FabSwingers.com forum: what abt name shame room

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Time waisters who let people down when they took hours getting ready and sorting hotels out then turn up not there should beable to name them so orthers no not to meet

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *iaFlashCouple
over a year ago

walsall

definitley agree

especially if they made no attempt to contact you if they cant make it.

if they have a good reason to not be able to meet then thats ok but when they just cant be bothered to contact you that they cant meet or cuz they time wasters people need to know this.

would save a lot of trouble for people who are genuine and also "flush" the site to make a more progressive and friendly site for swinging

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time waisters who let people down when they took hours getting ready and sorting hotels out then turn up not there should beable to name them so orthers no not to meet "
totally agree

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

So first we need a definite meaning of time waster.

Is it someone who sends a few messages then blocks you?

Is it someone who meets socially first?

Is it someone who turns you down on the first message?

Is it someone that doesn't show up after a time and place has been arranged?

I've done the first 3 and been labelled a timewaster.

The problem is, anyone could narky at being turned down and label someone a timewaster. Then they could get all their friends on the site to do the same. Then said timewaster creates a new profile and starts again.

Timewasters do not spoil it for the genuine people on here. They make the genuine stand out more. If people stopped blaming others for their lack of success and took some responsibility, they'd have more success.

And ultimately, if you are encountering a lot of timewasters, you are the only thing in common, sort yourself out first.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Definitely not, it is open to far to much abuse, disgruntled people that you said no to, people you have blocked etc.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been said many times that this site will not allow naming and shaming of time wasters. Profiles get named, the user leaves site and sets up a new profile and starts again. What has that achieved. Have your own systems in place to avoid having your time wasted.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 15/06/14 10:26:42]

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 15/06/14 10:26:42]"

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time waisters who let people down when they took hours getting ready and sorting hotels out then turn up not there should beable to name them so orthers no not to meet "

Do not arrange anything with this woman , she arranged to meet me and never turned up.

Am I lieing or not

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"definitley agree

especially if they made no attempt to contact you if they cant make it.

if they have a good reason to not be able to meet then thats ok but when they just cant be bothered to contact you that they cant meet or cuz they time wasters people need to know this.

would save a lot of trouble for people who are genuine and also "flush" the site to make a more progressive and friendly site for swinging

As for this couple avoid at all cost , left me stood outside a pub and never even called or text to say they had changed mind

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately

By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Too open to abuse and Admin have said many times that for that reason naming and shaming wont ever be allowed on the site.

(thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately