FabSwingers.com forum: Best Club For Single Male In The Midlands ?

By *ikemilflover OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’ve mostly played with couples one to one in the past but would like to visit a club when all this virus issue is over.

I know that clubs sometimes have issues when it comes to couples and single guys being over-pushy and following them around.

Wondered if anyone could recommend a good club or venue in the Midlands for a single fairly Dom guy like myself to visit and play ?

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The simple truth is Mike; no club is "good for a single guy", clubs are for couples.

The best you can do (when the lockdown is over and clubs are able to reopen), is look for events which are 'single guy friendly'. Just pick whichever club is closest to you, and read their website for times when single guys are 'allowed' in. Every club states they 'welcome' single guys, but this really only extends to taking your money off you. Once inside, you're on your own. Rarely does anyone approach a single guy, so it's up to you to make any first move. Look for eye contact and body language for people receptive to single guys speaking with them, and if all else fails, asking for directions to the loo is probably the easiest way to get talking to someone.

I've found using Fab for private meets far easier, and far more rewarding than visiting clubs, so would never recommend the club scene for a single guy, but some blokes do well. All I will say is; good luck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Atlantis in Stoke on Trent on a Friday night when we are back to normal after the virus has gone. That was my first club I went too and you definitely be welcomed my the staff and other swingers it has lovely staff and friendly couples and singles to ease you into the swinging lifestyle.