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By *rs hotarse and mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester/ Hereford

With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say go on a night when no single males in, set rules beforehand as to what will happen....chill out, enjoy, expect the unexpected and remember no means no ...most of all enjoy

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By *rs hotarse and mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester/ Hereford

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice"

No worries, been to a few in south and south east by all means pm me if you want further advice

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"

So what’s the fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree avoid clubs with single males. Don’t want them putting a damper on things as you’re just finding your feet.

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I go to infusions blackpool perfect for first time very friendly and helpful staff

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"
Go for it! Everyone must be nervous for their first club visit, but they're so enjoyable. You'll get a tour around and see that everyone is of the same mindset. Our first time we just played with each other, but we've had an amazing journey

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By *alvenie 25Man
over a year ago

Watford

Not been to a club, been thinking about it alot and then covid 19 kicked in.

Would prefer to go with someone, anyone like to accompany me?

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By *rs hotarse and mr OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester/ Hereford

Thanks for the advice

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By *38msf471Couple
over a year ago

Hanley


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"

We are regulars at Atlantis in Stoke. Great club for newbies and not so newbies. Mixed nights and couples only nights. Great vibe, DJ, lots of playrooms, cinema etc. It fits our needs. Good luck and hope you find what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a great night at club f Newcastle. It was a large social event and was very busy. We chatted to a few couples before hand and can't wait to get back.

Either a social/party night or couples only would be best.

We are both very much hooked and plan lots of other club visits.

Mr B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"

Don't travel too far out to a club for the first time. Just incase it turns out to be a disaster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"

Don't travel too far out to a club for the first time. Just incase it turns out to be a disaster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your first trip as a sort of test drive. Communication is key the entire time. Don't get so d*unk you either do things you'll regret or won't remember. Don't be scared to talk to people, they won't all be expecting something from you. When you get there, ask for one of the staff to give you a tour so you know where everything is. People will stare at you... We found that weird at first but soon accepted it.

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth it censored the work d*unk I've got no idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research your club use the forums to chat with others who are attending the night

Go with social mindset and speak to people

The rest will follow

Enjoy

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I agree choose a couples only night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"

My advice if you plan to visit regularly, don't be popular..

There is a core/clique in every club whom instead of playing just sit and judge successful/desirable people. Inevitably the stirring ensues and you risk being blackballed. This is a sad club reality for some so if you play be discreet Xx

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By *andrxCouple
over a year ago

bedford

The first time at a club can be nerve wracking as I'm sure it is for everyone but in a sexy way , it's natural .

We agree with previous posts about researching clubs but just a heads up, our local club which by the way in our opinion is one of if not THE friendliest club in the UK is Jaydees in St Neots and the have nights there which are specifically for newbies .

Check out their website , we have never had a bad night there in 6 years of attending .

Good luck with your journey.

S&R

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree Jaydees is leagues above others for being welcoming and friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would see who else is going and possibly arrange to meet them. This gives you someone to talk too possibly show you around etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the club forums are back up. A lot of the time people chat about a certain date and can arrange a chat at the bar.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks

My advice if you plan to visit regularly, don't be popular..

There is a core/clique in every club whom instead of playing just sit and judge successful/desirable people. Inevitably the stirring ensues and you risk being blackballed. This is a sad club reality for some so if you play be discreet Xx"

So you have visited every Swinger's Club?

Have you tried talking to anyone in the supposed cliques?

Are you sure they are not just friends chatting who are actually quite happy to talk if you approach them?

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks

My advice if you plan to visit regularly, don't be popular..

There is a core/clique in every club whom instead of playing just sit and judge successful/desirable people. Inevitably the stirring ensues and you risk being blackballed. This is a sad club reality for some so if you play be discreet Xx"

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks

My advice if you plan to visit regularly, don't be popular..

There is a core/clique in every club whom instead of playing just sit and judge successful/desirable people. Inevitably the stirring ensues and you risk being blackballed. This is a sad club reality for some so if you play be discreet Xx"

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks

My advice if you plan to visit regularly, don't be popular..

There is a core/clique in every club whom instead of playing just sit and judge successful/desirable people. Inevitably the stirring ensues and you risk being blackballed. This is a sad club reality for some so if you play be discreet Xx"

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By *amesandRuthCouple
over a year ago

Denton


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks

We are regulars at Atlantis in Stoke. Great club for newbies and not so newbies. Mixed nights and couples only nights. Great vibe, DJ, lots of playrooms, cinema etc. It fits our needs. Good luck and hope you find what you are looking for "

Us too. Great club. Was our first and our fav. Can't wait to get back

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

You will have a club quite close to you when they re-open. AbFab/Kestrels is not listed on here but at Heathrow it`s quite reachable. It is essentially a naturist spa through the day and club at night. There is a couples only night and a clothes optional night when the naturist day event carries on through the evening.

The club has a great swimming pool, jacuzzis as well as a good selection of play rooms, dungeon, dark room, glory holes, cinema and a bar.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Honestly.. I prefer when there is an even mix of couples to single males. Don't over think it, it will probably be a little rubbish the first time but once you find your feet you'll have a great laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a tally up the other day of how many different clubs/pay venues....13 different ones ... Lol

Happy to advise which is best for a newbie couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the lockdown we have been discussing fantasies.

Any advice on visiting a club for the first time?

Both naturally nervous.

Thanks"

If you like being watched there are rooms just for this purpose and as you get more confident you can invite some of them to join you. Clubs are amazing but do your research, there are plenty of reviews on here to help with your venue choice. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been to a club, been thinking about it alot and then covid 19 kicked in.

Would prefer to go with someone, anyone like to accompany me?

"
best advice is to brave it alone and get chatting

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge


"Agree avoid clubs with single males. Don’t want them putting a damper on things as you’re just finding your feet. "

Charmin..

Some of are respecful and know how to behave..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree avoid clubs with single males. Don’t want them putting a damper on things as you’re just finding your feet.

Charmin..

Some of are respecful and know how to behave.."

Their profile clearly says they don’t want to meet men. And we recommend to any couple to avoid men in clubs at least for a first night. They are normally the drivelling shits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the same as going to a bar with atmosphere. A great night to be had. Go have a drink and a dance and discover very early on that everyone is super friendly and chatty and approachable and nice

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