices, the club provides a venue but they are not expected to police people's preferences.

I personally only use protection but I feel it's up to the individual not the club.

It's my responsibility so I make that clear and behave accordingly."

Same for us

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By *VK2018Man
over a year ago

Preston

It won't surprise me if any club decides to set aside bb day If people can openly arrange Bb gangbang on this site and site admin don't take it down. I have been to few clubs and never seen any promoting bb yet people play bb. What people do with themselves is up to them.

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By *VK2018Man
over a year ago

Preston

"I know one or 2 clubs have a more open attitude to bare backing between other couples and singles. One club has an un official bb night on a Monday.

would people be put off if other clubs did the same or even advertised bb nights. "

Is this a secret opinion pole to know if bb would attract patronage? Might be you are planning on hosting bb night..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little off topic , but wasn’t a club on here promoting a Herpes themed night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, yes it would put me off. I would refrain frk. Going that particular night, but wouldn't have a great view of the clubs management if they were promoting it.

Id rather not go on a night where there are poeple who don't respect their own health.

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By *ekindled Lust xMan
over a year ago

brighton

"Me too, keen to know!

PM me if you dont wanna share here publicly.

And me - let me know

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham

I grew up in the 80s so a big no for me personally but if others make that choice well then we are all adults. I have on a few occasions been offered and it just ended any hope of any play. In this life only YOU can protect YOURSELF

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By *HICKCHOCMan
over a year ago

London/Blackpool

I would love to know where there is a BB club night

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Up to the clubs, but as long as everyone attending knew it was a BB night, it shouldn't be an issue.

We wouldn't go, but that's our choice, we don't judge others and don't expect to be judged.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I misread that as barbecuing at a club, and wondered what all the fuss was about

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

So many swinger couples are 50+ and so bareback and swinging in the current climate has to be somewhat Darwinist lol

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