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" Where does it say £15.00 for a woman? " Plus 1 single women are £5. Single men and single women cannot go alone, they must be with a m/f couple. | |||
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"Actually. It states that if the measures prove successful they will allow single males at a later date. From the 17th of July. So the £15 for a plus one would mean a plus one woman. " For clarification.... For the first 2 weeks it will be couples only costing ¥25.00 for entry. If the couple choose to bring a single man with them it will be an additional £15.00. If they bring a single female it will be £5.00. | |||
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"Thanks for clarification. I see the website says "to comply with government guidelines guests must stay 1m apart". I thought the guidelines were still 2m unless there are additional precautions like masks or perspex screens. " https://news-sky-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/news.sky.com/story/amp/coronavirus-two-metre-rule-reduced-as-pubs-and-restaurants-in-england-given-green-light-to-reopen-from-4-july-12013085?amp_js_v=a3&_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQFKAGwASA%3D#aoh=15935085209471&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&_tf=From%20%251%24s&share=https%3A%2F%2Fnews.sky.com%2Fstory%2Fcoronavirus-two-metre-rule-reduced-as-pubs-and-restaurants-in-england-given-green-light-to-reopen-from-4-july-12013085 Bit of long URL bit states 1m at some point in it | |||
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"Thanks for clarification. I see the website says "to comply with government guidelines guests must stay 1m apart". I thought the guidelines were still 2m unless there are additional precautions like masks or perspex screens. " We will look into this and make sure guidelines are respected. | |||
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"£25 quid!, pub it is then." Thought you were dead against social gatherings like clubs and pubs? Protect the NHS and all that | |||
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"I'm not against establishments that have the correct measures in place, and don't charge to get in. " Ah right. So you won't be attending then? | |||
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"God no, I doubt the rules will be adhered to in any of these clubs, people are meeting already on this site, so I doubt people will behave in these establishments. " So why comment on the post if you have no intention of attending? | |||
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"Because I don't like to see people being ripped off, £25!" So are you advising people against attending the club? | |||
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"Because I don't like to see people being ripped off, £25!" We're happy to pay that. I enjoy the club and the facilities even in there limited state. Whilst your opinion is valid, people are more than capable of deciding if they want to go and if its worth it. We'll make our own mind up, thanks. | |||
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"I'm not against establishments that have the correct measures in place, and don't charge to get in. " so clubs should let you in for free ? Clubs don’t have overheads ? | |||
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"If I came with a couple...this couple, are they in my bubble, do I have to keep a safe distance from them?" You stated you were not attending under any circumstances. So this makes your question irrelevant to owners and organisers. | |||
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"If I came with a couple...this couple, are they in my bubble, do I have to keep a safe distance from them? You stated you were not attending under any circumstances. So this makes your question irrelevant to owners and organisers. " It was hypothetical | |||
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"If I came with a couple...this couple, are they in my bubble, do I have to keep a safe distance from them? You stated you were not attending under any circumstances. So this makes your question irrelevant to owners and organisers. It was hypothetical " OK. | |||
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"God no, I doubt the rules will be adhered to in any of these clubs, people are meeting already on this site, so I doubt people will behave in these establishments. So why comment on the post if you have no intention of attending?" Open forum, people can comment on any thread, unless they are causing a nuisance. Questioning if a venue is complying to government guidelines isn't a problem. But I will keep an eye. | |||
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"If I came with a couple...this couple, are they in my bubble, do I have to keep a safe distance from them? You stated you were not attending under any circumstances. So this makes your question irrelevant to owners and organisers. It was hypothetical OK." Valid question. I have my own. If I drive my ford cortina into space how many miles would I get to the gallon? Asking for a friend... | |||
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"God no, I doubt the rules will be adhered to in any of these clubs, people are meeting already on this site, so I doubt people will behave in these establishments. So why comment on the post if you have no intention of attending?" Because the OP asked the question | |||
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"If I came with a couple...this couple, are they in my bubble, do I have to keep a safe distance from them? You stated you were not attending under any circumstances. So this makes your question irrelevant to owners and organisers. It was hypothetical OK. Valid question. I have my own. If I drive my ford cortina into space how many miles would I get to the gallon? Asking for a friend... " Is it classed as driving if you are in space? Asking for a friend... | |||
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"God no, I doubt the rules will be adhered to in any of these clubs, people are meeting already on this site, so I doubt people will behave in these establishments. So why comment on the post if you have no intention of attending? Open forum, people can comment on any thread, unless they are causing a nuisance. Questioning if a venue is complying to government guidelines isn't a problem. But I will keep an eye." Agreed. | |||
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"God no, I doubt the rules will be adhered to in any of these clubs, people are meeting already on this site, so I doubt people will behave in these establishments. " it clearly states that the guidelines and safety measures WILL be in place , please do not surmise that these will not be enforced or adhered to prior to the club even opening its doors , you are purely speculating | |||
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"Out of curiosity for the Pandoras team. Are playrooms / dungeon open? As long as we keep in our bubble?" no , it is purely for social interaction as there will be no facilities to shower / dress down etc | |||
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"Great news and a beginning to getting back to somewhat ‘normal.’ I would hate for any club to go under so fully support them all reopening. Good luck " we really appreciate your positive comments and support. It what we are all hoping for too, whilst clubs are getting some stick for opening (albeit legally and with measures in place ) we care very much about the current pandemic and our lovely customers that attend too ! Our intentions are never to put anyone at risk and , as a business, all we are trying to do is stay afloat and provide a safe and comfortable environment to have some time out now it’s allowed !! | |||
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"Great news and a beginning to getting back to somewhat ‘normal.’ I would hate for any club to go under so fully support them all reopening. Good luck we really appreciate your positive comments and support. It what we are all hoping for too, whilst clubs are getting some stick for opening (albeit legally and with measures in place ) we care very much about the current pandemic and our lovely customers that attend too ! Our intentions are never to put anyone at risk and , as a business, all we are trying to do is stay afloat and provide a safe and comfortable environment to have some time out now it’s allowed !! " You’ll never please everyone so stop trying x | |||
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" Pandora in Leeds is having a soft opening on Saturday the 4th of July. No social mixing, no lockers or changing room, no showers, no Jacuzzi, no pool, no sauna, temperature taken before entry. Couples only with a plus 1 or 2 single. £25 per couple, £15 per plus 1. Be interesting to know how many will go for it - would you? " Also, none of the play rooms will be open, so no sneaky trips upstairs. I really like Pandora, but is this a premature opening? | |||
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"I wish Pandora’s every success on their opening night tomorrow. It’s clearly my favourite club. I’ve had some great times there. Unfortunately due to personal reasons I cannot attend tomorrow but hope to see you all soon... xxxxxx " thank you for your good wishes, hope to see you soon xxx | |||
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"Actually. It states that if the measures prove successful they will allow single males at a later date. From the 17th of July. So the £15 for a plus one would mean a plus one woman. For clarification.... For the first 2 weeks it will be couples only costing ¥25.00 for entry. If the couple choose to bring a single man with them it will be an additional £15.00. If they bring a single female it will be £5.00." Tbh I'm getting a bit fed up of all this revolving round couples... think I will wait for quest to open .... | |||
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"I am not a member and sadly say I have never been to that club, but like all other businesses it has been closed down for the last 3 months I don't think that club had been opened for very long before it had to close it's doors. Like all other businesses it will still have it bills to paid it's a case of use it or possibly loose it. So many businesses going out of business due to this pandemic. What is £25 for a night out it's not much considering we all be locked indoors for months and moaning about not being able to meet up. Once you've met people there who to say what goes on when you go back home. oops did I type that out loud." The guy who owns the club does not need the money trust me!!! | |||
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"I am not a member and sadly say I have never been to that club, but like all other businesses it has been closed down for the last 3 months I don't think that club had been opened for very long before it had to close it's doors. Like all other businesses it will still have it bills to paid it's a case of use it or possibly loose it. So many businesses going out of business due to this pandemic. What is £25 for a night out it's not much considering we all be locked indoors for months and moaning about not being able to meet up. Once you've met people there who to say what goes on when you go back home. oops did I type that out loud. The guy who owns the club does not need the money trust me!!! " He’s done well in life then - good for him | |||
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"I am not a member and sadly say I have never been to that club, but like all other businesses it has been closed down for the last 3 months I don't think that club had been opened for very long before it had to close it's doors. Like all other businesses it will still have it bills to paid it's a case of use it or possibly loose it. So many businesses going out of business due to this pandemic. What is £25 for a night out it's not much considering we all be locked indoors for months and moaning about not being able to meet up. Once you've met people there who to say what goes on when you go back home. oops did I type that out loud. The guy who owns the club does not need the money trust me!!! " Great, free entry for everyone...except couples | |||
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"I am not a member and sadly say I have never been to that club, but like all other businesses it has been closed down for the last 3 months I don't think that club had been opened for very long before it had to close it's doors. Like all other businesses it will still have it bills to paid it's a case of use it or possibly loose it. So many businesses going out of business due to this pandemic. What is £25 for a night out it's not much considering we all be locked indoors for months and moaning about not being able to meet up. Once you've met people there who to say what goes on when you go back home. oops did I type that out loud. The guy who owns the club does not need the money trust me!!! " I don’t think the thread is about how much money the owner has...... | |||
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"i'd rather get tinder gold. much more chance me getting some action from that. " Action is not allowed at Pandora’s or any club that is opening soon because of Covid. I think people are being negative and it’s not nice. If you don’t like Pandora’s opening then move on to another thread rather than leave snidey negative comments! | |||
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" Action is not allowed at Pandora’s or any club that is opening soon because of Covid. " Decadence will allow a couple who live together to play. | |||
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" Action is not allowed at Pandora’s or any club that is opening soon because of Covid. Decadence will allow a couple who live together to play. " Not all couples live together though. | |||
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"Amazing all negative comments on here. End of day everyone has a choice you either can go to Pandora or not. As for cost christ do you expect to get in for free?. The owner has overheads to cover. People are complaining about £25 to get in, how much would you spend going to a pub?, be a dam sight more. As for not been able to play that is down to the Covid situation and club has followed government guidelines which think you will find all clubs will have to follow. So maybe stop moaning about it and support the clubs or you might find there isn’t many left next year. I for one will be as I made so many great friends and had amazing nights going to clubs " But £25 to pay and go sit on a couch in your own social bubble?..... You may as well stay at home and do that for free!! | |||
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"Perhaps think of swinging a little like “fishing” eg it’s not called “catching” for a reason. People who fish - pick a day, a spot set themselves up to “catch” - still spent money on travel, bait, equipment, food etc. If the don’t catch - they can still enjoy the countryside, take in the views, chat with the other fishers & go home very happily having some time out, from everyday hum drum. Having not caught a fish this time, but maybe next time. Just a thought !!" And remember it's not how deep you fish. It's how you wiggle your worm !!!!! | |||
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"Perhaps think of swinging a little like “fishing” eg it’s not called “catching” for a reason. People who fish - pick a day, a spot set themselves up to “catch” - still spent money on travel, bait, equipment, food etc. If the don’t catch - they can still enjoy the countryside, take in the views, chat with the other fishers & go home very happily having some time out, from everyday hum drum. Having not caught a fish this time, but maybe next time. Just a thought !! And remember it's not how deep you fish. It's how you wiggle your worm !!!!!" | |||
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"Perhaps think of swinging a little like “fishing” eg it’s not called “catching” for a reason. People who fish - pick a day, a spot set themselves up to “catch” - still spent money on travel, bait, equipment, food etc. If the don’t catch - they can still enjoy the countryside, take in the views, chat with the other fishers & go home very happily having some time out, from everyday hum drum. Having not caught a fish this time, but maybe next time. Just a thought !!" Maybe .... don't think it's quite the same.... It's a bit like going out for a meal ordering a 10oz steak, chips and sides paying £15 and then not getting the steak!! | |||
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"Perhaps think of swinging a little like “fishing” eg it’s not called “catching” for a reason. People who fish - pick a day, a spot set themselves up to “catch” - still spent money on travel, bait, equipment, food etc. If the don’t catch - they can still enjoy the countryside, take in the views, chat with the other fishers & go home very happily having some time out, from everyday hum drum. Having not caught a fish this time, but maybe next time. Just a thought !! Maybe .... don't think it's quite the same.... It's a bit like going out for a meal ordering a 10oz steak, chips and sides paying £15 and then not getting the steak!!" They still have overheads gas, electric, staff to pay etc but you still wouldn't pay full price for the meal | |||
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"Pandora in Leeds is having a soft opening on Saturday the 4th of July. No social mixing, no lockers or changing room, no showers, no Jacuzzi, no pool, no sauna, temperature taken before entry. Couples only with a plus 1 or 2 single. £25 per couple, £15 per plus 1. Be interesting to know how many will go for it - would you?" I’d rather buy some tinnies and sit on the wall outside! At least it’ll be more relaxed | |||
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"I just think it's overpriced, not complaining about the fact no physical contact is allowed to take place. " I agree x | |||
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"Never been to this particular club but its great to see clubs trying to come back from this. To everybody thinking its a rip off please remember a club does have overheads like any other business and we should try and support them in these difficult times in anyway we can . Don't use em we will loose em . Xxxx good luck guys " Yes it has overheads...but then so do pubs and they're not charging to get in...I agree they should charge as no one in their right mind would expect to get in a private club for nothing but I think £25 a cpl (pre covid price) is too much | |||
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"Amazing all negative comments on here. End of day everyone has a choice you either can go to Pandora or not. As for cost christ do you expect to get in for free?. The owner has overheads to cover. People are complaining about £25 to get in, how much would you spend going to a pub?, be a dam sight more. As for not been able to play that is down to the Covid situation and club has followed government guidelines which think you will find all clubs will have to follow. So maybe stop moaning about it and support the clubs or you might find there isn’t many left next year. I for one will be as I made so many great friends and had amazing nights going to clubs " Going to a pub ... they won't charge you entry fee though. Yes you will purchase a drink/drinks but so will the clubs whether it be soft drinks or alcohol (if they're licensed) | |||
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"Pandora in Leeds is having a soft opening on Saturday the 4th of July. No social mixing, no lockers or changing room, no showers, no Jacuzzi, no pool, no sauna, temperature taken before entry. Couples only with a plus 1 or 2 single. £25 per couple, £15 per plus 1. Be interesting to know how many will go for it - would you?" No sorry I wouldn't...all for supporting the clubs but charging pre covid price for none of the facilities, it's not justified | |||
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" Pandora's is far more spacious than Quest. " 'Space' is directly proportional to the number of customers allowed in. | |||
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"Conflicting information on another string, "Quest", is saying that clubs are still not allowed to open, even for a social. " Take a little look at my response to your comment on the Quest thread xxxx | |||
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"Also Quest has a narrow corridor from the foyer into the club which Pandora's doesn't. " There is no way Quest could meet the criteria for re-opening. It’s far too small at the best of times. It’s a factor that has put me off going along with a number of other reasons. | |||
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" There is no way Quest could meet the criteria for re-opening. It’s far too small at the best of times " It's doubtful that any sex club could meet the current criteria for opening regardless of size. Quest is roughly the same size as most others clubs, it and all the others are only 'small' when compared with Pandora which is cavernous. | |||
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" There is no way Quest could meet the criteria for re-opening. It’s far too small at the best of times It's doubtful that any sex club could meet the current criteria for opening regardless of size. Quest is roughly the same size as most others clubs, it and all the others are only 'small' when compared with Pandora which is cavernous. " I'm sure you mean swingers club, not sex club. Some clubs are massive and can easily maintain social distancing. We're not one of them unfortunately but there are plenty out there xxx | |||
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" There is no way Quest could meet the criteria for re-opening. It’s far too small at the best of times It's doubtful that any sex club could meet the current criteria for opening regardless of size. Quest is roughly the same size as most others clubs, it and all the others are only 'small' when compared with Pandora which is cavernous. " Pandora’s and Quest are not sex clubs. Goodness this is how men think! They are swingers clubs. Swinging is not just about sex. | |||
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" There is no way Quest could meet the criteria for re-opening. It’s far too small at the best of times It's doubtful that any sex club could meet the current criteria for opening regardless of size. Quest is roughly the same size as most others clubs, it and all the others are only 'small' when compared with Pandora which is cavernous. Pandora’s and Quest are not sex clubs. Goodness this is how men think! They are swingers clubs. Swinging is not just about sex." Get real, without the sexual element of 'swingers' clubs there would be no swingers clubs! | |||
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" Last night (Saturday 4th July) I was asked by my friends at club Pandora's if I would be a volunteer and help serve drinks to the customers at the table as they were not allowed to use the bar. We had face mask and gloves so we did not touch the drink cans and disposable plastic glasses with unprotected hands. Sanitisers were placed on all tables and at the reception along with social distancing tape on the sofas and 2 meter dots on the floor. Temperature was taken on arrival with a contactless thermometer. We had good feedback from all who attended. Social distancing and the one way system that was in place was maintained and respected. No play rooms were open, but the people who attended were enjoying catching up and talking with old and new friends. Leeds city council told club Pandoras to observe the government guidelines on social distancing and no playing. This was met. If anyone feels that you can't have a good time talking and socialise with other people and not having sex, please attend the next social (thats why its called a social) and be provided wrong. I hope to see everyone next time please stay safe and enjoy what you have. " Sounds like a fetish heaven! | |||
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"Xtasia was busy last night and it was a very successful night. So it is definitely possible and obviously needed for those that see clubs as swingers clubs and not sex clubs xxx" excellent so glad to hear xtasia had a successful night .. great club | |||
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" There is no way Quest could meet the criteria for re-opening. It’s far too small at the best of times It's doubtful that any sex club could meet the current criteria for opening regardless of size. Quest is roughly the same size as most others clubs, it and all the others are only 'small' when compared with Pandora which is cavernous. Pandora’s and Quest are not sex clubs. Goodness this is how men think! They are swingers clubs. Swinging is not just about sex. Get real, without the sexual element of 'swingers' clubs there would be no swingers clubs!" Why do you feel the need to be negative on this thread? If you don’t like the thread then move along! I repeat Pandora’s and Quest are NOT sex clubs, they are swingers clubs end of! | |||
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"It was a good night. I hope you can attend next Saturday. Everyone is always welcome. ??" I would love to attend but they are not allowing single females and I’m a regular attendee.... | |||
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" Why do you feel the need to be negative on this thread? If you don’t like the thread then move along! I repeat Pandora’s and Quest are NOT sex clubs, they are swingers clubs end of! " Firstly this is my thread, I am the OP so am entitled to my opinion. I am not negative, I am realistic and wish the subject to be discussed sensibly. Also, however you may wish to describe them, swingers clubs are sex clubs, they would not exist anywhere in the world without the sexual element. | |||
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" Why do you feel the need to be negative on this thread? If you don’t like the thread then move along! I repeat Pandora’s and Quest are NOT sex clubs, they are swingers clubs end of! Firstly this is my thread, I am the OP so am entitled to my opinion. I am not negative, I am realistic and wish the subject to be discussed sensibly. Also, however you may wish to describe them, swingers clubs are sex clubs, they would not exist anywhere in the world without the sexual element. " That made me howl!! My thread! lol A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. The misconception that they are one and the same is often the reason why some guys don't do very well on the scene, because they go with an expectation of sex. Go to a sex club if you want guaranteed sex. | |||
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" Why do you feel the need to be negative on this thread? If you don’t like the thread then move along! I repeat Pandora’s and Quest are NOT sex clubs, they are swingers clubs end of! Firstly this is my thread, I am the OP so am entitled to my opinion. I am not negative, I am realistic and wish the subject to be discussed sensibly. Also, however you may wish to describe them, swingers clubs are sex clubs, they would not exist anywhere in the world without the sexual element. That made me howl!! My thread! lol A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. The misconception that they are one and the same is often the reason why some guys don't do very well on the scene, because they go with an expectation of sex. Go to a sex club if you want guaranteed sex. " well said !! | |||
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" A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. Thanks for stating the obvious. However, name me one swingers club that would exist if there were no sexual element? " I didn't say there wasn't a sexual element. I said that a swingers club doesn't guarantee sex...a sex club does. They are very different entities. | |||
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" Why do you feel the need to be negative on this thread? If you don’t like the thread then move along! I repeat Pandora’s and Quest are NOT sex clubs, they are swingers clubs end of! Firstly this is my thread, I am the OP so am entitled to my opinion. I am not negative, I am realistic and wish the subject to be discussed sensibly. Also, however you may wish to describe them, swingers clubs are sex clubs, they would not exist anywhere in the world without the sexual element. That made me howl!! My thread! lol A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. The misconception that they are one and the same is often the reason why some guys don't do very well on the scene, because they go with an expectation of sex. Go to a sex club if you want guaranteed sex. " Hear hear, well said, this is exactly right. Personally I have attended swingers clubs, not sex clubs as the OP is confused about, for mainly social because I won’t walk into a pub alone yet I know that I’m welcome at a swingers club and I’ve sat at the bar or around the club feeling confident that there is no pressure on me to have sex and woe betide and man who tells me why am I at the club if I will not have sex! That kind of man I would avoid and report to the staff. | |||
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"Nice to know Pandora is opened their doors well done! Love the place very nice venue! Shame we didn't know about last night. Members of the club def must to support it! See you next Saturday xxx" can’t wait to see you ! Yes, all went well and we a grateful to the members that came for working with us , in what is a new way of operating for all of us at present . All support we receive is gratefully appreciated xx | |||
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" Why do you feel the need to be negative on this thread? If you don’t like the thread then move along! I repeat Pandora’s and Quest are NOT sex clubs, they are swingers clubs end of! Firstly this is my thread, I am the OP so am entitled to my opinion. I am not negative, I am realistic and wish the subject to be discussed sensibly. Also, however you may wish to describe them, swingers clubs are sex clubs, they would not exist anywhere in the world without the sexual element. That made me howl!! My thread! lol A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. The misconception that they are one and the same is often the reason why some guys don't do very well on the scene, because they go with an expectation of sex. Go to a sex club if you want guaranteed sex. well said !! " i second that ! | |||
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" A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. Thanks for stating the obvious. However, name me one swingers club that would exist if there were no sexual element? I didn't say there wasn't a sexual element. I said that a swingers club doesn't guarantee sex...a sex club does. They are very different entities." So, no sexual element no swingers club? To appease those that are offended by calling the clubs the majority attend to have sex, a 'sex club', in future I'll refer to them as swingers clubs. By the way, where are these 'sex' clubs where sex is guaranteed? Are you not referring to brothels? | |||
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" A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. Thanks for stating the obvious. However, name me one swingers club that would exist if there were no sexual element? I didn't say there wasn't a sexual element. I said that a swingers club doesn't guarantee sex...a sex club does. They are very different entities. So, no sexual element no swingers club? To appease those that are offended by calling the clubs the majority attend to have sex, a 'sex club', in future I'll refer to them as swingers clubs. By the way, where are these 'sex' clubs where sex is guaranteed? Are you not referring to brothels?" The majority may attend to have sex but it’s not guaranteed end of. I repeat Pandora’s is a swingers club, not a sex club and sex is NOT guaranteed. Which bit of this do you not understand OP? | |||
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" A sex club is somewhere that may employ ladies (or guys) to guarantee sex to those who pay an entrance fee. There are a few around and about and they are fairly open about the fact that they employ escorts. People attend expecting sex and will get it. There may be a bit of socialising to settle nerves but sex is the sole reason for attending. A swingers club is a social environment where sex is not guaranteed. The venue sets the scene but the rest is down to the attendees who are all consenting and not paid to provide services. MANY people attend swingers clubs to socialise in a liberating atmosphere with like minded people. Some people attend our place for a night out, dance to live music, party hard etc.. rather than go into the City which can be full of idiots. Many ladies come for a night out during their period with no intention of playing, but they still want a night out. Swingers clubs are very different to sex clubs. Thanks for stating the obvious. However, name me one swingers club that would exist if there were no sexual element? I didn't say there wasn't a sexual element. I said that a swingers club doesn't guarantee sex...a sex club does. They are very different entities. So, no sexual element no swingers club? To appease those that are offended by calling the clubs the majority attend to have sex, a 'sex club', in future I'll refer to them as swingers clubs. By the way, where are these 'sex' clubs where sex is guaranteed? Are you not referring to brothels?" Sorry for my delayed response, I was just banging my head against a wall. I'm not repeating myself again. You just enjoy your sex clubs and I'll enjoy my swingers clubs and we can agree to disagree as there's bigger fish to fry than superlatives xxx | |||
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" I would love to attend but they are not allowing single females and I’m a regular attendee.... " I think on a previous thread Pandora said single females could attend the socials for £5 | |||
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" I would love to attend but they are not allowing single females and I’m a regular attendee.... I think on a previous thread Pandora said single females could attend the socials for £5" Yes with a couple as an extra 1 but I don’t wish to attend with a couple. | |||
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" Yes with a couple as an extra 1 but I don’t wish to attend with a couple." How do the guidelines work ? Are you only allowed to chat to the person or couple you arrived with ? | |||
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" Yes with a couple as an extra 1 but I don’t wish to attend with a couple. How do the guidelines work ? Are you only allowed to chat to the person or couple you arrived with ? " Last night the music was on low and the couples sat on the sofas that were spaced correctly. I have to say the vibe was good and people deffonatly talked more. | |||
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"Talk to other couples if you want, keep to social distancing and remember no more than 6 to a group. Come along if you want to see for yourself and don't listen to others who were not being part of pandoras first social. I was there as a volunteer server and saw people enjoying the social scene. " cracking job you did too !! (Although you definitely looked like a serial killer in your gloves and mask ) | |||
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"Talk to other couples if you want, keep to social distancing and remember no more than 6 to a group. " Is it correct that indoors the six can only come from two households ? | |||
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"Talk to other couples if you want, keep to social distancing and remember no more than 6 to a group. Is it correct that indoors the six can only come from two households ?" yes, and must arrive together. We are admitting ‘bubbles’ , the bubble you come in is the bubble you must stay in . You may, of course , chat with other bubbles but must keep the social distance from them | |||
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"How was last night at Pandora's ?" Great night very safe environment and a good relaxed evening | |||
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"Absolutely great social last night! Was nice having table service! So relaxing and chilled night! Met some great couples can’t wait for next time! " glad you enjoyed! Was great to see you thank you so much for your positive feedback. Hopefully see you again soon xx | |||
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"Why pay to go in a club just to socialise at a social distance might as well go to a pub for free " Well your not going to pub for free are you??? So compare last night? £25 per couple £15 bottle vodka £6 soft drinks! Then fuel or taxi depending where you live = £51 for a couple for all evening! Go up town easy between £5-£7 per drink! How many would a couple drink from 8pm till 2am mmmmm think about it???? | |||
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"So you can sit and chat to anyone in the club if you're 2 metre away? (I struggle to hear someone right next to me at the best of times lol) " 1 metre away live the law changed!!!! The sofas are set out so you can sit next to your partner and then chat to person on next sofa??? Back ground music so still can chat there was absolutely no issue at all | |||
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" 1 metre away live the law changed!!!! " The law changed to 1m if masks are worn or plastic screens are in place. Otherwise it is still 2m. | |||
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"So you can sit and chat to anyone in the club if you're 2 metre away? (I struggle to hear someone right next to me at the best of times lol) 1 metre away live the law changed!!!! The sofas are set out so you can sit next to your partner and then chat to person on next sofa??? Back ground music so still can chat there was absolutely no issue at all " That sounds like normal times the place is spread out anyway! | |||
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"Because I don't like to see people being ripped off, £25!" That's pretty standard price for a couple to attend a club. I don't get your issue? You're not a couple, you're not planning on attending so why are you here? | |||
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"Because I don't like to see people being ripped off, £25! That's pretty standard price for a couple to attend a club. I don't get your issue? You're not a couple, you're not planning on attending so why are you here? " It may well be pretty standard but that price was for full use of facilities.. sauna jacuzzi showers pool play rooms etc as its only social and no events could have at least dropped price by a tenner but that's just my opinion and I didn't like that I'm basically forced to attend with a couple bc I'm single when I have no interest in couples atm x so think I will wait till back to at least some better form of normality xx | |||
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"Because I don't like to see people being ripped off, £25! That's pretty standard price for a couple to attend a club. I don't get your issue? You're not a couple, you're not planning on attending so why are you here? It may well be pretty standard but that price was for full use of facilities.. sauna jacuzzi showers pool play rooms etc as its only social and no events could have at least dropped price by a tenner but that's just my opinion and I didn't like that I'm basically forced to attend with a couple bc I'm single when I have no interest in couples atm x so think I will wait till back to at least some better form of normality xx" | |||
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"Still be good to get out and have some fun. We love people watching us play so that’s still good. And we love watching others Excellent " It is social only. No playing allowed. | |||
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"Still be good to get out and have some fun. We love people watching us play so that’s still good. And we love watching others Excellent It is social only. No playing allowed. " What! So it's chatting and no fucking even with ourselves? | |||
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"Still be good to get out and have some fun. We love people watching us play so that’s still good. And we love watching others. Excellent. It is social only. No playing allowed. What! So it's chatting and no fucking even with ourselves? " Just chatting, play rooms are not open. | |||
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"If I came with a couple...this couple, are they in my bubble, do I have to keep a safe distance from them?" ffs if you don’t want to go don’t go then and don’t worry ya self what others are doing | |||
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"So what’s Pandora like for (socially) meeting other people at the moment. Don’t want to go out this weekend and find an empty club??" never empty on friday and saturday | |||
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"Went last night for the first time. Wet area was closed but upstairs was open for play. We went up and had a look but didn’t play ourselves but people were. Leeds city council said they were allowed" Was it ‘couples’ who live together playing or other? I don’t understand the +1 with a couple! | |||
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"First time we have been out out since Covid, and to be fair, the club is as safe if not safer than some pubs we have seen! Temperature checks on the way in, hand sanitiser everywhere, one way system if busy, 2m markers in the floor. All done very well. So well in fact I think this is one of the only clubs that could flourish as a hook up ‘pub’ in this era (for play to maybe occur at home or hotels if people want to take the risk) They made it clear that couples who live together may play (and bubbles as defined by law) in their own room. No playing and swapping with other couples was the instruction we were given. Must have been 30ish people there last night in a fab socially distanced environment " I assumed there was no play at Pandora’s, even if you are living together? Surely that is dangerous for others using the room after them, or does an elite cleaning team go in and sanitise. I hope Pandora’s don’t get caught allowing play if it’s against government guidelines. | |||
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" I hope Pandora’s don’t get caught allowing play if it’s against government guidelines. " On this thread someone posts that Leeds City Council says play at Pandora is permissible. I am suprised, especially considering how close Pandora is to lockdown Bradford | |||
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"We’re thinking of giving pandora a go but wasn’t sure there would be many people there but sounds like the weekend was quite good so will venture over this weekend " Think of it as a pub with swingers not a swingers-club. Good night out still... might see you there | |||
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"We’re thinking of giving pandora a go but wasn’t sure there would be many people there but sounds like the weekend was quite good so will venture over this weekend Think of it as a pub with swingers not a swingers-club. Good night out still... might see you there" Would be great to meet you. From a safe distance obviously haha | |||
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