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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " It's going to really affect the trade. People as a whole are going to be more health aware so clubs closing seems likely | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " Or maybe they will be desperate to get out and enjoy themselves after so long in lockdown. The social side of things could be easy similar to ideas being put out for bars and pubs. Admittedly the play side of things is more difficult but I am sure Club owners are looking at what they can do to facilitate reopening. | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " why wont your wife go again? I will be in the day they open | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx why wont your wife go again? I will be in the day they open " Me too | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " it will be open again when it's all over I love going to infusions | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx why wont your wife go again? I will be in the day they open " Looking forward to see you again soon xx | |||
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"I will be at my local club as soon as it's open " same | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " I'll go to my favourite as soon as it opens, I'll be booking in to stay over night too I've religiously stuck to every lockdown rule and will continue to do so, but as soon as the restrictions are lifted I'll be back at chams | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " Judging by the turnout on the UK's beaches over the last few weeks suggests people might get back "into the swing of things" Cal | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " With so many threads asking the same question it makes me wonder if people are worried or pleased that clubs may not weather the storm ... I for one hope all the clubs survive, the swinging scene would be a very sorry place without them! | |||
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"Let’s put things into perspective, so far world wide 25 million have died of aids , did that stop swingers clubs " That’s very true people adapt humans always have | |||
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"Let’s put things into perspective, so far world wide 25 million have died of aids , did that stop swingers clubs " Aids prevention is the use of condoms. C19 would require a full body version! | |||
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"Swingers clubs (which are businesses) will survive. Some will flourish, some will close, new ones will open. Some people who used to go will carry on, some will stop.,some people who have never been before will start to go and some won’t.... Well said , think some folk on here need to change their username to Doom and Gloom This constant ‘clubs are finished ‘ narrative is quite tiresome. Don’t wish to offend but it is. " | |||
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"Wish they just would get on with it , put controls in place and open. We’re not interested in those who never want to go to a club again that’s there choice, plenty do and they should be preparing to re open soon as other venues , bars, restaurants are doing - sine are even opening now , legally with the right controls " Yes this lets get them open once the pubs are open just lock all the play areas up to keep the councils happy maybe costly for all | |||
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"Wish they just would get on with it , put controls in place and open. We’re not interested in those who never want to go to a club again that’s there choice, plenty do and they should be preparing to re open soon as other venues , bars, restaurants are doing - sine are even opening now , legally with the right controls Yes this lets get them open once the pubs are open just lock all the play areas up to keep the councils happy maybe costly for all " It's not down to us when we open. We need the go ahead to open. Most clubs couldn't open for socials only with the playrooms closed as the distancing and reduced capacity isn't financially viable. Once our local public health say we can open, we will. We are not pubs and we do not fall into the same category as them xx | |||
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"I think there has to be an acceptance of risk from anyone willing to attend clubs once they are able to open again. However that acceptance must be measured and considered. Yes, covid is a potential risk to any of us, but then so is the risk of driving on the road, or perhaps using a cooker in a kitchen. We deal those everyday things with common sense and dealing with covid should be no different. There is a balance between sensible and overkill, between repecting the choices of others by either maintaining a suitable social distance where wanted, keeping your hygiene good, etc but still enjoying yourself or trying to have sex in a hazmat suit. The clubs are obliged to do all they can in their own way, just as we've seen perspex screens go up in shops everywhere. But this will be about adapting to a new normal and that all of us must face. I don't want to worry about 'will the clubs survive this crisis?' I want to be part of the solution that ensures they do, because i miss my time there. I miss seeing my friends and all the mischief that surrounds that. We need to remain positive about finding solutions to whatever adaptions now need to be made. " | |||
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"I think there has to be an acceptance of risk from anyone willing to attend clubs once they are able to open again. However that acceptance must be measured and considered. Yes, covid is a potential risk to any of us, but then so is the risk of driving on the road, or perhaps using a cooker in a kitchen. We deal those everyday things with common sense and dealing with covid should be no different. There is a balance between sensible and overkill, between repecting the choices of others by either maintaining a suitable social distance where wanted, keeping your hygiene good, etc but still enjoying yourself or trying to have sex in a hazmat suit. " 100% agree. Acceptable Risk will be a term that is used a lot in the next year or so. That risk will be different from individual to individual and may also vary in different regions at different times. I have no doubt Clubs and parties will start up again. Some risk takers will have parties and small gatherings as soon as travel restrictions are lifted while others will wait until social distancing is no longer in place and others will wait until its completely safe and socially acceptable. Before lockdown I ran weekly daytime parties. For me I will be waiting until cinemas/theatres/live music venues are operating without distancing restrictions as an indicator on when to begin again but know some will start sooner and others may wait longer. The acceptable risk question will apply to both the guests thinking of attending and the operators running the event/venue. | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " I'll be back when they open. In the queue on the first night. Cannot wait! | |||
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"Wish they just would get on with it , put controls in place and open. We’re not interested in those who never want to go to a club again that’s there choice, plenty do and they should be preparing to re open soon as other venues , bars, restaurants are doing - sine are even opening now , legally with the right controls " | |||
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"We appreciate that but inevitably can't help but worry the longer this goes on clubs will fold. " ...and you think I'm not worrying?! Lol | |||
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"The death of all swinging clubs would effectively spell, for many of us, the death of swinging itself and render it pointless. As a single woman who meets mainly single men I could shag a virtual stranger any time just by walking into a bar and offering an invitation. That idea repulses me quite honestly. Many people who attend clubs regularly are for more interested in the social aspect of the clubs - lasting friendships between swinging couples and singles are formed more there than anywhere else I imagine. Worst case scenario is that those who love the swinging scene/clubs and who have the wherewithall to do so will have to put their money where their mouth is when social distancing ends and help to fund the re-opening of their favourite clubs." I would happily do this. I've been saving my money that I would spend going out and I'll be sure to spend it at the club booking rooms there when I go back | |||
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"The death of all swinging clubs would effectively spell, for many of us, the death of swinging itself and render it pointless. As a single woman who meets mainly single men I could shag a virtual stranger any time just by walking into a bar and offering an invitation. That idea repulses me quite honestly. Many people who attend clubs regularly are for more interested in the social aspect of the clubs - lasting friendships between swinging couples and singles are formed more there than anywhere else I imagine. Worst case scenario is that those who love the swinging scene/clubs and who have the wherewithall to do so will have to put their money where their mouth is when social distancing ends and help to fund the re-opening of their favourite clubs." | |||
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"Me and my husband we definitely go back to clubs when they are safe even if it's just socially " That is so good to hear.. Hopefully we'll see you there!! Xx | |||
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"We appreciate that but inevitably can't help but worry the longer this goes on clubs will fold. ...and you think I'm not worrying?! Lol " Tough times for you guys I hope you survive and flourish in the aftermath! Best of luck! | |||
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"This has been discussed loads on other threads. I'll get the links so it's easy to find them x" Hi vicky me and elwyn hope u reopen again soon as we miss u and Hope u r keeping well xxx | |||
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"I can't see them re-opening for a year or so - if they manage not to go bust in that time. You cant socially distance when you are having sex with someone and that's why people go to them. When clubs, bars and restaurants re-open they will be subject to social distancing for god knows how long, and they will be inspected to ensure they are complying. And if not they will be forced to close by Health and Safety. Until a vaccine is developed and most people have been vaccinated, we can forget the clubs. In the meantime private parties is going to be the only way." Might be a plan to read the umpteen other threads & the contents of this one. Plus & this has already been said club v private party - of course the risk is reduced at a private party !!!!! | |||
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"Covid isn't going away and it's mutating so vaccinations are going to be a very long game. I'm Not living my life like this for the rest of my time. We will see lockdowns more often I'm sure. Adults have to be trusted to make thier own risk assessments and behave responsibly. I don't need to the goverenment to parent me. " | |||
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"The thing is that normal night clubs will reopen and social distancing will be impossible to maintain in those. Swingers clubs generally have a much much higher standard of hygiene than they do. I'm sure we have all been in nightclubs where you stick to the floor and have faced the horrors of a loo on a Saturday night out. In the swing scene the clubs tend to be really strict with cleanliness and I've seen staff clean surfaces every 30 mins and toilets even more. Play rooms are cleaned every time someone uses them and they are generally spotless. The number of patrons is also usually lower and less likely to be d*unk. You try telling your average pissed up nightclub crowd to socially distance and you would find it like juggling water. In a normal nightclub you rub shoulders with hundreds of people a night. I doubt any swingers club can say the same. Yes we have sex with people in clubs but in nightclubs you get practically as close with many more people during a night and those people arnt concerned with being safe and hygienic while getting pissed with their mates. The UK nightclub scene makes millions a year and pays a hell of a lot of taxes. Most pubs are now mini nightclubs on a weekend. As a community we take safety much more seriously than the average pub goer. Life will return to normal-ish and so will clubs. Even Christmas shopping in the lead up to Christmas day is more likely to spread covid than a swingers club and I can't see that changing. Some of the doomsayers make it sound like the swinging club scene is a filthy , disease ridden cesspool and is to be dreaded and avoided on pain of causing the end of humanity rather than the responsible, clean and adult places that they really are." Whilst you are right that some club do take cleanliness seriously unfortunately that isn't the case across the board. Ive never been to a club where a "play" room has been cleaned between use and I haven't seen cleaners walking around during an event either. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I'd suggest it's not the norm. I can't see any way forward for night or swing clubs all the time social distancing is in place. Social distancing will determine the direction and survival of all clubs. | |||
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"We will most certainly be back at townhouse as soon as them doors reopen, and we have no doubt this brilliant club will reopen!! The stark reality of life is if you actually sat down and listed everything you could possibly catch very easily, you’d never ever go out again!!! " The problem isn't the ability to open it's being allowed to which is far more complex. | |||
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"We can't wait to get back to a club. Covid19 is something we are going to have to live with and not much more contagious than seasonal flu which kills thousands every year. " But not 60000 people in 10 weeks! ! | |||
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"The thing is that normal night clubs will reopen and social distancing will be impossible to maintain in those. Swingers clubs generally have a much much higher standard of hygiene than they do. I'm sure we have all been in nightclubs where you stick to the floor and have faced the horrors of a loo on a Saturday night out. In the swing scene the clubs tend to be really strict with cleanliness and I've seen staff clean surfaces every 30 mins and toilets even more. Play rooms are cleaned every time someone uses them and they are generally spotless. The number of patrons is also usually lower and less likely to be d*unk. You try telling your average pissed up nightclub crowd to socially distance and you would find it like juggling water. In a normal nightclub you rub shoulders with hundreds of people a night. I doubt any swingers club can say the same. Yes we have sex with people in clubs but in nightclubs you get practically as close with many more people during a night and those people arnt concerned with being safe and hygienic while getting pissed with their mates. The UK nightclub scene makes millions a year and pays a hell of a lot of taxes. Most pubs are now mini nightclubs on a weekend. As a community we take safety much more seriously than the average pub goer. Life will return to normal-ish and so will clubs. Even Christmas shopping in the lead up to Christmas day is more likely to spread covid than a swingers club and I can't see that changing. Some of the doomsayers make it sound like the swinging club scene is a filthy , disease ridden cesspool and is to be dreaded and avoided on pain of causing the end of humanity rather than the responsible, clean and adult places that they really are." Very true. Most people who go to the clubs I do clean down playrooms when they are done, a lot before they start too! I've come across the odd grotty club & my simple approach is not to go there again. Most people I've met in my decade on the club scene are far more respectful, considered & mature than 90% of the oinks you find yourself rubbing shoulders with at the bar of High Street chain pubs. I'll definitely be heading back to swinging clubs before I spend a Saturday night in a Wetherspoons! | |||
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"The thing is that normal night clubs will reopen and social distancing will be impossible to maintain in those. Swingers clubs generally have a much much higher standard of hygiene than they do. I'm sure we have all been in nightclubs where you stick to the floor and have faced the horrors of a loo on a Saturday night out. In the swing scene the clubs tend to be really strict with cleanliness and I've seen staff clean surfaces every 30 mins and toilets even more. Play rooms are cleaned every time someone uses them and they are generally spotless. The number of patrons is also usually lower and less likely to be d*unk. You try telling your average pissed up nightclub crowd to socially distance and you would find it like juggling water. In a normal nightclub you rub shoulders with hundreds of people a night. I doubt any swingers club can say the same. Yes we have sex with people in clubs but in nightclubs you get practically as close with many more people during a night and those people arnt concerned with being safe and hygienic while getting pissed with their mates. The UK nightclub scene makes millions a year and pays a hell of a lot of taxes. Most pubs are now mini nightclubs on a weekend. As a community we take safety much more seriously than the average pub goer. Life will return to normal-ish and so will clubs. Even Christmas shopping in the lead up to Christmas day is more likely to spread covid than a swingers club and I can't see that changing. Some of the doomsayers make it sound like the swinging club scene is a filthy , disease ridden cesspool and is to be dreaded and avoided on pain of causing the end of humanity rather than the responsible, clean and adult places that they really are." Hear hear! | |||
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"But it’s not just swingers clubs its all clubs and pubs how can you be viable business if everybody has to stay 2 meters apart the days of 10 deep at the bar trying to get a drink are long gone you will have to find a seat before you can even order one and then it will be deliverd to Yr table where you will sit alone or with a member of Yr household They will be no squeezing up in the booth to let Yr mate from work or welcome Doris from the shop for a natter about her at number 34 letting the truck drivers in for an hour all that has gone with social distance the implications for pubs clubs and swingers is massive I’m sorry to say " Now I really want a drink with Doris and her at no34! I bet they've got some stories to tell! | |||
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"The thing is that normal night clubs will reopen and social distancing will be impossible to maintain in those. Swingers clubs generally have a much much higher standard of hygiene than they do. I'm sure we have all been in nightclubs where you stick to the floor and have faced the horrors of a loo on a Saturday night out. In the swing scene the clubs tend to be really strict with cleanliness and I've seen staff clean surfaces every 30 mins and toilets even more. Play rooms are cleaned every time someone uses them and they are generally spotless. The number of patrons is also usually lower and less likely to be d*unk. You try telling your average pissed up nightclub crowd to socially distance and you would find it like juggling water. In a normal nightclub you rub shoulders with hundreds of people a night. I doubt any swingers club can say the same. Yes we have sex with people in clubs but in nightclubs you get practically as close with many more people during a night and those people arnt concerned with being safe and hygienic while getting pissed with their mates. The UK nightclub scene makes millions a year and pays a hell of a lot of taxes. Most pubs are now mini nightclubs on a weekend. As a community we take safety much more seriously than the average pub goer. Life will return to normal-ish and so will clubs. Even Christmas shopping in the lead up to Christmas day is more likely to spread covid than a swingers club and I can't see that changing. Some of the doomsayers make it sound like the swinging club scene is a filthy , disease ridden cesspool and is to be dreaded and avoided on pain of causing the end of humanity rather than the responsible, clean and adult places that they really are. Whilst you are right that some club do take cleanliness seriously unfortunately that isn't the case across the board. Ive never been to a club where a "play" room has been cleaned between use and I haven't seen cleaners walking around during an event either. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I'd suggest it's not the norm. I can't see any way forward for night or swing clubs all the time social distancing is in place. Social distancing will determine the direction and survival of all clubs. " You haven't been to our club then | |||
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"But it’s not just swingers clubs its all clubs and pubs how can you be viable business if everybody has to stay 2 meters apart the days of 10 deep at the bar trying to get a drink are long gone you will have to find a seat before you can even order one and then it will be deliverd to Yr table where you will sit alone or with a member of Yr household They will be no squeezing up in the booth to let Yr mate from work or welcome Doris from the shop for a natter about her at number 34 letting the truck drivers in for an hour all that has gone with social distance the implications for pubs clubs and swingers is massive I’m sorry to say Now I really want a drink with Doris and her at no34! I bet they've got some stories to tell!" | |||
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"Yes, people will go again. Of course they will, people will visit restaurants and bars and footy games. The question is whether the clubs will survive until trade is back to normal levels but the demand will not go away. Sex is a primal need" Sadly some clubs will close and new ones will open. Life will resume as before. | |||
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"We are looking forward to clubs opening again once things have settled down and numbers are close to or none, We would even consider just going for the social until we feel comfortable to have fun again." When numbers are 'close to none' . Presume you mean deaths? Hardly any chance of that happening now. We are still averaging at least 1500 deaths a week, the numbers are hardly falling now despite what we keep to be being told and by all accounts the very real probability of a 2nd wave within a couple months | |||
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"Done a bit of research and looked at a few websites for a few clubs. One club was surprisingly lovely (I don't like the club) wishing it's customers good health and explaining due to government guidelines etc etc. Another club that I particularly like was very informative and factual. Another club had deleted most of its details and it was almost blank. The last club, website up, all details, no mention of c19. You would think it was still open. I really hope that the owners/managers of the responsible clubs that care of their patrons survive. " Trust us to close just when you're back on fab! Typical! Hope you're keeping well gorg xxx | |||
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"Done a bit of research and looked at a few websites for a few clubs. One club was surprisingly lovely (I don't like the club) wishing it's customers good health and explaining due to government guidelines etc etc. Another club that I particularly like was very informative and factual. Another club had deleted most of its details and it was almost blank. The last club, website up, all details, no mention of c19. You would think it was still open. I really hope that the owners/managers of the responsible clubs that care of their patrons survive. Trust us to close just when you're back on fab! Typical! Hope you're keeping well gorg xxx" Closed? But reopening I hope, once this nastyness has gone x x x hope to see you soon | |||
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"Clubs are opening in July in Australia as a social event with limited numbers depending on the size of the club hot rubs and sauna areas will be closed off it will be ran as a normally pub type venue I’m told good luck to them hope it works out for all involved with it It’s a step in the right direction for club owners and swingers alike " Good to hear | |||
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"We are looking forward to clubs opening again once things have settled down and numbers are close to or none, We would even consider just going for the social until we feel comfortable to have fun again. When numbers are 'close to none' . Presume you mean deaths? Hardly any chance of that happening now. We are still averaging at least 1500 deaths a week, the numbers are hardly falling now despite what we keep to be being told and by all accounts the very real probability of a 2nd wave within a couple months " So you keep saying. | |||
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"We will be supporting our favourite club as soo as its open again." Totally agree, so will I | |||
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"In all honesty, I do not envisage clubs reopening for some considerable time - if at all, given the fear which has been engendered....I will certainly miss the Attic..! Does anyone else feel that private, discreet parties at private homes may be the future? " Oh i hope not ! I don't like parties in peoples homes and would never go to one after the last one i went to Give me clubs anytime, I can't wait for them to open, I'm hoping that's this summer. | |||
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"I share your disquiet for many reasons..... being with dislike able people, nosey neighbours... " I'm not bothered about neighbours etc, I just don't like house parties, the last one i went to the house hadn't been cleaned for many many years, the bathroom was crusty and the other people at the party were racist and dirty it put me off forever ! | |||
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"If clubs get closed down all that will happen is that they will go 'undeground' like all things that are closed by the government. Private members clubs. " sorry but I had this image of an underground club being raided like during prohibition. I have a vivid imagination | |||
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"I’m fed up of these “Will or Should clubs ever open again” “we will never feel safe nonsense... Of course they will reopen , when guidelines allow, it’s down to the individual then to decide.. I for one will be straight there on day 1 of re-opening... Really really hate all the negative press around clubs during these times - it’s almost as though some folk want permanent closure - if this is the case why are you swingers ? I actually bet these same people don’t think twice about queuing in Aldi or walking around a busy b&q, because I see people doing this all the time, I for one don’t moan about it I just get on with my own business.. Anyway sorry rant over " This! | |||
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"I’m fed up of these “Will or Should clubs ever open again” “we will never feel safe nonsense... Of course they will reopen , when guidelines allow, it’s down to the individual then to decide.. I for one will be straight there on day 1 of re-opening... Really really hate all the negative press around clubs during these times - it’s almost as though some folk want permanent closure - if this is the case why are you swingers ? I actually bet these same people don’t think twice about queuing in Aldi or walking around a busy b&q, because I see people doing this all the time, I for one don’t moan about it I just get on with my own business.. Anyway sorry rant over " Walking around a supermarket or DIY store are hardly the same as being intimate with a stranger. | |||
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"Agree, clubs are my preference, as people are equal! It’s not what you have or haven’t, it’s who you are. How you interact with others, that’s what counts. Also it’s safer, tend to be as clean if not cleaner and if you don’t like someone, it’s not an issue to say “sorry, not for me” I’m not sure on house parties, but suspect that smaller crown and environment it more awkward? Also for those rare times, idiots get out of hand. There’s people to take care of the situation, without it turning hostile! Clubs are important to the swinging world, Let’s hope they survive." I agree | |||
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"I’m fed up of these “Will or Should clubs ever open again” “we will never feel safe nonsense... Of course they will reopen , when guidelines allow, it’s down to the individual then to decide.. I for one will be straight there on day 1 of re-opening... Really really hate all the negative press around clubs during these times - it’s almost as though some folk want permanent closure - if this is the case why are you swingers ? I actually bet these same people don’t think twice about queuing in Aldi or walking around a busy b&q, because I see people doing this all the time, I for one don’t moan about it I just get on with my own business.. Anyway sorry rant over " Same, I'll be there banging on the door to be let in | |||
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"Apparantly New Zealand is back to normal and no requirement for social distancing." because they no longer have any covid-19 cases, they got rid of it fully. | |||
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"Apparantly New Zealand is back to normal and no requirement for social distancing. because they no longer have any covid-19 cases, they got rid of it fully." Why have a teeny tiny population you can drive for 2 hours I know as iv done it many times same as Australia far easy to contain a virus when you have no bugger there where in uk or Europe can you do that ? You Can not compare them at all | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " i don't go often but it wouldn't affect me to go once they reopen you can't be scared of life you have to live it | |||
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"I’m fed up of these “Will or Should clubs ever open again” “we will never feel safe nonsense... Of course they will reopen , when guidelines allow, it’s down to the individual then to decide.. I for one will be straight there on day 1 of re-opening... Really really hate all the negative press around clubs during these times - it’s almost as though some folk want permanent closure - if this is the case why are you swingers ? I actually bet these same people don’t think twice about queuing in Aldi or walking around a busy b&q, because I see people doing this all the time, I for one don’t moan about it I just get on with my own business.. Anyway sorry rant over " ^^^This^^^^ | |||
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"Apparantly New Zealand is back to normal and no requirement for social distancing. because they no longer have any covid-19 cases, they got rid of it fully. Why have a teeny tiny population you can drive for 2 hours I know as iv done it many times same as Australia far easy to contain a virus when you have no bugger there where in uk or Europe can you do that ? You Can not compare them at all " good on them; but our numptys keep telling us you can carry the virus without knowing and so kill everyone you meet.There's some crap going round makes you think they are making it up as they go along. Lol | |||
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"Apparantly New Zealand is back to normal and no requirement for social distancing. because they no longer have any covid-19 cases, they got rid of it fully. Why have a teeny tiny population you can drive for 2 hours I know as iv done it many times same as Australia far easy to contain a virus when you have no bugger there where in uk or Europe can you do that ? You Can not compare them at all good on them; but our numptys keep telling us you can carry the virus without knowing and so kill everyone you meet.There's some crap going round makes you think they are making it up as they go along. Lol " They might be as it’s all new and nobody can be sure if it’s safe or not who’s to say it won’t be back in New Zealand once it gets all the holiday makers back lots of Chinese holiday there I flew out of there in March and it still had flights landing from China Even tho the government told media said they had stopped so who knows really | |||
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"If people think the clubs will re open their sadly disillusioned it's the end. If you cant see that you surely need glasses" Out of interest why do you say that? Do you also believe that the packed out cheap chain pubs & sweaty nightclubs are also set to never reopen? You far closer to a far larger number of random people than in swingers clubs. Also if swingers clubs were to operate a members only strategy (as a lot do anyway) it would be fairly easy for them to alert people if anybody was later to test positive so they could in turn get a test / treatment quickly. Same most definitely can't be said for a High Street pub! | |||
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"Yes, people will go again. Of course they will, people will visit restaurants and bars and footy games. The question is whether the clubs will survive until trade is back to normal levels but the demand will not go away. Sex is a primal need" This!!!! We need to stop this fear culture. We can't go on living in cotton wool. There is a point when normality has to return, not only for the economy but for peoples sanity | |||
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"If people think the clubs will re open their sadly disillusioned it's the end. If you cant see that you surely need glasses" I hope your wrong, club's never to reopen? Glad I'm not a teenager then, never meet or have sex with anyone outside my family. | |||
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" Glad I'm not a teenager then, never meet or have sex with anyone outside my family. " Welcome to Alabama Jokes aside we will be Attending clubs as soon as they open, although expect a fair number of clubs to not reopen. | |||
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"Based on the logical thinking of some - having any sort of intimacy with ANYONE is now at an end FOREVER. It’s just too risky. Therefore “swinging” as a life style choice is finished !!! Going to be a very sad & lonely world ahead. In which case I am leaving for the moon tomorrow. !!! " End of intimacy forever? Surely that means the end of the human race! | |||
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"whats peoples thoughts on swinger clubs surviving the covid 19 lockdown don't think many people would want to go when it finaly clears up .. we was members of infusions for 10 years and my wife wouldn't go again xx " You aren't going to stay away from the local pub, so why the swingers club? Back to normal asap I hope. | |||
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"I'd take bets on them not re opening, they've no income coming in at all and still got costs to pay. If everyone is so concerned why not donate to them????" Although a nice idea, donating to them is no use if the councils won't renew their licenses which may well be the case. | |||
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"I think clubs should create some perspex glory holes! You could see who was on the other side, but it would be a safe way to play as the perspex seperator would act like one of the screens they have in supermarkets! Worth a thought. " So the guy behind the screen has Covid on his hands. Pops out his old man through the glory hole in the screen. Can you see the Covid on his old man? Nope and now it's going in your mouth. | |||
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"I think clubs should create some perspex glory holes! You could see who was on the other side, but it would be a safe way to play as the perspex seperator would act like one of the screens they have in supermarkets! Worth a thought. So the guy behind the screen has Covid on his hands. Pops out his old man through the glory hole in the screen. Can you see the Covid on his old man? Nope and now it's going in your mouth." no all entries to club have been thoroughly tested for covid at the time time of entry and certified | |||
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"Let’s put things into perspective, so far world wide 25 million have died of aids , did that stop swingers clubs " Point | |||
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"I think clubs should create some perspex glory holes! You could see who was on the other side, but it would be a safe way to play as the perspex seperator would act like one of the screens they have in supermarkets! Worth a thought. So the guy behind the screen has Covid on his hands. Pops out his old man through the glory hole in the screen. Can you see the Covid on his old man? Nope and now it's going in your mouth.no all entries to club have been thoroughly tested for covid at the time time of entry and certified " So he hasn't been anywhere on his way to the club? It may just be on something he / she has touched. The tests are irrelevant | |||
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"Or ask Boris to call a Cobra meeting to discuss re opening them" Boris is a swinger - headlines in the media tomorrow !!!! Can I have priti please !! | |||
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"...People as a whole are going to be more health aware ..." What makes you think so? Everyone's in a blind panic about a virus that's 98% non-lethal. Not much fun for the unfortunate 2% but contrast that with the liberties that have been taken for the last 40 years over HIV/AIDS which is a damned sight more deadly, and it makes me wonder why everyone's so "holier than thou" about COVID-19. STD's have been going around since forever too, not always deadly but not nice either. People have gone to clubs suffering from sore throats, colds and flu, in the hope of getting their leg over, since forever. So what makes you think that all the people who try to get away without using condoms, or those who even insist, on going bareback, or those who "tough out" a cold, are going to be any more health conscious about this new virus on the block? One for the club owners then...if you are going to make face masks compulsary, can I suggest you make wearing condoms compulsary too. Any reported trangressors to be banned. Simple as that. | |||
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"...People as a whole are going to be more health aware ... What makes you think so? Everyone's in a blind panic about a virus that's 98% non-lethal. Not much fun for the unfortunate 2% but contrast that with the liberties that have been taken for the last 40 years over HIV/AIDS which is a damned sight more deadly, and it makes me wonder why everyone's so "holier than thou" about COVID-19. STD's have been going around since forever too, not always deadly but not nice either. People have gone to clubs suffering from sore throats, colds and flu, in the hope of getting their leg over, since forever. So what makes you think that all the people who try to get away without using condoms, or those who even insist, on going bareback, or those who "tough out" a cold, are going to be any more health conscious about this new virus on the block? One for the club owners then...if you are going to make face masks compulsary, can I suggest you make wearing condoms compulsary too. Any reported trangressors to be banned. Simple as that." | |||
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"...People as a whole are going to be more health aware ... What makes you think so? Everyone's in a blind panic about a virus that's 98% non-lethal. Not much fun for the unfortunate 2% but contrast that with the liberties that have been taken for the last 40 years over HIV/AIDS which is a damned sight more deadly, and it makes me wonder why everyone's so "holier than thou" about COVID-19. STD's have been going around since forever too, not always deadly but not nice either. People have gone to clubs suffering from sore throats, colds and flu, in the hope of getting their leg over, since forever. So what makes you think that all the people who try to get away without using condoms, or those who even insist, on going bareback, or those who "tough out" a cold, are going to be any more health conscious about this new virus on the block? One for the club owners then...if you are going to make face masks compulsary, can I suggest you make wearing condoms compulsary too. Any reported trangressors to be banned. Simple as that." * missed the club owners making masks compulsory * condoms mandatory - I am assuming most do, we are not in a position as owners, to be in every room (especially locked) to enforce that particular suggestion * are members & customers make choices for themselves & assess risk based on their needs/wants/desires & fantasies. We can only provide guidance * reported ? By who ? B/Cupida | |||
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"Waste of time argumenting with this one he's put a negative comment on every club question He thinks hair dressers tattooists a beauticians are key workers as they are tax payers Funny though so are clubs Oh and flights are essential too so we can go spend our hard earned cash in other countries this obviously helps UK economy " - yes agreed , however I won’t be drawn into a battle of wits with an unarmed man !! | |||
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"This isn't the USA" Well spotted - you have won 2020’s geography genius of the year !!!! | |||
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"This isn't the USA Well spotted - you have won 2020’s geography genius of the year !!!! " | |||
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"Waste of time argumenting with this one he's put a negative comment on every club question He thinks hair dressers tattooists a beauticians are key workers as they are tax payers Funny though so are clubs Oh and flights are essential too so we can go spend our hard earned cash in other countries this obviously helps UK economy " If you read my post properly you would have seen that I didn't mention tatoo artists or beauticians in my post | |||
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"Waste of time argumenting with this one he's put a negative comment on every club question He thinks hair dressers tattooists a beauticians are key workers as they are tax payers Funny though so are clubs Oh and flights are essential too so we can go spend our hard earned cash in other countries this obviously helps UK economy " I’ve seen! He’s very positive NOT! I bet he’s fun to go out with | |||
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"I am fun hahaha!! And I am positive on things that are just not plain stupidity " Out of interest how many clubs have you been too pre covid? | |||
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"I am fun hahaha!! And I am positive on things that are just not plain stupidity " Obviously not positive in your opinions! | |||
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"Four in total but I don't see what that has to do with anything " He’s a expert then | |||
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"Back in December it's a waste of time talking to you folk" Which December so we can have your incisive updates as to the state of the world economies, c19, all the way down to “when will swingers clubs open”. Please say 2030 and that will be just about the right timing !!! | |||
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"I think clubs should create some perspex glory holes! You could see who was on the other side, but it would be a safe way to play as the perspex seperator would act like one of the screens they have in supermarkets! Worth a thought. So the guy behind the screen has Covid on his hands. Pops out his old man through the glory hole in the screen. Can you see the Covid on his old man? Nope and now it's going in your mouth.no all entries to club have been thoroughly tested for covid at the time time of entry and certified " So you are going to give every customer coming in a Covid test? it's no good if they tested negative any earlier so what are you saying ? | |||
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"I can't see them re-opening for a year or so - if they manage not to go bust in that time. You cant socially distance when you are having sex with someone and that's why people go to them. When clubs, bars and restaurants re-open they will be subject to social distancing for god knows how long, and they will be inspected to ensure they are complying. And if not they will be forced to close by Health and Safety. Until a vaccine is developed and most people have been vaccinated, we can forget the clubs. In the meantime private parties is going to be the only way." So do explain how private parties are any safer than a club. Clubs offer a neutral safe place to meet, not necessarily sex but lots go for the social side with like minded people. There are many that go that have never been into a play room but they go every week. I really want to see an explanation of how say 6/8 people in a private party is anywhere safer than say 20 people in a club that can hold 80 people. You obviously aren't keen or aware of the clubs. If you have intimate knowledge of the inner running of clubs, then by all means, share it. Along with many clubs up and down the country, they've taken this opportunity to refurbish them. Clubs will DEFINITELY reopen probably at the same time as pubs can. Lots of people automatically assume it's wall to wall sex but that's far from the truth. Instead of putting an extremely negative post, why not let the regulars and people that use them reply? | |||
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"I think clubs should create some perspex glory holes! You could see who was on the other side, but it would be a safe way to play as the perspex seperator would act like one of the screens they have in supermarkets! Worth a thought. So the guy behind the screen has Covid on his hands. Pops out his old man through the glory hole in the screen. Can you see the Covid on his old man? Nope and now it's going in your mouth.no all entries to club have been thoroughly tested for covid at the time time of entry and certified So you are going to give every customer coming in a Covid test? it's no good if they tested negative any earlier so what are you saying ?" Good god is there a single forum that you haven’t commented on?? Maybe you should sign up to be government advisors with all the knowledge you don’t have with spare time on you’re hands?? Just saying as you’re actually killing freedom of speech and seem to know more than Boris and his advisors eh | |||
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"Back in December it's a waste of time talking to you folk Which December so we can have your incisive updates as to the state of the world economies, c19, all the way down to “when will swingers clubs open”. Please say 2030 and that will be just about the right timing !!! " So surprised you're so negative. Trying to run cupid's down now? | |||
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"The number of times I have been to a club has no bearing whatsoever on this argument. " It's not an arguement.It was a simple enough question.....or so I though. Club virgin then. Clubs will open again. For those of us that have been it maybe a different experience to what we are used to. | |||
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