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"It's nice to see people willing to at least have a chat, makes me feel much better about going back to clubs ![]() You'll always find other single guys looking for someone to chat to in a club ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I chat to anyone so ![]() This is me, on the off chance I ever go to one, which is rare ! | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() Best laugh of the night for me, was when I left! I crossed the road to get back to my car, and an Asian guy was parked up in a BMW. As I walked past, he wound the window down and called me over; "Any women in mate?" I said no, it was very quiet inside. "Ahh, ok. Wanna go to a brothel with me? There's one down the road....." Er, no thanks fella....... ![]() | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() Woweee, I left Asylum one night and got hurled with abuse from some teenagers outside the club ![]() | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() ![]() It was similar the night I left Atlantis; two guys sat in a car outside asking "Any women in mate?" I replied "Why do you think I'm leaving at this time?" (it was just after midnight) ![]() | |||
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"I've had similar leaving Chams one night alone. Guy was sat in his car in the car park, winds down his window and asks me if I had had a good night and got what I needed inside ![]() ![]() Happens unfortunately ![]() | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() If you approached us for a chat, then we would happily make conversation. We would however make it perfectly clear we are not interested in single guys. That is the point the single guys normally walk away as in our opinion they are never looking for 'just a chat', they are looking for a route to free sex. | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() I've said this on the forums before and got flamed for it. In my experience, the chat is going well until you say you don't want to play, then they immediately lose interest ![]() ![]() | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() Perhaps you could word your reply more along the lines of "We'll be happy to chat with you, but we're only here for the atmosphere, as we don't swap with anyone"? Just going by your profile note? "We're not interested in single guys" is pretty terminal for a conversation after a single guy has made the effort to approach a couple. I've been in this situation many times, and it makes a club visit a very lonely, and unwelcome experience, when a bit of light-hearted friendly banter would suffice. We're not all uncontrollaby driven by testosterone....... ![]() | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() That seems a little unfair on single guys, they get stick if they don’t try and chat and stick if they do chat. Of course they are there hoping to have fun, just the same as many couples and women. If you tell them you’re not interested it seems reasonable to leave you be and hopefully find somebody else that might be looking. We’d chat to the OP by the way if you struck up a conversation with us. | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() Clubs are for fun yes but its a huge social side to the scene too ....people should be able to chat without it always having to lead up to play ...so leaving the chat as soon as finding out you dont play with guys does feel like that's all the guys are interested in ...we dont leave a conversation just because they dont want to play with us ...its a mixture of both social and play so do understand where your coming from with the first comment xxx | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() Not related to the post but does the tearoom from withnail & I actually exist in Penrith? | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() No mate, the tea rooms were actually filmed in Stony Stratford ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you. Saved me a trip! ![]() | |||
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"I've had similar leaving Chams one night alone. Guy was sat in his car in the car park, winds down his window and asks me if I had had a good night and got what I needed inside ![]() ![]() What a dick x | |||
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"I've had similar leaving Chams one night alone. Guy was sat in his car in the car park, winds down his window and asks me if I had had a good night and got what I needed inside ![]() ![]() Wasn’t in a white transit was he??? Seen him Try that one before, but he asked a female if he could join her in the club? Obviously trying to “secure a play” before he paid! | |||
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"I've had similar leaving Chams one night alone. Guy was sat in his car in the car park, winds down his window and asks me if I had had a good night and got what I needed inside ![]() ![]() No, but I know who you mean. Another time I was arriving early afternoon and he was in his van chatting to another guy who was leaning in through his window. When he saw me crossing the car park he almost knocked his friend flying to get out and ask me if I wanted him to come in with me to 'look after me' ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Penrith is a lovely town, and only a short drive from some of the other Withnail filming locations around Shap ![]() ![]() | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No offence, but we are not here looking for advice on how to chat to single guys in a club. We are polite and friendly to everyone, but to flip this around we have yet to meet a single guy who wants to 'just chat' in a club without the chat ending up in action. Our comment on our profile is very terminal on here and that is exactly as we want it to be. Effort or not, we are happy to chat with anyone in a club, but it is the single guys who walk away, not us. We always enjoy a chat, irrelevant of who or what anyone is. We don't even mind friendly banter, but we have already made our limits clear so friendly banter should be within our boundaries. What is wrong about having a friendly chat without sexual overtones?? We think nothing, but single guys in a club seem to think otherwise. | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() ![]() Think we were there that night. Those chavs were barred and prevented from.even attempting entry. We love asylum becaus it is so discrete . The parking lot at the back and rear entrance only make it so much more private. We really want to get back asap | |||
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"I've been a few times to LC and it's always been plenty of males who dont mind a chat, some couples alone and then a large group of mixed singles and couples. All of which have been welcoming ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah we've met there a few times actually. Once it was like a neon paint night or something. Always fun regardless | |||
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