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"Go in chatrooms and ask to be veried. Probably more likely to get veried if not naked at the time." This. | |||
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"Go in chatrooms and ask to be veried. Probably more likely to get veried if not naked at the time." Thanks you.. I'll do that this evening x | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x" So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. " As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet?" Agree. If im in a chatrroom as I speak to a single on cam while watching him nd his photos match his cam. I will happily veri him | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet?" I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. | |||
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"So what do you thing is the best solution for those that can't be verify by can before meet?" Go to an organised social, or a club. There you can chat, meet, network, socialise, and make friends...and in the case of the club, maybe even have some fun. | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. " A meet in person veri could mean any of the above too imho | |||
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" I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. " To you, other people may not think so. To be fair, having a meet veri won't tell anyone else whether he is good in bed, he may only float your boat, he may not float the next persons boat. Having a meet veri also won't stop a person turning into a stalker It can also prove he is a nice man to chat to on cam. Ok you don't know if he will turn up for a meet, but verified people have been known not to turn up either. | |||
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" I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. To you, other people may not think so. To be fair, having a meet veri won't tell anyone else whether he is good in bed, he may only float your boat, he may not float the next persons boat. Having a meet veri also won't stop a person turning into a stalker It can also prove he is a nice man to chat to on cam. Ok you don't know if he will turn up for a meet, but verified people have been known not to turn up either. "  | |||
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" I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. To you, other people may not think so. To be fair, having a meet veri won't tell anyone else whether he is good in bed, he may only float your boat, he may not float the next persons boat. Having a meet veri also won't stop a person turning into a stalker It can also prove he is a nice man to chat to on cam. Ok you don't know if he will turn up for a meet, but verified people have been known not to turn up either. " Anyone can "play nice" on cam for a few minutes. In person you tend to get more of a "feel" for how they really are, and how they interact with others. It's not foolproof, and there are no sure-fire certainties, but on a scale of what veries are worth, meet in person, and especially "play" veries by far outrank cam veries for us. | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. " A cam veri proves exactly the same as a meet veri. The person is the gender they claim to be and they look like their photos. A cam veri will give a good idea of his voice, the language he uses, manners, dress sense, sense of humour. You may think they're worthless, to others they're a godsend. I'll ask again as you didn't answer, has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to arrange a meet? | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. A cam veri proves exactly the same as a meet veri. The person is the gender they claim to be and they look like their photos. A cam veri will give a good idea of his voice, the language he uses, manners, dress sense, sense of humour. You may think they're worthless, to others they're a godsend. I'll ask again as you didn't answer, has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to arrange a meet?" Nope, never had a single guy profile, but that doesn't mean anything. I understand that guys find it hard on here, we have many single male friends. We have chatted with them about all sorts of things related to swinging, from socials, to getting meets, sending messages, etc. and discussed what works and what doesn't. By far the most successful guys are the ones that are regulars at the organised socials around here. | |||
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" but on a scale of what veries are worth, meet in person, and especially "play" veries by far outrank cam veries for us. " I am glad you said " for us" We have never taken any notice of any veri's we have just trusted our own gut, but I am aware that others like to use verifications as a benchmark, I would never dream of saying they are worthless to that person | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. A cam veri proves exactly the same as a meet veri. The person is the gender they claim to be and they look like their photos. A cam veri will give a good idea of his voice, the language he uses, manners, dress sense, sense of humour. You may think they're worthless, to others they're a godsend. I'll ask again as you didn't answer, has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to arrange a meet? Nope, never had a single guy profile, but that doesn't mean anything. I understand that guys find it hard on here, we have many single male friends. We have chatted with them about all sorts of things related to swinging, from socials, to getting meets, sending messages, etc. and discussed what works and what doesn't. By far the most successful guys are the ones that are regulars at the organised socials around here. " If you've never had a single male profile you couldn't possibly appreciate how difficult it is for some single guys, what's irrelevant and worthless to you is priceless to someone else. The facility is there for a reason. Don't knock what you don't use or have no appreciation for. | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. A cam veri proves exactly the same as a meet veri. The person is the gender they claim to be and they look like their photos. A cam veri will give a good idea of his voice, the language he uses, manners, dress sense, sense of humour. You may think they're worthless, to others they're a godsend. I'll ask again as you didn't answer, has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to arrange a meet? Nope, never had a single guy profile, but that doesn't mean anything. I understand that guys find it hard on here, we have many single male friends. We have chatted with them about all sorts of things related to swinging, from socials, to getting meets, sending messages, etc. and discussed what works and what doesn't. By far the most successful guys are the ones that are regulars at the organised socials around here. If you've never had a single male profile you couldn't possibly appreciate how difficult it is for some single guys, what's irrelevant and worthless to you is priceless to someone else. The facility is there for a reason. Don't knock what you don't use or have no appreciation for." fab works how people wish to use it would someone criticise you for going to costa and having a tea! each to their own | |||
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"Let's look at it another way. If you were part of the "target audience" of a single make, would you rather meet ... Bloke A, who flicks on his cam and gets a veri. Or.. Bloke B, who makes an effort to do some research, finds a social near him, puts his name down, makes an effort to grab a shower and dress tidy, and shows up, mingling, chatting, and picks up a small handful of veries? I know which one would get the vote from most people we know. "Id see which one i got on with. I dont show my veris yet im verifed so why should it matter | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. " As I've stated many, many times before, if two unverified people meet up and one gets cam verified, they can then meet verify each other. I'm more than happy to help verify faces if I'm in the cam rooms. I've helped quite a few to get started like this. | |||
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"Hey all, I'm struggling to get any meets on my new profile and was wondering if anyone would be kind enough to cam verify me? Not entirely sure how it works so any suggestions would be appreciated x So... you get cam veried, what does it prove? That you are a guy? Well done.. you are part of a group that no-one makes fake profiles of. What else? Anyone? Cam veries have limited value, in that they can prove (if they are not fake), that a female or couple are just that. Other than that, cam veries for a single guy are a waste of time. As many many members won't meet single men who are unverified, I'd say a cam veri has a pretty significant value. Has the male half of your profile been a single man on Fab trying to get a meet? I ask again, what does a cam Veri prove? Does it prove that he will turn up? Does it prove that he's a nice guy? Does it prove he's good in bed, or even that he has a reasonable idea what bits go where? Does it prove he's not a mad stalkerish axe fiend? Nope, none of the above. On the whole, cam veries are worthless. As I've stated many, many times before, if two unverified people meet up and one gets cam verified, they can then meet verify each other. I'm more than happy to help verify faces if I'm in the cam rooms. I've helped quite a few to get started like this." Likewise | |||
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"Let's look at it another way. If you were part of the "target audience" of a single make, would you rather meet ... Bloke A, who flicks on his cam and gets a veri.
"This is how we used to decide who to meet, chat on cam to see if we get on enough to meet up. Men having meet cam or no veri's were not an issue for us. We used our own judgement to decide who to meet It just shows we are all different. Your posts suggest that you think your way is the only way ...it isn't. People can decide for themselves | |||
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"Let's look at it another way. If you were part of the "target audience" of a single make, would you rather meet ... Bloke A, who flicks on his cam and gets a veri.
This is how we used to decide who to meet, chat on cam to see if we get on enough to meet up. Men having meet cam or no veri's were not an issue for us. We used our own judgement to decide who to meet
It just shows we are all different. Your posts suggest that you think your way is the only way ...it isn't. People can decide for themselves" | |||
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