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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a quick question but would it be possible to have a chat room which is for the bbw's and their admirers on this site. I feel it would give us bigger people more chance to get to know others in a more relaxed and informal way knowing that those in the room enjoy the company of a BBW person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I support this motion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great idea

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By *irthngushCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Yes defo agree with the idea

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, count me in too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I think it would be great to have this chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !"

Or have a room for rude people

Surely the op is entitled to ask a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !"

They have a bi chat room so why not ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say there should be one. My full support. Jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AMEN!! Loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !

Or have a room for rude people

Surely the op is entitled to ask a question?"

While they could have put it across in a better way I'm inclined to agree.

Sexuality can't be helped the main three being straight, gay and bi.

BBW is a personal taste, if there were rooms for personal taste you could argue for hours which ones should be there BBW, BBC, Transgendered, foot fetish, S+M, Dommes and Subs.... And many, many more.

See where I'm going?

It's just as easy to search for what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !

Or have a room for rude people

Surely the op is entitled to ask a question?

While they could have put it across in a better way I'm inclined to agree.

Sexuality can't be helped the main three being straight, gay and bi.

BBW is a personal taste, if there were rooms for personal taste you could argue for hours which ones should be there BBW, BBC, Transgendered, foot fetish, S+M, Dommes and Subs.... And many, many more.

See where I'm going?

It's just as easy to search for what you're looking for. "

Much politer way of expressing an opinion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too. I can go in the chatroom and say hi all day but i still get ignored. So pray tell why is it selfish to have a room where the BBW's can go, chat and relax with other likeminded bbw's. There is nothing stopping anybody entering it, it isnt just exclusivly for them, but it is a place that they know they will be spoken to by peeps who genuiely want to speak to them, even with them being the larger size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use the chat rooms but I think it sounds like.a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great idea, as I'm an BBW admirer.

And yes, why can't a person be entitled to an opinion?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And why shudnt they each have their own personal space's within a chatroom ??

Example............midsroom, east anglia, USA, Canada.........just a few to mention, they each have their own rooms, they may not use them and we are all free to visit what ever room you may like to visit, so again i cant see the problem in suggesting a BBW room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too."

I get ignored by people when they seem I'm trans/genderqueer. So should we have a chatroom for that?

Perhaps another one because some guys don't like bald women. We could have a chatroom for that too.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Pretty soon well have so many sub sections of chat rooms there will only be a handful of people in each!!

On the few occasions I have been in chat I have never had an issue getting people to chat to me but then I muscle my way in to conversations lol if you just sit there and say hi you will get nowhere. Would you turn up to a pub and just sit and say hi hoping people will talk to you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too. I can go in the chatroom and say hi all day but i still get ignored. So pray tell why is it selfish to have a room where the BBW's can go, chat and relax with other likeminded bbw's. There is nothing stopping anybody entering it, it isnt just exclusivly for them, but it is a place that they know they will be spoken to by peeps who genuiely want to speak to them, even with them being the larger size."

The same happens to us because of our age and we accept that is people's prerogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away. "

So agree with you on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !"

There's one for bi people so why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't use the chat rooms after I was verbally abused on there so it did put me off.

Not sure if it would be a great idea us bigger ladies are people too would just be another way off of keeping us apart from everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some peeps find it easy to talk to others even if they dont know them but there are some who find it difficult. I for one will talk to anyone who will talk to me, however i am shy around peeps who i dont know. This suggestion wasnt and isnt intended to segregate anyone into anything, i for one may be a BBW but i am also a bisexual subby who is owned and also a babygirl aka 'little'. We all have our preferences, i for one have a few as listed, but that doesnt mean i dont want to chat to others who arent included in those preferences. I however would like to chat to genuine peeps who like the me are either BBW or are admirers of them. So no i dont see this post as being selfish or selective, it is just about finding somewhere that you can go into, relax and chat.................how many of you have sent various emails and recieved no response, to me that is just like entering a chat room, saying hi and getting ignored, doesnt matter what room , it happens. I would just like a room where i can feel comfortable in, thats all.

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By *aughtyal80Man
over a year ago

darlington


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away. "

Why are all the gorgeous larger ladies so far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away.

Why are all the gorgeous larger ladies so far away "

We are everywhere, we just need to be found

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some peeps find it easy to talk to others even if they dont know them but there are some who find it difficult. I for one will talk to anyone who will talk to me, however i am shy around peeps who i dont know. This suggestion wasnt and isnt intended to segregate anyone into anything, i for one may be a BBW but i am also a bisexual subby who is owned and also a babygirl aka 'little'. We all have our preferences, i for one have a few as listed, but that doesnt mean i dont want to chat to others who arent included in those preferences. I however would like to chat to genuine peeps who like the me are either BBW or are admirers of them. So no i dont see this post as being selfish or selective, it is just about finding somewhere that you can go into, relax and chat.................how many of you have sent various emails and recieved no response, to me that is just like entering a chat room, saying hi and getting ignored, doesnt matter what room , it happens. I would just like a room where i can feel comfortable in, thats all."

I don't use chat so having separate rooms for different people makes no difference to me but surely it will be just as easy for people to ignore you in a specially designated BBW room as any other.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"I personally don't use the chat rooms after I was verbally abused on there so it did put me off.

Not sure if it would be a great idea us bigger ladies are people too would just be another way off of keeping us apart from everyone else. "

I had a similar encounter, after saying cheer up chuck (or something along those lines) to a woman on cam who promptly smiled and responded in a world of my own lol.

I was attacked by a TV on a rant about she doesn't have to smile if she doesn't want to etc which started a bandwagon of people having a go.

Not a pleasant experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


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I don't use chat so having separate rooms for different people makes no difference to me but surely it will be just as easy for people to ignore you in a specially designated BBW room as any other. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i agree nicecouple, it doesnt matter where or wat room you are in, peeps will ignore you as they dont know you or dont feel like that you fit in with them.

But on the same note, why cant we have a place where we feel secure, because those in there want to be in there ?

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

Have you considered that it probably wasn't your weight that decided whether people speak to you or not?

Maybe it's just me but I wear a size 20-22 clothes, I weigh like 17-18 stone and I don't have any problems finding people who wanna talk to me wherever I go online or IRL - maybe you've just been unlucky - or maybe you're dwelling in the negative experiences instead of pushing then aside and moving onto the positive ones.

And secondly why only BBW? What about the larger men? Don't they need some love too lol

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Have you considered that it probably wasn't your weight that decided whether people speak to you or not?

Maybe it's just me but I wear a size 20-22 clothes, I weigh like 17-18 stone and I don't have any problems finding people who wanna talk to me wherever I go online or IRL - maybe you've just been unlucky - or maybe you're dwelling in the negative experiences instead of pushing then aside and moving onto the positive ones.

And secondly why only BBW? What about the larger men? Don't they need some love too lol "

There used to be a bbm room... It was full of blackberry users

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW? "

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i agree nicecouple, it doesnt matter where or wat room you are in, peeps will ignore you as they dont know you or dont feel like that you fit in with them.

But on the same note, why cant we have a place where we feel secure, because those in there want to be in there ? "

I have no issue with that if it's fair and everyone agrees. .

As I said earlier though we are marginalised due to our age but to some that is the very thing that attracts them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner"

I think it would narrow their horizons, mixing entirely with one type of person does that. I do understand what you're saying but you seem to imply that BBW should be a special case because they are treated differently elsewhere, is that your experience?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you considered that it probably wasn't your weight that decided whether people speak to you or not?

Maybe it's just me but I wear a size 20-22 clothes, I weigh like 17-18 stone and I don't have any problems finding people who wanna talk to me wherever I go online or IRL - maybe you've just been unlucky - or maybe you're dwelling in the negative experiences instead of pushing then aside and moving onto the positive ones.

And secondly why only BBW? What about the larger men? Don't they need some love too lol "

A bbw doenst just reflect as being a woman, it can include men also, the purpose is for those that find it difficult to have somewhere that they can be them.

Hahahahaha, i have been in the scene to long to care about whether someone likes me or not, this is the scene that allowed me to love me for being me and i have made many friends on here as well as another site, so no i'm fine with me being a bigger person :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner"

There are probably already lots of other BBW's there, but the only difference might be is that they're confident in who they are, whereas you appear not be. I don't know you and am certainly not trying to be rude, but however you define yourself, confidence is a lovely trait always worth adding!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner

I think it would narrow their horizons, mixing entirely with one type of person does that. I do understand what you're saying but you seem to imply that BBW should be a special case because they are treated differently elsewhere, is that your experience?"

Nope not implying that at all nice. I have had some wonderful experiences from within the scene, but i have also seen others be ridiculed for the sheer fact of there size. I can stand up for myself and cudnt give 2 flying hoots what another person thinks.

This thread wasnt intended just for me, it was for everyone.

Why does everybody think that i have an issue about being larger than a normal person ????

I have no issue but just think that having a room where you can go and be with other larger people would be benefical - end ov lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner

There are probably already lots of other BBW's there, but the only difference might be is that they're confident in who they are, whereas you appear not be. I don't know you and am certainly not trying to be rude, but however you define yourself, confidence is a lovely trait always worth adding! "

Your correct, you dont know me and to be fair you seem to have judged me as having no confidence. Well let me assure you i have plenty of confidence, just because i dont shout from off the roof tops doesnt mean i dont have any confidence at all. I am sure if you talked to peeps who know the real me you would prob change your mind, but to perfectly honest i dont really care, i am me just me and once peeps decide to get to know me i am sure that only then will they see who i really am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner

There are probably already lots of other BBW's there, but the only difference might be is that they're confident in who they are, whereas you appear not be. I don't know you and am certainly not trying to be rude, but however you define yourself, confidence is a lovely trait always worth adding!

Your correct, you dont know me and to be fair you seem to have judged me as having no confidence. Well let me assure you i have plenty of confidence, just because i dont shout from off the roof tops doesnt mean i dont have any confidence at all. I am sure if you talked to peeps who know the real me you would prob change your mind, but to perfectly honest i dont really care, i am me just me and once peeps decide to get to know me i am sure that only then will they see who i really am "

That's cool My mind doesn't need changed it was just an observation based on what I picked up via your posts.

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By *irthngushCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

If ppl dont want to see a bbw then dont put any comments on threads

We both love them and thats our choice

Shame ppl bad mouth ladies who are bbws

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner

There are probably already lots of other BBW's there, but the only difference might be is that they're confident in who they are, whereas you appear not be. I don't know you and am certainly not trying to be rude, but however you define yourself, confidence is a lovely trait always worth adding!

Your correct, you dont know me and to be fair you seem to have judged me as having no confidence. Well let me assure you i have plenty of confidence, just because i dont shout from off the roof tops doesnt mean i dont have any confidence at all. I am sure if you talked to peeps who know the real me you would prob change your mind, but to perfectly honest i dont really care, i am me just me and once peeps decide to get to know me i am sure that only then will they see who i really am

That's cool My mind doesn't need changed it was just an observation based on what I picked up via your posts. "

lol everyone is entitled to their opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If ppl dont want to see a bbw then dont put any comments on threads

We both love them and thats our choice

Shame ppl bad mouth ladies who are bbws

X"

meet you both again in the tv room at chams

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"But I don't get why you think it's because you're BBW that people won't chat to you? You're a sub, little, owned, bi - it could be any of your preferences (or none!). What makes you think it's because you're a BBW?

It wasnt meant to come across like that, as i said in earlier post i will talk to anyone but just feel that i would be more relaxed in a room where i know most are either BBW's or people who dont mind BBW's. I just think that it would broaden the horizen for other peeps who find it hard on here, it would allow them to be theirself in a more relaxed manner

I think it would narrow their horizons, mixing entirely with one type of person does that. I do understand what you're saying but you seem to imply that BBW should be a special case because they are treated differently elsewhere, is that your experience?

Nope not implying that at all nice. I have had some wonderful experiences from within the scene, but i have also seen others be ridiculed for the sheer fact of there size. I can stand up for myself and cudnt give 2 flying hoots what another person thinks.

This thread wasnt intended just for me, it was for everyone.

Why does everybody think that i have an issue about being larger than a normal person ????

I have no issue but just think that having a room where you can go and be with other larger people would be benefical - end ov lol "

Yes I understand .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that be great to have a room called bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total thumbs up for a BBW room. As long as people realise BBW stands for

"BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN"

Not as some think

Big breasted woman!!!

We need and so do our lovely admires..

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"If ppl dont want to see a bbw then dont put any comments on threads

We both love them and thats our choice

Shame ppl bad mouth ladies who are bbws

X"

There has been no bad mouthing of BBWs???!?

Just we don't see why BBWs require their own chat room whilst others don't?

As a BBW myself I understand the insecurity of not knowing if someone would find you attractive or not - but why let it grab hold of you so much that you'll only chat in a room of people that are the same?

Besides when you get specified chat rooms for preferences you often find conversations go stale because people are so desperate to talk about the rooms subject and not much else (personal experience from other forums and chat rooms)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh I'd love babe room be soo good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !"

Totally with you on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely use the chat rooms, and being a female on the larger size I can honestly say not once have I ever been ignored or ever been verbally abused. If anything Iv always found people very friendly in there. And have had a couple of meets through chatting in there. But back to the op question no I don't agree with a "bbw" room. Where to you stop with generalising rooms. Let's have one for bbc, vwe, TVs, smaller people etc. As someone said if we had individual chat rooms there would only be a hind full of people in each room. We all like certain types of people and it's down to us the individual to seek out those types ourselves, by looking and reading profiles.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

There has been no bad mouthing of BBWs???!?


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Besides when you get specified chat rooms for preferences you often find conversations go stale because people are so desperate to talk about the rooms subject and not much else (personal experience from other forums and chat rooms)"

Yes, I was just about to write both those exact things

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By *enuinely GenuineMan
over a year ago

Newark

i used to travel everywhere once id got a good rapport with person i was talking to. BBW especially...my life though now with work and my son makes things much more difficult...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Besides I want people to chat and meet me because of not what I am "bbw" (hate that word). But because of who I am, a nice genuine honest person (once they get to know me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure that if you're clear in your profile that you are bbw, then people can identify you as that.... Surely online sites like this allow you to be selective in your own choices - as it should be x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK...........I see there are some peeps that think we should all stick to one room, i get the point but if that is the case then why do we have 1 general chat, 5 directing, numerous area's of the UK, then overseas and 1 bisexual chat rooms ?

If your going to argue the point then lets just have 3 rooms, where we all have to go into and get along with everybody, simples.

I will say it again for those who seem to think its about or because of confidence issues or even heaven forbid about seperating ourselves from everybody else..............it ISN'T. I simply asked a straight forward question - it wasnt about seperating anyone or anything, i wish that some of you would kindly realise that.

Now let us all play along nicely please !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont say dont have a bbw room, but where would it all stop, how about a straights only room, a big tits room, a small tits room, circumcused cocks only room!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont say dont have a bbw room, but where would it all stop, how about a straights only room, a big tits room, a small tits room, circumcused cocks only room!!"

so lets just have 3 or 5 rooms where we all have to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away. "

I'm not far at all!! And I'm all for this chat room!

I also think we should be able to search for different figures in advanced search!... Like you can ethnicity! Just a thought xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a great idea....I am a BBW ....and it would allow me to 'tap into' a select market (for want of a better expression)....We all desire a certain type of partner to play with, this with other 'specifics' would allow all concerned to be more direct, open and would facilitate quick and easy meets, for all our eclectic tastes. x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think the chat rooms on here are a bit clicky and we have had the same problems as you, you go in say hello, and don't get much response back. I think unless you go in there on a regular basis its hard to get on in them.

With a small number of rooms the chat goes so fast you can't follow it, but I think that mainly people prioritise location over most other things. So I would see that more geographical rooms would be better than more "preference rooms". For example if you had a BBW room and a BBW in Aberdeen and a man who was interested in BBW (and their was mutual attraction) who lived in Devon, are they ever really going to meet? BBW isn't are particularly small demographic and you find them all over the country.

Also if you are just looking for a room you can feel comfortable in, but with people you are not actually going to play with, a geographical room would work just as well as a preference room.

Personally I would like the Midlands room chopped into a couple of rooms because it is just massive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think its a brill idea everyone has diffrent tastes,me like BBWs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... lets just have 3 rooms, where we all have to go into and get along with everybody, simples."

When I joined Fab, there were just 2 rooms - Directing Room and General Chat. However, there is a realistic maximum of 175 people in a room - otherwise, the screen scrolls too quickly and there is no 'thread' to the conversation. As more people started chatting, more rooms were added, to ensure that everyone could chat. Hence there are now 5 directing rooms and about 10 regional rooms.

Admin do listen to members' views about what rooms are needed. For example, members asked for a Verified Only room and a Site Supporters Room, so these rooms were created. However, there are rarely any more than a handful of people in either of these rooms, since the regional split appears more popular.

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By *i015Man
over a year ago

Millbrook, Southampton

I think the chat room facility should allow people to open temporary rooms, that way people can open a room for a specific location/topic that they are interested in and wish to chat with others about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with that , bbw chat room and why all the bbw long away from us guys that love bbw

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By *est-coupleMan
over a year ago

Southwick (near Trowbridge)


"Just a quick question but would it be possible to have a chat room which is for the bbw's and their admirers on this site. I feel it would give us bigger people more chance to get to know others in a more relaxed and informal way knowing that those in the room enjoy the company of a BBW person "

We are in favour too xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love one

Id also like a kink one

I'd also like one where girls can discuss attire and where to buy.

Long and short is IMHO there isn't enough chat rooms anyway. Far to centralised and when and if I do use chat I can't keep up as there's too much going on!! Because too many people cram into a room.

Bring in a BBW room. Along with others. Expand the choices for EVERYONE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one really sticks to their locations and yeah it's a possibility that other's will want other type rooms.

As there is huge BBW following on fabs it seems to be a sensible one of the options, it would save those not interested in bigger woman looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there. Im just looking for mature BBW. Is there someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, count me in too! Xxx

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By *rfi princessCouple
over a year ago

Dudley

We think thats a great idea saves people being disappointed us BBW's deserve fun without prejudice aswell

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

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By *ne life live itMan
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I would love to see this happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reading down the tread it would seem, you cant please everyone, or is it some people just like yo winge!!! Anyway I thing its a good idea, it would give the BBW's a chance to out the time wasters and give us admires a chance

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

"

You're point?

I prefer the term Big Fat Woman personally lol

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By *igdickwillyMan
over a year ago

manchester/birmingham/rochdale

I live in Manchester is that to far for u baby I'd love to explore ur body xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

"

And your point is ???

Beauty comes in all shapes and forms, it isnt just about appearances and good looks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I live in Manchester is that to far for u baby I'd love to explore ur body xx"

Hmmmm, this is a thread about asking for a BBW room on the fab site............

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By *unblkmanMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Great idea, I am a BBW lover so I will be there xx

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By *unblkmanMan
over a year ago

Redditch

hey hey,,, a few people are missing the point of the initial question. The question, as I understand it was to understand the demand / interest in a specific chat room for BBW admirers. NOT to get into a debate as to what a BBW is, should be or isn't. Not to find out how many people don't want it. If you don't support the idea, just keep quiet as that is your vote. Just because you don't agree with something does not mean it should not go ahead (unless it is detrimental to another group --which this is not). Let's be adults here and focus on assessing the demand. Surely more specific rooms helps people find what they want more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some groups are more likely to be shy or receive abuse. Some people cope with it better than others, and as an admirer of curvy ladies I know how important confidence is to their enjoyment. Yes it means there will be chat rooms for several groups, BBW, older people, but what's the downside? Comfortable = happy= good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I defo support that love bbw women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could be have a bbw all to

Myself god I would love to please her in all the dirty sexy ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away. "

id quite happily jump in the car and drive to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets my vote x

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

why not a non directing chatroom for bi's ???

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think a Bbw room would be a great idea

There does seem to be a few on here that think bbws should be locked away out of sight ....

So give me and other bbws a room full of sexy guys and we will happily stay in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets my vote x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away.

Why are all the gorgeous larger ladies so far away

We are everywhere, we just need to be found "

And thats why we need the chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excellent idea...fully support this

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By *ants Horse Hung CockMan
over a year ago

co durham


" excellent idea...fully support this"

Me too. I love tho thought of being in a room full of bbws

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By *ewfun_ukMan
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

Love this idea x adore BBWs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big boobs curvy girls rule and why not have chat rooms for different body types ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good suggestion. I'd be in there.

They have one on a site i used to be on, so could definitely work on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea to me lets make it happen !!!!

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By *elly-ice-creamCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm sounds great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

Admin do listen to members' views about what rooms are needed. For example, members asked for a Verified Only room and a Site Supporters Room, so these rooms were created. However, there are rarely any more than a handful of people in either of these rooms, since the regional split appears more popular."

Maybe, they could reuse those rooms for different themes and rotate them. BBW one week, a different theme following week and so on. Just to test , which are popular .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be my favourite room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too. I can go in the chatroom and say hi all day but i still get ignored. So pray tell why is it selfish to have a room where the BBW's can go, chat and relax with other likeminded bbw's. There is nothing stopping anybody entering it, it isnt just exclusivly for them, but it is a place that they know they will be spoken to by peeps who genuiely want to speak to them, even with them being the larger size."

not sure what chatrooms you go in but im a bbw and not found rooms to be unfriendly due to my size - infact when on cam any negative comment about size etc is not tolerated by my fellow roomies who take offence quicker than i do ... but there are idiots everywhere who judge us by size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You forgot about the time wasters chat room that would be full every hour ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You forgot about the time wasters chat room that would be full every hour ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I have a chatroom for cake? I like cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !

Or have a room for rude people

Surely the op is entitled to ask a question?"

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By *likebigbuttsMan
over a year ago

cove

Yes that would be great xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To the lady who emailed me with the wording - NO WAY...........why not just add your opinion to the forum that is up above ??

Surely this is a forum where peeps can discuss and air their views to the OP that i posted several weeks ago

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Sounds good to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was actually just looking for an option on search to see if you could refine by folk who say they want a bbw...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't the folk who want a "BBW" room just use one of the rooms that are hardly used. "Site Supporters" or "Verified" are hardly used. If everyone who wants this did that, and it was popular,then maybe one would be created, simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was actually just looking for an option on search to see if you could refine by folk who say they want a bbw..."

Thats a damn good idea if you ask me

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"I was actually just looking for an option on search to see if you could refine by folk who say they want a bbw...

Thats a damn good idea if you ask me "

We need that filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbws are soooooooooopo sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !"

To be fair I think its a good idea, I've seen so many bigget ladies on cam get some real abuse from people who don't like big woman, I know in reality if you don't like don't look but for some life isn't that simple and they like to be rude

I've never seen slim or hairy people get such abuse

Maybe a room for BBWs would be a good idea, somewhere where bigger ladies can go and know others will like them and not be rude and somewhere where those who dont like can avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a great idea to have a Bbw room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !

To be fair I think its a good idea, I've seen so many bigget ladies on cam get some real abuse from people who don't like big woman, I know in reality if you don't like don't look but for some life isn't that simple and they like to be rude

I've never seen slim or hairy people get such abuse

Maybe a room for BBWs would be a good idea, somewhere where bigger ladies can go and know others will like them and not be rude and somewhere where those who dont like can avoid "

So creating a BBW room will eliminate abuse?

Playing Devils Advocate and NOT my opinion

"ooo I want to bait BBW...I know where to go...the BBW room"

If people abuse anyone on my chatwatch they are banned....having a separate room does not solve abuse and should not therefore be classed as a reason for one. There may well be other reasons to have one though.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

What a refreshing idea.

In terms of size, I'm classed as a BBW and recently been 'attacked' by keyboard/chatroom warriors...not just on this site I may add, I've been called fat, ugly, mrs blobby, mrs michelin, stuck up, bitch, fat slag etc etc the list goes on and on and on.

I must say I have also seen other users step in a defend such bullying.

I class my self as curvaceous and I love it!!

I think a few more 'themed' rooms would be great on here and maybe a bit less intimidating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with any kind of chat room, for any purpose. But you have to stop at some point or end up with so many rooms you'll spend forever just trying to find the one for you. I think we shouldn't worry about any one else preference. If you want one, sure. But you should be allowed to express whatever you like in any of the rooms. We're supposed to be open-minded, right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fucked up. If they don't want you then don't take you. Makes no sense treating you like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a BBW I totally agree.

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

That sounds like a sensible request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a BBW room is a good idea if there is enough people wanting one.

This site is all about enjoying your sexuality in a liberated and tolerant way.

We are all looking for different things and there are many people who are genuinely attracted to BBW's. It makes it much easier for people to find and make friends with one another.

I can't understand any opposition to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a BBW room is a good idea if there is enough people wanting one.

This site is all about enjoying your sexuality in a liberated and tolerant way.

We are all looking for different things and there are many people who are genuinely attracted to BBW's. It makes it much easier for people to find and make friends with one another.

I can't understand any opposition to it. "

Amen brother

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By *andlebarMan
over a year ago

South Northumberland

Couldnt agree more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think a BBW room is a good idea if there is enough people wanting one.

This site is all about enjoying your sexuality in a liberated and tolerant way.

We are all looking for different things and there are many people who are genuinely attracted to BBW's. It makes it much easier for people to find and make friends with one another.

I can't understand any opposition to it. "

I agree with what you're saying but how many rooms should we have? BDSM, BBC, water sports etc.

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too. I can go in the chatroom and say hi all day but i still get ignored. So pray tell why is it selfish to have a room where the BBW's can go, chat and relax with other likeminded bbw's. There is nothing stopping anybody entering it, it isnt just exclusivly for them, but it is a place that they know they will be spoken to by peeps who genuiely want to speak to them, even with them being the larger size."
darling you don't have to be a bbw to be ignored on here i get ignored all the time by the oh so friendly brigade on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too. I can go in the chatroom and say hi all day but i still get ignored. So pray tell why is it selfish to have a room where the BBW's can go, chat and relax with other likeminded bbw's. There is nothing stopping anybody entering it, it isnt just exclusivly for them, but it is a place that they know they will be spoken to by peeps who genuiely want to speak to them, even with them being the larger size. darling you don't have to be a bbw to be ignored on here i get ignored all the time by the oh so friendly brigade on here "

who said that? ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the idea behind the suggestion is that some of us have a preference to fuller figure women. So it would make sense to have a room where people could come together that are looking for the same thing rather than trawling through profiles.

Not to mention i was in a room recently where a larger lady was being abused by someone. Surely a BBW room would allow ladies to enter and chat with confidence and not have to put up with the few idiots we have on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the idea behind the suggestion is that some of us have a preference to fuller figure women. So it would make sense to have a room where people could come together that are looking for the same thing rather than trawling through profiles.

Not to mention i was in a room recently where a larger lady was being abused by someone. Surely a BBW room would allow ladies to enter and chat with confidence and not have to put up with the few idiots we have on here"

Remember I don't necessarily disagree but you think idiots won't go to a BBW room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the idea behind the suggestion is that some of us have a preference to fuller figure women. So it would make sense to have a room where people could come together that are looking for the same thing rather than trawling through profiles.

Not to mention i was in a room recently where a larger lady was being abused by someone. Surely a BBW room would allow ladies to enter and chat with confidence and not have to put up with the few idiots we have on here

Remember I don't necessarily disagree but you think idiots won't go to a BBW room? "

Or course they will but that's not the point. It would be a slightly safer place. It would be interesting to see who successful or failure it could be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the idea behind the suggestion is that some of us have a preference to fuller figure women. So it would make sense to have a room where people could come together that are looking for the same thing rather than trawling through profiles.

Not to mention i was in a room recently where a larger lady was being abused by someone. Surely a BBW room would allow ladies to enter and chat with confidence and not have to put up with the few idiots we have on here

Remember I don't necessarily disagree but you think idiots won't go to a BBW room? "

The school bus always arrives in any room Westy, thought ya all knew that lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't disagree with any of the points in favour of a BBW room but the same arguments could be applied to a request for any specific room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't disagree with any of the points in favour of a BBW room but the same arguments could be applied to a request for any specific room."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think more rooms for like bdsm and a transgendered would be good to have. I'm all for a bbw/sbbw room as well as aged ranged rooms like 20-30 30-50 50+ the site supporter room and verified room is hardly used same as USA and Canada rooms so why not change them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away. "

I'm only a train ride away lol

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

"

Lol ... lets have a room for

BIG UGLY WOMEN THEN !!!

........silly man !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

Lol ... lets have a room for

BIG UGLY WOMEN THEN !!!

........silly man !!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

Lol ... lets have a room for

BIG UGLY WOMEN THEN !!!

........silly man !!!

"

It's term ffs not everyones claiming to be god gift, but everyone is beautiful in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the single guys that enjoy the larger ladies so far away. "

Not all of them are a million miles away! Haha. We should talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

Lol ... lets have a room for

BIG UGLY WOMEN THEN !!!

........silly man !!!"

I see the bus has arrived then .........

I started this thread as an opinion, one that i thought needed to be aired. We are all entitled to our opinions - this is a forum after all, but politness costs nothing and will usually get you far.

As others have said it isnt just BBW that needs addressing, our community is vast with a very wide variety, so why shouldnt we all have a place where we can go to. I understand the concept of throwing everybody in one pool, but I still firmly believe that by opening up some of the rooms to individual tastes will not bring this site to a grinding halt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fully agree with you there. It would make it much easier for all. Much better than messaging endless people only to find that you aren what they are looking for for one reason or another.

And of course on the other side of the coin it may stop the girls being bombarded with so many wasted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quick question but would it be possible to have a chat room which is for the bbw's and their admirers on this site. I feel it would give us bigger people more chance to get to know others in a more relaxed and informal way knowing that those in the room enjoy the company of a BBW person "

We would both love this option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what happens if one of the 'bbw' decide to go on a diet and start exercising and lose a load of weight? Do they get told to fuck off by the other 'bbw'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is, kills peoples buzz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course it is, kills peoples buzz."

if you say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/05/15 11:50:04]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come to play and relax, not hide in corners and judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People come to play and relax, not hide in corners and judge"

no hiding here.

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By *URACELLBUNNY67Man
over a year ago

padgate, warrington


"Just a quick question but would it be possible to have a chat room which is for the bbw's and their admirers on this site. I feel it would give us bigger people more chance to get to know others in a more relaxed and informal way knowing that those in the room enjoy the company of a BBW person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People come to play and relax, not hide in corners and judge

no hiding here."

Still behind a screen

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By *unmanXXXMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Great idea l love bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OH YES , a BBW room would be fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely a bbw is only a bbw if she is

A. Beautiful.....

Lol ... lets have a room for

BIG UGLY WOMEN THEN !!!

........silly man !!!

I see the bus has arrived then .........

I started this thread as an opinion, one that i thought needed to be aired. We are all entitled to our opinions - this is a forum after all, but politness costs nothing and will usually get you far.

As others have said it isnt just BBW that needs addressing, our community is vast with a very wide variety, so why shouldnt we all have a place where we can go to. I understand the concept of throwing everybody in one pool, but I still firmly believe that by opening up some of the rooms to individual tastes will not bring this site to a grinding halt

"

Yes and as there's 4 or 5 directing rooms which are usually at least 3 of them full, a place for bbw and their admirers would be a great place to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe have a chatroom for Skinny people too or maybe hary people or tall people or even short people .

Im sorry OP but what a stupid request ,why should larger eople have there own chatroom ?

How self centered !

To be fair I think its a good idea, I've seen so many bigget ladies on cam get some real abuse from people who don't like big woman, I know in reality if you don't like don't look but for some life isn't that simple and they like to be rude

I've never seen slim or hairy people get such abuse

Maybe a room for BBWs would be a good idea, somewhere where bigger ladies can go and know others will like them and not be rude and somewhere where those who dont like can avoid "

A bbw room sounds good to me. I'm the big woman part of bbw and it would be nice to chat with others who prefer bigger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea if you ask me, i hope this happens ( SOON )

If your against the room just dont use it simples!

I think we need a vote

for a YES!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would love to see a bbw chatroom an for there admirers as ive long been a true admirer lover of curvy voluptuous bbw

big girls are so dam sexy sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a good plan to me! Love BBW!! XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi sweetheart I would love to meet you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Guys I would love to meet you guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi am here now x

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By *anty KayTV/TS
over a year ago

jersey

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By *anty KayTV/TS
over a year ago

jersey

BBW's. Definitely would never log off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi sweetheart are u free tonight? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it selfish ??

i have been in the swinging scene now for many years and to be honest and fair not everyone like to talk or asscociate with the bigger ladies and gents..........the prime example is in the chat rooms. I am a normal person liking the things that you all like, yet because some of us are larger than the average person we dont get spoken too. I can go in the chatroom and say hi all day but i still get ignored. So pray tell why is it selfish to have a room where the BBW's can go, chat and relax with other likeminded bbw's. There is nothing stopping anybody entering it, it isnt just exclusivly for them, but it is a place that they know they will be spoken to by peeps who genuiely want to speak to them, even with them being the larger size."

I couldn't agree more! x well said bbe x hope they set one up for all the BBW on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea

Other swinging sites have the option to open your own room and the BBW room has always been one of the busiest most popular rooms I've seen... Lots of socials arranged through that room too

Better selection of rooms would cater for all tastes... What's wrong with that!!?!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"I think it's a great idea

Other swinging sites have the option to open your own room and the BBW room has always been one of the busiest most popular rooms I've seen... Lots of socials arranged through that room too

Better selection of rooms would cater for all tastes... What's wrong with that!!?! "

Hear hear!

The lack of choice regarding rooms on here is quite shocking, it would be amazing to see some more rooms rather than just regional and directing rooms.

Still supporting this Big Beautiful idea

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