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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s it like going to a club always wanted to go maybe I can when lockdown is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway! "

How was your first time?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway! "

Same here!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?"

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Tried a couple of times alone and can say it's not the easiest. Probably used to having Mrs with me, but feel very unnoticed, even for the want of trying to mix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice I definitely wanna try one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ... "

I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine

My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went just to look around and ended up full swapping on the first night. That was 14 years ago, now we primarily meet at clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went just to look around and ended up full swapping on the first night. That was 14 years ago, now we primarily meet at clubs "

Do you know if there some in Colchester?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...

I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine

My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since "

Hahaha ... I blame you Lee, I was sweet & innocent until you showed me your leather flogger ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went just to look around and ended up full swapping on the first night. That was 14 years ago, now we primarily meet at clubs

Do you know if there some in Colchester?"

Not sure. I would usually say look at the review section but it's off due to covid19. We go to pleasures in Kent near Maidstone

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?"

Nervous at first but beautiful by the end x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...

I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine

My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since "

Mine was when I was 19 at a club in amsterdam. Never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. Would you suggest going on my own the first time or with someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...

I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine

My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since

Hahaha ... I blame you Lee, I was sweet & innocent until you showed me your leather flogger ... "

That's it, sweet and innocent, those were the words I was looking for to describe you when I met you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ...

I remember your first club visit better than I remember mine

My first club visit was about 20 years ago now, Was nervous on the drive there and when I got there but never looked back since

Mine was when I was 19 at a club in amsterdam. Never looked back "

Mine was a really small but very friendly club in Northampton which has been shut for a number of years now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single. Would you suggest going on my own the first time or with someone? "

I'd say go on your own unless you go with someone that you know really well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. I can't wait for the clubs to open. I feel a mixture of excitement and dread but it will be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. I can't wait for the clubs to open. I feel a mixture of excitement and dread but it will be ok. "

No problem, do plenty of research. Not only choose the right club but choose the right night/event as well. If you do that I'm sure that you'll have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is going to be absolute debauchery. Well that's my plan anyway!

How was your first time?

First time is like anything new - you’ll be nervous, but if you pick the right club & event for you, and just be yourself, you’ll be fine!

Clubs are great - the social side is fantastic, everything else is a bonus, because nothing is guaranteed, but imagine a pub full of Swingers & plenty of room to go & play ... "

The hardest part is getting over any nerves and getting through the door. I've never had a bad experience at the club I go to, the hosts such as the lovely Morticia here always make you feel comfortable. Just be relaxed and happy and you will have a great time, play or no play.

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