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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

A discussion document….please read all of this carefully if you’re going to comment. If you know the club, and attend on a regular basis we seriously value your input in the discussion.

Historically Xtasia had a problem, it was known as the “walk of shame” and went from the Premier Inn to the front door of the club. Why an issue?

Because you had to pass the pub at the front of us, where everyone knew where you were going, and commented accordingly. Our solution? We grabbed the pub as soon as we could….it’s now Flirts.

Our current biggest issue, (apart from Covid), is that the club is seen as too big! We have so much space here, it takes a crowd of over 150 to create an atmosphere in the main club, and around 40 or so in Flirts if we’re running another event. Break the 150 down, say 30 in the chill lounge, 20 in playrooms, 20 in the smoke area, 10 downstairs in jacuzzi or cinema…..that leaves 70 in the bar/dance area……so anything less and it can feel very quiet.

So, we have a plan.

We have totally revamped the chill out lounge and couples room. We now have an entrance from the front driveway directly into what used to be the couples room. This has been split into two playrooms, one as the new camera room, the other a large cage frontage.

In the chill lounge we have removed half the sofa’s leaving the ones facing the large TV screen. Infront of each sofa is a play bed, so the equivalent of 4 double beds now in the main room. We have also added two new private rooms, one with a stable door, the other with a few twists for cuckold couples and their bull to have fun with!

To summarize, a new entrance, 4 playrooms, a cinema, total of 8 double beds for fun.

The first idea is to open this area during the day. So from 11am into the evening, we will be opening it for all members to come in, as and when they wish. You won’t be able to access the rest of the club though. Drinks available from Flirts bar by asking staff, and we might pop a coffee machine or something in longer term.

The main thrust is that we feel we can create two clubs! Historically Friday nights have always been singles and couples, and Saturday nights have been couples and ladies only. The first thing we want to point is we don’t want to upset that balance at all. Therefore, the above still stands, you don’t need to panic!

If we take all of Flirts, including Purgatory and Hell, and then add into the equation the top chill out lounge as you all knew it, it will give us a large area with the following facilities now following our revamp. An entrance, a bar, a bar/social area, a smoking area, two dungeons, toilets, 4 new playrooms, (two totally private, 2 more open), a large social/play area with big screen and 4 new large play beds.

The main club has everything you’re used to, plus a bit more after all the work we've been doing. Our plan is to utilise just the chill out lounge in a different way.

On Friday nights, the main club is open as usual for singles and couples. However, single males will not be allowed into the chill room, so the door at the top of the stairs is closed to them going any further. The chill room, and the new associated play areas, plus all facilities in Flirts will become couples and ladies only. We are giving ourselves, and you our members, a couples and ladies only venue on a Friday night.

On Saturday nights, the main club remains couples and ladies only. Single males are allowed into Flirts, and the top chill lounge, but no further. So, if looking for single male company, you would now have a single friendly venue on a Saturday night, as well as your traditional couples only venue.

Obviously, we have a problem area at the one door at the entrance to the chill lounge. We need to stop single guys going in on a Friday, and coming out on a Saturday. We need to find a way of dealing with this, and a number of ideas have been bounced already. Trust is a starting point; you won’t want to get banned from the club would you. Secondly, wristbands to identify single male and couple males, so if someone was in the wrong place they are easily identified. Having a staff member placed at the door all night! Or finally CCTV and associated lock system, so reception could allow someone through if legitimate, and block someone who was trying to beat the system. (Cap d’Agde sauna style). Will try not to make this an issue….one we can adapt as members get used to the new way of working.

We also need to be very aware of music volume levels, if not able to utilise the chill lounge as a quieter zone, so maybe reduce the volume in the main club before 11pm to allow socialising to occur easily.

Some nights are always too busy for this idea to work well, so current thinking is maybe try it out for a 6 month period, once we reopen, on 2 weekends a month. At the end of the day we are trying very hard to find a mix that works for everyone.

It also gives us a number of additional benefits.

It allows us to open part of the club during the day for those looking for quieter meets, a cinema experience, potential play, without the massive void created if opening the full club.

Also, remember we have the sun deck, so once post Covid, we can utilise inside and outdoors for fun and games.

On a Friday night, we do find there is a group of lads who run from one area of the club to another, just searching out the action and not talking and engaging with couples. It annoys us no end, but is very hard to stop, so providing a larger area where they cannot attend, almost 4 times the size of the old couples’ room, appeals considerably. It won’t stop us having a go at them though!

On both evenings, it opens up Purgatory and Hell for more play options, often the small dungeon area in the main club has proven too small for more than a few BDSM players. We will restrict the voyeuristic element of this area though.

We have a side door to Flirts that is 4 steps away from the new rear entry door to the chill lounge, we could even build a tunnel for stormy evenings!

The main point to make is it then gives ALL members, regardless of their interests, somewhere to go on both Friday and Saturday nights. It also opens up options for daytime fun during the week.

So, food for thought. Work the idea through with your loved ones and see if it works for you. Spot problems, identify issues. Let us know if you back the idea. We’re listening to your feedback.

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We think it's a fantastic idea.

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Can't wait to try out and give feed back x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

This we have to see and try out, can't wait, now this is something to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the issue of leaving respective areas can be controlled on the given nights for those that like to attend without single males and Vica verse) we see this as a great benefit to the club as stated trying to cater for all .

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london

Perfect idea.. the next thing is the licence time. Can it be extended to say 4pm... more time to play lol

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Perfect idea.. the next thing is the licence time. Can it be extended to say 4pm... more time to play lol"

Our licence is 24/7/365 so that isn't an issue. Keeping the staff here till 4am is lol....

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Perfect idea.. the next thing is the licence time. Can it be extended to say 4pm... more time to play lol

Our licence is 24/7/365 so that isn't an issue. Keeping the staff here till 4am is lol.... "

Think it's time for sleeps ration rota for them lol

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

"We now have an entrance from the front driveway directly into what used to be the couples room. This has been split into two playrooms, one as the new camera room, the other a large cage frontage."

I'm wondering what will be the draught level or chill factor in the two rooms above when someone opens the door from outside ?

The cage fronted room might have a few people playing and then on a cold stormy night someone comes in thro the new door followed by a flurry of snow and an Arctic blast, that would sure stop the fun quick !!

On the Friday nights when Flirts becomes Couples and Single Females only is it still a 9pm cut off then everyone goes into main club ?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


" "We now have an entrance from the front driveway directly into what used to be the couples room. This has been split into two playrooms, one as the new camera room, the other a large cage frontage."

I'm wondering what will be the draught level or chill factor in the two rooms above when someone opens the door from outside ?

The cage fronted room might have a few people playing and then on a cold stormy night someone comes in thro the new door followed by a flurry of snow and an Arctic blast, that would sure stop the fun quick !!

On the Friday nights when Flirts becomes Couples and Single Females only is it still a 9pm cut off then everyone goes into main club ?"

The entrance is well protected, with a corridor and 2 doors, so no blast but also put in new heaters in that back room to protect from that. The 9pm cut off would vanish...thinking of allowing folks to make up their own minds on time to move into main club, or stay on the Flirts side.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Sounds perfect can’t wait to come and see it all soon hopefully

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Very imaginative, amazing ...well done and thanks so much for all your efforts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cannot wait to get back see all these changes! They sound amazing to us!!

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By *lirty CocktailsCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Cant wait to come and check this all out.... ??

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

This sounds like a good compromise!

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By *il_MissBMFCWoman
over a year ago

Various Venues Across The UK

Sounds great, loving the improvements you’re making - didn’t expect anything less from you guys though!

We can’t wait for our BMFC come back party @ Xtasia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great, we’re very excited to attend.

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Great thinking.

Can you now please cure coronavirus so we can come and have a look??!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

since you said it was your club that was being talked about in the other thread... i think it is fair that i put what i did there...

"i think there is a huge difference between having a "couples only play area" and a couples only "social area"....

play rooms i get, if you want a bit a space and you are looking for specific things then cool and have at it!

but social areas i dont get....

if a social area you are just going to be social anyway, why would you feel the need to segregate? after all... you are just talking to people.......

if thing you try to encourage in any social situation is to mingle... i think it sends out the wrong sign

that to me is overthinking, and segregating for sake that you can... after all if people were that fixated then surely they would never go on a night single guys are allowed in anyway

you open a pandora's box... next up?

couples only smoking area?

i sure some people will rally and circle the wagons.... but i hope it is taken in the spirit of conversation

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By *orsagirlCouple
over a year ago

not saying

cant wait for this, going to be in my element lol well done to all love corsa xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this idea and you really have been making the best of lockdown!

We are usually the ones that sit at home Fridays because we don’t want the mix with single chaps (no offence single chaps)

And funny enough we have chatted about that area and the potential it had.

Can’t wait to see how this works!

Only little thing I could see as a problem is the music. Dipping the sound in the main club itself might be cause problems as people do go to dance and enjoy as much as the other stuff. No doubt this is a minor problem and will be worked around.

Missing you guys much!! Hopefully we will see you all very soon Del & beau x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds very good to us

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"since you said it was your club that was being talked about in the other thread... i think it is fair that i put what i did there...

"i think there is a huge difference between having a "couples only play area" and a couples only "social area"....

play rooms i get, if you want a bit a space and you are looking for specific things then cool and have at it!

but social areas i dont get....

if a social area you are just going to be social anyway, why would you feel the need to segregate? after all... you are just talking to people.......

if thing you try to encourage in any social situation is to mingle... i think it sends out the wrong sign

that to me is overthinking, and segregating for sake that you can... after all if people were that fixated then surely they would never go on a night single guys are allowed in anyway

you open a pandora's box... next up?

couples only smoking area?

i sure some people will rally and circle the wagons.... but i hope it is taken in the spirit of conversation"

That was half the problem with the previous thread, a lot was taken out of context, which is why we felt we needed our own thread with a full explanation. What was a social area, the chill lounge, is now a large play/social area with 4 double beds, plus playrooms off it...so far more than a social area now. I'd agree with you about not segregating a social space, but now its a serious play space as well, so easily done. Hope that answers.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Love this idea and you really have been making the best of lockdown!

We are usually the ones that sit at home Fridays because we don’t want the mix with single chaps (no offence single chaps)

And funny enough we have chatted about that area and the potential it had.

Can’t wait to see how this works!

Only little thing I could see as a problem is the music. Dipping the sound in the main club itself might be cause problems as people do go to dance and enjoy as much as the other stuff. No doubt this is a minor problem and will be worked around.

Missing you guys much!! Hopefully we will see you all very soon Del & beau x"

We are linking the music to downstairs, so everyone gets the same mix rather than the two different systems causing a clash every time the door opens. Will try to get volumes right, but we soon realised, music, lighting, heating you can never p;lease everyone! Missed you guys too....

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Sounds great, loving the improvements you’re making - didn’t expect anything less from you guys though!

We can’t wait for our BMFC come back party @ Xtasia!

"

Probably BMFC night is one of the exceptions as so busy, but pretty sure all the guys will appreciate all the new additions! Missing you both xx

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Great thinking.

Can you now please cure coronavirus so we can come and have a look??!!!"

I so so wish I could.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

All I know is that I am missing Xtasia very much. I can't wait to see the changes.

The door thing and single men etc. I think see how that pans out and if it does become an issue and they try to infiltrate then put something in place. I'd like to think we can trust them.

Keep on smiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this? "

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe "

Good for a two nighter stay

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this? "

I’d suggest youthful might be one of the exceptions, as so busy, but happy to take it either way depending on what you and your guests prefer.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"All I know is that I am missing Xtasia very much. I can't wait to see the changes.

The door thing and single men etc. I think see how that pans out and if it does become an issue and they try to infiltrate then put something in place. I'd like to think we can trust them.

Keep on smiling. "

Totally agree, think it really shouldn’t be an issue.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe

Good for a two nighter stay "

Just so greedy yous lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe

Good for a two nighter stay

Just so greedy yous lol x"

Guys it’s killing us this isolation and not seeing friends lol

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work? "

Will give you all a 2 metre ruler as you walk in!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work? "

This is obv after the cov

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work?

This is obv after the cov"

Thanks, bit sharp I guess but bottle of wine down!

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

This is how to run a club. So very impressed with what you have done and are planning. Cannot wait to visit again! Brilliant work Xtasia team.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work?

This is obv after the cov

Thanks, bit sharp I guess but bottle of wine down! "

Wines alcohol so bit protection

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

we trying imagine all this.

Hope this all will work well.

Defo want come as soon it will be open and have good fun again.

Are you planning any update on website with picture of new entrances and some description?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?"

Please point out the bit in our post that mentions prices! Your assumptions are a mile out, many of our regular single guys pay less than single ladies, but you only get to know about that by joining in with the fun and being a respected club member.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"we trying imagine all this.

Hope this all will work well.

Defo want come as soon it will be open and have good fun again.

Are you planning any update on website with picture of new entrances and some description?"

Yes we will as soon as we can see the floor past tins of paint and wallpaper! It’s chaos here so want to show you what we’ve done, but serious getting good pics at mo is hard work.

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

no worries.

If we only use right door when you open , it will be fine for us

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?

Please point out the bit in our post that mentions prices! Your assumptions are a mile out, many of our regular single guys pay less than single ladies, but you only get to know about that by joining in with the fun and being a respected club member.

"

Thank you. I do notice that prices aren't mentioned so that was an assumption/theoretical comment on my behalf which I accept could be incorrect.

However from the original post it does sound as if at least half the clubs facilities will be inaccessible to single guys on any given night.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?

Please point out the bit in our post that mentions prices! Your assumptions are a mile out, many of our regular single guys pay less than single ladies, but you only get to know about that by joining in with the fun and being a respected club member.

Thank you. I do notice that prices aren't mentioned so that was an assumption/theoretical comment on my behalf which I accept could be incorrect.

However from the original post it does sound as if at least half the clubs facilities will be inaccessible to single guys on any given night."

Re read you've actually more space with Saturday being an extra day

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?

Please point out the bit in our post that mentions prices! Your assumptions are a mile out, many of our regular single guys pay less than single ladies, but you only get to know about that by joining in with the fun and being a respected club member.

Thank you. I do notice that prices aren't mentioned so that was an assumption/theoretical comment on my behalf which I accept could be incorrect.

However from the original post it does sound as if at least half the clubs facilities will be inaccessible to single guys on any given night."

Can I ask if you know the club ?

Currently 1/8 th of club is closed to single guys on a Friday, and all of the club on a Saturday. Now they can attend both nights and get about 70 % access on a Friday and 30% on a Saturday. We actually do feel there’s a place for single guys in the scene!

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Sorry if a member but can’t tell as your profile is hidden

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By *asIsaCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work?

This is obv after the cov"

And when will 'after' the covid be then?

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By *ad Influence..Couple
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Sounds brilliant can't wait to come back and check it out xx

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Hey guys this sounds exciting as we have never been to your club and you’re on our radar after everything gets back to some kind of normality. We may be a rare couple as we don’t play with couples and we are straight so your Saturday night is very appealing where you are letting in single guys we can go to Liberty Elite on the Friday and onto you guys on a Saturday, makes it a worth the traveling. Look forward too giving your club a go thanks see you soon.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?

Please point out the bit in our post that mentions prices! Your assumptions are a mile out, many of our regular single guys pay less than single ladies, but you only get to know about that by joining in with the fun and being a respected club member.

Thank you. I do notice that prices aren't mentioned so that was an assumption/theoretical comment on my behalf which I accept could be incorrect.

However from the original post it does sound as if at least half the clubs facilities will be inaccessible to single guys on any given night.

Can I ask if you know the club ?

Currently 1/8 th of club is closed to single guys on a Friday, and all of the club on a Saturday. Now they can attend both nights and get about 70 % access on a Friday and 30% on a Saturday. We actually do feel there’s a place for single guys in the scene! "

Ok, that's interesting.

As said before, I think opening in the daytime is an inspired idea and the changes to Saturdays could work out very well for the Midlands scene (provided that the club spaces don't simply become a holding pen for blokes!).

I am very familiar with the club and its layout so I'm not trying to start an argument or make criticisms. However based on the existing chillout lounge and Flirts becoming couples only on Fridays it sounds as if guys will have less space available than currently (at present it is only the couples only room which is off limits).

Could I also ask if this would also apply on very busy events such as FFFF?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Haven't been to Xstasia for a long time. In fact I remember the walk of shame all too well as a single fem, so flirts was an excellent addition. I remember feeling slightly over whelmed at the size of the club so the idea to make different areas really appeals, but the draw for us would be the daytime opening. We love well run events such as Milf Mon at Townhouse and MOTD at Cupids.

I am sure you will go from strength to strength and look forward to seeing your changes after all this madness ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some constructive ideas going on by the team,

And I’m sure you will do the best to make it work for everyone.

Looking forward to the reopening;)

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Can’t wait to try it all out!

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Sounds great, hope it doesn't effect single guys on a BMFC night too much but imagine the extra couples beds in the chill out room for couples would concentrate the single males and bbc loving couples downstairs in the main play area?

From a social point of view it will hopefully allow single guys to know which couples are interested in playing with them.

Out of interest have you put any fans in the play rooms? It's boiling in summer!

Tempting date but booked a room at Premier Inn in late May.

S and C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, sounds like we’re going to spend half the night exploring the club! We’re keeping an eye on both the _tasia posts about the improvements, really impressed with the thought that’s going into the club.

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By *xploringusCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi both,

Changes sound really good and give options all round. What’s not to like ......... except having to wait until we can see them in person!

Look forward to visiting the club and seeing you again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there more private lockable rooms in the main club (downstairs) am thinking busy bmfc nights too

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Are there more private lockable rooms in the main club (downstairs) am thinking busy bmfc nights too"

Yep, we've been busy!

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Sounds great, hope it doesn't effect single guys on a BMFC night too much but imagine the extra couples beds in the chill out room for couples would concentrate the single males and bbc loving couples downstairs in the main play area?

From a social point of view it will hopefully allow single guys to know which couples are interested in playing with them.

Out of interest have you put any fans in the play rooms? It's boiling in summer!

Tempting date but booked a room at Premier Inn in late May.

S and C"

May...optimistic and surprised you can book a room at the mo!

BMFC might well be an exception event to this idea, as so many couples looking to play with singles that night. Will discuss with the BMFC team when they all see what's been done.

Fans...thank you, will add to the list!

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Haven't been to Xstasia for a long time. In fact I remember the walk of shame all too well as a single fem, so flirts was an excellent addition. I remember feeling slightly over whelmed at the size of the club so the idea to make different areas really appeals, but the draw for us would be the daytime opening. We love well run events such as Milf Mon at Townhouse and MOTD at Cupids.

I am sure you will go from strength to strength and look forward to seeing your changes after all this madness ends."

At the moment we're thinking the new area as more of a cinema and play space during the day, but would always welcome a daytime event if anyone fancies something! Talk to us if you have an idea.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"New changes sound very interesting and good on Xtasia for making the most of the enforced shut down.

As a single guy though I do feel that these changes seem to be geared towards couples, it seems like on a Friday guys could potentially be prohibited from half the available club space (whilst paying full price). Understandably there seems to be a demand from couples for their own space but this system seems to create a two-tier membership.

The daytime idea sounds like a good one, especially in the summer. And having a place for single guys to go on a Saturday night sounds good, would they be paying a higher entrance fee than couples and singles though seeing as how their available space would probably be much quieter and less opportunities for social interaction?

Please point out the bit in our post that mentions prices! Your assumptions are a mile out, many of our regular single guys pay less than single ladies, but you only get to know about that by joining in with the fun and being a respected club member.

Thank you. I do notice that prices aren't mentioned so that was an assumption/theoretical comment on my behalf which I accept could be incorrect.

However from the original post it does sound as if at least half the clubs facilities will be inaccessible to single guys on any given night.

Can I ask if you know the club ?

Currently 1/8 th of club is closed to single guys on a Friday, and all of the club on a Saturday. Now they can attend both nights and get about 70 % access on a Friday and 30% on a Saturday. We actually do feel there’s a place for single guys in the scene!

Ok, that's interesting.

As said before, I think opening in the daytime is an inspired idea and the changes to Saturdays could work out very well for the Midlands scene (provided that the club spaces don't simply become a holding pen for blokes!).

I am very familiar with the club and its layout so I'm not trying to start an argument or make criticisms. However based on the existing chillout lounge and Flirts becoming couples only on Fridays it sounds as if guys will have less space available than currently (at present it is only the couples only room which is off limits).

Could I also ask if this would also apply on very busy events such as FFFF? "

Our intention is definitely not to create a holding pen! I think if you know the club well, you'll be aware of how important the balance of numbers is to us, and we really can't see that altering on a Saturday. Probably will go the other way as many "singles" are unable to get out.

Idea behind FFFF has always been a big very social orientated night, so don't see that working too well, although we do get a lot of complaints on that night about single male behaviour, so maybe its a prime target. Discuss! lol.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Sounds brilliant can't wait to come back and check it out xx"

Missing the invasion....hope you're all keeping your heads down in the valleys, xx

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Was just wondering how the social distancing is gonna work?

This is obv after the cov

And when will 'after' the covid be then?"

Was going to point you to this thread: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1005087 but then spotted you started it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe

Good for a two nighter stay

Just so greedy yous lol x

Guys it’s killing us this isolation and not seeing friends lol "

We echo this!

Can’t wait to get out and back to normal.

We like these ideas we have often wanted to do a Friday and Saturday nights as a weekend but always been put off with the single guy thing. (No offence guys just our thing) this would give us something to do and if we ever wanted to venture into the main area on a Friday we could!

Well done guys for everything you are doing and we are looking forward to exploring and supporting you!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Sounds great, hope it doesn't effect single guys on a BMFC night too much

From a social point of view it will hopefully allow single guys to know which couples are interested in playing with them"

Whenever I’ve had the opportunity to visit a club, but it’s turned out to be a BMFC night, I’ve always stayed away. Do any couples/single females go on a BMFC night NOT interested in black men?

Overlooking the term ‘holding pen’, I actually think dividing your place up to offer single guys another night to visit a club is a great idea, and especially when it means they’re automatically mingling with couples genuinely interested in single males. Saves time and disappointment all round

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Sounds great, hope it doesn't effect single guys on a BMFC night too much

From a social point of view it will hopefully allow single guys to know which couples are interested in playing with them

Whenever I’ve had the opportunity to visit a club, but it’s turned out to be a BMFC night, I’ve always stayed away. Do any couples/single females go on a BMFC night NOT interested in black men?

Overlooking the term ‘holding pen’, I actually think dividing your place up to offer single guys another night to visit a club is a great idea, and especially when it means they’re automatically mingling with couples genuinely interested in single males. Saves time and disappointment all round

"

Lots, lol....its a themed night, nothing compulsory or expected about it. You'll also find the music attracts a good crowd in.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe

Good for a two nighter stay

Just so greedy yous lol x

Guys it’s killing us this isolation and not seeing friends lol

We echo this!

Can’t wait to get out and back to normal.

We like these ideas we have often wanted to do a Friday and Saturday nights as a weekend but always been put off with the single guy thing. (No offence guys just our thing) this would give us something to do and if we ever wanted to venture into the main area on a Friday we could!

Well done guys for everything you are doing and we are looking forward to exploring and supporting you! "
In this response somewhere is what we're hoping for. A way folks can try a bit of what they want, and explore a little more if they wish. We're not after segregation, or pigeon holes, just bringing the scene together in a way that may work for all.

If you want couples for couples, you can attend on both nights,

if you want singles you can attend both nights,

if you're a single and want to meet couples, you can attend both nights,

if you're not sure about any of it, you can attend both nights and find out at your own pace.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Sounds great, hope it doesn't effect single guys on a BMFC night too much

From a social point of view it will hopefully allow single guys to know which couples are interested in playing with them

Whenever I’ve had the opportunity to visit a club, but it’s turned out to be a BMFC night, I’ve always stayed away. Do any couples/single females go on a BMFC night NOT interested in black men?

Overlooking the term ‘holding pen’, I actually think dividing your place up to offer single guys another night to visit a club is a great idea, and especially when it means they’re automatically mingling with couples genuinely interested in single males. Saves time and disappointment all round

Lots, lol....its a themed night, nothing compulsory or expected about it. You'll also find the music attracts a good crowd in. "

I’ll bear that in mind lol

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

I apologise if this is obvious to those who already know the venue intimately but, will the new daytime club have access to showers/lockers etc?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I apologise if this is obvious to those who already know the venue intimately but, will the new daytime club have access to showers/lockers etc?"

Lockers yes, showers working on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sounds good to us. Quick question where would our event stand in terms of new single male arrangements?

Regular attendees what are you thoughts on this?

If Friday you'd have smaller venue if Sat main venue, you could try both maybe

Good for a two nighter stay

Just so greedy yous lol x

Guys it’s killing us this isolation and not seeing friends lol

We echo this!

Can’t wait to get out and back to normal.

We like these ideas we have often wanted to do a Friday and Saturday nights as a weekend but always been put off with the single guy thing. (No offence guys just our thing) this would give us something to do and if we ever wanted to venture into the main area on a Friday we could!

Well done guys for everything you are doing and we are looking forward to exploring and supporting you! In this response somewhere is what we're hoping for. A way folks can try a bit of what they want, and explore a little more if they wish. We're not after segregation, or pigeon holes, just bringing the scene together in a way that may work for all.

If you want couples for couples, you can attend on both nights,

if you want singles you can attend both nights,

if you're a single and want to meet couples, you can attend both nights,

if you're not sure about any of it, you can attend both nights and find out at your own pace. "

Yes for us this perfect. Means we have something to do we know we comfortable with on both nights. But also if we ever feel we want to explore or experience something more the opportunity is there.

I think it’s a great idea and will definitely add to the experience and value of the club.

As for policing this I think most people that attend are respectful and can be trusted.

There will inevitably be some that try it but I think members will police it and report to the staff.

If it becomes a problem over time then look at measures to prevent it or instantly ban the offenders.

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Perfect idea.. the next thing is the licence time. Can it be extended to say 4pm... more time to play lol

Our licence is 24/7/365 so that isn't an issue. Keeping the staff here till 4am is lol.... "
. Licence times should be kept as it is, staff still need their rest

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It’s great that, as a club, you are trying to reach out to a wide ranging clientele and meet the needs of as many as possible.

The only word of caution I’d give is that by trying to please everyone you may end up pleasing fewer people. There’s a million and one cliches around being a jack of all trades king of none etc. From a purely business standpoint I’d just personally advise caution against trying to meet too many different needs and failing to meet any. For as many people who would be attracted by your ideas as many (or more) might be put off by them. Our own personal experience (ands it’s just that, not saying it’s everyone’s) is tgst the best clubs we have been to do what they specifically do (I.e couples only, theme nights etc) and do it well.

As I said it not a criticism and it’s great that, as a club, you are trying to do things. But for us it’s a bit like a menu at a restaurant.... I don’t want 100 choices of average food, I’d rather have 6 choices of amazing food.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"It’s great that, as a club, you are trying to reach out to a wide ranging clientele and meet the needs of as many as possible.

The only word of caution I’d give is that by trying to please everyone you may end up pleasing fewer people. There’s a million and one cliches around being a jack of all trades king of none etc. From a purely business standpoint I’d just personally advise caution against trying to meet too many different needs and failing to meet any. For as many people who would be attracted by your ideas as many (or more) might be put off by them. Our own personal experience (ands it’s just that, not saying it’s everyone’s) is tgst the best clubs we have been to do what they specifically do (I.e couples only, theme nights etc) and do it well.

As I said it not a criticism and it’s great that, as a club, you are trying to do things. But for us it’s a bit like a menu at a restaurant.... I don’t want 100 choices of average food, I’d rather have 6 choices of amazing food.

"
Great valid points. Hopefully we're just trying to sort the 6 items, and leave you to find all the wonderful varieties once in the crowd!

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It’s great that, as a club, you are trying to reach out to a wide ranging clientele and meet the needs of as many as possible.

The only word of caution I’d give is that by trying to please everyone you may end up pleasing fewer people. There’s a million and one cliches around being a jack of all trades king of none etc. From a purely business standpoint I’d just personally advise caution against trying to meet too many different needs and failing to meet any. For as many people who would be attracted by your ideas as many (or more) might be put off by them. Our own personal experience (ands it’s just that, not saying it’s everyone’s) is tgst the best clubs we have been to do what they specifically do (I.e couples only, theme nights etc) and do it well.

As I said it not a criticism and it’s great that, as a club, you are trying to do things. But for us it’s a bit like a menu at a restaurant.... I don’t want 100 choices of average food, I’d rather have 6 choices of amazing food.

Great valid points. Hopefully we're just trying to sort the 6 items, and leave you to find all the wonderful varieties once in the crowd! "

Oh absolutely, as we said it’s in no way a criticism and it’s great that your trying to improve as many peoples experience as possible. Just a personal view about swinging clubs and ‘business’ in general. Hope it’s a roaring success for you

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Okay, we love this idea.

Caters to everybody, gives everybody an option.

Can't wait to visit again with these new changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deeply miss the old (8+ years ago) dark room upstairs. The current version is small and not all too dark. Would love to see the old version or similar back had many a fun night in there

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"

Our intention is definitely not to create a holding pen! I think if you know the club well, you'll be aware of how important the balance of numbers is to us, and we really can't see that altering on a Saturday. Probably will go the other way as many "singles" are unable to get out.

Idea behind FFFF has always been a big very social orientated night, so don't see that working too well, although we do get a lot of complaints on that night about single male behaviour, so maybe its a prime target. Discuss! lol. "

Hmmm, I think the discussion on the (mis)behaviour of guys is a topic for another thread.

Regarding singles being "unable" to get out on Saturdays, I disagree. Most are genuinely single (in my experience/opinion) and I do think there is a very genuine market for a Saturday night event. However like all clubs it's success will likely depend mainly on how many women and couples use it (Flirts and the chill out lounge in this case).

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"All I know is that I am missing Xtasia very much. I can't wait to see the changes.

The door thing and single men etc. I think see how that pans out and if it does become an issue and they try to infiltrate then put something in place. I'd like to think we can trust them.

Keep on smiling.

Totally agree, think it really shouldn’t be an issue. "

As I've never actually managed to make it to your place yet I've no idea how it all worked before. However you were on the list for a visit with a lady friend of mine just prior to the current situation. So am very much looking forward to a visit a.s.a.p!

It's great to see you're still afloat and thinking of the future! I look forward to seeing all your hard work in the near future. Keep up the hard work, and good luck for the ongoing success!

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By *lack Beauty 1Man
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM uk

Omg..so cant wait until the lockdown is over and we can return to _tasia.

The new additions sound fantastic and the revamp will be awesome I'm sure..

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By *lake ElleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

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By *lake ElleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Can't wait to get back to see all the changes. Sounds like you've being keeping yourselves busy. As always, it's great to hear how open you guys are to feedback and acting on it. Hope you're all OK. Look forward to visiting you soon. Take care xx

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

Looking forward to returning to _tasia. One thing this lockdown had done is make us appreciate the one thing we take for granted and that’s making time for ourselves. The changes you have added are appealing to us. 1 question I do have is what has happened to the dark room you had upstairs? Any plans for this ?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Looking forward to returning to _tasia. One thing this lockdown had done is make us appreciate the one thing we take for granted and that’s making time for ourselves. The changes you have added are appealing to us. 1 question I do have is what has happened to the dark room you had upstairs? Any plans for this ?"

Its now the new cuckold and bull room...private and lockable. We've extended the dark grope box area downstairs, and still thinking about what to do with the cinema area down by the jacuzzi. Ideas anyone?

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over a year ago


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels."
We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels."

Some people are optimists , others pessimists, and of course there’s the realists. The problem at the moment is no one knows, but we can all decide for ourselves which we’d rather be. Now off back to your pessimist thread please and let all the clubs make their own plans. X

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels."

Well people were visiting clubs when all the other medical issues were aplenty ..... they will do the same with this. As we’ve said before whilst these particular changes dont appeal to us they will appeal to many. Clubs are business and the people who attend them are filling their social time and spending their disposable income. This will carry on as before and I wish any business trying to do the best they can all the luck in the world . The world cannot and will not stop for years.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club "

Please, you have your own thread on this topic. Please leave our ideas for the future alone!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

Please, you have your own thread on this topic. Please leave our ideas for the future alone! "

Used time productively, sorted clothing and lingerie ready to be first through your door

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club "

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

So we’d like some ideas on what we could do with the downstairs cinema area near the jacuzzi please. One group asking for it to be a dark room, but any other ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we’d like some ideas on what we could do with the downstairs cinema area near the jacuzzi please. One group asking for it to be a dark room, but any other ideas? "

We think a dark room sounds great! It’s been a topic of research recently as we add to our list of things we will try when we return to the clubs. I think we’ve posted before that it’s great to see a little optimism in print! Things will change at some point, and you guys will be ready and raring to go on safe day 1!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good cannot wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds good, Looking forward to our 1st visit when this is all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds amazing. Very much like the idea of an area that involves single males on a sat too as we rarely get a Friday free! Can't wait to be back xx

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By *icks and SucksCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"So we’d like some ideas on what we could do with the downstairs cinema area near the jacuzzi please. One group asking for it to be a dark room, but any other ideas? "

Dark room sounds amazing, L used to visit Xtasia under the old owners (yikes that is going back a long way!) and loved the dark room. Feels that the current dark area upstairs is a bit too small and gets really stuffy quickly. Also on Friday nights it is a loitering spot waiting for couples to venture in there and then pounce before they have chance to relax and get going.... more than one dark room eliminates or certainly reduces this and would be fantastic. We are yet to visit as a couple but once we are beyond this outbreak/lockdown we are hoping to very soon

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By *appytoadsCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Wow, sounds really good, because we only attend 5/6 weekends a year we see the improvements every time we visit. Looking forward to seeing the new club in August. In our opinion this is the only club we visit that strides to improve all the time. See you all soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't? "

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off

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over a year ago


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't?

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off "

We second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't?

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off

We second this "

We third it!!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"So we’d like some ideas on what we could do with the downstairs cinema area near the jacuzzi please. One group asking for it to be a dark room, but any other ideas? "

Group play room? Could have several separate play beds/sofas etc to allow for multiple group playing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we’d like some ideas on what we could do with the downstairs cinema area near the jacuzzi please. One group asking for it to be a dark room, but any other ideas?

Group play room? Could have several separate play beds/sofas etc to allow for multiple group playing?"
Second this love a room where there's a free for all.

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't?

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off

We second this

We third it!!"
we fouth it

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Looking forward to the reopening of this great club

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I've deleted some posts. Back to the op please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't?

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off

We second this

We third it!! we fouth it "

We 5th this...

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By *ecky2000Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

The Xtasia Team are doing a fantastic job in utilising this time to enhance our club experience and also offering us all an input into these changes. Massive thanks and stay safe xx

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't?

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off

We second this

We third it!! we fouth it

We 5th this... "

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

No, no it won’t. If you think we are all gonna walk around 2 meters apart and folk in offices will be sat in plastic cubicles then all I can suggest is I hope the tin hat isn’t too uncomfortable.

This club, and all others will open when the government state businesses of their licence catergory can open. Then sensible people will inform themselves and make a decision whether to attend or not. This will apply to every other business and their customers. Stop with the uninformed scaremongering as it helps no one

Where do you think this virus is going? Is it just going to disappear into thin air? Of course you have the choice to live in your own deluded world as do we and will continue to do so until a vaccine is found. The Olympic committee are now suggesting that the Olympics in summer 2021 will not go ahead if a vaccine is not found . Think you know something they don't?

They are discussing ideas for the club going forward not when it will reopen for us all a favour and bore off

We second this

We third it!! we fouth it

We 5th this... "

We 6th it..... Bore off puts it extremely well!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Someone has been keeping themselves busy lol. Can't wait to see it all.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We’ve only been to Xtasia once but really can’t wait to get back

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I've deleted some posts. Back to the op please "

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

So we’ve now moved on to the cinema room near the jacuzzi. Main shout seems to be for a dark area, so all of it, part, new bed arrangement, split into rooms? It’s a good size space so what would you like to see there?

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Maybe some room with massage table there ?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Maybe some room with massage table there ?"

There’s a massage bed in the ladies glory hole room, never seen it used apart from folks sitting on! In all honesty most of the rooms around the club could be used for massage, no reason why not and you’ll find many more are now totally private!

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford


"So we’ve now moved on to the cinema room near the jacuzzi. Main shout seems to be for a dark area, so all of it, part, new bed arrangement, split into rooms? It’s a good size space so what would you like to see there? "

It would definitely make for a good dark room can see myself in there now

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"

It would definitely make for a good dark room can see myself in there now "

Only if you have night vision goggles presumably ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t wait to see all the changes... damn it, we forgot, we’ve got to... but we are pretty sure it will be worth it!

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By *ustyBBW42Couple
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Can’t wait for it to reopen and see all the new changes x

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford


"

It would definitely make for a good dark room can see myself in there now

Only if you have night vision goggles presumably ?"
or eat carrots lol

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"So we’ve now moved on to the cinema room near the jacuzzi. Main shout seems to be for a dark area, so all of it, part, new bed arrangement, split into rooms? It’s a good size space so what would you like to see there? "

So the next question is how dark? Pitch black, ie not being able to see hand in front of face, or a twinkle of light to allow you to see somethings within the room?

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So we’ve now moved on to the cinema room near the jacuzzi. Main shout seems to be for a dark area, so all of it, part, new bed arrangement, split into rooms? It’s a good size space so what would you like to see there? "

Could you make that whole Downstairs area a ‘wet’ spa like area? So rather than seperate rooms have thst whole lower floor by the jacuzzi as a spa type area where you can stay in your towel/naked?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"So we’ve now moved on to the cinema room near the jacuzzi. Main shout seems to be for a dark area, so all of it, part, new bed arrangement, split into rooms? It’s a good size space so what would you like to see there?

Could you make that whole Downstairs area a ‘wet’ spa like area? So rather than seperate rooms have thst whole lower floor by the jacuzzi as a spa type area where you can stay in your towel/naked? "
Have been considering this option....we may try it a few times to see what the reaction is over time.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

So the next question is how dark? Pitch black, ie not being able to see hand in front of face, or a twinkle of light to allow you to see somethings within the room?

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We will say almost pitch black... that sound sexy

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

Please, you have your own thread on this topic. Please leave our ideas for the future alone! "

Many people comment on clubs or pubs but how many will jump on the first plane abroad for some sun and travel in a tin can full of others breathing in recirculated air

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"So we’d like some ideas on what we could do with the downstairs cinema area near the jacuzzi please. One group asking for it to be a dark room, but any other ideas? "

Split it into two lockable rooms separated by a see through wall

Lights in both sides that can be turned on to be watched or left dark for privacy

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.We have to trust our government to keep us safe, they will reopen the club's when they think it's safe for us. They will reopen work places soon so you can mix with hundreds of people but that's ok because you're paying taxes. . It's a joke.

Social distancing will be a way of life - especially at work . Not sure social distancing will work in a club

Please, you have your own thread on this topic. Please leave our ideas for the future alone!

Many people comment on clubs or pubs but how many will jump on the first plane abroad for some sun and travel in a tin can full of others breathing in recirculated air "
hate negativity, we all need something to look forward to and can't wait for _tasia to reopen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also cannot wait for Xtasia to reopen.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You have left yourself open to the braggers who say they have their own 2 meter rule..... Or has this been said already...

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

No matter what event it will be, we going.

We start and stay in swingers lifestyle cause Xtasia first impression and warm welcome

We only can thank you them

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do you seriously think you are going to reopen in the next couple of years ? We sincerely hope so but just cannot imagine how any club can reopen , at the earliest until a vaccine is found and widely distributed. You sound very positive so we are interested to see how all this unravels.

Some people are optimists , others pessimists, and of course there’s the realists. The problem at the moment is no one knows, but we can all decide for ourselves which we’d rather be. Now off back to your pessimist thread please and let all the clubs make their own plans. X"

A cure can be today or tomorrow. There are people who are taking advantage of the time they "have to" be closed. Now is the time where a guy can leave his tools anywhere. You do not have to make it public safe each night. A great way of getting what you want doing... DONE. The things that Xtasia are doing would not get done in a couple of days so under normal circumstances parts of the club would have to be closed. So go for it and make something positive out of a bad situation.

No one knows when this will be sorted. Make the best of a situation. Luckily there are enough people who understand that the club will open when the club is allowed to, be it be it in a week, a month, a year.... etc... Until the virus is under control there is no known time for this to continue so unsure why the poster knows when things will be open. Most people are looking to the future and making the return to normal BETTER then the normal. Let's look at the positive side of Corona... There are going to be some things come out of it better. No one knows when it will all get better. Once a cure is found then get the ill people better and then make the well people immune. It is a matter of time. You say that Xtasia are being positive about this. Would you prefer them just to be negative. Pardon the pun and remembering the 2m social distancing but they are taking a hands on approach. Well done. Keep it up.

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By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You have left yourself open to the braggers who say they have their own 2 meter rule..... Or has this been said already... "

I did not actually quote this so to those who wander what it was…. Given a 2m rule for social distancing at clubs (P.S. to all the people who are going to say … clubs can not open till.... IT WAS A JOKE.)

Mine is a meter (from the floor). I think my legs are a few CM under a meter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have missed something and not familiar with the club, but how would couples wanting a single male to join them work if single males are barred from couples areas?

I must admit that one of the reasons for not visiting clubs is the feeling that, as a single male, I'd be treated as a problem and a second tier member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may have missed something and not familiar with the club, but how would couples wanting a single male to join them work if single males are barred from couples areas?

I must admit that one of the reasons for not visiting clubs is the feeling that, as a single male, I'd be treated as a problem and a second tier member. "

Surely any interested couples could come into an area where single guys are allowed?

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I may have missed something and not familiar with the club, but how would couples wanting a single male to join them work if single males are barred from couples areas?

I must admit that one of the reasons for not visiting clubs is the feeling that, as a single male, I'd be treated as a problem and a second tier member. "

Yep, you’ve missed something totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I may have missed something and not familiar with the club, but how would couples wanting a single male to join them work if single males are barred from couples areas?

I must admit that one of the reasons for not visiting clubs is the feeling that, as a single male, I'd be treated as a problem and a second tier member.

Yep, you’ve missed something totally. "

I'll remain in ignorance then ...

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I may have missed something and not familiar with the club, but how would couples wanting a single male to join them work if single males are barred from couples areas?

I must admit that one of the reasons for not visiting clubs is the feeling that, as a single male, I'd be treated as a problem and a second tier member.

Yep, you’ve missed something totally.

I'll remain in ignorance then ... "
Simple case of re-reading,

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By *ustyBBW42Couple
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Is there any pics of the new stuff that’s been done x x x

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By *reedom78555Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Having visited other clubs with couples only/no single men areas trust won’t work. There will always be some who pass the divide, and that was just with 1 room to see. A whole club will be too much temptation.

I’d say a combination of wristbands and a staff member on the door. Could work with cctv but a nimble guy could sneak through with a couple. A remotely located staff member could be good for reporting issues to / spotting them for themselves aswell.

I think it would make the club busier with females and couples..... when the shufflers have to leave at other clubs the couples numbers soar!!!!

2 clubs in 1 to cater for all tastes.

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By *reedom78555Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I may have missed something and not familiar with the club, but how would couples wanting a single male to join them work if single males are barred from couples areas?

I must admit that one of the reasons for not visiting clubs is the feeling that, as a single male, I'd be treated as a problem and a second tier member. "

If you visit a club you will very quickly see the wanking zombies that are a real nuisance. They just shuffle from room to room like a zombie hunting women not brains. Normally naked. Normally wanking. And normally with their locker key rattling on that wrist.

We’ve been in a pool and a random guy was 3/4metres away staring at Mrs wanking away. I said “do you mind”..... ignored. “Oi GO AWAY” his face made it clear he wasn’t happy..... this is swinging not “free” prostitution.

A polite guy that can chat and smells fresh is a very different class of customer..... unless they wait for the mr of a couple to take a loo break then swoop in on a fem.... that’s annoying.

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Is there any pics of the new stuff that’s been done x x x "

Hoping to get some up on the Xtasia web site soon, once all the pots of paint have been moved out of shot, lol. Just annoyed so much has changed since we did the virtual club tour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle "

Even missing people don't like lol. Be good to have social scene back for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle

Even missing people don't like lol. Be good to have social scene back for sure "

Hahah good to see you guys miss us regardless then happy birthday for the other day lovely

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle

Even missing people don't like lol. Be good to have social scene back for sure

Hahah good to see you guys miss us regardless then happy birthday for the other day lovely "

It's the banter isn't it eh. Birthday is Monday, I was having a month now not even a proper day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle

Even missing people don't like lol. Be good to have social scene back for sure

Hahah good to see you guys miss us regardless then happy birthday for the other day lovely

It's the banter isn't it eh. Birthday is Monday, I was having a month now not even a proper day "

Understand all too well mrs C 40th today and no celebrations as intended x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle

Even missing people don't like lol. Be good to have social scene back for sure

Hahah good to see you guys miss us regardless then happy birthday for the other day lovely

It's the banter isn't it eh. Birthday is Monday, I was having a month now not even a proper day

Understand all too well mrs C 40th today and no celebrations as intended x "

No family visiting either. Well good excuse to party when we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proof is in the pudding totally respect and admire all the work and drive these fabulous club owners are doing to try and accommodate and improve! If it can be controlled regarding the split and single guys trying to abuse and crash then it’s an absolute winner for all .... as this caters to those looking for this.

Missing the place like crazy and all our friends and social circle

Even missing people don't like lol. Be good to have social scene back for sure

Hahah good to see you guys miss us regardless then happy birthday for the other day lovely

It's the banter isn't it eh. Birthday is Monday, I was having a month now not even a proper day

Understand all too well mrs C 40th today and no celebrations as intended x

No family visiting either. Well good excuse to party when we can "

Absolutely we’ve kept everyone away. Gloves and masks when shopping - love reading the changes and improvements here x

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm still working (fortunately/unfortunately) but am missing the club and friends like crazy. I have even given up vodka

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By *tasia OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I'm still working (fortunately/unfortunately) but am missing the club and friends like crazy. I have even given up vodka "
Going to be a new world out the other side of this!

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