FabSwingers.com forum: Sex life too dependent on clubs.

By *portyndNaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

We have been under lockdown now for almost 2 months and the last time I had sex was begining of March at Libs. Reflecting on the current situation, and I guess I am not alone here, I came to the realisation of how much my sex life is dependent on females and couples I meet in clubs. As there are no perspectives of clubs opening anytime soon, after over 10 years in the scene, I am seriously considering having a break on swinging and engage on a long term vanila relationship. Is anyone else having the same thoughts or am I putting the cart before the horses?

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How can you have a long term vanilla relationship when you still need to stay 2m away from anyone not in your household ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you have a long term vanilla relationship when you still need to stay 2m away from anyone not in your household ?"

Well, that would be very, very vanilla... Not even holding hands allowed... Though I think OP means in the not so distant future rather than now, as he believes clubs are not going to open any time soon.

By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"We have been under lockdown now for almost 2 months and the last time I had sex was begining of March at Libs. Reflecting on the current situation, and I guess I am not alone here, I came to the realisation of how much my sex life is dependent on females and couples I meet in clubs. As there are no perspectives of clubs opening anytime soon, after over 10 years in the scene, I am seriously considering having a break on swinging and engage on a long term vanila relationship. Is anyone else having the same thoughts or am I putting the cart before the horses?"
god no. I'd rather go without than have a vanilla or any other sort of relationship. As soon as we are able to meet others I may consider doing so outside of clubs till the clubs reopen but as I have no interest in 121 really it makes it a little difficult

By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

I am same as you pal.. lockdown night at end of march before the clubs shut my last success

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well its a great time to date tbh...

you can both choose what to eat, definitely cheap as you both get your own, no need for aftershave or deoderant....and no awkward moment of to kiss or not!