FabSwingers.com forum: finding someone in chat

By *hitewisper OP Man
over a year ago

dudley cosley

it's a pity theres know way to find someone in chat, without having to scroll through every room

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

Whenever this is suggested, the counter-argument that it would be a "stalkers tool" is made. The only way I can see it making everyone happy, would be to be presented with a dialogue box every time you entered chat

"Do you wish to share your room location with :"

and then a dropdown, like PM & Poke, for Anybody/Nobody/Friends Only, which remembered your previous choice.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I have never understood the stalker argument.

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By *irmbutfairMan
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

The stalker argument doesn't really hold water to me. A deranged obsessed stalker will surly cheerfully scroll through rooms looking for the object of their "affection", and if it's just a mate your wanting to say hi (yeah cos that's why we look for friends ??) it's a pain.

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By *verReadyAndMinxyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

If you have a stalker then you'd block them - simples.

I think it would be a good feature. And I agree with the opt in/out feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often thought this should be a feature, come on Fab make it happen

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

If it was a deranged obsessed stalker, then I would block them. However, some people think that chatting to them makes you BFF's and I sometimes switch rooms to avoid having to be unkind to these kind of chatters. I don't want to snub them, and I don't want to block them, I just want to be able to get away from them for a bit of peace and quiet. That's why I would want to be able to set my privacy settings to prevent anyone (except friends) finding out which chat room I am in.

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By *hitewisper OP Man
over a year ago

dudley cosley

It's a shame that a few idiots can spoil everyone else from having a user friendly site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than seeing a local hot woman in chat and then spending 20 mins trying to find her until you eventually just give up and go make a brew..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing worse than seeing a local hot woman in chat and then spending 20 mins trying to find her until you eventually just give up and go make a brew.."

Send her a message and ask her....if you can't as you are blocked due to gender/age etc then finding her in chat doesn't really matter.

If she doesn't read your message she is totally at liberty to reply if she is interested - if she doesn't then again finding her in chat doesn't really matter..

Or am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was a deranged obsessed stalker, then I would block them. However, some people think that chatting to them makes you BFF's and I sometimes switch rooms to avoid having to be unkind to these kind of chatters. I don't want to snub them, and I don't want to block them, I just want to be able to get away from them for a bit of peace and quiet. That's why I would want to be able to set my privacy settings to prevent anyone (except friends) finding out which chat room I am in."

I know just leave chat open all the time, but not in any room so people tell when I actually go in so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing worse than seeing a local hot woman in chat and then spending 20 mins trying to find her until you eventually just give up and go make a brew..

Send her a message and ask her....if you can't as you are blocked due to gender/age etc then finding her in chat doesn't really matter.

If she doesn't read your message she is totally at liberty to reply if she is interested - if she doesn't then again finding her in chat doesn't really matter..

Or am I missing something?

What he said

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If a person has another blocked because of filters or if not blocked doesn't answer their mail they could still have a good laugh in chat.

We met someone from chat once because he made us laugh in there and we had his age group filtered at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasnt bloody me tho rugby

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If I were looking for a friend I would ask them which room they were in

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