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Rating: OK
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9 December 2013
Have been a few times now and went on the ffff Friday evening. The evening didn't start well as had to drive around for twenty minutes to find somewhere to park as the Temple next door was heaving! The place was quite busy, busier by far than we have seen so far, but even by 11pm there was no one on the dance floor despite it feeling like a nightclub rather than a swinging club. Despite the crowd there really didn't seem to be a party atmosphere and I can't quite put my finger on why, is it the lighting? Maybe the way the seating is arranged? What wasn't pleasant was the whiff from the gents loos that permeated one end of the bar/dance floor. We had to move away as it was making me feel nauseous. I know men's toilets are difficult to keep peachy fresh having run a pub myself but it wasn't very nice. The fire exit at that end of the room was also open and shut, open and shut, is it a smoking area? Did make for chilly drafts though whatever. We didn't stay late, mainly because of the uninviting atmosphere and I agree with previous reviews that people were difficult to engage with, so not much point really, like to dance, no one dancing, like to swing, no one wanting to swing with us. Billy no mates and off elsewhere for us. Such a shame as I know the owners have tried really hard to get it going as a swingers venue, but from my limited experience it isn't quite there yet for me.
Rating: Fabulous
by Obi Haive
8 December 2013
Just got back from another great weekend at Xtasia - tired, but very happy! Friday was quieter than the first FFFF likely due to the requirement for single guys to become members. A great move in our minds as this prevented the issues at the first event and meant that those guys who attended did so for the right reasons - didn't see any problems all night and chatted to a few of the new guys who seemed to be enjoying the night. Last night - the couples night - was heaving! A real mix of people of all ages, many trying the place for the first time and a lot of effort into some very sexy outfits (and some muppet in a reindeer onesie!). Everywhere seemed busy all night - the bar, the playrooms, the dungeon, the tub - was often tricky finding room to play! And as always the staff were great, especially the 'xmas angels' on the bar.

Preferences re clubs will be as varied as preferences in play partners - and yes, the club does have a 'nightclub' feel to it. But this in no way makes it any less a swingers club (else we wouldn't have seen quite so much nudity and naughtiness last night!). Those reviews that felt it more of a social venue - we'll respect your opinions of course - after all no opinion is ever wrong. But to us a large, and very important part of the swinging lifestyle is the social side, and the ability to chat with people, rather than just visiting a 'sex club' where it's just a mass of writhing bodies - and Xtasia as a club offers the opportunity to socialise far better than many clubs we've seen. It's great that there's the space to engage with others away from those playing and the fact it's a dry club makes many far more comfortable and confident, rather than the pressure of stripping on entry to towel or lingerie. We've never seen any more heavy drinking than occurs at every club around the country - in fact at some BYOB clubs there's been far more problems with drunken behaviour.

Paul and Flirt (and the whole team) have done a fantastic job over the last year and to give free entry to all was a generous offer (and yes, good business sense of course! lol) that seems to have pulled in a lot of interest. Hopefully some of that interest will result in repeat visits, for as well as great facilities a club is only as good as those that attend it.

And having seen last nights crowd - it looked pretty damn good to us!! ;-)

A&F xx
Rating: Fabulous
by MitSam
8 December 2013
Xtasia was one of the first clubs we tried years ago. We loved the place until we found clubs with a jacuzzi and enjoyed the wet areas. Since the new owners have taken over we have returned to see what has changed. To those people who have not been since the takeover you really need to go and see what has been done. The fact that the wet area is being improved all the time is great for us. We now have the benefit of a clothed club with a fantastic wet area. With a cinema area, an indoor dogging area with real cars in the roof, the downstairs large room is now converted to lots of small rooms each having a different thought behind it. Rooms are totally private and lockable, large room with a viewing window, other rooms with mirrors to look over the top, dungeon area, dark rooms, grope box/glory hole box, a silhouette room leaving that little bit to the imagination. The wet area has changing rooms with showers (showers about being upgraded - another update to the club). With the old owners the wet area was there but never used. This part of the club has been opened up and what a great idea that was.

There are many different events going on at the club - the foam parties are just not a night to miss. We went to a foam party (our first ever foam party). We were unsure. The foam started and that was it, we stripped off and in we went, what an absolute laugh it was. There are DJ's playing some great music and a shout out has to go out to Jay who plays some great tracks in the dance area that has a large dance floor with lighting. A heated area for the smokers. There is a chill out area on the upper floor. Cloak room area.

The bar sells both alcohol, cold soft drinks, tea and coffee. Fancy a pizza, there is a pizza oven there too if you feel like a snack.

The staff are helpful and very friendly and you can have a laugh with them.

Xtasia is alive and back. There is always something being done the the club to make it better and once that is complete the next project is underway with other projects being put to paper.

With a hotel in walking distance with special rates you can visit from a distance and not have to drive back straight away.

Check out the events page with all the upcoming events to entice people in, couples nights, bi nights, singles and couples nights, raves, different music themed night, themed nights, karaoke nights, foam parties with more and more happening.

There is a loyalty scheme giving new and renewing members a months free admission to standard nights and the loyalty scheme also gives each 5th visit free entry.

A club back on the scene and we are really happy there is so much being done to the place. A big hats off to the staff for bringing the club back to life.

Have a look at their website and keep checking upcoming events and see what nights suit you. A great club to visit with a lot to do. Well worth it.
Rating: Fabulous
by
8 December 2013
Having been a few times we've seen the club slow and busy. Last night was a good vibe, and for the people saying its just a night club. Theres are plenty of areas to play in. The rooms, the chill area, the black out room, the dogging in, the hot tub/sauna, the cinema.

All those thinking about going, don't let the ok reviews sway you the place is great £2 for a bottle of bud is amazing. The staff are friendly and always smiling only downside for us is the smell from the cheese toastes ;)

We'll be back again for sure!
Rating: OK
by
8 December 2013
Rather disappointed after expecting a lot from this club, surprised to find it is effectively just a bar/ nightclub and not like a swingers club as we know them and the few play areas seem like an afterthought with poor access either up or down narrow, steep stairwells. As experienced club goers we were also amazed at difficult it was to engage with people in there and found some people to be just outright ignorant (not the clubs fault we know and maybe a function of the free entrance?). One or two people looked like they had just walked in off the street and had made no effort to dress up (or dress down) for the occasion which didn't add much to the ambiance and neither did some of the people who had clearly had one too many. Maybe a regular night would be better but if you are looking for sexy play this didn't seem like the place to go.
Rating: Fabulous
by
8 December 2013
We decided to treat ourselves to a weekend at Xtasia, we have been to a few events there before and loved it and we thought as the owners were having a free weekend, it would be rude not to take them up on it. It's a fantastic club with amazing staff that always have smiles on their faces and are welcoming, Morrigan especially loves the banter with them. We were expecting a great weekend and we got it, Friday night was just a warm up to Saturday night where the play areas towards the end of the night got very busy indeed and the dance floor was great too Morrigan loved the poles. We also love the fact that we could chill out in the Jacuzzi after dancing the night away. We enjoyed Friday and Saturday so much we decided to go Sunday too. Thank you for running such a fantastic club. X
Rating: Fabulous
by SimeonSimon
8 December 2013
We've been along a lot recently, and we think everyone is forgetting that the club laid this weekend on as a Christmas Party freebie night for everyone. There must have been well over 200 people in last night and what we saw was a reasonably busy dance floor up to around midnight, and then boom, the rooms filled and everyone was swinging. Think we're getting those who left early because it wasn't there thing, but for those of us who stayed, we loved it all. Loads of sexy people dancing, the chill room really worked with the separate music, far better than hearing the downstairs bleeding in all night and allowed us to catch up with some good friends, before playing. We actually couldn't get into the couples room it was that packed and ended up doing the dogging loft. Loved it all, keep it going guys.
Rating: OK
by Natty77
8 December 2013
We went along last night to the free event and I have to agree with the last 2 reviews it's definitely more of a night club than a swingers club , the big open room with the big bed that we used to spend many happy hours on has gone and the little rooms are just to confined for me .. I never feel I can relax and play there .. Good for a social night out we sat by bar watched people dance and chatted but left before midnight .. The club is clean the staff are friendly but the music and night club theme just don't work for me
Rating: OK
by
8 December 2013
This was our second visit to the club. The first was OK but the place was empty so we thought we would give it a second chance. It was a lot busier this time, but it is definitely more like a night club than a swingers club which disappointed the Mrs a lot! It came across that people had already decided to meet up with 'friends' and it was difficult to engage with others because of this (or is that just us?).

The staff were very friendly, it was clean and it had a relaxed atmosphere. We love dancing, but the music was put together poorly and didn't entice that many people to hit the dance floor. We didn't like the fact that people were allowed to get very drunk either.

Would we go again? Probably not as it is a long drive and we could have gone to any night club for the same kind of night and we wanted to swing!
Rating: OK
by Lovely Cummings
7 December 2013
First time at this club in five years. Many things have changed. It's a fun place, very clean but very night club based.

Great place if you enjoy the night out, night club vibe.

Play areas are clean but my criticism would be that i like the option of if i want people to watch ( depends on my mood) and the mirrors take away this option so that there are no real private areas to play.

Not really for me but great place to socialize & would recommend to anyone that likes a nightclub style night out
Rating: Fabulous
by HappyandCharming
5 December 2013
There isn't a lot that hasn't been said about Saturdays PHUKT2 event at Xtasia . It was a very slick well organised PARTY.

It gave us a great baptism into club life and the fun which can be found in such a good environment.

Xtasia it self was clean, warm, with very attentive staff .

Congratulations to every body involved in making a fabulous night.

xx

Rating: Fabulous
by
4 December 2013
What another great night at Xtasia for Phukt 2. We attended the first Phukt event and had a cracking night so had to come along to the second one and just wow! You guys pulled off another amazing night, We partied we'll into Sunday and before we left became members to the club so we'll be visiting more often ;)

We're already excited for the next event, don't want to wait 3 and a half months for it tho! :( xx
Rating: Fun
by
2 December 2013
We went for the first time to this club on a Saturday for the Phukt 2 event.

Firstly as we entered, the receptionist was friendly and the cloakroom staff polite and welcoming. We were not given a tour, which was disappointing but this may be genuinely be because it was a busy night.

The club has a bar, which is always a plus and prices are terrific. The bar staff were fairly efficient and smiled too!

The dance floor is a good size but going by previous reviews, it has been described as huge whereas in reality it was a decent size. Not a problem for us but most night clubs have a dance floor that size but not all swingers clubs.

The toilets am were a chore to find and although fairly clean could do with modernising. The lack of tour meant we only discovered the sauna and hot tub when a couple dragged us down there for an orgy, otherwise it is not obviously signposted. We only found out about the legal dogging as we were leaving so didn't get to see it :(

The chill out lounge had great music and would be a nice to have a bar but accept there but accept there maybe many practical reasons why there is not. We assumed the grope/dark room was in the chill out room but the entrance was full of couples chatting.

The playrooms were strange. There were initially loads of couples and singles talking fully clothed and we were the ones who started the shagging. This somehow should be managed as playrooms need some kind of erotic feel? After 12am, the sex was busy particular in the couples room. The sign strictly says 'couples only' yet throughout the night there were single men entering despite staff or glass collectors coming into the room so must of been aware.

Despite the criticism, which I hope is constructive, we had a great night and would definitely return.

The music was superb, drinks cheap, good dancers and good looking people. We had some of our most memorable sex too so lots of fun.
Rating: Fabulous
by dirtytalk
2 December 2013
Phukt2.......Wow...... The Stuff of Mega memories !!!!

Big thanks to sam&Jamie for bringing two great worlds together,great music and great lifestyle....

We have been to many club nights but have never seen so many sexy people on one night..

Paul & Flirt have done and continue to make massive improvements to a great club (Maybe a couple of huge beds getting rid of the sofas upstairs would make multiple playing easier).So a big well done xx

Rating: Fabulous
by MacnShell
2 December 2013
Superb night at PHUKT at Xtasia. Music was A1+++ and venue matches all the needs. Massive dance floor, great sound system and lights, plenty of play areas to head off to and staff were superb. The actual attendees were gorgeous, clean, tidy and fit. Magical to see the lifestyle supporting so many great couples, who know how to enjoy themselves. Will be back soon to sample even more delights. Thanks P&F and S&J.
Rating: Fabulous
by
2 December 2013
Wow another banger of a night in a great club!

The venue here is one of the best around,the staff from door to bar,the event organisers,DJs and owners are spot on!Great attitudes and smiles all roundxxxxAnd as for the punters in there what can say more than FABulous darling...;)see you there for the next onexxxxxx
Rating: Fabulous
by
2 December 2013
Well what can we say really ?? Apart from WOW !!! We cannot thank everyone that came enough, YOU are the ones that made the night ! We feel humbled by so much support and praise for this unique event.

It seems that Phukt is truly set to become a legendary event lol !! As with any club in the lifestyle its always about the people that attend and last night was a no exception to the rule ! Full to the brim with hotties and sexy peeps, 250 plus in attendance !!

Our only regret is that we dont get chance to spend decent time with everyone gaining feedback and socialising, but we are sure you understand we take the event very seriously and are always striving to improve where we can.

Brandon Block was simply off the scale and set the bar for a truly unforgettable night, Both Ade, Sam Wiltshire and Danny Mansfield were fantastic DJ's and we are proud to have them on board.

Jay and Na ( Struct 7 ) once again surpassed themselves in the chill out room creating a sexy, relaxed ambience for people to have a breather and chill, we love you to bits guys xx

To sum up we are truly grateful to you all for your support and wonderful feedback and we will return in the new year with PHUKT 3, until then......

Reach for the lasers, SAFE AS PHUKT !

S and J xxx
Rating: Fun
by
2 December 2013
We went to Phukt 2 on saturday night, our third visit to Xtasia in a month.

really enjoyed ourselves loads of stuff going on and we had some sexy fun in the dogging area and also the dark room.

lots of sexy people about. X
Rating: Fun
by
2 December 2013
Went to Phukt 2 on Saturday night, it was our first ever club visit, we were like kids in a sweet shop lol too much to look at and lots of fun and games,

Was a great night with some lovely people around, venue was fantastic and DJs were "fab"

Can't wait for next one!

Robb and jess x x
Rating: Fun
by
2 December 2013
Went to Phukt 2 sat and good effort was put in! Great PR work - around 150 on average of attendance! Weldone to the DJ's. Weldone good night!
Rating: Fabulous
by Optimum trajectory
2 December 2013
Went to the 2nd phukt night last weekend and the house was rocking. A massive thank you to all the party people who made it a night to remember. Shout outs to all the DJ's for some blistering tunes. Big ups to paul and flirt who are wonderful and huge hugs and kisses to sam & jamie (the hosts with the most).

The roof got raved and the party was jumping.

Xtasia has fantastic facilities it's just a question of which room to start in (cos you have to christen them all don't you?!).

Bring on phukt 3.
Rating: Fun
by
2 December 2013
PHUKT2 was our first visit to this club and well what can we say.....absolutely brilliant set by Brandon Block, full dance floor of people enjoying themselves.

Found the staff really friendly and facilities fab and organised very well....can't wait for PHUKT3!!!

Rating: Fabulous
by
1 December 2013
Wow what an event very good turn out great place the atmosphere was electric. Loved the dogging area wink wink lol would fully recommend staff where great very friendly look forward to the next one cheers x
Rating: Fabulous
by
1 December 2013
We had a great night yet again at phukt the music was bangin dance floor was full of sexy people & we can't wait for the next one it really is the event of the year!

Great work by S&J & all the friendly staff
Rating: Fabulous
by
1 December 2013
As a young single male and this being my first club, it is fair to say I was very nervous, however my nerves were completely put to ease by the incredible smiles and friendliness of all the staff who were more than happy to show me around and answer any questions I had. It's fantastic looking club in a great location (Premier Inn only 50 yards away!) and I will definitely be returning.
Rating: Fabulous
by
1 December 2013
WoW, what can i say, i had the very best time ever in my swinging career at Phukt@Xtasia last night, absolute perfection this time, club its self i think is spot on, bring it on Phukt3, any one would be crazy to miss out on this event for sure.
Rating: Fun
by
1 December 2013
The PHUKT@Xtasia concept and event is unique to the lifestyle and is right up our street and we'll continue to support it! Great to see Brandon Block enjoying the night too.

Xtasia staff seemed to cope well, although the place was packed and very busy.

Look forward to the next one!
Rating: Fabulous
by Sextoysareus
1 December 2013
Had a great night, we got there early and made use of the sauna and hot tub. Great little place,rooms are slightly small.

Great sexy people.

Guys did a great job in the chill out room.

Rating: Fabulous
by
1 December 2013
What a night Brandon block is simply put nothing short of a legend!! Great club great atmosphere clean, classy,amazing sound system what more can we say...... 10 out of 10!!
Rating: Fabulous
by
1 December 2013
Great night at PHUKT2 at Xtasia,excellent music especially Ade Wilcox's set it was what kept us on the floor most of the time except for when my partner in crime and I went off for some pretend dogging fun and to home my voyeur skills i.e Having a perv ! Lol.

Can't wait for the next one x
Rating: Fun
by
1 December 2013
been going to xtacia for a few months now with my fabswinger partner,but never saw it so full as last night,the music wasnt for us lol,but did now about the DJ,s they had on so paul did warn us,,but all the play rooms was full,loads of very sexy people and plenty playing,never saw my partner so turn on in there,everywere we looked and went somebody was getting it on with somebody,,great night great staff great people,cant wait for the next time x

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