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Fabulous
by Perverts
22 December 2013
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| Had a fantastic night at Xtasia, hats off to the owners for pulling all the stops out - greeted with a glass of bubbly on arrival, the dj was on top form and a luscious huge chocolate fountain adorned the bar mmm (all very tastefully done).
We were literally spolit for choice with totty.
Enjoyed a few hardcore whipping sessions in the dungeon, some girl on girl & then an amazing frenzied session with a couple in the camera room.
All in all an awesome night.
Thanks guys :-) xxx |
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Fabulous
by KinkyS
22 December 2013
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| Well that was the best xmas do ever....thanks to all the staff who were in the xmas spirit you put on an amazing night so glad we could make it. Loved the choc fountain such a naughty treat. Met up with some great friends and also made some great new ones aswell.....the atmosphere was brilliant lots of fun in the play rooms. Thoroughly enjoyed the party in the dungeoun (get in touch girls if you ever fancy round 2 xx) love the play rooms and now we can add the camera room to our list....it only leaves behind the bar! Big thanks to the dj played a great mix of all different genres.....played my favourite tune so gold star from me, even my injured wrist couldnt keep me off the dance floor lol. If you are looking for a great night out with great owners/staff/members...... then this club should be on your list of to dos for 2014. |
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Fabulous
by
22 December 2013
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| Had a great night at xtasia again,me a my partner go a couple of times a month and it the best night you can have,,the staff are great,paul and toni the owners are always welcoming,the play rooms was full to busting,and the glory hole room what me and my partner like very exciting lol,recommend this club to everyone even if you dont play,,see you soon xtasia x |
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Fun
by DevaDuo
22 December 2013
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| ~Went to the Xmas Party last night.
Been Members here for 10 yrs and have seen the changes, lately all for the better.
The new owners are tastefully updating the Club and doing a very nice job
The staff are all new and are all happy and helpful.
The Night was busy but not to the extent in the past.
Plenty of fun being had in the Playrooms and when we joined the main room (twice.....lol) it seemed more like a Roman Orgy. Fun was had by all.
Would really recommend this club but because of it's size it really needs to be busy/full to get the atmosphere going.
We'll be back |
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Fabulous
by Yohoho
15 December 2013
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| Went to this club for the first time on Friday. The music was great. The foam so much fun. It's just a pity more people didn't strip off and join us. The dogging area upstairs was a first for me. Loved the fact that the dungeon had floggers supplied. The play rooms were busy for most of the night. It is interesting watching those playing through the mirrors. Could do with more private play rooms for those shy like me. Staff was great as well xx |
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OK
by
14 December 2013
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| Visited for the first time last night. Think we need to try a Saturday night instead. We were put off by the sheer volume of single men who seemed to be in 'packs'. Coupled with the fact that the couple's room had two open doors where men had congregated and the lack of private lockable rooms we decided to leave early. Apart from that we enjoyed to nightclub atmosphere and will reserve any further judgement until we have tried a Saturday night. |
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Fun
by Bestbuddies
14 December 2013
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| We had a great weekend of fun at the club, we met up with many friends off Fabswingers especially on the Friday night. We have only been on a Saturday night a couple of times previously and not enjoyed it so much but on this occasion we had a brilliant time. The music was more for our age group (old farts) and the atmosphere was fantastic. Many thanks to the management for putting on this free weekend for fabswingers members x |
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Fabulous
by
14 December 2013
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| I said it before and I'll say it again...this is the best club in the midlands..period!! They attract the sexiest women...the music is great and the staff are on your side...i had a fucking ball and so did my cock and balls...thanks for a great night and keep doing what you're doing coz it makes sense and it's fucking fun...kind regards..Silva :-) |
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Fabulous
by
11 December 2013
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| We went last sat for our first ever visit to a club. So glad we chose this place, being a free event meant that it was busy and there was a great mix of ages. The DJ was really good, playing a mixture of tunes. The choice of rooms is great. We played in the large couple's room and the silhouette room. Was great to see people playing everywhere, even on the dance floor. The dresscode is good as I prefer to keep a little but covered, wouldn't feel as sexy in a towel. Drinks prices are very reasonable. All of the staff are very helpful and hospitable. Met some very sexy people. We will definitely return. Want to try out the Jacuzzi!! Xx |
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Fabulous
by
11 December 2013
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| After attending the free Christmas party at xstasia on Saturday night and reading some of the reviews we thought we would add ours!
We had never been to a club before and after a meet didn't happen we decided somewhat spontaneously to try a club. After a little bit of research both on here and club websites (some of which are truly awful!) we got in touch with xstasia. We are so glad we did! Everything from our phone call enquiry to the actual night there was brilliant!
After calling the mobile number on the website but not getting through we were called back, which I hadn't expected! All my questions were answered and our circumstances taken into account.
On arrival we were greeted by friendly and helpful staff on the door and reception before being given a tour. The bar was fairly quiet but we had arrived what I would consider early with hindsight (around 9.30pm) but by 11 the whole place was getting really busy! We felt somewhat nervous as it was our first time but everyone made us feel very comfortable, from the staff checking on us during the night to some of the great people we met!
We felt so comfortable we got down to some fun and spent the rest of the night in the silhouette room just the two of us before meeting a couple in the chill out room and then playing in the couples room which was heaving!
If you're looking for a place where you can get dressed up for a night out, have cheap drinks, a dance and meet great people, xstasia is for you!
Only criticism is that the couples room, despite seeming big when empty, when filled up it was VERY cramped! We had to wait for some space! Going to see that as a positive thing though!
Thanks for the great night! X |
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Fun
by
11 December 2013
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| ...and I'm the mutual friend that twisted his arm and now can't get him out of there ;) having said that, its usually my suggestion to go though, lol. Lookong forward to another evening there soon. |
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Fabulous
by evil_homer2
10 December 2013
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| Absolutely love this place. I had my arm twisted into becoming a member by a mutual friend and I haven't looked back. The club is only a short walk away which plays a massive part in my deciding to go there on a whim on a friday. The staff here are outstanding, friendly, helpful. The people you meet there are cool, the events they hold (like the BMFC and the recent Fab Free Fun Fingy) are always worth going to. Loving the new jacuzzi and sauna room, and definitely loving the fact that they're open on more days of the week. See ya at the foam party! |
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Fabulous
by
9 December 2013
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| funktabulous.
We are members of xtasia and chams, however, normally opt to go xtasia for a number of reasons.
Its partly because its nice to actually get dressed -especially for the girlies-and meet people in this sort of setting. We both enjoy the whole buzz of seduction dressed at the bar.
Perhaps an easier way of putting it would be that getting undressed before you start the evening sometimes feels a bit mechanical?
This is in no way a criticism of chams which serves, we think, a different purpose.
Another thing which might sway us towards west brom is the kink link; we love the fact that we can indulge in bdsm and the variety of options available there: crosses, benches restraints.
Whilst listing the reasons we enjoy the place so much, the owners and crew and are (fab)ulously personnable, enthusiastic about the scene and lifestyle and you get the sense they live their passion as much, if not more than run a business.
We have seen a big change in the club since its new ownership. I doubt we would spend as much time there had it not taken place.
We also love the mix of crowds: phukt2 was a fantastic laugh, lots of new-to-us pretty people most of whom seemed to end up in a big orgy at the end of the night.
Keep up the good work xtasia, the themed nights, the dressing up, the new and different nights. Its great to visit a club which seems to constantly reinvent itself and isnt stuck in the same old rut week in, week out.
And lastly a big thank you for your "thank you" week end, we had a fab time indeed.
Apologies for spelling, english isnt the primary language here. |
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Fabulous
by grogg
9 December 2013
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| it was my first visit to the club for some time and on a Friday night and as always was warmly greeting by the lovely and friendly woman on the reception
the staff are helpful and friendly and the club was busy with people enjoying the dance area and social areas and the jacuzi had plenty of activity . enjoyed the experience and met some new and good and genuine people and the club offers a good , safe and enjoyable environment for people to socialize and play in |
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Fabulous
by
9 December 2013
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| Another great weekend at xtasia just need to book the week of work next time as so tired today. From the moment you arrive you are made to feel welcome and always staff on hand if you have any questions. Bar staff outfits was amazing including martins sexy halo and the drinks are so cheap. The atmosphere was electric and was not long before the playrooms started to fill up. Came away happy and feel that the club owners are always looking to put the members first. Brillant Paul & Flirt and the team thankyou x |
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Fabulous
by KinkyS
9 December 2013
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| Where do we start? I normally leave a brief review but seen as we spent the whole weekend there I think the club deserves a bit of an essay.
We are regulars at Xtasia and the fact that Paul & Toni opened up their club for free as a thank you xmas treat was awesome. We had never attended on a Friday night but thought why not, we were so glad we went the single guys that did attend were all very respectful and not intrusive in anyway in fact they gave the place a different atmosphere and it was great to see a few up on the dance floor busting some moves. I'm not sure where the previous reviewer was looking suggesting the dance floor was empty? But, I for one enjoyed spending most of the evening on the dance floor round the poles having a really good night with another couple of girls who were practically naked. We were at the end where the toilets and the smoking area are and did NOT notice any "aroma" from the men's loo (I don't touch a drop of booze at all so would have noticed, the exit door being opened was also nice & refreshing as it was pretty hot in the club and although as a non smoker I think it is a great area with nice seating where you can socialise and get to know people if you feel you can't do that in the club area)
Warm up night out of the way we then rang the bell at 2pm the next day to meet friends for bubbles and a giggle and a nice toastie.
Saturday night was so much fun, yes people arranged to meet up with swinging friends that's the whole point isn't it to have a social and when I see people suggesting that it is not a swinging club - did you actually see inside the playrooms? There was hardly any space to move every inch was being "utilised" to the point where there was naughtiness on the dance floor and other little pockets of the club! I'll just say that for those that comment on the music - the DJ's aren't mind readers - you've only got to ask for your favourite tunes and they will happily oblige knowing it will get you up on the dance floor - if you don't ask you don't get!
Over the last few months of attending we have met some fab people and had some rather naughty nights in the club, we will never forget our first night and the best advise we were given by Paul "It's your night you'll get out of it what you put into it, don't be frightened to mingle and introduce yourself to people" and that's why we have so much fun both social,fetish & swinging. It only takes a smile & a hello and it can lead to so much more the facilities are the best, having the choice of both dry/wet/dungeon & night club there is something for everyone and those that know what they want and are confident enough to throw themselves in will always have the opportunity to swing with others.
We weren't fit for the Sunday event, as we continued our night with an after party back at the hotel but I'm certain we will get a fetish afternoon in sometime soon and can't to sample it.
The staff are amazing loved the outfits and they really interact with their members always get a warm smile and a little chat with all of them, it was great to see them manage the numbers really well and those that had a little to much to drink were spoken to swiftly to avoid any issues, xmas hats off to you all for putting up with us crazy bunch, see you next weekend x |
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Fabulous
by scaramouche
9 December 2013
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| This was my first visit for years and I had the opportunity to meet Paul. I had a great night meeting friends I know from the midlands and two lovely couples I met for the first time who had travelled from Glasgow and Aberdeen...they were great friendly people like everyone else there that night. It was a well organised event and good to see the staff checking all areas to make sure all was well and people were having fun. I never saw anyone all the worse for drink at anytime during the night :) The bar was well stocked and prices very fair. I have visited 6 or 7 clubs and I would put this in the top group. The Dark room was well subscribed and great fun for the uninhibited!.. Visiting as a single guy I felt completely at ease and fun was available if ones approach was respectful and genuine. I look forward to my next visit Many thanks to the owners, management and staff all your efforts are appreciated. |
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OK
by
9 December 2013
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| Have been a few times now and went on the ffff Friday evening. The evening didn't start well as had to drive around for twenty minutes to find somewhere to park as the Temple next door was heaving! The place was quite busy, busier by far than we have seen so far, but even by 11pm there was no one on the dance floor despite it feeling like a nightclub rather than a swinging club. Despite the crowd there really didn't seem to be a party atmosphere and I can't quite put my finger on why, is it the lighting? Maybe the way the seating is arranged? What wasn't pleasant was the whiff from the gents loos that permeated one end of the bar/dance floor. We had to move away as it was making me feel nauseous. I know men's toilets are difficult to keep peachy fresh having run a pub myself but it wasn't very nice. The fire exit at that end of the room was also open and shut, open and shut, is it a smoking area? Did make for chilly drafts though whatever. We didn't stay late, mainly because of the uninviting atmosphere and I agree with previous reviews that people were difficult to engage with, so not much point really, like to dance, no one dancing, like to swing, no one wanting to swing with us. Billy no mates and off elsewhere for us. Such a shame as I know the owners have tried really hard to get it going as a swingers venue, but from my limited experience it isn't quite there yet for me. |
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Fabulous
by Obi Haive
8 December 2013
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| Just got back from another great weekend at Xtasia - tired, but very happy! Friday was quieter than the first FFFF likely due to the requirement for single guys to become members. A great move in our minds as this prevented the issues at the first event and meant that those guys who attended did so for the right reasons - didn't see any problems all night and chatted to a few of the new guys who seemed to be enjoying the night. Last night - the couples night - was heaving! A real mix of people of all ages, many trying the place for the first time and a lot of effort into some very sexy outfits (and some muppet in a reindeer onesie!). Everywhere seemed busy all night - the bar, the playrooms, the dungeon, the tub - was often tricky finding room to play! And as always the staff were great, especially the 'xmas angels' on the bar.
Preferences re clubs will be as varied as preferences in play partners - and yes, the club does have a 'nightclub' feel to it. But this in no way makes it any less a swingers club (else we wouldn't have seen quite so much nudity and naughtiness last night!). Those reviews that felt it more of a social venue - we'll respect your opinions of course - after all no opinion is ever wrong. But to us a large, and very important part of the swinging lifestyle is the social side, and the ability to chat with people, rather than just visiting a 'sex club' where it's just a mass of writhing bodies - and Xtasia as a club offers the opportunity to socialise far better than many clubs we've seen. It's great that there's the space to engage with others away from those playing and the fact it's a dry club makes many far more comfortable and confident, rather than the pressure of stripping on entry to towel or lingerie. We've never seen any more heavy drinking than occurs at every club around the country - in fact at some BYOB clubs there's been far more problems with drunken behaviour.
Paul and Flirt (and the whole team) have done a fantastic job over the last year and to give free entry to all was a generous offer (and yes, good business sense of course! lol) that seems to have pulled in a lot of interest. Hopefully some of that interest will result in repeat visits, for as well as great facilities a club is only as good as those that attend it.
And having seen last nights crowd - it looked pretty damn good to us!! ;-)
A&F xx |
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Fabulous
by MitSam
8 December 2013
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| Xtasia was one of the first clubs we tried years ago. We loved the place until we found clubs with a jacuzzi and enjoyed the wet areas. Since the new owners have taken over we have returned to see what has changed. To those people who have not been since the takeover you really need to go and see what has been done. The fact that the wet area is being improved all the time is great for us. We now have the benefit of a clothed club with a fantastic wet area. With a cinema area, an indoor dogging area with real cars in the roof, the downstairs large room is now converted to lots of small rooms each having a different thought behind it. Rooms are totally private and lockable, large room with a viewing window, other rooms with mirrors to look over the top, dungeon area, dark rooms, grope box/glory hole box, a silhouette room leaving that little bit to the imagination. The wet area has changing rooms with showers (showers about being upgraded - another update to the club). With the old owners the wet area was there but never used. This part of the club has been opened up and what a great idea that was.
There are many different events going on at the club - the foam parties are just not a night to miss. We went to a foam party (our first ever foam party). We were unsure. The foam started and that was it, we stripped off and in we went, what an absolute laugh it was. There are DJ's playing some great music and a shout out has to go out to Jay who plays some great tracks in the dance area that has a large dance floor with lighting. A heated area for the smokers. There is a chill out area on the upper floor. Cloak room area.
The bar sells both alcohol, cold soft drinks, tea and coffee. Fancy a pizza, there is a pizza oven there too if you feel like a snack.
The staff are helpful and very friendly and you can have a laugh with them.
Xtasia is alive and back. There is always something being done the the club to make it better and once that is complete the next project is underway with other projects being put to paper.
With a hotel in walking distance with special rates you can visit from a distance and not have to drive back straight away.
Check out the events page with all the upcoming events to entice people in, couples nights, bi nights, singles and couples nights, raves, different music themed night, themed nights, karaoke nights, foam parties with more and more happening.
There is a loyalty scheme giving new and renewing members a months free admission to standard nights and the loyalty scheme also gives each 5th visit free entry.
A club back on the scene and we are really happy there is so much being done to the place. A big hats off to the staff for bringing the club back to life.
Have a look at their website and keep checking upcoming events and see what nights suit you. A great club to visit with a lot to do. Well worth it. |
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Fabulous
by
8 December 2013
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| Having been a few times we've seen the club slow and busy. Last night was a good vibe, and for the people saying its just a night club. Theres are plenty of areas to play in. The rooms, the chill area, the black out room, the dogging in, the hot tub/sauna, the cinema.
All those thinking about going, don't let the ok reviews sway you the place is great £2 for a bottle of bud is amazing. The staff are friendly and always smiling only downside for us is the smell from the cheese toastes ;)
We'll be back again for sure! |
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OK
by
8 December 2013
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| Rather disappointed after expecting a lot from this club, surprised to find it is effectively just a bar/ nightclub and not like a swingers club as we know them and the few play areas seem like an afterthought with poor access either up or down narrow, steep stairwells. As experienced club goers we were also amazed at difficult it was to engage with people in there and found some people to be just outright ignorant (not the clubs fault we know and maybe a function of the free entrance?). One or two people looked like they had just walked in off the street and had made no effort to dress up (or dress down) for the occasion which didn't add much to the ambiance and neither did some of the people who had clearly had one too many. Maybe a regular night would be better but if you are looking for sexy play this didn't seem like the place to go. |
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Fabulous
by
8 December 2013
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| We decided to treat ourselves to a weekend at Xtasia, we have been to a few events there before and loved it and we thought as the owners were having a free weekend, it would be rude not to take them up on it. It's a fantastic club with amazing staff that always have smiles on their faces and are welcoming, Morrigan especially loves the banter with them. We were expecting a great weekend and we got it, Friday night was just a warm up to Saturday night where the play areas towards the end of the night got very busy indeed and the dance floor was great too Morrigan loved the poles. We also love the fact that we could chill out in the Jacuzzi after dancing the night away. We enjoyed Friday and Saturday so much we decided to go Sunday too. Thank you for running such a fantastic club. X |
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Fabulous
by SimeonSimon
8 December 2013
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| We've been along a lot recently, and we think everyone is forgetting that the club laid this weekend on as a Christmas Party freebie night for everyone. There must have been well over 200 people in last night and what we saw was a reasonably busy dance floor up to around midnight, and then boom, the rooms filled and everyone was swinging. Think we're getting those who left early because it wasn't there thing, but for those of us who stayed, we loved it all. Loads of sexy people dancing, the chill room really worked with the separate music, far better than hearing the downstairs bleeding in all night and allowed us to catch up with some good friends, before playing. We actually couldn't get into the couples room it was that packed and ended up doing the dogging loft. Loved it all, keep it going guys. |
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OK
by Natty77
8 December 2013
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| We went along last night to the free event and I have to agree with the last 2 reviews it's definitely more of a night club than a swingers club , the big open room with the big bed that we used to spend many happy hours on has gone and the little rooms are just to confined for me .. I never feel I can relax and play there .. Good for a social night out we sat by bar watched people dance and chatted but left before midnight .. The club is clean the staff are friendly but the music and night club theme just don't work for me |
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OK
by
8 December 2013
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| This was our second visit to the club. The first was OK but the place was empty so we thought we would give it a second chance. It was a lot busier this time, but it is definitely more like a night club than a swingers club which disappointed the Mrs a lot! It came across that people had already decided to meet up with 'friends' and it was difficult to engage with others because of this (or is that just us?).
The staff were very friendly, it was clean and it had a relaxed atmosphere. We love dancing, but the music was put together poorly and didn't entice that many people to hit the dance floor. We didn't like the fact that people were allowed to get very drunk either.
Would we go again? Probably not as it is a long drive and we could have gone to any night club for the same kind of night and we wanted to swing! |
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OK
by Lovely Cummings
7 December 2013
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| First time at this club in five years. Many things have changed. It's a fun place, very clean but very night club based.
Great place if you enjoy the night out, night club vibe.
Play areas are clean but my criticism would be that i like the option of if i want people to watch ( depends on my mood) and the mirrors take away this option so that there are no real private areas to play.
Not really for me but great place to socialize & would recommend to anyone that likes a nightclub style night out |
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Fabulous
by HappyandCharming
5 December 2013
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| There isn't a lot that hasn't been said about Saturdays PHUKT2 event at Xtasia . It was a very slick well organised PARTY.
It gave us a great baptism into club life and the fun which can be found in such a good environment.
Xtasia it self was clean, warm, with very attentive staff .
Congratulations to every body involved in making a fabulous night.
xx
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Fabulous
by
4 December 2013
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| What another great night at Xtasia for Phukt 2. We attended the first Phukt event and had a cracking night so had to come along to the second one and just wow! You guys pulled off another amazing night, We partied we'll into Sunday and before we left became members to the club so we'll be visiting more often ;)
We're already excited for the next event, don't want to wait 3 and a half months for it tho! :( xx |
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Fun
by
2 December 2013
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| We went for the first time to this club on a Saturday for the Phukt 2 event.
Firstly as we entered, the receptionist was friendly and the cloakroom staff polite and welcoming. We were not given a tour, which was disappointing but this may be genuinely be because it was a busy night.
The club has a bar, which is always a plus and prices are terrific. The bar staff were fairly efficient and smiled too!
The dance floor is a good size but going by previous reviews, it has been described as huge whereas in reality it was a decent size. Not a problem for us but most night clubs have a dance floor that size but not all swingers clubs.
The toilets am were a chore to find and although fairly clean could do with modernising. The lack of tour meant we only discovered the sauna and hot tub when a couple dragged us down there for an orgy, otherwise it is not obviously signposted. We only found out about the legal dogging as we were leaving so didn't get to see it :(
The chill out lounge had great music and would be a nice to have a bar but accept there but accept there maybe many practical reasons why there is not. We assumed the grope/dark room was in the chill out room but the entrance was full of couples chatting.
The playrooms were strange. There were initially loads of couples and singles talking fully clothed and we were the ones who started the shagging. This somehow should be managed as playrooms need some kind of erotic feel? After 12am, the sex was busy particular in the couples room. The sign strictly says 'couples only' yet throughout the night there were single men entering despite staff or glass collectors coming into the room so must of been aware.
Despite the criticism, which I hope is constructive, we had a great night and would definitely return.
The music was superb, drinks cheap, good dancers and good looking people. We had some of our most memorable sex too so lots of fun. |
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Fabulous
by dirtytalk
2 December 2013
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| Phukt2.......Wow...... The Stuff of Mega memories !!!!
Big thanks to sam&Jamie for bringing two great worlds together,great music and great lifestyle....
We have been to many club nights but have never seen so many sexy people on one night..
Paul & Flirt have done and continue to make massive improvements to a great club (Maybe a couple of huge beds getting rid of the sofas upstairs would make multiple playing easier).So a big well done xx
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