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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

It looks like clubs and pubs, when allowed to open again will need to have in place measures to show that social distancing is occurring.

The argument against swingers clubs opening will be that people go there for sex, so that makes it difficult to persuade anyone that they should be allowed to open at all.

We realised that many of our guests don't actually come here for sex, it might be on their agenda, but certainly isn't top of it. Many come to see friends, have open sexual conversations, enjoy dancing naked, etc.

So, we are now putting some thought into a new diary where social distancing plays its part.

Here's some for starters:

Distance Speed Dating for the singles, chatting more than 2 metres apart to get to know each other better.

Masturbation Parties, solo sex in front of each other.

Voyeur and Exhibitionist nights. No swapping allowed.

Own partner party. No swapping allowed.

Naked dance night, or lingerie night.

You get the idea....now throw some of yours into the equation please.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Free PPE on entry

Maybe with a strategic hole here and there for access

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Some great ideas there.

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"It looks like clubs and pubs, when allowed to open again will need to have in place measures to show that social distancing is occurring.

The argument against swingers clubs opening will be that people go there for sex, so that makes it difficult to persuade anyone that they should be allowed to open at all.

We realised that many of our guests don't actually come here for sex, it might be on their agenda, but certainly isn't top of it. Many come to see friends, have open sexual conversations, enjoy dancing naked, etc.

So, we are now putting some thought into a new diary where social distancing plays its part.

Here's some for starters:

Distance Speed Dating for the singles, chatting more than 2 metres apart to get to know each other better.

Masturbation Parties, solo sex in front of each other.

Voyeur and Exhibitionist nights. No swapping allowed.

Own partner party. No swapping allowed.

Naked dance night, or lingerie night.

You get the idea....now throw some of yours into the equation please. "

Congratulations once again! My you guy's are really working on this aren't you! 10 out of 10! Having an exhibitionist lady friend I can see this working well for us. I'm sure she'd be delighted to show off for a bunch of appreciative males at a safe distance. Do I remember correctly the mention of a cage area in a previous post? If my impression of thIs idea is right surely this would work? Good idea, and mops at the ready?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

We've been thinking along the same lines, however, our venue is too small to do this effectively. You have the perfect size venue to spread people out!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cannot wait for it to happen!

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

How this will work With own partner,one couple in room?who will keep eye on no swap ?

It will hard to archive

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Sounds better than no club at all. We do like a bit of exhibitionism and a dance (2 metres from others!).

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Great plans, yes to get out and socialise would be brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How this will work With own partner,one couple in room?who will keep eye on no swap ?

It will hard to archive "

Can people not be trusted to attend and keep to the rules of the club??

Would people need watching to make sure they don't swap?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Take our temperature on way in like they plan abroad for bars. No good rechecking once in tho especially if naked or lingerie night

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Photoshoots.

Easy to do with social distancing and given the variety of rooms and equipment you have would give people the chance to get some personal and private photos done.

Wipe clean surfaces would help and there's no need for any physical contact outside of couples themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow great ideas loving these.. would definitely attend the naked dance/lingerie party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow great ideas loving these.. would definitely attend the naked dance/lingerie party x "

Definitely one for us as well

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

My party theme for this Saturday at Xtasia was 'Undress to Impress'

To be continued for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds better than no club at all. We do like a bit of exhibitionism and a dance (2 metres from others!). "

Very true. Especially if there’s going to be restrictions for the best part of the year!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Some nice thinking outside the box with those suggestions.

How about a strip pool competition?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow great ideas loving these.. would definitely attend the naked dance/lingerie party x

Definitely one for us as well

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

In And Around The

Great ideas. Love the sound of masturbation parties. The club is big enough to pull it off

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

Brilliant ideas. We'd be there in a flash. Really guys, brilliant work!

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

If you can find an instructor you could arrange a Tantric Massage evening. Layout some matting on the dance floor at correct distance apart then the couples could do the sensual massage thing to each other. Nice calming music on the sound system, drinks delivered to the couple from the bar, run a tab for each till the end of the night.

The instructor guides all the moves then at the end the couples go at it, just with each other of course.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"If you can find an instructor you could arrange a Tantric Massage evening. Layout some matting on the dance floor at correct distance apart then the couples could do the sensual massage thing to each other. Nice calming music on the sound system, drinks delivered to the couple from the bar, run a tab for each till the end of the night.

The instructor guides all the moves then at the end the couples go at it, just with each other of course."

Excellent,,,,,and now we wait for the offer which I'm sure will follow. Thanks for this one. Hope both ok, x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"If you can find an instructor you could arrange a Tantric Massage evening. Layout some matting on the dance floor at correct distance apart then the couples could do the sensual massage thing to each other. Nice calming music on the sound system, drinks delivered to the couple from the bar, run a tab for each till the end of the night.

The instructor guides all the moves then at the end the couples go at it, just with each other of course.Excellent,,,,,and now we wait for the offer which I'm sure will follow. Thanks for this one. Hope both ok, x"

Ooooh there was someone on another well known fetish site who did tantric massage classes who was going to come to our all female event. I can't remember their profile name now, but will try and remember for you. Cobwebs are forming in my brain, I'm sure of it lol xx

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We need a bloody night out when it's allowed, if that means queuing 2 metre apart down West Bromwich High St and watching people play with each other so be it.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"If you can find an instructor you could arrange a Tantric Massage evening. Layout some matting on the dance floor at correct distance apart then the couples could do the sensual massage thing to each other. Nice calming music on the sound system, drinks delivered to the couple from the bar, run a tab for each till the end of the night.

The instructor guides all the moves then at the end the couples go at it, just with each other of course.Excellent,,,,,and now we wait for the offer which I'm sure will follow. Thanks for this one. Hope both ok, x

Ooooh there was someone on another well known fetish site who did tantric massage classes who was going to come to our all female event. I can't remember their profile name now, but will try and remember for you. Cobwebs are forming in my brain, I'm sure of it lol xx"

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