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By *andkitten2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Does anyone have an idea when the clubs open? First night will be packed! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boris hasn't made any announcements specifically about swingers clubs but I'm sure he will, in time.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Boris hasn't made any announcements specifically about swingers clubs but I'm sure he will, in time."

Do you think he will really make an announcement specifically about swingers clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When swimming pools,saunas,gyms open then hopefully that's when we will see clubs reopening but there are no guarantees.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

When they are told it’s all clear to so just be patient

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By *eathersnlustCouple
over a year ago

stoke

think a trip to the hairdressers first, for myself ...

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Does anyone have an idea when the clubs open? First night will be packed! X"

2021

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I dont think they will be packed if people are still concerned about catching the virus....post vaccination things will pick up in my view.

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I would say September or October

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Boris hasn't made any announcements specifically about swingers clubs but I'm sure he will, in time.

Do you think he will really make an announcement specifically about swingers clubs?"

Well he already did once!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The Swinging Minister is confirming later in the week when clubs will open

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Boris hasn't made any announcements specifically about swingers clubs but I'm sure he will, in time.

Do you think he will really make an announcement specifically about swingers clubs?

Well he already did once!"

Really? When and what did he say?

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When swimming pools,saunas,gyms open then hopefully that's when we will see clubs reopening but there are no guarantees."

Swimming pools are hoping to reopen with rules on 4th july.

Swinging clubs will be much later

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"I would say September or October "

PHE have already said that adult entertainment (clubs categorised as that ) won’t be opening in 2020. Theatres have said the same and you think Sep/Oct for clubs?!

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By *old1974Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Major doom mongerers on here. Some Clubs will reopen as soon as possible prob aug or sept I predict or go too the wall.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Major doom mongerers on here. Some Clubs will reopen as soon as possible prob aug or sept I predict or go too the wall."

You’ll be disappointed ??

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Just read this, I know its Ireland but surely they ain't running the whole covid operation to differently?

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1034446

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By *andkitten2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone

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By *andkitten2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Folkestone


"When they are told it’s all clear to so just be patient "

Calm down pumpkin, I’m not in a rush. As the post says, does anyone know...

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"When they are told it’s all clear to so just be patient

Calm down pumpkin, I’m not in a rush. As the post says, does anyone know..."

No. There are alot if threads on the same subject and the andwer is simply NO.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Major doom mongerers on here. Some Clubs will reopen as soon as possible prob aug or sept I predict or go too the wall."

Evidence? Or just wishful thinking?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think the next lockdown review is the 25th of June, maybe there will be more information about what and when things can reopen following that.

I'm have no idea if we have to wait till we finally reach stage 1 for it be safe for clubs to open, or if there is a chance they could be someway they could open safely when we get to stage 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Major doom mongerers on here. Some Clubs will reopen as soon as possible prob aug or sept I predict or go too the wall."

It's got nothing to do with "Doom Mungerers" it's to do with realism.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"When they are told it’s all clear to so just be patient

Calm down pumpkin, I’m not in a rush. As the post says, does anyone know...

No. There are alot if threads on the same subject and the andwer is simply NO."

Yeah and starting to feel a bit like Groundhog Day with the same question over and over it’s frustrating quite a few of us

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If sex clubs are open while any form of social distancing is in place, what's the point.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"I dont think they will be packed if people are still concerned about catching the virus....post vaccination things will pick up in my view."

People weren`t that concerned a month ago when they invaded the beaches of Dorset, tombstoning off anywhere high and with disastrous consequences, getting d*unk and fighting and just generally acting stupidly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant people who attend clubs just take a couple signs with them and tell the authorities the are protesting or something. We may have to break some shit too but it's fine the clubs can open up to hundreds at a time but it's all good they will just turn a blind eye incase they offend someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant people who attend clubs just take a couple signs with them and tell the authorities the are protesting or something. We may have to break some shit too but it's fine the clubs can open up to hundreds at a time but it's all good they will just turn a blind eye incase they offend someone "

Taking a swipe at anti-racism protestors in a forum thread about swingers clubs. Didn't think it was possible but cracking work there Karen.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I think the next government review is 29th June when hopefully restaurants , pubs and clubs get to hear if they can reopen and if social distancing will be reduced from 2 metres to 1 metre.With regards to adult clubs , leisure centres , spas I am guessing they will be part of that review.Again I am guessing but I think adult clubs could open in September.When the adult clubs open I guess we all have a decision to make.Do we feel comfortable going to a club and perhaps not playing , do we go to a club and play straight away if someone takes our fancy ,will we even go to clubs.There is no right or wrong it all boils down to what we are comfortable with.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I dont think they will be packed if people are still concerned about catching the virus....post vaccination things will pick up in my view."

Totally agree with this. Equally I don't think everyone will be clamouring to be crammed into their local pubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen on here, that the Irish clubs are planning on reopening at the end of July. So that's promising

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't believe how many people are still looking to meet and still meeting now. Didn't realise for some sex is the be all and end all!

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By *ornykinkycouple84Couple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I think a few people are missing something. Swinging clubs aren't somewhere where you socially distance from people and because of that I dont see swinging clubs opening before Mass gatherings are again allowed and social distancing is a thing of the past. Even if the rule is cut to 1m really cant see them opening until like I say social distancing is no longer needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think UK clubs won't open till next year, that's just my opinion. Don't come for me.

I'm more looking forward to hairdressers/beauty salons opening up. Also the gym as well.

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By *hristeresa12Couple
over a year ago

Totnes


"I can't believe how many people are still looking to meet and still meeting now. Didn't realise for some sex is the be all and end all!"

Sex will pull you further than dynamite can blow you! Always has, always will.

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I think that the clubs might open just for the social side of things first. But then they’ll have to weigh up if it’s worth it financially. Would be nice to have them open for socials though and we can all get to meet and make new friends

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By *oxiSyxx83Couple
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I’ve just had an email from LB they are opening 4th july

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By *ondoctorMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Jesus has racism got to be in every thread on fabswingers.?

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"I think that the clubs might open just for the social side of things first. But then they’ll have to weigh up if it’s worth it financially. Would be nice to have them open for socials though and we can all get to meet and make new friends "

Choose a club for socialising over a bar anytime

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Jesus has racism got to be in every thread on fabswingers.?"

Agreed, what ever happened to people talking about planning for happy times ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus has racism got to be in every thread on fabswingers.?

Agreed, what ever happened to people talking about planning for happy times ahead."

Couldn’t agree more. We’re already planning lots of happy times a head. Why dwell on a negative when we can all think about the many future positives. X

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By *aintscoupleCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"Boris hasn't made any announcements specifically about swingers clubs but I'm sure he will, in time.

Do you think he will really make an announcement specifically about swingers clubs?"
Anything is possible with boris remember this guy announced that he was allowing complete strangers to sit on a park bench together

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think a few people are missing something. Swinging clubs aren't somewhere where you socially distance from people and because of that I dont see swinging clubs opening before Mass gatherings are again allowed and social distancing is a thing of the past. Even if the rule is cut to 1m really cant see them opening until like I say social distancing is no longer needed "

I think this is probably right.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Jesus has racism got to be in every thread on fabswingers.?

Agreed, what ever happened to people talking about planning for happy times ahead.

Couldn’t agree more. We’re already planning lots of happy times a head. Why dwell on a negative when we can all think about the many future positives. X"

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"When swimming pools,saunas,gyms open then hopefully that's when we will see clubs reopening but there are no guarantees."

My gym NEVER shut and never will

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I dont think they will be packed if people are still concerned about catching the virus....post vaccination things will pick up in my view.

People weren`t that concerned a month ago when they invaded the beaches of Dorset, tombstoning off anywhere high and with disastrous consequences, getting d*unk and fighting and just generally acting stupidly."

Exactly

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Personally I'm in agreement with Elon Musk over this virus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus has racism got to be in every thread on fabswingers.?"

I agree here, seems to be everwhere. This thread is about clubs reopening. Seen a post on here that one is opening on the 4th July with conditions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant people who attend clubs just take a couple signs with them and tell the authorities the are protesting or something. We may have to break some shit too but it's fine the clubs can open up to hundreds at a time but it's all good they will just turn a blind eye incase they offend someone "

Police haven't been turning up to other big events. I reckon this is a plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant people who attend clubs just take a couple signs with them and tell the authorities the are protesting or something. We may have to break some shit too but it's fine the clubs can open up to hundreds at a time but it's all good they will just turn a blind eye incase they offend someone

Taking a swipe at anti-racism protestors in a forum thread about swingers clubs. Didn't think it was possible but cracking work there Karen."

Bore off mate. Probably the most welcoming and inclusive woman on the planet is Amy. No Blowjob for you Mr :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant people who attend clubs just take a couple signs with them and tell the authorities the are protesting or something. We may have to break some shit too but it's fine the clubs can open up to hundreds at a time but it's all good they will just turn a blind eye incase they offend someone

Taking a swipe at anti-racism protestors in a forum thread about swingers clubs. Didn't think it was possible but cracking work there Karen.

Bore off mate. Probably the most welcoming and inclusive woman on the planet is Amy. No Blowjob for you Mr :p"

Great profile name - Heywood guy.

We are all good girls on here, BTW

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"I can't believe how many people are still looking to meet and still meeting now. Didn't realise for some sex is the be all and end all!

Sex will pull you further than dynamite can blow you! Always has, always will."

How true that is!

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Maybe the clubs could put some letters on the wall so everyone attending would be able to say that they are just checking their eyesight!?

(It worked for Mr Cummings)

Seriously, though, I think it will be a long time before clubs re-open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care when, I'm just excited to head back

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I would say September or October

PHE have already said that adult entertainment (clubs categorised as that ) won’t be opening in 2020. Theatres have said the same and you think Sep/Oct for clubs?! "

Your source for this?

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"I would say September or October

PHE have already said that adult entertainment (clubs categorised as that ) won’t be opening in 2020. Theatres have said the same and you think Sep/Oct for clubs?!

Your source for this?"

Google! Clubs not opening as swinging clubs until social distancing is stopped completely as many here have been saying that's a long way away. September /October is laughable

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

You got one part right clubs can't open as a swingers club but some have licenced bars that can be opened as a regular bar sticking to the government guidelines

They would be a bar people in the lifestyle can go meet up with old friends and chat openly unlike in a regular pub

Owners would enforce lock down rules as any other rule is enforced

Some clubs could lock off play areas so strictly only socials within guidelines

Also hotels can now open theres a few swingers hotels around that rent rooms out to regular public weekdays and only get swingers book in weekends few in Blackpool for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got one part right clubs can't open as a swingers club but some have licenced bars that can be opened as a regular bar sticking to the government guidelines

They would be a bar people in the lifestyle can go meet up with old friends and chat openly unlike in a regular pub

Owners would enforce lock down rules as any other rule is enforced

Some clubs could lock off play areas so strictly only socials within guidelines

Also hotels can now open theres a few swingers hotels around that rent rooms out to regular public weekdays and only get swingers book in weekends few in Blackpool for sure"

Try telling that to your local licensing authority.

"honest mate we might be a swingers club but if you give us a licence we promis to cordon off our play areas and everyone will socially distance"

Hahaha hahaha I can picture the licence guy and his mates at the office as a bug red x is marked on the application.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I would say September or October

PHE have already said that adult entertainment (clubs categorised as that ) won’t be opening in 2020. Theatres have said the same and you think Sep/Oct for clubs?!

Your source for this?

Google! Clubs not opening as swinging clubs until social distancing is stopped completely as many here have been saying that's a long way away. September /October is laughable"

Where did PHE say that adult entertainment venues won't be opening in 2020. I looked and couldn't find a single announcement by PHE stating that.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"You got one part right clubs can't open as a swingers club but some have licenced bars that can be opened as a regular bar sticking to the government guidelines

They would be a bar people in the lifestyle can go meet up with old friends and chat openly unlike in a regular pub

Owners would enforce lock down rules as any other rule is enforced

Some clubs could lock off play areas so strictly only socials within guidelines

Also hotels can now open theres a few swingers hotels around that rent rooms out to regular public weekdays and only get swingers book in weekends few in Blackpool for sure

Try telling that to your local licensing authority.

"honest mate we might be a swingers club but if you give us a licence we promis to cordon off our play areas and everyone will socially distance"

Hahaha hahaha I can picture the licence guy and his mates at the office as a bug red x is marked on the application. "

You was already told on another thread by a club owner they already have a licence they don't need to apply for one

You really need to read

A council official could visit anytime and clubs know this so rules wouldn't be broken

You have commented negatively on every club post

If you really think the 2m rule is here to stay I really don't know why ur on here

You said on another forum swingers

could meet at their local pub n chat

Do you really think people want to discuss their swapping in a pub where someone may know them and overhear what is being said

Or do you think couples will travel miles to meet like minded couples in a regular bar where conversations still might be heard

When there is a local club offering drinking space with other people in the lifestyle

Within government guidlines

Also have you heard hotels can now open did you know there are a few swinging friendly hotels around such as Blackpool shock I know

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I would say September or October

PHE have already said that adult entertainment (clubs categorised as that ) won’t be opening in 2020. Theatres have said the same and you think Sep/Oct for clubs?!

Your source for this?

Google! Clubs not opening as swinging clubs until social distancing is stopped completely as many here have been saying that's a long way away. September /October is laughable

Where did PHE say that adult entertainment venues won't be opening in 2020. I looked and couldn't find a single announcement by PHE stating that. "

They haven't

Clubs that can't stick to guidelines can't open so opening as a swingers club is a no no for yet

And can anyone really see Boris standing up and saying from the 10th of July swingers clubs can open for fun

Same as councils they will only send letters out offering government guidelines to all licenced premises any that can't impliment the guidelines will have to stay shut

But a licenced bar can open as a bar as long as guidence is adhered to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got one part right clubs can't open as a swingers club but some have licenced bars that can be opened as a regular bar sticking to the government guidelines

They would be a bar people in the lifestyle can go meet up with old friends and chat openly unlike in a regular pub

Owners would enforce lock down rules as any other rule is enforced

Some clubs could lock off play areas so strictly only socials within guidelines

Also hotels can now open theres a few swingers hotels around that rent rooms out to regular public weekdays and only get swingers book in weekends few in Blackpool for sure

Try telling that to your local licensing authority.

"honest mate we might be a swingers club but if you give us a licence we promis to cordon off our play areas and everyone will socially distance"

Hahaha hahaha I can picture the licence guy and his mates at the office as a bug red x is marked on the application.

You was already told on another thread by a club owner they already have a licence they don't need to apply for one

You really need to read

A council official could visit anytime and clubs know this so rules wouldn't be broken

You have commented negatively on every club post

If you really think the 2m rule is here to stay I really don't know why ur on here

You said on another forum swingers

could meet at their local pub n chat

Do you really think people want to discuss their swapping in a pub where someone may know them and overhear what is being said

Or do you think couples will travel miles to meet like minded couples in a regular bar where conversations still might be heard

When there is a local club offering drinking space with other people in the lifestyle

Within government guidlines

Also have you heard hotels can now open did you know there are a few swinging friendly hotels around such as Blackpool shock I know "

The pub was mentioned kind of tounge n cheek, oh never mind.

Yes I do know about swingers hotels in Blackpool. I don't think you yourself realise hotels will now be under strict guidelines, it is not just a matter of booking in and out as used to, rooms sanitised procedure and the same criteria will be used for them as in swingers clubs when licensing is given. You mention clubs already have a licence, I think these will be null and void as are ones at present for gyms, nightclubs and spas. They are not allowed to open under their old licence until the government and the proper licencing inspectorate deems them fit..

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No licence is null and void they where on hold until social distancing is reduced

Every pub that has a licence before this won't have to re apply

There licence will be valid and will only be revoked if they don't stick to the guidlines issued by the council

So if a club can meet all guidelines and open purely as a social club then they will be fine to to so

I agree a few may feel that they may not cover overheads and feel it's not worth opening but others will go for it

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We can't wait for our favourite club to open again as long as they still do daytime events.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We have no intention of meeting other people for play meets until we feel its safer to do so

But if our local clubs opened as social only bars we would happily attend

We can meet friends who we have known in the scene who we haven't seen throughout lock down or chat to others freely without worry of being overheard by a neighbour in our local

And if our few quid spent behind the bar helps keep a club open then it's a win win situation all round

Hotels will be the hardest for councils to control as nothing stops 2 couples having separate rooms and meeting up to play

Clubs are easier to enforce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No licence is null and void they where on hold until social distancing is reduced

Every pub that has a licence before this won't have to re apply

There licence will be valid and will only be revoked if they don't stick to the guidlines issued by the council

So if a club can meet all guidelines and open purely as a social club then they will be fine to to so

I agree a few may feel that they may not cover overheads and feel it's not worth opening but others will go for it

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Oh come on !!

Clubs are kept alive by the membership and admission money the single guys pay.

They men pay that in the hope of getting a fuck.

If there is no sex the men wont come.

The clubs wont be kept alive by a few couples "erotically socializing"

You can do that in the pub or at private house meets

No sex = no men = no income

It's a no-brainer.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"No licence is null and void they where on hold until social distancing is reduced

Every pub that has a licence before this won't have to re apply

There licence will be valid and will only be revoked if they don't stick to the guidlines issued by the council

So if a club can meet all guidelines and open purely as a social club then they will be fine to to so

I agree a few may feel that they may not cover overheads and feel it's not worth opening but others will go for it

Oh come on !!

Clubs are kept alive by the membership and admission money the single guys pay.

They men pay that in the hope of getting a fuck.

If there is no sex the men wont come.

The clubs wont be kept alive by a few couples "erotically socializing"

You can do that in the pub or at private house meets

No sex = no men = no income

It's a no-brainer."

This is untrue, couples make up alot of a clubs income.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


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No sex = no men = no income.

This is untrue, couples make up a lot of a clubs income.

"

All the clubs I've been to, here and abroad, would not exist without the takings from single men.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


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No sex = no men = no income.

This is untrue, couples make up a lot of a clubs income.

All the clubs I've been to, here and abroad, would not exist without the takings from single men.

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And you've asked every club owner?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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All the clubs I've been to, here and abroad, would not exist without the takings from single men.

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What about Fata Morgana, for example, which is couples only ?

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By *niquezCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Clubs are kept alive by the membership and admission money the single guys pay.

They men pay that in the hope of getting a fuck.

If there is no sex the men wont come.

The clubs wont be kept alive by a few couples "erotically socializing"

You can do that in the pub or at private house meets

No sex = no men = no income

It's a no-brainer."

About 40% of our income come from single guys, the rest comes from couples, cafe and liquid sales

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"

No sex = no men = no income.

This is untrue, couples make up a lot of a clubs income.

All the clubs I've been to, here and abroad, would not exist without the takings from single men.

And you've asked every club owner?

What about Fata Morgana, for example, which is couples only ?

"

I said the clubs I've been to.

And clearly, I haven't been to a couples only club as a single male.

Also, don't forget that many couples would not attend if there were no single males to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is an unnecessary debate, theres enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

No sex = no men = no income.

This is untrue, couples make up a lot of a clubs income.

All the clubs I've been to, here and abroad, would not exist without the takings from single men.

And you've asked every club owner?

What about Fata Morgana, for example, which is couples only ?

I said the clubs I've been to.

And clearly, I haven't been to a couples only club as a single male.

Also, don't forget that many couples would not attend if there were no single males to play with."

Yet couples nights are generally very busy in most clubs.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"

No sex = no men = no income.

This is untrue, couples make up a lot of a clubs income.

All the clubs I've been to, here and abroad, would not exist without the takings from single men.

And you've asked every club owner?

What about Fata Morgana, for example, which is couples only ?

I said the clubs I've been to.

And clearly, I haven't been to a couples only club as a single male.

Also, don't forget that many couples would not attend if there were no single males to play with.

Yet couples nights are generally very busy in most clubs."
. On Saturday at OP4F in London is couples only however they allow 5 single select guys to come along as long as they apply to attend on the Saturday and are selected to attend at midnight.On the occasions that I have attended Saturday nights are busy.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Couples only nights are always busier

More and more couples are looking to both play and avoid single guy nights

We have visited many clubs around the UK and enjoy couples only nights way more you don't get the cock wombles following you around hoping to get a look at what's going on

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Well this is an unnecessary debate, theres enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social "

I am not planning on paying £30 for a social and no jacuzzi

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Well this is an unnecessary debate, there's enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social.

I am not planning on paying £30 for a social and no jacuzzi

"

I honestly cannot see how any sex club will be able to open until social distancing has ended. Think about toilets, changing rooms, showers, sauna, how are these going to be kept constantly sanitised. How would the one metre rule, and use of the rooms etc. be policed?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Well this is an unnecessary debate, there's enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social.

I am not planning on paying £30 for a social and no jacuzzi

I honestly cannot see how any sex club will be able to open until social distancing has ended. Think about toilets, changing rooms, showers, sauna, how are these going to be kept constantly sanitised. How would the one metre rule, and use of the rooms etc. be policed? "

I bet a lot open back up and all play to happen because as you say...who is going to police them

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

They will probably be opening as social evenings only just like any other bar. As most are members only Establishments already they will have details In place for track and trace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give the police free entry.

Problem solved.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Well this is an unnecessary debate, there's enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social.

I am not planning on paying £30 for a social and no jacuzzi

I honestly cannot see how any sex club will be able to open until social distancing has ended. Think about toilets, changing rooms, showers, sauna, how are these going to be kept constantly sanitised. How would the one metre rule, and use of the rooms etc. be policed?

I bet a lot open back up and all play to happen because as you say...who is going to police them.

"

So then there's a cluster of covid cases from the club and it has to close for quarantine - never to open again?

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Clubs are opening as regular pubs for people in the lifestyle

No play allowed and within council guidence restrictions in place

Clubs that open will already of had measures in place and will of gotten council permission

Believe it or not they are not sex clubs they are places people from the swing lifestyle go to socialise aswell as play

If play is off the menu many will still go to socialise with others from the scene

As for a load of covid cases being caused by them with the restrictions they have had to adhere to they won't be no more risky than a regular pub

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"

Well this is an unnecessary debate, there's enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social.

I am not planning on paying £30 for a social and no jacuzzi

I honestly cannot see how any sex club will be able to open until social distancing has ended. Think about toilets, changing rooms, showers, sauna, how are these going to be kept constantly sanitised. How would the one metre rule, and use of the rooms etc. be policed? "

Showers saunas nor play rooms will be open try reading some of the clubs policies that are ready with councils permission to open on the 4th

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

Old London Town

Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?"

2022?

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"

Well this is an unnecessary debate, there's enough negativity about in current circumstances so let's try and be positive about clubs opening even for the social.

I am not planning on paying £30 for a social and no jacuzzi

I honestly cannot see how any sex club will be able to open until social distancing has ended. Think about toilets, changing rooms, showers, sauna, how are these going to be kept constantly sanitised. How would the one metre rule, and use of the rooms etc. be policed?

I bet a lot open back up and all play to happen because as you say...who is going to police them.

So then there's a cluster of covid cases from the club and it has to close for quarantine - never to open again?"

Clusters of COVID-19 haven't closed anywhere else permanently???

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

2022? "

September 2020 more likely, check everywhere is that is already allowed to open or will be by July 4th.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without feeling the wrath of Kitten Tamer why don’t we switch tact and rather than go down the banners and mass group protest route !! instead why don’t we all wear a Dominic Cummings mask cos then we really can do anything we bloody want.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Give the police free entry.

Problem solved."

You can actually get into trouble for that, but those I know, are more than happy to just pay the same as everyone else

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Clubs are opening as regular pubs for people in the lifestyle

No play allowed and within council guidence restrictions in place

Clubs that open will already of had measures in place and will of gotten council permission

Believe it or not they are not sex clubs they are places people from the swing lifestyle go to socialise aswell as play

If play is off the menu many will still go to socialise with others from the scene

As for a load of covid cases being caused by them with the restrictions they have had to adhere to they won't be no more risky than a regular pub"

The principal issue is that pups make their profits from the sale of alcohol - and most swinging clubs don’t have a license to sell alcohol.

Realistically - how much will people pay to go into a swingers club where no swinging is allowed?

I don’t have the answer btw - I’m just pondering!

I’d love to see swinging clubs open soon - but sadly doubt they will! Xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can seeing it all going tits up, no-one is going to social distance after one or two too many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many people will pay an entrance fee to go and sit in a 'pub' and that's all they will become. Take away the lure and excitement of something that may happen, take this away and that's all they become a 'pub' and an expensive one.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Me I will

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

There are a few that's opening and non have mentioned entrance fee

Like many have said they are going to be open as a regular pub where like minded people can meet have a drink and a chat

Play areas will be locked off and strict guidence will be adhered to

All government rules will be strictly stuck to

So in short clubs are opening 4th July but just for socialising

Good job someone never took the bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without feeling the wrath of Kitten Tamer why don’t we switch tact and rather than go down the banners and mass group protest route !! instead why don’t we all wear a Dominic Cummings mask cos then we really can do anything we bloody want.

"

Won't hear any complaints from me. Call the place Barnard Castle and call the night a comprehensive eye test.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a few that's opening and non have mentioned entrance fee

Like many have said they are going to be open as a regular pub where like minded people can meet have a drink and a chat

Play areas will be locked off and strict guidence will be adhered to

All government rules will be strictly stuck to

So in short clubs are opening 4th July but just for socialising

Good job someone never took the bet"

Good luck then and hope they do survive. But, a now non fee paying pub/club, some with non alcohol sales. Can't see it.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"There are a few that's opening and non have mentioned entrance fee

Like many have said they are going to be open as a regular pub where like minded people can meet have a drink and a chat

Play areas will be locked off and strict guidence will be adhered to

All government rules will be strictly stuck to

So in short clubs are opening 4th July but just for socialising

Good job someone never took the bet

Good luck then and hope they do survive. But, a now non fee paying pub/club, some with non alcohol sales. Can't see it. "

Clubs will adapt and some survive. Your negativity is tiresome.

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

mobile


"When swimming pools,saunas,gyms open then hopefully that's when we will see clubs reopening but there are no guarantees."
it's a tricky one grey areas

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Dancing is banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me I will "

Me too

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

mobile

Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

2022?

September 2020 more likely, check everywhere is that is already allowed to open or will be by July 4th."

Social distancing is going to end completely in just over 2 months?! Get real!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social"

Which club is charging £40?

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?"

Dunno. Just looked at tickets for Le Boudoir sold out opening night and they are £70 a couple!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?"

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple"
ouch. Then again it's only £35 each and i can appreciate most places opening now are going to hike up prices after losing income over the last 3/4 mths . Iam expecting cuts and income and vat taxes rising across the board too

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple"

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that! "

We have missed going clubs but not enough to pay those prices just yo socialise

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that! "

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't find a price on the websites for Purple Mamba or Clubf.

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that! "

Agree with you on that look at all the ribeye steak you could get for £70

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Agree with you on that look at all the ribeye steak you could get for £70 "

Never paid more than 20 as a couple.my mrs would go nuts if I suggested it especially right now,moneys tight.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that! "

Agree! £70 for a social..jeezz Would need to be one hell of a social for that!

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By *NightingaleCouple
over a year ago

Watching

With you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

2022?

September 2020 more likely, check everywhere is that is already allowed to open or will be by July 4th.

Social distancing is going to end completely in just over 2 months?! Get real! "

I think September as well. Localised restrictions in areas of the UK where there is spikes but where there isn't no restrictions.

This isn't and has never been about saving lives. Only having increased capacity to protect (and not overwhelm) health care systems. The abolishment of the daily press conference's is to get us all to stop talking and thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone have an idea when the clubs open? First night will be packed! X"
im sure that all the clubs around the country are working closely with there local counicl and health and safety to open them asap. We are x x Sum restriction may be put it place to get them open x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple ouch. Then again it's only £35 each and i can appreciate most places opening now are going to hike up prices after losing income over the last 3/4 mths . Iam expecting cuts and income and vat taxes rising across the board too"

Yep. Food bill's could be going up by as much as 15%. Also how do you think pubs will pay for all the extra staff. £7 a pint in most places by years end. All this economic inactivity needs paying for. We are the ones who will be expected to foot the bill.

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By *ancs_tgirl_38TV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Most clubs I go to, only charge a tenner and you can take your own booze

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

2022?

September 2020 more likely, check everywhere is that is already allowed to open or will be by July 4th.

Social distancing is going to end completely in just over 2 months?! Get real!

I think September as well. Localised restrictions in areas of the UK where there is spikes but where there isn't no restrictions.

This isn't and has never been about saving lives. Only having increased capacity to protect (and not overwhelm) health care systems. The abolishment of the daily press conference's is to get us all to stop talking and thinking about it. "

So all social distancing is going to end in 2 months?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

2022?

September 2020 more likely, check everywhere is that is already allowed to open or will be by July 4th.

Social distancing is going to end completely in just over 2 months?! Get real!

I think September as well. Localised restrictions in areas of the UK where there is spikes but where there isn't no restrictions.

This isn't and has never been about saving lives. Only having increased capacity to protect (and not overwhelm) health care systems. The abolishment of the daily press conference's is to get us all to stop talking and thinking about it.

So all social distancing is going to end in 2 months?!"

Were working with the local council to make sure swing fest goes ahead because its mainly out doors and stil 10wks away, things are looking promising and tickets are selling well, we are also working with the council to get hu9 club open, but this wil come with restrictions. And we wil be dropping the price to keep our members happy, puting ur price up is unfare . There is a light at the end of the tunnel x x #keeppostive #urchoice

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"There are a few that's opening and non have mentioned entrance fee

Like many have said they are going to be open as a regular pub where like minded people can meet have a drink and a chat

Play areas will be locked off and strict guidence will be adhered to

All government rules will be strictly stuck to

So in short clubs are opening 4th July but just for socialising

Good job someone never took the bet

Good luck then and hope they do survive. But, a now non fee paying pub/club, some with non alcohol sales. Can't see it. "

Negativity again

Why

The so named clubs that are reopening have licenced bars or hotels attached to them

From what I've seen there's a lot of positive response from people looking forward to attending even if it means no play

Can't see why anyone finds it so hard to understand swinging is not just about sex it's the social part of it too

Plenty are looking forward to a drink and a catch up with friends on the scene and to meet new people for when restrictions are gone

Every club post that's come up you have posted a negative response

And this time your wrong clubs are opening people will visit even if no sexual activity can take place

The lifestyle is not about sex only

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Haven't heard of clubs pricing from many but I'm sure they will be happy with what they can make on a bar

If there was a small entrance fee we would still attend as we just want to be able to talk laugh and have a good night in the company of others on the scene

Great way of networking for when restrictions are lifted

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By *AB FRiDAYCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk, Lincs, Cambs and

Funny that @ Glasgow1965 states he wasn’t going to bore us with his negative comments again until December when he would return and clubs still wouldn’t be open.

Now that you (and other negatives on here) are wrong, let’s hear what you would do if you were a Lifestyle venue holder.

C’mon tell all those club owners what you would do in your expert opinion. Go on, show us you can be positive.......there must be some hope for you.

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By *rs DeviantsWoman
over a year ago

london

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By *nkedkinkybibbwWoman
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

A club is in same category as casino nightclub and we are still furloughed in casino

.. we thought it was going to be july but doubtful... maybe August or September reopen.. who knows boris only seems to open things he wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is not going to end well for some people

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Well this is not going to end well for some people.

"

It's a pity we can't all have an opinion without attracting abuse from others. People are being accused of negativity when actually trying to be realistic. I for one agree with those being realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well this is not going to end well for some people.

It's a pity we can't all have an opinion without attracting abuse from others. People are being accused of negativity when actually trying to be realistic. I for one agree with those being realistic. "

The reason is social media, people today surround themselves with people who only share their world view. As soon as they encounter someone with a different opinion to themselves they shout, scream and insult, its all they know.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yep

Realistic clubs are opening for social nights only great news for people who love the lifestyle n not just interested in getting their leg over

Look forward to making a visit or two and catch up with friends on the scene

Bit like going to a regular pub but without pretending or keeping chat quiet about what we all enjoy

Well done to all clubs for taking these small steps to give people the choice of where to have a drink

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"

Well this is not going to end well for some people.

It's a pity we can't all have an opinion without attracting abuse from others. People are being accused of negativity when actually trying to be realistic. I for one agree with those being realistic.

The reason is social media, people today surround themselves with people who only share their world view. As soon as they encounter someone with a different opinion to themselves they shout, scream and insult, its all they know."

Could also have something to do with just being anticubs

We welcome a place we can go to have a drink with like minded people

If that's all clubs are allowed to offer at this time then so be it we will be happy to socialise within restrictions of course

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By *lubshhh...Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Clubs are classed along side spas so any club shouldn't b reopening just yet club shhh is keeping its doors closed a while longer

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No spa no sauna no play rooms no Jacuzzis can be open inside clubs but if have licenced bar they can open as a private licensed bar

Bit like working mens club but for the lifestyle

Strict council guidelines have had to be met and covid measures put into place

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I've deleted posts

Please keep things polite, and within rules, or find a different type of thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep

Realistic clubs are opening for social nights only great news for people who love the lifestyle n not just interested in getting their leg over

Look forward to making a visit or two and catch up with friends on the scene

Bit like going to a regular pub but without pretending or keeping chat quiet about what we all enjoy

Well done to all clubs for taking these small steps to give people the choice of where to have a drink

"

^ this.....and I don't care how much entrance is.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

We have two clubs in Leeds, Pandora and Quest, neither of which are updating their websites with any information.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"We have two clubs in Leeds, Pandora and Quest, neither of which are updating their websites with any information."

Some clubs may decide to wait until they can fully open

We are just happy we can plan a night out with other people on the scene

Sex ain't be all and end all to us

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can see both sides to why people will go to the clubs and why some won't. Personallt I wouldn't pay whatever the amount for a drink and chat that you can have anywhere for free without play being involved.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We have two clubs in Leeds, Pandora and Quest, neither of which are updating their websites with any information."

Quest and Pandora's are both unlicensed so I can't see them managing to open as pubs and neither have rooms so they can't open as a hotel.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"

We have two clubs in Leeds, Pandora and Quest, neither of which are updating their websites with any information.

Quest and Pandora's are both unlicensed so I can't see them managing to open as pubs and neither have rooms so they can't open as a hotel.

"

True, but you'd think they'd keep us informed one way or another?

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I can see both sides to why people will go to the clubs and why some won't. Personallt I wouldn't pay whatever the amount for a drink and chat that you can have anywhere for free without play being involved."

This

I can still have that Drink & Chat at the pub or my back garden where it costs me much less or even nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be happy when the barbers reopen as I look like Albert Einstein!!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’"
. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee."

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount."

So do you feel that when you pay to go to a club that you're paying for sex?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount."

I'd rather spend it in a nice restaurant

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By *stvan StevenMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *stvan StevenMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Some swingers clubs in UK feels like graveyards.

Cap d'Agde is where everyone is happy.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount."
. I believe the £70 is a couple entrance fee for Le Boudior on a Saturday night.So yes you could with a partner spend less than £70 by going to a pub , Turkish Restaurant or Nando’s and having a good social night out.However if you went to Le Boudior with your partner and paid the £70 entrance fee you would be meeting like minded couples , making a connection and perhaps when it is deemed safe you maybe able to organise some adult fun. I don’t think there is a right or wrong in this situation it’s about personal preference and doing what is right for yourself.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount.. I believe the £70 is a couple entrance fee for Le Boudior on a Saturday night.So yes you could with a partner spend less than £70 by going to a pub , Turkish Restaurant or Nando’s and having a good social night out.However if you went to Le Boudior with your partner and paid the £70 entrance fee you would be meeting like minded couples , making a connection and perhaps when it is deemed safe you maybe able to organise some adult fun. I don’t think there is a right or wrong in this situation it’s about personal preference and doing what is right for yourself."

You can come on here send a message and take a couple out for nando,s then back to our for a good old fashioned fuck and still have change for wine

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount.. I believe the £70 is a couple entrance fee for Le Boudior on a Saturday night.So yes you could with a partner spend less than £70 by going to a pub , Turkish Restaurant or Nando’s and having a good social night out.However if you went to Le Boudior with your partner and paid the £70 entrance fee you would be meeting like minded couples , making a connection and perhaps when it is deemed safe you maybe able to organise some adult fun. I don’t think there is a right or wrong in this situation it’s about personal preference and doing what is right for yourself.

You can come on here send a message and take a couple out for nando,s then back to our for a good old fashioned fuck and still have change for wine "

Or we can go to our local club for a £10 social which is far more reasonable for most folks on here we think x

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount.. I believe the £70 is a couple entrance fee for Le Boudior on a Saturday night.So yes you could with a partner spend less than £70 by going to a pub , Turkish Restaurant or Nando’s and having a good social night out.However if you went to Le Boudior with your partner and paid the £70 entrance fee you would be meeting like minded couples , making a connection and perhaps when it is deemed safe you maybe able to organise some adult fun. I don’t think there is a right or wrong in this situation it’s about personal preference and doing what is right for yourself.

You can come on here send a message and take a couple out for nando,s then back to our for a good old fashioned fuck and still have change for wine

Or we can go to our local club for a £10 social which is far more reasonable for most folks on here we think x"

They probably have higher running costs than your local club. For some £70 would seem reasonable for others it may not. But if you feel its too much here's the thing you don't have to go

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

We have missed going clubs but not enough to pay those prices just yo socialise "

Yeah - but what’ll really happen? Couples who know each other or like the look of each other will book the same hotel and play there!

I’m condemning no-one. After 3 months I’m sure most of us are doing our own personal risk assessment. If I was young, healthy and not overweight (Ie very likely to have only mild symptoms of covid) with a partner in the same boat - after nearly 4 months of this I’d probably do the same!

And that, I imagine, is why they’re paying the 70 quid! X

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Haha paying 40quid to go for a social

Which club is charging £40?

Le Boudoir's opening night is £70 per couple

£70 ffs people must be desperate if they are willing to pay that!

Yeh, and all that for a ‘social only’. What you have to remember about Le Boudior is it’s in London and generally speaking London clubs are more expensive than clubs outside of London.Also If I remember correctly they moved premises to a bigger more luxurious club not too far from the old club.Also Le Boudior reviews on the Fabs club reviews pages were mostly fabulous they do have a strong loyal members following so when I take all that into account me personally it doesn’t surprise me too much that couples are willing to pay £70 entrance fee.

I live in London, so I'm aware of the club entry fees.

Some people will pay anything, but I won't spend £70 for a 'social only'.

There are many other ways I can socialise at a fraction of that amount.

So do you feel that when you pay to go to a club that you're paying for sex?"

No I don't feel so, and half the time I've been to clubs I don't even have sex nor expect it.

But other than having sex there are other thing I enjoy while in a club; like watching people play in the open play areas, use the indoor cinema if the club has one, and use other facilities too.

I won't pay £70 to attend for just 'social only'

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Definition wise, clubs can fully open when social distancing ends.

Anyone feel they have a crystal ball to know when that’s going to be?

2022?

September 2020 more likely, check everywhere is that is already allowed to open or will be by July 4th.

Social distancing is going to end completely in just over 2 months?! Get real!

I think September as well. Localised restrictions in areas of the UK where there is spikes but where there isn't no restrictions.

This isn't and has never been about saving lives. Only having increased capacity to protect (and not overwhelm) health care systems. The abolishment of the daily press conference's is to get us all to stop talking and thinking about it. "

So all the plans with plastic, tables etc in pubs and restaurants will all be gone in 2 months?! Football matches will have full crowds in 2 months ?! Gigs will be back etc? Are you on this planet . You can’t be serious! So the virus is going away and so is social distancing in September?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I reckon the plastic will stay.

But the social distancing will get slowly more and more relaxed. Tell you what rather than getting animated why don't you just bookmark and come back to this thread in September

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I reckon the plastic will stay.

But the social distancing will get slowly more and more relaxed. Tell you what rather than getting animated why don't you just bookmark and come back to this thread in September "

The virus is not going anywhere, but you all have to remember the government has already promised all schools to return by September. That doesn't work if social distancing how it is now is still in place. How many Billions is the entertainment industry worth.

Now we have proven we can deal with this without overloading health care systems it will become increasingly about money. What I will say though is to keep your eyes on Houston Texas. Its ICU beds are currently at 98% capacity.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Agree distancing rules will start to ease

Especially when schools return and they open other business's

Not to mention when airports open there are loads of people still looking forward to their summer holidays

Can't keep cancelling flights insurance companies will start claiming from the government

Wait till next April's tax year and every working persons tax allowance is cut so the money can be paid back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree distancing rules will start to ease

Especially when schools return and they open other business's

Not to mention when airports open there are loads of people still looking forward to their summer holidays

Can't keep cancelling flights insurance companies will start claiming from the government

Wait till next April's tax year and every working persons tax allowance is cut so the money can be paid back "

^^^^

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-53182634?fbclid=IwAR2qsvs6XY5Rm7O_5XvlrgjsEiGUvWHCAmjGwGyxuRqH30Dffx4BxiH8zUw

I don't like saying I told you so....

Hang on a second, yes I do.

Please note this is not saying the virus will be gone. Its saying we are being told to live with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples only nights are always busier

More and more couples are looking to both play and avoid single guy nights

We have visited many clubs around the UK and enjoy couples only nights way more you don't get the cock wombles following you around hoping to get a look at what's going on"

Yes but they can’t exist solely on the odd couples night however busy that may be

They need the income from single men

If they could exist on couples only then most nights would be couples only

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Couples only nights are always busier

More and more couples are looking to both play and avoid single guy nights

We have visited many clubs around the UK and enjoy couples only nights way more you don't get the cock wombles following you around hoping to get a look at what's going on

Yes but they can’t exist solely on the odd couples night however busy that may be

They need the income from single men

If they could exist on couples only then most nights would be couples only "

Most clubs have a couples only night and a night for inclusion of single guys

And whilst single guys pay more entrance many don't drink for obvious reasons add that to the fact a lot of couples are put off going to single guy nights unless it's maybe a bmfc night

Couples only nights win hands down OK entrance is slightly less but normally couples get s hotel close so both parties can have a drink so what's lost on entrance fees mors than makes up at the bar not to mention more couples attending couples only nights

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Couples only nights are always busier

More and more couples are looking to both play and avoid single guy nights

We have visited many clubs around the UK and enjoy couples only nights way more you don't get the cock wombles following you around hoping to get a look at what's going on

Yes but they can’t exist solely on the odd couples night however busy that may be

They need the income from single men

If they could exist on couples only then most nights would be couples only "

Most clubs have weekly couples nights that most likely bring in more money than any other night apart from event nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples only nights are always busier

More and more couples are looking to both play and avoid single guy nights

We have visited many clubs around the UK and enjoy couples only nights way more you don't get the cock wombles following you around hoping to get a look at what's going on

Yes but they can’t exist solely on the odd couples night however busy that may be

They need the income from single men

If they could exist on couples only then most nights would be couples only

Most clubs have weekly couples nights that most likely bring in more money than any other night apart from event nights. "

It can absolutely survive couples only. From a selfish perspective I just hope it's not the way it goes. Not all single men are pushy and overbearing.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sad news. Cupids have announced they are never reopening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad news. Cupids have announced they are never reopening. "

I saw this. They decided between morals and money and chose morals.

Hats off to them. Will be sadly missed.

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"No I reckon the plastic will stay.

But the social distancing will get slowly more and more relaxed. Tell you what rather than getting animated why don't you just bookmark and come back to this thread in September "

Yes, I will - just as the 2nd wave is hitting! But if there will be zero social distancing in 2 months, why the plastic etc? Why don't you answer the questions - will full capacity sport be back in 2 months, gigs, theatre etc ?!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Sad news. Cupids have announced they are never reopening. "

Not renewing their lease, not never reopening. The club remains and who knows what the future holds.

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"No I reckon the plastic will stay.

But the social distancing will get slowly more and more relaxed. Tell you what rather than getting animated why don't you just bookmark and come back to this thread in September

The virus is not going anywhere, but you all have to remember the government has already promised all schools to return by September. That doesn't work if social distancing how it is now is still in place. How many Billions is the entertainment industry worth.

Now we have proven we can deal with this without overloading health care systems it will become increasingly about money. What I will say though is to keep your eyes on Houston Texas. Its ICU beds are currently at 98% capacity. "

Maybe read today's announcement from the owners of Cupids that, sadly, they are closing. They know a lot more than you and I, I reckon. They are realistic and understand the situation for the foreseeable future - well beyond September!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Sad news. Cupids have announced they are never reopening.

I saw this. They decided between morals and money and chose morals.

Hats off to them. Will be sadly missed. "

So the clubs that are choosing to reopen in July or wait it out and open later don't have morals?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Le Boudoir is openingi July. Shows how much they care about their clients

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By *exylondongrlWoman
over a year ago

Esher

I should think they care more about their clients than they do about you.

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london

Woww sexy london girlnis really defensive and fighting for leboudoir.. i have seen you attacking anyone that dares have an opinion whether good or bad regarding le boudoir opening.. u must be a real fan for fighting their corner.. well i stand in the middle.. but i think everyone is entitled to their opinion. All the same i cant wait forbthe clubs to start running fully

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By *exylondongrlWoman
over a year ago

Esher

I am a fan. I've declared that. But I'm independent of them.

I just think it's a really well run club.

I 100% accept that people can have an opinion. But I also think that people that make mindless, often petty, comments should get called out.

I know what's coming.. The wagons will circle and it will be a hate campaign against me now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a fan. I've declared that. But I'm independent of them.

I just think it's a really well run club.

I 100% accept that people can have an opinion. But I also think that people that make mindless, often petty, comments should get called out.

I know what's coming.. The wagons will circle and it will be a hate campaign against me now."

There has been no hate campaign against you as far as i can see. nobody has made assumptions about you as a person

but unfortunatly you have felt the need to do that to others so that needs calling out to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I certainly will not be attending any club until the situation is much more under control. Deaths in the teens, cases in the low hundreds? And/ or much more known about treatment. And/ or a vaccine.

And I personally think opening is unwise, and passing judgement on safety is perfectly correct to do.

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