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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partner has said she’d love to visit a swingers club basically to watch and see what goes on but does not want to join in any activities. She’s said it’ll make her extremely horny just watching other couples “playing” and perhaps then may like to go to a private room. Suppose my question is can any couples recommend a good chilled out couples only club night where non pushy and would suit my voyeuristic partner!! This is obviously after this covid madness has finished. We’re looking around North Yorkshire/northern England area. TIA and stay safe everyone

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You could try Quest in Leeds.

Hopefully it will be open again after all this is over.

We certainly recommend it.

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By *edGMan
over a year ago

Daventry

We have visited several clubs in different parts of the country and find that nobody is ever pushy. There are pretty clear rules and respect regarding peoples boundaries and experience. I don't know where you live but I think ALL clubs around the country would be the same.

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By *argudMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

angels melksham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner has said she’d love to visit a swingers club basically to watch and see what goes on but does not want to join in any activities. She’s said it’ll make her extremely horny just watching other couples “playing” and perhaps then may like to go to a private room. Suppose my question is can any couples recommend a good chilled out couples only club night where non pushy and would suit my voyeuristic partner!! This is obviously after this covid madness has finished. We’re looking around North Yorkshire/northern England area. TIA and stay safe everyone "

Cupids, its the perfect club for newbies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies all will deffo be taking up some of the advise in hopefully the not too distant future

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"We have visited several clubs in different parts of the country and find that nobody is ever pushy. There are pretty clear rules and respect regarding peoples boundaries and experience. I don't know where you live but I think ALL clubs around the country would be the same."

Unfortunately there are a few pushy guys, at some clubs more than others. Pushy as in standing close or edging closer to a couple or group, cock in hand. They normally don’t say anything, they just stand there playing with themselves.

Your preference to start with couples nights is a good one, Saturday nights is the most common couples nights in most clubs, Cupid’s for example also does a great Wednesday night couples event.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

We get lots of newbies at cupids all the time just remember your never alone with being new we've all been there or taking the first step hope you have a great time where ever you choose xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Try a couples night. If it’s a mixed night it might scare her off. Cupid’s or quest are great.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"We have visited several clubs in different parts of the country and find that nobody is ever pushy. There are pretty clear rules and respect regarding peoples boundaries and experience. I don't know where you live but I think ALL clubs around the country would be the same.

Unfortunately there are a few pushy guys, at some clubs more than others. Pushy as in standing close or edging closer to a couple or group, cock in hand. They normally don’t say anything, they just stand there playing with themselves.

Your preference to start with couples nights is a good one, Saturday nights is the most common couples nights in most clubs, Cupid’s for example also does a great Wednesday night couples event."

I love couples night on a Wednesday at Cupid’s.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Checkout AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent.

Lots of good reviews on here to look at when you can.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Townhouse would be quite a good club to visit for someone to go to for the first time and not too far from you as well. Townhouse seem to look after their newbies very well!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"You could try Quest in Leeds.

Hopefully it will be open again after all this is over.

We certainly recommend it. "

We were going to say the same thing. We would add, 1st and 3rd Saturday nights of each month are couples only. We have sent many newbies to clubs in that direction and every couple we have sent have returned as they loved it. Highly recommend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner has said she’d love to visit a swingers club basically to watch and see what goes on but does not want to join in any activities. She’s said it’ll make her extremely horny just watching other couples “playing” and perhaps then may like to go to a private room. Suppose my question is can any couples recommend a good chilled out couples only club night where non pushy and would suit my voyeuristic partner!! This is obviously after this covid madness has finished. We’re looking around North Yorkshire/northern England area. TIA and stay safe everyone "

Would this be your FWB partner? Why not do a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely try Cupid's

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"You could try Quest in Leeds.

Hopefully it will be open again after all this is over.

We certainly recommend it.

We were going to say the same thing. We would add, 1st and 3rd Saturday nights of each month are couples only. We have sent many newbies to clubs in that direction and every couple we have sent have returned as they loved it. Highly recommend "

We can recommend Quest as well

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area


"My partner has said she’d love to visit a swingers club basically to watch and see what goes on but does not want to join in any activities. She’s said it’ll make her extremely horny just watching other couples “playing” and perhaps then may like to go to a private room. Suppose my question is can any couples recommend a good chilled out couples only club night where non pushy and would suit my voyeuristic partner!! This is obviously after this covid madness has finished. We’re looking around North Yorkshire/northern England area. TIA and stay safe everyone "

I've been a member at Chameleons for a fair few years and only ever go to socialise or watch.. And never been approached by a single male in all that time.. Hence its always a social or a watch visit..

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By *38msf471Couple
over a year ago

Hanley


"My partner has said she’d love to visit a swingers club basically to watch and see what goes on but does not want to join in any activities. She’s said it’ll make her extremely horny just watching other couples “playing” and perhaps then may like to go to a private room. Suppose my question is can any couples recommend a good chilled out couples only club night where non pushy and would suit my voyeuristic partner!! This is obviously after this covid madness has finished. We’re looking around North Yorkshire/northern England area. TIA and stay safe everyone "

Atlantis in Stoke. Great for newbies. Great social side as well as swinging side. Plenty of playroom - open and private. Good luck with your venture into swinging

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *amesandRuthCouple
over a year ago

Denton


"Checkout AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent.

Lots of good reviews on here to look at when you can."

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

We have a few events at Townhouse which are perfect for what you’re looking for. Our newbies night is fab, great mix of first timers, new to the club but not the scene & club regulars. There are a handful of club buddies to support the event host & Make sure it’s a great night for everyone.

It’s held with out Live Lounge event, so there’s music, Karaoke and loads of laughs to be had in our music room, or just hang out in the bar, or out in the courtyard of the weather is good and socialise with the other guests.

Playrooms are open for anyone to use, and voyeurs are kore than welcome to wander around & check out the action. And if you wanted to take advantage of one of the private rooms on your own, you can!

There are also lots of other events where there is a great social side of things & there is never any pressure to play. Dress down is also optional, so you go completely at your own pace with that!

Hopefully we will see you there when this chaos is all over with! xx

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