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Never been to a cub before, planning too for the first time, all advice welcome

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By *antheman466 OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Me and my FWB thinking of going down to a club, it will be the first time for both of us. Any tips and advice, do's and don'ts would be welcome

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Don't get plastered.

Know your boundaries

Don't expect anything

Chill, talk to people make friends.

Don't presume that all clubs are the same.

And again, relax and talk to people.

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By *antheman466 OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Sounds good

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Make sure you go step-by-step with your partner. Don't get overexcited and assume she (if we're talking about a she) is into something that she's not. Make decisions together on what you do and keep making sure she is comfortable with whatever you guys are up to.

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By *ustKeepSwinging999Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Research which club and which event night is best going to suit both of you. You should get a tour when you arrive to familiarise yourself with layout and rules.

Respect other people's space- no touching unless invited to play. Agree with your partner before hand where boundaries lie. Don't expect to be getting lucky just cos you've paid to get in. Enjoy the social side - after all it's an evening out. Don't stare, don't be a wanking-dead creep

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By *amara69Woman
over a year ago

west midlands

Totally fun to go very liberating n people that go are so nice n friendly

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Me and my FWB thinking of going down to a club, it will be the first time for both of us. Any tips and advice, do's and don'ts would be welcome"

just talk to people.... not every conversation is an invitation to play! we were all new once so we know what people are likely to be feeling....

oh.. and don't be a tit! thats just a general rule!

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