FabSwingers.com forum: Women who close their account within a few days

By *illen5 OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

A number of times I have been having light conversation with a newbie. Making them aware of the likely quantity and content of the messages they'll encounter.

Trying to ensure they don't get overwhelmed and run away.

Just happened again. She said having a friend would be good. Exchanged pics. Being cautious I didn't send friend invite, as cocks can offend those of a nervous disposition. haha.

Hour later she's left the site.

I'd be interested in the woman's perspective on what would provoke a bid for freedom?

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By *illen5 OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

My first go at this so bloody typical I've posted on the aussie forum haha. No doubt all you sheilas out there are made of sterner stuff.

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By *omo217Man
over a year ago

Sydney

There are very few woman on here in Oz so don’t worry. There are a LOT of fake female profiles on here and they too disappear after liking profiles or sending a message or two.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Agree with the above - there are very few and I’m sure most seem to be fake and vanish very quickly - you might need to save some of your energy and forget about the newbies although your intentions are lovely. Good luck x

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By *illen5 OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Agree with the above - there are very few and I’m sure most seem to be fake and vanish very quickly - you might need to save some of your energy and forget about the newbies although your intentions are lovely. Good luck x

Well i hope they dont just disappear. Gets frustrating, especially if the nature of the messages pushes them away.

After all, unlike anywhere else, people do actually chat here.

Surprised there's so few on here in oz.

Maybe in blighty we're all a bit depraved?

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

We get loads of ‘newbies’, you can often tell by the two sentence profile, or the very short time that they have been online, it could almost be the same person or people winding others up?

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Just taken a screenshot of one newbie blatantly asking for money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a man

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Prob overwhelmed at all the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're guys with a fake profile.

As I've said before on here....if looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a single guy pretending to be a duck.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Just taken a screenshot of one newbie blatantly asking for money."

Omg

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

I would love to live in Australia and wouldn't leave lol but sadly they don't let rif raff in haha xx

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Lol they let me in so they can’t be that picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prob overwhelmed at all the messages"

I know about that.. lol

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By *zzy69Woman
over a year ago

The Lake District

I had a message from a new “female”

I caught him out when he answered his phone- have reported him but profile still there!

Verified female with unicorn tendencies

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Could be a number of things really, but fab just might not be for them?

Fab is a bit different to when I joined 4 years ago. Alot more guys who are very "intense" and bombard you with messages. Although i did initially join on a couples profile but if you're a single female you tend to get alot more messages even without pictures.

Tbh im not sure I would bother with newbies, I'd wait on atleast a photo verification or their first meet to make sure. Alot of that effort can go in to them just leaving like you've experienced.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Lol they let me in so they can’t be that picky

Oh I’m glad they did x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Prob overwhelmed at all the messages"

This is true a couple if my friends have joined and left because of it. They didn't even get to setting filters or putting a pic on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dick pics put me off. Some profiles have about 20 dick pics and nothing else... boring

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By *illen5 OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Prob overwhelmed at all the messages

This is true a couple if my friends have joined and left because of it. They didn't even get to setting filters or putting a pic on. "

That's why newbies shouldn't be allowed to receive in the first week to give them time to have a browse. Then the amount of messages they can receive is incrementally raised. Not sure when the Floodgates should be opened though

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By *illen5 OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

In fact limit messaging to a maximum of 20 per day where the app randomly allows some people to message. That's still more unsolicited mail that a man would receive in a lifetime on Fab

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By *illen5 OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Dick pics put me off. Some profiles have about 20 dick pics and nothing else... boring"

Profiles like that are a gift easy to spot and reject. Just hit the block button

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