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By *arleysar OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redhill/Reigate

Does anybody know what's happening at steamers quay torquay

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By *annaBeBeachBumMan
over a year ago

Sunny SouthWest

The SQ internet page states

COVID19 UPDATE

Just to let you all know what we have been up to during this madness.

When we reopen (hopefully soon), you will notice some changes.

To conform with standards required, there will be a 2 metre space marked on the floor of the entrance stairs. We have also made a few changes to the layout of the lounge area, and also made two separate changing areas.

We hope to see you all again very soon when we allowed to reopen.

Until then, stay safe !

Missing Saturday nights there, bet you are too.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

We had our first visit the weekend before lockdown and can't wait to revisit.

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By *arleysar OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redhill/Reigate

Such a nice friendly club always so much to do we have always left on a high

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By *annaBeBeachBumMan
over a year ago

Sunny SouthWest

Opens 1600-2200 next Sat, no sauna or steam room and presumably no play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Opens 1600-2200 next Sat, no sauna or steam room and presumably no play?"

No idea? Perhaps play within your bubble is allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the website, I believe that as a single male for a first time visit I need to be invited by a couple from Fabswingers?

If so how Do I find these elusive couples please?

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By *annaBeBeachBumMan
over a year ago

Sunny SouthWest


"Reading the website, I believe that as a single male for a first time visit I need to be invited by a couple from Fabswingers?

If so how Do I find these elusive couples please?

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That’s not what it says!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Reading the website, I believe that as a single male for a first time visit I need to be invited by a couple from Fabswingers?

If so how Do I find these elusive couples please?

That’s not what it says!"

This is what it actually says referring to single men...

"The top floor is reserved for couples and single females. Single males are only allowed on to this floor with an invitation from a couple or single female and must leave this floor after the invitation has ended. Invitations to the couples area are the resposibility of the person who issued the invitation." and this..." Single Males - Please read the sign shown below before coming to the premises. This sign is on the stairs leading to the couples only area. If you feel you can't follow this rule, don't attend. Simples! You WILL be banned from all future events." It does not say anywhere that you have to be with a couple or single female to actually enter the club, only that particular area of the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading the website, I believe that as a single male for a first time visit I need to be invited by a couple from Fabswingers?

If so how Do I find these elusive couples please?

That’s not what it says!

This is what it actually says referring to single men...

"The top floor is reserved for couples and single females. Single males are only allowed on to this floor with an invitation from a couple or single female and must leave this floor after the invitation has ended. Invitations to the couples area are the resposibility of the person who issued the invitation." and this..." Single Males - Please read the sign shown below before coming to the premises. This sign is on the stairs leading to the couples only area. If you feel you can't follow this rule, don't attend. Simples! You WILL be banned from all future events." It does not say anywhere that you have to be with a couple or single female to actually enter the club, only that particular area of the club. "

Ok, thanks for clearing that up for me, obviously read too much into the statement.

So open this Saturday coming, may just wait until the Covid flare up settles down in our area of Dawlish North.

Enjoy yourself when you attend next

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Reading the website, I believe that as a single male for a first time visit I need to be invited by a couple from Fabswingers?

If so how Do I find these elusive couples please?

That’s not what it says!

This is what it actually says referring to single men...

"The top floor is reserved for couples and single females. Single males are only allowed on to this floor with an invitation from a couple or single female and must leave this floor after the invitation has ended. Invitations to the couples area are the resposibility of the person who issued the invitation." and this..." Single Males - Please read the sign shown below before coming to the premises. This sign is on the stairs leading to the couples only area. If you feel you can't follow this rule, don't attend. Simples! You WILL be banned from all future events." It does not say anywhere that you have to be with a couple or single female to actually enter the club, only that particular area of the club.

Ok, thanks for clearing that up for me, obviously read too much into the statement.

So open this Saturday coming, may just wait until the Covid flare up settles down in our area of Dawlish North.

Enjoy yourself when you attend next "

I will, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any way of contacting Swingers Quay on here does anyone know x

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By *arleyfatboy2019Couple
over a year ago

Devon

There’s a phone number on the website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a phone number on the website."

Ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go last night, did anyone on this thread attend?

Hoping to get there this week or next depending on work commitments

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By *teamerqMan
over a year ago

torquay

Hello all. Stuart here from Swingers Quay. We have now reopened ! Have a look at our website swingersquay.com for details on how to book. Spaces are restricted so booking is advised. Our profile on here is _teamerq . If you’ve blocked guys, you won’t find it.

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Sounds like it was a good night

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hello all. Stuart here from Swingers Quay. We have now reopened ! Have a look at our website swingersquay.com for details on how to book. Spaces are restricted so booking is advised. Our profile on here is _teamerq . If you’ve blocked guys, you won’t find it. "

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By *im and her HertsCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Hello all. Stuart here from Swingers Quay. We have now reopened ! Have a look at our website swingersquay.com for details on how to book. Spaces are restricted so booking is advised. Our profile on here is _teamerq . If you’ve blocked guys, you won’t find it. "

Hey, would love to come and try your club. Is everything open in the way if facilities? Do you have a licensed bar too? Thank you in advance.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hello all. Stuart here from Swingers Quay. We have now reopened ! Have a look at our website swingersquay.com for details on how to book. Spaces are restricted so booking is advised. Our profile on here is _teamerq . If you’ve blocked guys, you won’t find it.

Hey, would love to come and try your club. Is everything open in the way if facilities? Do you have a licensed bar too? Thank you in advance. "

You'll have a great night! Last time I went it wasn't licensed, but you could bring your own. Enjoy!

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By *un24.7Man
over a year ago

South Devon

Who’s thinking of going this weekend?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Who’s thinking of going this weekend? "

Have a great time if you are going!

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

Are they back open as a club again, jacuzzi etc?

I really like that club, had lots of fun there

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Who’s thinking of going this weekend? "

We have booked in and can’t wait. Been waiting such a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all. Stuart here from Swingers Quay. We have now reopened ! Have a look at our website swingersquay.com for details on how to book. Spaces are restricted so booking is advised. Our profile on here is _teamerq . If you’ve blocked guys, you won’t find it. "

Is this place still for sale, have you had any offers?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

So what are the general rules there at the moment? The can't do and can do's?

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By *teamerqMan
over a year ago

torquay


"Hello all. Stuart here from Swingers Quay. We have now reopened ! Have a look at our website swingersquay.com for details on how to book. Spaces are restricted so booking is advised. Our profile on here is _teamerq . If you’ve blocked guys, you won’t find it.

Is this place still for sale, have you had any offers?"

Yes still for sale. No firm offers yet

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

We have had some amazing nights at steamers and are looking forward to the time it opens back up fully, sue so missing that dark room

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By *un24.7Man
over a year ago

South Devon

Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there "

You on about the fun with Mrs?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We have had some amazing nights at steamers and are looking forward to the time it opens back up fully, sue so missing that dark room "

Ohhh the dark room is loads of fun. Only place haven't explored properly is the dungeon.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

You on about the fun with Mrs?"

How is a sarcastic comment about his marital status relevant to the thread?

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By *un24.7Man
over a year ago

South Devon


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

You on about the fun with Mrs?

How is a sarcastic comment about his marital status relevant to the thread? "

Hehe no need to panic.

He is on about the fun I had with his Mrs

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

You on about the fun with Mrs?

How is a sarcastic comment about his marital status relevant to the thread? "

Wind you your in. If you look at his verifications you would see what I meant

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

You on about the fun with Mrs?

How is a sarcastic comment about his marital status relevant to the thread?

Wind you your in. If you look at his verifications you would see what I meant"

You just said Mrs, not yours. Sorry for assumption.

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

You on about the fun with Mrs?

How is a sarcastic comment about his marital status relevant to the thread?

Wind you your in. If you look at his verifications you would see what I meant

You just said Mrs, not yours. Sorry for assumption. "

I wouldn’t be so rude to talk about someone I don’t /didn’t know. It’s fine

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Can’t wait to go back here!

Just thinking back to last Christmas and all that naughty fun I had there

You on about the fun with Mrs?

How is a sarcastic comment about his marital status relevant to the thread?

Wind you your in. If you look at his verifications you would see what I meant

You just said Mrs, not yours. Sorry for assumption.

I wouldn’t be so rude to talk about someone I don’t /didn’t know. It’s fine "

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By *unnyb3Man
over a year ago

exeter

Have had some good nights there, can’t wait for them to re- open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had just started going in feb and really enjoyed it here, especially the jacuzzi.

Can't wait to be able to get back down.

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By *un24.7Man
over a year ago

South Devon

Hot days like this make me miss Steamers / Swingers Quay even more!

Can’t wait for this to settle and we can return when ready x

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By *unnyb3Man
over a year ago

exeter


"Does anybody know what's happening at steamers quay torquay "

There is an update on their website about when they are reopening

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

We had our first visit just before the first lockdown. Very keen to return, have unfinished business

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I couldnt see any info on prices, membership etc for single guys ...I guess if it's under new management what ever rules, nights etc they had before might not apply anyway. Any body have any insight ?

I have e mailed them to ask.

Thx

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

Looking forward to visiting again, lovely little club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers Quay opening in June.

"We are pleased to announce Swingers Quay will be reopening at 7pm on Saturday 26th June. More updates here soon"!

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By *un24.7Man
over a year ago

South Devon

Not one to wish time away but....... hurry up June

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Bring on steamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame. "

I think in the case of this club it's a good move, had over 3 friends who have had issues with single guys breaking rules there, had issues there too, so would never go back when single guys were allowed still.

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By *xploressCouple
over a year ago

Mid Devon

Yep, sorry for the single dudes but we'd heard it was a bit of a nightmare for couples being followed around by loads of single guys. We're fairly keen to give it a go now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, sorry for the single dudes but we'd heard it was a bit of a nightmare for couples being followed around by loads of single guys. We're fairly keen to give it a go now. "

All the single guys have to approach from on here, so just tell the guys running it, I am sure they will have a word if they are harassing you. Possibly stop them entering again would be the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame. "

So the only way is to get an invite or join with a lady to go. At least you know it will be a safe and comfortable play time. well done the owners.... and this is from a single guy.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame. "

Bit of a shame for us solo women too. It’ll keep me away from going on my own. Much better to have solo guys by invite who know how to go clubbing.

V x

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

Bit of a shame for us solo women too. It’ll keep me away from going on my own. Much better to have solo guys by invite who know how to go clubbing.

V x

V x "

Single females are allowed to go by themselves, its just the rules for single men have changed.

Ive been swinging at clubs for the last 25 years, and attending this one on and offfor over 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

So the only way is to get an invite or join with a lady to go. At least you know it will be a safe and comfortable play time. well done the owners.... and this is from a single guy. "

I prefer to go alone.

I'm not antisocial, just uncomplicated. It's how I've always played and dont intend to change it now!

Maybe, hopefully, the rules will change

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

Bit of a shame for us solo women too. It’ll keep me away from going on my own. Much better to have solo guys by invite who know how to go clubbing.

V x

V x

Single females are allowed to go by themselves, its just the rules for single men have changed.

Ive been swinging at clubs for the last 25 years, and attending this one on and offfor over 10.

"

I know solo women can go alone. My point was without solo men I don’t want to

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

Bit of a shame for us solo women too. It’ll keep me away from going on my own. Much better to have solo guys by invite who know how to go clubbing.

V x

V x

Single females are allowed to go by themselves, its just the rules for single men have changed.

Ive been swinging at clubs for the last 25 years, and attending this one on and offfor over 10.

I know solo women can go alone. My point was without solo men I don’t want to

V x "

Point taken.

And you are probably not alone in this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? Was looking forward to going back! But as a single female, personally, wouldn't be interested unless there are single males?

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

We were very much looking forward to a second visit, but as a couple that would only be interested in single men it wouldn't work for us.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Really? Was looking forward to going back! But as a single female, personally, wouldn't be interested unless there are single males? "

Yeah I really hope they rethink this ... i never been but it looks like a good club otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? Was looking forward to going back! But as a single female, personally, wouldn't be interested unless there are single males?

Yeah I really hope they rethink this ... i never been but it looks like a good club otherwise

"

I've always enjoyed it before! Nice and friendly place ...

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Hmmmm.

Good that the pricing structure is standard across all sexes. That's a start!

Bad. The single guy policy is probably going to shoot them in the foot, as some on this thread have already mentioned. But also the undertone of sexism and trans phobia in the front page. The fact they define a couple to only be MF precludes a FF or MM couple going, and their preop trans statement about going on the Taboo nights kind of says "we don't like freaks, unless it's freak night". No mention of CD/TV at all.

I'm passing thanks.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Hmmmm.

Good that the pricing structure is standard across all sexes. That's a start!

Bad. The single guy policy is probably going to shoot them in the foot, as some on this thread have already mentioned. But also the undertone of sexism and trans phobia in the front page. The fact they define a couple to only be MF precludes a FF or MM couple going, and their preop trans statement about going on the Taboo nights kind of says "we don't like freaks, unless it's freak night". No mention of CD/TV at all.

I'm passing thanks."

I know!!!! I saw that. No way will I be going all the time that is apparent on their website!!! I’m wondering if they mean that or they’ve just made a poor wording choice. I prefer my club nights to be inclusive for all.

V x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

I think this must be a question of membership and application of a code of conduct ..I’ve been to chams many times as a single guy and never seen any bad behaviour by single guys , worst is the wanderers that circle the club a lot , but even that is not too intrusive. In general the guys are chatty sociable and good fun , fridays are a great atmosphere.

I’ve also been as a couple and it’s just very pleasant. No one is pushy ..it works really well ..

I think in the case of this club it's a good move, had over 3 friends who have had issues with single guys breaking rules there, had issues there too, so would never go back when single guys were allowed still. "

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Was really looking forward to returning to SQ when they reopen in June.

But now, according to the new rules posted on their website, single men are no longer allowed, unless a couple invite a single male along with them.

Such a shame.

I think this must be a question of membership and application of a code of conduct ..I’ve been to chams many times as a single guy and never seen any bad behaviour by single guys , worst is the wanderers that circle the club a lot , but even that is not too intrusive. In general the guys are chatty sociable and good fun , fridays are a great atmosphere.

I’ve also been as a couple and it’s just very pleasant. No one is pushy ..it works really well ..

I think in the case of this club it's a good move, had over 3 friends who have had issues with single guys breaking rules there, had issues there too, so would never go back when single guys were allowed still. "

Well since I and 3 friends were touched after clearly saying no on 3 separate nights, I would have to say that I very much disagree.

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

This is a shame, always had fun nights there even if just chatting in the jacuzzi and lounge area.

It is a real shame they've felt the need to do this, I guess they have struggled to keep a track on the guys who don't understand how to behave in a club environment

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham


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Well since I and 3 friends were touched after clearly saying no on 3 separate nights, I would have to say that I very much disagree."

That is really very sad to hear, not the way to behave at all.

I would like to assure you that the majority of single guys I know on the club scene are very respectful indeed, after all it is a woman's world in the clubs.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Well since I and 3 friends were touched after clearly saying no on 3 separate nights, I would have to say that I very much disagree.

That is really very sad to hear, not the way to behave at all.

I would like to assure you that the majority of single guys I know on the club scene are very respectful indeed, after all it is a woman's world in the clubs. "

I do agree with you, the majority are very respectful. I have been to a fair few clubs and only ever had a problem in one. I think single guys in clubs are great, if any issues are handled well.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There will still be single guys there and they don't have to stick to the couple they are with.

Personally the new rules will suit us better but understand why it doesn't for others.

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

It is a shame, perhaps we just need to couple up in the name of entrance???

Any single lady wanna join me in a visit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this was previously mentioned by a thread but as the OP was the from the club owners and fab don't allow "promoting" inside lockdown it was deleted by admin

there was several couples who had stated that the new single guys rule was a good move and that they would now consider going. surely that is a good thing?

the club has a bad rep for issues relating to the amount of and the behaviour of the single guys and story's of "trains of males" following ladies/couples around and its only safe on the couple only top floor are common from people who we have spoken to and cant be a good rep for a business.

we can say from first hand experiences its unpleasant a night in any club to be pestered all night by single males also competing with each other or prowling around makes a very unrelaxing atmosphere that nobody wants to play in!

there where other nights that where run at the club owners pre covid in their defence and might return that where inclusive of other groups called taboo night that allowed all and there was a kink night also. the rest of the time its a gay sauna so its hardly like they discriminate? plus its probably the only club in the SW that charges single men the same to enter!

we guess its up to the owners to run it how they see fit and could run different nights to suit different groups but a swingers club don't run if its got not enough couples.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"this was previously mentioned by a thread but as the OP was the from the club owners and fab don't allow "promoting" inside lockdown it was deleted by admin

there was several couples who had stated that the new single guys rule was a good move and that they would now consider going. surely that is a good thing?

the club has a bad rep for issues relating to the amount of and the behaviour of the single guys and story's of "trains of males" following ladies/couples around and its only safe on the couple only top floor are common from people who we have spoken to and cant be a good rep for a business.

we can say from first hand experiences its unpleasant a night in any club to be pestered all night by single males also competing with each other or prowling around makes a very unrelaxing atmosphere that nobody wants to play in!

there where other nights that where run at the club owners pre covid in their defence and might return that where inclusive of other groups called taboo night that allowed all and there was a kink night also. the rest of the time its a gay sauna so its hardly like they discriminate? plus its probably the only club in the SW that charges single men the same to enter!

we guess its up to the owners to run it how they see fit and could run different nights to suit different groups but a swingers club don't run if its got not enough couples.

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You need a good mix of everyone I think. You definitely dont want groups of prowling single guys ...particularly if some dont behave well ...

Membership would seem to be a good solution, a good profile on here,a brief chat, an introductory visit where the rules are explained and a zero tolerance approach to anyone that breaches the rules...kicked out ...I've never seen or even heard of an issue at chams...tho I have had one couple be randomly rude to me and if I go with a lady friend it's amazing how rude couples are in homing in on the single lady and ignoring me ...had a few frank words with some couples that were quite pushy

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Our local club and in the many times we have been I can honestly say that we have never felt pestered by any single men at all . Some may watch from afar but that’s all part of the fun isn’t it ?

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay


"Our local club and in the many times we have been I can honestly say that we have never felt pestered by any single men at all . Some may watch from afar but that’s all part of the fun isn’t it ? "

We have only been once to this club to be fair, but we didn't feel harassed at all either. If anything, it was almost all couples and there only seemed to be one or two single guys in, who were occupied for most of the night. As as couple not really looking for other couples or girls, not allowing in single males makes a club less attractive to is. I suppose we could find someone beforehand and invite them to come?

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter


"Our local club and in the many times we have been I can honestly say that we have never felt pestered by any single men at all . Some may watch from afar but that’s all part of the fun isn’t it ?

We have only been once to this club to be fair, but we didn't feel harassed at all either. If anything, it was almost all couples and there only seemed to be one or two single guys in, who were occupied for most of the night. As as couple not really looking for other couples or girls, not allowing in single males makes a club less attractive to is. I suppose we could find someone beforehand and invite them to come? "

It seems like you have read our mind. And we have been loads of times enjoyed it every time we have been. We won’t stop going as we love this place. And Danny and Stuart are brilliant hosts. Fabulous club brilliant facilities and fantastic guests

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By *xploressCouple
over a year ago

Mid Devon

Has anyone visited Steamers Quay since it reopened? How was it? X

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By *unnyb3Man
over a year ago

exeter

Yes I have

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I think a lot of people get a bit confused as their website is split in two.

Steamers Quay is a day time spa/sauna mostly (I think) for gay men?

Swingers Quay opens every Saturday for all with the same facilities.

Not been since they reopened but heard good things!

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By *xploressCouple
over a year ago

Mid Devon

Ah yes, forgot that. Swingers Quay is the bit we're interested to hear about if anyone's been since it reopened

Especially interested to hear if the new rules on single guys has made any difference and was it busy? x

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By *xploressCouple
over a year ago

Mid Devon

With shock news that Secrets has closed down, where will all the Secrets refugees end up going?

Swingers Quay or the new place Within Temptation (both Torquay) surely have to be the main contenders?

Nobody wants to go to a quiet club so we'll be watching this space with interest. Any feedback on how you got on at either, especially was it busy and how was it with single guys (not overrun?). Lots of eyes and ears wanting to find out I suspect.

S&S xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh Cornwall needs a club! I was wanting to go to the free event at Within Temptation but all the hotels etc in Torquay are really expensive for a couple!!

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By *exOnLegsPlymCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Tbh Cornwall needs a club! I was wanting to go to the free event at Within Temptation but all the hotels etc in Torquay are really expensive for a couple!! "

How about an AirBnB in Torquay?

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Tbh Cornwall needs a club! I was wanting to go to the free event at Within Temptation but all the hotels etc in Torquay are really expensive for a couple!! "

Weve just looked at torquay for next weekend and even air b and b is over a hundred quid!!

Cornwall Council wont approve a club sadly.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"With shock news that Secrets has closed down, where will all the Secrets refugees end up going?

Swingers Quay or the new place Within Temptation (both Torquay) surely have to be the main contenders?

Nobody wants to go to a quiet club so we'll be watching this space with interest. Any feedback on how you got on at either, especially was it busy and how was it with single guys (not overrun?). Lots of eyes and ears wanting to find out I suspect.

S&S xx"

We dont know we are now at a loss for next weekend!! Childcare was all set. But torquay hotel prices are shocking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few people have mentioned hotel prices? No surprises there as Devon and Cornwall are a few inches lower into the sea at the moment due to the amount of holiday makers! its the summer holidays and the staycation factor

Just suppose its one of the side effects of being in the English Rivera/Torbaydos place is full in the summer months and you don't see any chain hotels it's all independents IIRC

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"With shock news that Secrets has closed down, where will all the Secrets refugees end up going?

Swingers Quay or the new place Within Temptation (both Torquay) surely have to be the main contenders?

Nobody wants to go to a quiet club so we'll be watching this space with interest. Any feedback on how you got on at either, especially was it busy and how was it with single guys (not overrun?). Lots of eyes and ears wanting to find out I suspect.

S&S xx"

Is the new place not Steamer Quay refurbished?

It is on the same road.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"With shock news that Secrets has closed down, where will all the Secrets refugees end up going?

Swingers Quay or the new place Within Temptation (both Torquay) surely have to be the main contenders?

Nobody wants to go to a quiet club so we'll be watching this space with interest. Any feedback on how you got on at either, especially was it busy and how was it with single guys (not overrun?). Lots of eyes and ears wanting to find out I suspect.

S&S xx

Is the new place not Steamer Quay refurbished?

It is on the same road."

No two different clubs

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By *un24.7Man
over a year ago

South Devon


"With shock news that Secrets has closed down, where will all the Secrets refugees end up going?

Swingers Quay or the new place Within Temptation (both Torquay) surely have to be the main contenders?

Nobody wants to go to a quiet club so we'll be watching this space with interest. Any feedback on how you got on at either, especially was it busy and how was it with single guys (not overrun?). Lots of eyes and ears wanting to find out I suspect.

S&S xx

Is the new place not Steamer Quay refurbished?

It is on the same road."

Yeah 100% two different places. They are in the Center of town but not on the same street.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Few people have mentioned hotel prices? No surprises there as Devon and Cornwall are a few inches lower into the sea at the moment due to the amount of holiday makers! its the summer holidays and the staycation factor

Just suppose its one of the side effects of being in the English Rivera/Torbaydos place is full in the summer months and you don't see any chain hotels it's all independents IIRC "

I appreciate that it's just frustrating. The beauty of secrets was you could stay on site. And most other clubs in the country have accommodation not all but a lot do.

I only mentioned it because it puts a lot of money onto the night

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