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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who thinks they should be a bi directing room ? because bi and tv s dont like going into directing rooms because don t feel accepted and some get bullied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree

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By *r 007Man
over a year ago

harrogate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of a few special rooms that it would be good to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better posted in site admin and feedback

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By *asha xTV/TS
over a year ago

west london

I think it would be popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that would be good

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Oh yes

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

I love being directed and told what to do.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people have been asking for a bi directing room for a long time but for some reason they don't want it

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By *amara_ThomasTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

I'd really love to have such a room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a bit discriminatory and homophobic of the site cos people have been asking since the bi room was created , maybe men directing men is a bit too taboo ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but then again who knows

who cares either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I just want to be taken seriously I find lots of bullying on here for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never feel comfy in the directing rooms cos most are straight and i feel unwelcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d personally prefer the ability to have private one to one cam viewing, that way the non directing rules can stay in place in the main room.

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

Would be good to have a directing bi room even if it's only open for silver and gold members, as allready said us tv/ts and gay people don't get no welcome in the straight directing rooms and when people try to direct in the big room they get a warning then second time a short ban, and that in my eyes discrimination against us so come on fabswingers we begin for a bit directing room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant see there being a bi directing room being allowed , maybe its far taboo for the site lol

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"its a bit discriminatory and homophobic of the site cos people have been asking since the bi room was created , maybe men directing men is a bit too taboo ??"

Don’t believe it’s discriminatory or homophobic..... while I agree with the room being a positive move the directing rooms are open to all! We play on cam and it’s domme fucking sub so there’s a bi slant to it we have fun in the directing rooms.

Bi directing better.... but let’s not go with the discrimination aspect !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its a bit discriminatory and homophobic of the site cos people have been asking since the bi room was created , maybe men directing men is a bit too taboo ??

Don’t believe it’s discriminatory or homophobic..... while I agree with the room being a positive move the directing rooms are open to all! We play on cam and it’s domme fucking sub so there’s a bi slant to it we have fun in the directing rooms.

Bi directing better.... but let’s not go with the discrimination aspect !"
sorry but thats how it feels

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"its a bit discriminatory and homophobic of the site cos people have been asking since the bi room was created , maybe men directing men is a bit too taboo ??

Don’t believe it’s discriminatory or homophobic..... while I agree with the room being a positive move the directing rooms are open to all! We play on cam and it’s domme fucking sub so there’s a bi slant to it we have fun in the directing rooms.

Bi directing better.... but let’s not go with the discrimination aspect !sorry but thats how it feels "

That sort of shuts things down as it’s ‘feelings’. But what do you base that on? There’s a bi chat room but none for any other kink, gender, sexuality or any of the protected characteristics. If all these were catered for and not your gender or sexuality then that, I guess, would be discriminatory. There’s not and I think your feelings are unsubstantiated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

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By *ecretbear94Man
over a year ago

travelling

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!"

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? "
talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me "

Sorry how is that belittling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me

Sorry how is that belittling? "
well if you cant see my diversity and the problems a trans person may encounter then its no point talking to you ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? "
and i havent requested a chat room for soley for tgirls and admiirers either ! so not my own !

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me

Sorry how is that belittling? well if you cant see my diversity and the problems a trans person may encounter then its no point talking to you , "

You aren’t diverse here!, look around you! As Bisexual you are catered for having a chat room... more than others! I agree a bi directing room would be a useful addition but ‘discriminatory’, ‘homophobic’ ??? Maybe save those words for when they are relevant ... they could become overused!!

Have another quick check of our profile .... you may find I know more than you think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me

Sorry how is that belittling? well if you cant see my diversity and the problems a trans person may encounter then its no point talking to you ,

You aren’t diverse here!, look around you! As Bisexual you are catered for having a chat room... more than others! I agree a bi directing room would be a useful addition but ‘discriminatory’, ‘homophobic’ ??? Maybe save those words for when they are relevant ... they could become overused!!

Have another quick check of our profile .... you may find I know more than you think! "
im not bisexual tho im gay ! if you fit in and feel comfy in the existing directing rooms then whoopy doo ! what if you didnt ?? and i am entitled to express myself as i see relevant to myself , if you dont like that then its a bit of hard luck !

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me

Sorry how is that belittling? well if you cant see my diversity and the problems a trans person may encounter then its no point talking to you ,

You aren’t diverse here!, look around you! As Bisexual you are catered for having a chat room... more than others! I agree a bi directing room would be a useful addition but ‘discriminatory’, ‘homophobic’ ??? Maybe save those words for when they are relevant ... they could become overused!!

Have another quick check of our profile .... you may find I know more than you think! im not bisexual tho im gay ! if you fit in and feel comfy in the existing directing rooms then whoopy doo ! what if you didnt ?? and i am entitled to express myself as i see relevant to myself , if you dont like that then its a bit of hard luck !"

So you’d need a gay room then? Don’t always feel comfy there so we swap rooms or go off...

you are entitled to express yourself as you wish what I have to admit is that I don’t like “homophobic” and “discriminatory” as you use them.... you aren’t excluded due to your sexuality or gender you just aren’t catered for specifically there’s a hell of a difference! If your ‘expression’ is simply to throw slanderous, unfounded accusations then I am similarly entitled to say you’re talking shite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thers 5 directing rooms yes i know however if you are a tgirl then i dont feel comfy using those rooms , some can be hostile towards us , some are not but having spent 6 yrs trying to fit in in the main directing rooms i know what im talking about , maybe if you was a tgirl you may have more of an appreciation of where im coming from , some tgirls go in there and feel ok but i dont !!

But anyone may feel similarly .... fat, thin, black, white, male, female, hung, small, etc can be made to feel uncomfortable .... another man may feel uncomfortable for any reason should they request their own chat room ? talk about splitting hairs and being pedantic !!! you know exactly what i mean ! plz dont try to be little me

Sorry how is that belittling? well if you cant see my diversity and the problems a trans person may encounter then its no point talking to you ,

You aren’t diverse here!, look around you! As Bisexual you are catered for having a chat room... more than others! I agree a bi directing room would be a useful addition but ‘discriminatory’, ‘homophobic’ ??? Maybe save those words for when they are relevant ... they could become overused!!

Have another quick check of our profile .... you may find I know more than you think! im not bisexual tho im gay ! if you fit in and feel comfy in the existing directing rooms then whoopy doo ! what if you didnt ?? and i am entitled to express myself as i see relevant to myself , if you dont like that then its a bit of hard luck !

So you’d need a gay room then? Don’t always feel comfy there so we swap rooms or go off...

you are entitled to express yourself as you wish what I have to admit is that I don’t like “homophobic” and “discriminatory” as you use them.... you aren’t excluded due to your sexuality or gender you just aren’t catered for specifically there’s a hell of a difference! If your ‘expression’ is simply to throw slanderous, unfounded accusations then I am similarly entitled to say you’re talking shite! "
but i havent asked for a gay room have i ? and i doubt you have ever been the victim of discrimination or biggotory in ur life so i think ur taking out ur asshole !

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Keep it civil

Admin will have seen the suggestion, if they are going to implement it they will start a thread letting us all know

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