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Fabulous
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27 August 2013
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| We have attending this club several times now but we must admit Sunday was probably out greatest club visit ever.
Club hosts should be proud as they put one hell of show on.
We met some great new people.
Could go on forever with this review as it was amazing.
Mrs Lisa is puts one hell of show on 2
Thanks for fab night guys XX |
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Avoid
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26 August 2013
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| Well where do i start???? On a positive note great advertising and upselling of the club making it an appealing and exciting place to attend.
In reality???Anything but im afraid to say very dissappointed for our first time visit with another couple of swingers.....and something i dont really wish to repeat!
I found this club or should I say related it more with a cheap looking nightclub...whilst its a fair size relatively clean and rooms to play in lets just say its more inviting on pictures!
We attended the Phuckt bank holiday sun evening which was suppose to be a rave so apart from the odd ones that made an effort to recreate the rave scene with their outfits and Personally only hearing the odd rave tune thats about as ravy as it got,I didnt find the place welcoming at all bar staff barely managed a smile when serving me altho drinks cheap (another positive) its a very cold least inviting place ive ever been too and for my first time swinging completely not as i thought it be and one I most definately will not be repeating there....I just hope the other clubs arnt as dissappointing!!! |
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Fabulous
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26 August 2013
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| I went last night with three of my friends and what an amazing night! Apart from the fact i love HardHouse music and Lisa-pin-up is one of best ,the club had a host of brilliant dj's playing and i think we left burn marks on the dance floor as we never moved of there all night apart from to the bar for a drink. The hosts were amazing from the start very welcoming soon as we walked in the door, and the club was totally amazing from what little i saw. But for sure we will be heading back very soon as i loved it. BRING ON MORE NIGHTS LIKE PHUKT GUYS YOU DID YOURSELVES PROUD!!
Miss A xx |
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Fabulous
by Ifor Biggun
26 August 2013
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| My first visit to Xtasia... & boy did I pick a fantastic evening to give it a whirl! As the previous reviews testify, it's going to go down in the annuls of Swinging history as one of those "I was there" moments!
As a single bloke from the word go I was made to feel welcome from both staff & patrons alike... think me "old skool" raver outfit might have helped!
Paul & Flirt, the Club owners, were excellent hosts, the the lovely ladies behind the bar, (the bar prices are VERY competitive by the way), were both attentive, attractive & up for a bit of banter & a laugh! The Security detail on the door were respectful & happy help out with any questions.
The night was run by Jamie & Sam, the brains behind the PHUKT Rave event. The music was truly awesome, the vibe took me back to the rave scene of the early 1990's when it was all peace & love all round!. I hope, at the very least, this becomes an annual event on the Xtasia calender.
The dance floor was never empty, lots of sexy, sassy bodies to admire, the ladies for sure had made an effort to look super sexy in their glowing underwear!
It took me a while to remember that it was a Swinging Club, so good was the banging tunes being dished out. Decided to go for a wander to see what the rest of the Club had to offer... & boy was I impressed!. Everywhere was clean & tidy, you can see a lot of thought has gone into every play area.
I particularly liked the dungeon room, the frosted glass room, where you can see writhing shadows at play, &, thanks to a certain lady from Birmingham who introduced me to the genius that is the "dogging" room... It really has to be seen to believed! Suffice to say I was lucky enough to give it a go.... & boy did I beep my horn!
I'm a non smoker but was impressed with the way the smoking bretheren have been catered for!
In many clubs it's an afterthought but in Xtasia it's been incorporated into the whole experience. Almost felt like taking up the demon weed to join in the social chat!
As noted in a previous verification I think the "couples only" room needs to be more defined... as a Single bloke wasn't sure at times if my presence would be welcome in some rooms... & as a gent I wouldn't want to accidently offend any couples at play!
As for overnight places to stay, the Premier Inn Central is literally a stone's throw from the Club & very swinger friendly! If you book there, just give them a call & mention your going to visit Xtasia & they will sort out a more "swinger friendly" floor for you!
Overall it was truly a magical, life & swing affirming evening! As I mentioned at the top of my review it was my first visit to Xtasia... it won't be my last!!!!
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Fabulous
by CarlNLisa
26 August 2013
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| Phukt @ Xtasia WOW what a night!! no OMFG what a night!!! My (carl) first visit to a swingers club, and with it being a rave theme, and one the the BEST Hard House DJ's playing, I certainly felt comfortable (if you dismiss the profuse sweating!) the host were so friendly (thank you Sam&Jamie wish we had more chance to chat!) the staff on both the door and behind the bar we professional and very friendly too! the club its self was great, very clean and well kept, loved the little rooms! and the dance-floor was awesome!
so, as is customary to be shouted at the end of a good rave.... WE WANT MORE, WE WANT MORE, WE WANT MORE!
Lets get Phukt again! |
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Fabulous
by ClubPartyPeeps
26 August 2013
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| Sometimes you go to an event on the scene where everything seems to click, and you know its one of those nights that people will talk about over weeks and months, and years to come… conversations will begin with ‘Did you go to that party at Xtasia… was it a blinding night or what?’ And they would not be exaggerating. Saturday night at Xtasia will surely pass into the memoirs as a night of legend for all those who attended. It was quite simply put, superb and that description can be fairly attributed to the club as well.
This was our first visit to Xtasia in some years, and the first since the new owners, Paul and Flirt took it over nearly a year ago. As a couple they have been on the scene for a long time and have a good handle on what people want and what works and what doesn’t for their target market, people who like to dance and have sex under the same roof. They’re also really nice personable people something that you either have in you’re nature or you don’t, and there’s probably about four or five couples that run clubs on the scene who really stand out in this way and Paul and Flirt would be another couple to add to that list.
So we will prefix this review with a couple of things. Firstly, this event was not typical for the venue, and secondly the event we went to was organised by an outside unit – PHUKT, we are still not sure what it stands for, but we are sure that after this review that information will not be long in coming. Many people got in the swinging scene through the rave era of the 1990s, it was the dancing days of decadence, before hard core criminals took control of the rave culture and the name Leah Betts became forever etched in the minds of many. Saturday night was an attempt to recreate that feeling of love and wonder that often led to sexual experimentation, so this event, run at Xtasia, the perfect venue for it, was aimed at the crowd who came to swinging via that route or just for those who love music and dancing as part of their sexual ingredients for a good night. On that it cannot be faulted. It was well organised, the staff were great and the owners and organisers clearly working well together to make for a great night out. We hope and firmly believe that this is a relationship that should continue, and look forward to more nights like this one and let’s hope, like so many clubs that have done these things in the past, there are no fall outs and everyone can see the benefits of working in tandem on an event like this, rather than just the club doing it alone. So the event was a big success, there was well over 200 people there. I did a head count at one point in the main room and got lost after 150, with more people still coming in and probably another 30 or so in the smoking area, these figures are a pretty safe bet. The appeal of this event was obvious because we bumped into people from all over the UK who had made the trip to be there. Several old regulars from Skinnydippers were present and the nature of the event obviously appealed to them, so those people who think music isn’t an important part of the scene, might wish to remember that for many, it is part of what they want. There were swingers at this event that we hadn’t seen for over 6 or 7 years. The dance floor was almost never empty from the start and the DJs, famous and otherwise were all first rate! Even though this was a mixed event, the single guys present weren’t too many and were, from what we saw, all well behaved but for future events of this kind, we think a bigger couples only area would be a good thing. Something to consider.
The club itself, well, wow, what a difference from our last visit here. Gone were the crap plastic tree’s, better use was made of the downstairs areas, divided up into four lockable rooms, a dungeon and a couples room. We thought the couples room should allow more privacy, it was too open to gawkers, but we liked the idea of the mirrors on the ceiling corridors that partially spilled into a room, so you could fuck where people could see you, or not, you’re choice. What was the old upstairs dark area, is now a chill out room for conversation and a second bar, a great idea. The toilets have all had a major spruce up and no longer have that awful 1970s Armitage Shanks feel to them and there was a lot of thought and planning gone into to everything that you saw. When you arrive at the club, you can dispense with coats and bags in the main reception area, however lockers are also available to you, so you don’t have to keep leaving the main club. They’re located on the basement level, which now has showers, an 8 man Jacuzzi, sauna and a cinema room for playing. So there is a wet area for those that like that kind of thing, but most people will not come to Xtasia for that. The club was very clean, in fact they must have had a team of cleaners working throughout the night, because it always seemed to be clean all night. What was the god awful loft space has now been converted in a dogging style room, where two front bumpers of cars have been placed for you to make out on (we felt a road test was in order, its actually quite comfortable, we bet that took a bit of trail and error to work out!)
Xtasia has really now come into its own as a vibrant club to be reckoned with and while its clear there is more to be done, and the owners are still bringing a number of toys to the party they have more than made an excellent start here. Three couples on our review team were there on the night and they all gave it 5 out of 5, which doesn’t surprise us, as the atmosphere of the event made the place jump into the heavens.
Xtasia’s biggest enemy, will be its size. It has a lot of space, and with the three levels, and all the other nooks and crannies all over the place, you will need a few good numbers through the door to create the likes of what we saw on Bank Holiday, but by not overplaying these key events and doing those that are most popular three or four times a year, it means there will be other nights like this to come. We had a fantastic time, and as we said, this will be a night that will go down in swinging history as one to remember for sure. Excellent all round.
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Fabulous
by Optimum trajectory
26 August 2013
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| Just returned from the storming event PHUKT . I have to say an evening of perfect balance. Xtasia is a well kept and well stocked club, with it's huge dance area lending itself naturally towards music dominated play nights leading alluringly down in to the themed play rooms, with all sorts of gadgets and contraptions to have fun on along the way. Management and staff are smilers.
Xtasia is a heavy weight club that can take big numbers and with their progressive attitude to the scene I can only see it going from strength to strength.
We will be going back :-)
Thanks to all who made it happen.
big love to S & J |
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Fabulous
by Str8upguy
26 August 2013
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| The PHUKD party last night was brilliant. I've not danced, to point of removing my shirt, for years (old skool Ibiza lol) and ears still thumping today :) Amazing crowd with the ladies making an exceptional effort to show off their delightful attributes with the best arses on fab on proud display!! Club was clean, bar well stocked and staff friendly and got in the spirit later.
Rooms were a little small but variety was there and did like the doggin zone (although a Rover isn't the best choice lol) We (me and playmate) had fun in a couple of them and enjoyed the giving her a treat with a handsome young man she took a liking to (thanks :-)
Where else do you get kick arse music sets, semi-naked hotties and a woman getting her arse whipped by the dance floor!!
Hell of a night and if the same crowd was guaranteed next time I would love to go back.. Thanks all for a great night xx |
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Fabulous
by JednSasha
26 August 2013
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| Not been to this club for more than 10 years but with the PHUKT party and new owners in place we decided to give it another go.
The reception staff, bar staff and everyone connected with the club were very helpful, friendly and very efficient.
The club itself has undergone many changes, all I think for the better and the further plans sound exciting.
The club was very clean (a big improvement on the how that used to be, well equipped and a warren of new play areas for all tastes.
A well stocked bar at reasonable prices and excellent dance area, social area and toilet facilities make it an excellent club for those that prefer the nightclub themed venue to the wet club and that is simply personal choice (we like both and use various clubs accordingly)
As for the PHUKT party, WOW, a rave in a swingers club, how cool is that, my estimate is that there were at least 200 people spread around the club, the DJs were top class the sounds as good as any Rave venue, the members in all shapes and sizes but hey some gorgeous people enjoying not just the dancing and music but also the playrooms which saw a lot of action last night.
To sum up, well a quiet night could be disappointing but the word is out and the club WILL see less of them, the next rave night will be massive as word passes about last night and WE WILL RETURN.
Thanks to everyone for a party to remember |
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Fabulous
by
26 August 2013
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| This was the first club that me and my buddy have ever been to and believe me we woke up making plans for the next one.
Everybody we met including all the staff were friendly and were just there to have an unforgettable night.
The dance area was constantly buzzing and the play rooms were always clean if not a little to hot (temperature wise).
I don't think we could have chose a better venue or night for out first experience.
Thanks to all who made that night so special.
We will be back! |
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Fabulous
by SimeonSimon
26 August 2013
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| Just in from PHUKT, and I am, totally. An amazing night, think everyone who came in had made an effort, DJ's were electric and massive shout for Lisa, brill set, ears ringing! Love whats been done to the club to get it all going again, rooms are clean, and kept clean on a regular basis by the staff. Think we tried all playareas and fav has to be the dogging area, doing it to banging music is electric. Yes please to much, much more of this, we'll be there. What about mixing it with the foam parties? Just an idea. Just reading below though, please don't get into a war with other clubs, you don't need to. Rave on. |
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Avoid
by aquarius1
25 August 2013
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| This was our second visit to Xtasia on a Saturday night and will almost certainly be our last.
Our first visit was on a Foam Party night, and we thought that perhaps this gave the wrong impression of the club. Whilst it was crowded, there didn't appear to be any interaction, or playing of any sort.
Our second visit was a "Sex & Soul" night. This time the club was almost empty, and again there was no interaction. Apart from the very few couples who had gone with friends, everyone kept very much to themselves.
The club has a more nightclub feel to it rather than a swingers club. The dance floor dominates one of the two large rooms, but with no one on it ( except for the Foam Party night) it accentuated the deserted feel of the place.
The area of the cinema and jacuzzi (still not open) is very depressing and damp. The main swinging area appears to have been recently built and somehow gives a very clinical impression.
If the club had been full ( not sure if that ever happens on a normal couples night) perhaps we would have felt differently about the place.
To sum up - if you are in the area, the best club by far is Chameleons. Whilst perhaps not as big, it is always busy and has a much friendlier feel. The staff there are also much friendlier. |
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Fabulous
by
18 August 2013
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| Been a week since we were at xtasia and haven't stopped smiling yet!The Friday night BMFC was very busy with some nice tunes on and plenty of well hung guys to play with the Saturday was quiet but everyone who was there were bang up for with some gorgeous couples ready to play.The staff were friendly as always and even though we're a quiet couple no pestered us with everyone being very respectful and non pushy definitely a place to go to if your just dipping your toe's in can't wait to go back in November! If anyone has been to a greedy girls night can you let us know what its like as that is our next adventure! |
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Fun
by pleasureher
18 August 2013
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| We have visited the club several times now on the BMFC nights, it's always fun, there are always sexy Hung guys to play with, numbers vary but there's always some fun to be had.
Venue is well run, Good layout, friendly staff, was pleased with the reasonable prices at the bar.
The only Bad point was it can be a bit warm in the playrooms.
We have had so much fun on the BMFC nights we have now become full members and have started going on other nights, the kinksters night recently was very good, met some great friendly people, saw some interesting things and had a very wet naughty time. |
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Fun
by Rider288
12 August 2013
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| Had a great night at Xtasia on Friday the new dark room/box is a welcome return the atmosphere was great and some fantastic action all over the club....what a difference it makes when you get people in who are happy to talk/socialise and even happier to play instead of standing around looking for negatives.
Getting back to being the best club in Midlands as it used to be |
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Fabulous
by horseman12
11 August 2013
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| i went with my crew to bmfc night at xstasias friday night was a brilliant night and thanks to helen for pulling it of all ran perfect everyone enjoyed themselves giving lots ladies what they wanted steaming up all the rooms was a very hot and horny night helen your a star and cant wait for the next one see you soon horseman and the crew xxx |
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Fabulous
by
10 August 2013
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| OMG! What a night I had.....as a single black male, I was absolutely in my element last night, the music was right, the atmosphere was right! Boy did I play, play, play abs play again....Helen was a fabulous host as always! Guys and girls if you've never been here! Check it out! It is certainly the place to be every second Friday of the month!!!! Once again OMG! What a night! |
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Fabulous
by
10 August 2013
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| Great night in xtasia last quiet at first but soon got busy r had her first dp and 2 into 1 and nice time in the grope box fun times! Round 2 tonight yay! |
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OK
by
28 July 2013
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| We were at xstasia last night. Looked amazing on the website and the club itself was fairly nice, has the potential to be a top place....but the only people who were friendly were the barmaid the doorman and the male half of the owners. Not even particularly clicky just everyone kept themselves to themselves, not a very nice experience tbh. I wouldn't say avoid but we wouldn't go bk unless we were meeting friends or there was some sort of huge event going on |
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Fabulous
by lustanddesire
20 July 2013
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| Just read the previous review, fair but didn't take into considersation that all clubs are quieter during the summer, never mind during a heatwave , when few want to travel or stay inside! suggest you visit in Spet/Oct ,when all are back from our travels! We have visited over 80 clubs, here and in Europe, this is one of our favourites in the uk, ( the others are all over 3 hours drive away!) The club as a whole will make up for the lack of the hot tub! which is what we normally would go for! give it another go! |
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Fun
by Obi Haive
20 July 2013
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| OK - thought we'd leave our review until after a few visits as first impressions can often be misleading. Joined the club as members three weeks ago and have been every weekend since (two Fridays and a Saturday to check both singles and couples nights) making the most of the great offer of free visits for the first month after joining. I (A) had been to the club before for the first FFFF social but Fox had previously only visited Chams in the Midlands.
This review may be a bit long, so apologies - but it's our honest opinion on a lot of factors.
The club itself is great in terms of size and layout, as well as being easy to park nearby for free. The door staff and security are warm and welcoming and very approachable. The bar is very reasonably priced, well stocked and the staff are lovely. In terms of facilities - the variety of rooms are great downstairs if a little warm (we'll blame the weather for that!) and the all important locks on doors keep unwanted 'guests' from intruding. The upstairs lounge is great for relaxing - and a little play (as seems to be common practice), the upstairs 'Dogging' zone is fun (although the Rover needs handles to stop you slipping down the bonnet!) and nicely cool when the fan is switched on - not so when it isn't. The music is good and varied although the dancefloor is never used - I guess busier at specific events such as the foam parties. The smoking area is great for those of us that partake, and also for those just wanting to cool down a little and get some fresh air or socialise. The toilets and showers downstairs have always been clean. Never used the cinema (not our thing) so can't comment.
The only (and it's a big one!) negative regarding the facilities is the continued absence of the sauna/hot tub - something on my first visit at the FFFF I was advised would be back up and running soon! Especially frustrating (and a little misleading!) since it's still quoted as being available on the club website and mentioned in the club section on Fab too! It's something we both love, as i'm sure many other clubbers do too!
In terms of clientele - and we've visited enough clubs to understand nothing is ever to be expected - it's been a bit of a disappointment. On both the Fridays and Saturdays we've been, it's been very quiet - something highly evident given the size of the club. In terms of age ranges it seems top heavy in regard to the 'older clubbers' which given the nightclub feel seems a little odd, and even on the supposed "Flirty Thirties" night there was no increase in younger attendees - not surprising since there were in fact no age restrictions in place which we feel would have probably ensured the younger crowd sought by such an advertised event. On the Fridays we have visited there seems to be a large number of the usual older single guys following couples, hanging around in groups and stalking in 'packs' - something clubs will always struggle to avoid - but this is especially prevalent towards the end of the night when couples are playing upstairs in the lounge. There seems to be no concept of 'personal space' with some - something we encountered last night including one guy breaking the golden rule of 'no hands til invited' - something I didn't notice immediately and when told in no uncertain terms to back off - the guy did - to the extent of leaving the building (we thought of reporting to staff but seemed pointless as we couldn't see him anywhere having looked!)
All in all, a mixed bag! Whilst we love the facilities, the staff, the location (and bear in mind it's a 4hr, 250 mile round trip when we visit!) we feel Xtasia is a bit of an enigma!! The club membership and entry fees are very reasonable, and as we've stated the layout, facilities and bar prices are great. Given a certain other club a few miles down the road - getting the hot tub and sauna back up and running may tempt people in that are used to visiting Chams - even if just to check the place out. We've not yet been to a club with the 'wet' facilities that wasn't considerably busier, with many more regulars and one time visitors. As for the clientele - nothing 'we' can do about that - but if the club wants to attract both more members and specific crowds for advertised events (not just the "flirty thirties" - the "fetish" event wasn't busy at all last night either!) then maybe seeking more a more specific section of customers for each would be beneficial. Not having seen the club under previous ownership we can't compare to how it was before and by all accounts there have been many improvements since Paul and Flirt took over.
Will we be back? Definitely - if in all liklehood less frequently. At least until the tub is fixed. So in our view the club is definitely "Fun" - but could easily be fabulous with just a few tweeks!
A & F x |
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Fabulous
by tvbjqueen
19 July 2013
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| Went to Xtasia for the first time last night to attend their monthly 'Trans-Action' night.
The staff were very welcoming and easy to get on with. Having gone through the simple (and free for fetish nights) membership process I was given a quick guided tour.
I had a lovely night, the atmosphere is very relaxed and I can't wait till next month! |
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Fabulous
by
3 July 2013
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| Had my 1st visit to this club during the weekend on a spare of the moment kinda thing and I must say it was the right choice . Huge venue with every kinda play area you can imagine , the crowd were plentiful , met a a few friendly people , will defo be back again in the near future ! |
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Fabulous
by Fuzzy Duck
1 July 2013
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| Having known Paul & Flirt for many years now I thought it was time to go and take a look at their new venture, which did not disappoint they have done so much in such a short space of time and have many more plans in the pipeline. The hosts of course and the staff are very friendly and welcoming especially to new comers, the facilities are first rate, the theme and cinema rooms are outstanding and the place has a buzz about it. This place will only get better under this great couple, it's a venue not to be missed if your into the club side of the scene and if your not what better place to come and dip your feet. See you soon guys |
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OK
by tablefortwo
28 June 2013
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| had some good fun in xtasia , new owners very friendly ... |
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OK
by deanoblues3
28 June 2013
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| went to single swinger nite last nite all men no women waste of time |
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Fabulous
by
25 June 2013
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| Proud members, and would strongly recommend this clean, well organised and well run club! Had many of good nights at xtasia and plan to have many more. Still fairly new to the club scene of the lifestyle and feel so comfortable here & know xtasia will always be with us 4 as long as we are in the lifestyle, and maybe even after as the social side is also amazing and you can generally have just a good night there if your playing or not. Paul & flirt make the club what it is excellent owners! MAKE A DATE FREE 4 XTASIA well see u there ;) |
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Fun
by
22 June 2013
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| Went to Xtasia for the first time last night, the decor was superb, had a good time. Enjoyed walking all over a man, something I'd never done before, had a few plays and will definately be gong back! |
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Fabulous
by
17 June 2013
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| Been to Xtasia a couple times now and it gets better every time. Had a great time last bmfc which left me drained but with a big smile on my face. Can't wait to go bck. |
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Fabulous
by playfull pairing
16 June 2013
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| our first visit to xtasia and certainly not our last... welcoming staff, superb facilities, clean and well thought out play areas, very reasonable bar prices..... really cant fault it..... thanks to all the staff and fellow guests that made ours a great night x |
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Fabulous
by handc
15 June 2013
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| This was our first visit to Xtasia and the BMFC event, we were made to feel right at home by the club hosts and everyone from the BMFC.
The club is clean with great facility's for a great night of fun and we were shocked at how cheap the bar prices were.
Both the club and BMFC guys made for a relaxed atmosphere,which allowed us time to explore the club and get to socialize with people before starting with some seriously naughty adult fun!
Look forward to visiting again very soon |
