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Fabulous
by toffeecrispmunchers
4 January 2014
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| We went for our first new year's eve at a club and there was a great party atmosphere - great fun with the masks and dancing and lots of sexy people. Wouldn't hesitate to recommend Xtasia for New year's eve and hoping we can go again next year! (Also want to fit a foam party in at some time ;-) ) |
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Fabulous
by Sytra
3 January 2014
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| Thank you Paul & Flirt.
Went to Xtasia for NY eve again (wont go anywhere else) once again it was great.. Have only been once in the last 12 months so it was fab to finally go back and see the changes that Paul and Flirt have made since our last visit and we were not dissapointed. The only thing we felt would have been better would be to have some kind of air conditioning in the large (orgy) room, it was far too hot towards the end of the night.
All in all a great night and looking forward to many more visits. |
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Fabulous
by
2 January 2014
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| A great night on NYE at Xtasia! It was a busy night and lots of fun, with really friendly sexy peeps! Good DJ playing some classic tunes....We were still on the dance floor when it was time to leave at 4am! Awesome.
We really like seeing all the changes and the way the club is evolving and changing to offer something for everyone.
Cant wait to see(and try) the huge three level bed that's being built in the upper lounge....now thats going to be fun!
Thanks to all of the staff who once again did a brill job making sure that everyone was happy and having a good time...and all with huge smiles :)
Cant wait for all the changes in 2014!!We are going to try it all... S and J xx
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Fun
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2 January 2014
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| Just to add a ickle review,On not really planning on going out for NYE me and my partner in crime decided to go somewhere last minute...but where ?
We had no outfits,no dickie bows or ballgowns and no ticket !
But Xtasia suited us just fine not far away smart dress but not too posh gained entry easily enough even though short notice and a good night was had !
Also well done on letting single guys in as most other clubs were no singles guys so thumbs up ! Not that it mattered to me I had my own hottie ! x |
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Fabulous
by SimeonSimon
2 January 2014
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| An amazing New Years eve, thanks to Paul and Flirt and the rest of the team for laying everything on so well. As has already been pointed out, everything was smack on, but we'd just like to highlight the extra's we thought were great. Firstly the VIP entrance scheme, worked a dream and we got straight past the small queue at the door and straight into Flirts waiting arms. She was dolling out masks to those who didn't have one, and by the time midnight came I think every couple in the building was masked. Great effort by 99% of the crowd. It was also great to see the club making an effort for disabled access, saw one gent in a chair and he was up and down a ramp into the playrooms with the door staff's help. Nice touch, congratulations. Chocolate fountain was lovely, where did you get the strawberries from at this time of year, they were superb and a welcome start to the new year. Sod the diet.
Music was ace. Jay was superb and when the other chap joined him at the end of the night was great to see the club really rocking, shame people had left earlier but guess people have children etc. Love the sound of the alterations that are occurring soon. If that upstairs room is just a couples bed area, its going to be massive, happy days. Agree with the idea of blacking out some mirrors as well. Don't agree with a previous post about singles chatting, there was only 5 in there according to the staff, it was couples chatting, however when we visited all we heard were loud moans from the rooms! Great night, well done to all the team. Good luck with 2014, we'll be back lots. |
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Fabulous
by cuckholdisme
2 January 2014
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| We were deliberating where to go. Made our decision based on a nightclub feel. IE great dancefloor, top music and lots of people. We got it right as it was packed and people made a real effort re the dress code, masked ball. Lots of action going on and some really sexy ladies dancing with very little on, you know who you are mmmm. Had two sexy visits to the glory hole and dogging area, all very naughty. Word for the staff, great, worked very hard. Thanks we will be back, love arnie ha xx |
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Fabulous
by
1 January 2014
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| After hearing nothing but positive things about Xtaisa it became very high on the list of things to experience for ourselves and NYE couldn't have been a better night to chose to do it on. From the get go the staff were very friendly and welcoming. They treated you like a friend rather than a customer. The atmosphere was just fantastic and the DJ did a great job. Both Si and myself had an amazing time seeing in the new year and are already planning our next trip back before the month is out, maybe even the week! The club has the social/play mix spot on. It was Si's first ever visit to a club and it certainly was the best one to choose to take his club cherry in. Big thumbs up!
The mask's people were wearing were just fabulous and the effort most had made really added to the feel of the night. Although it was slightly disappointing to see the odd guy in jeans & T-shirts on such a special occasion.
The only thing that would have been nice(this is just an observation and not a criticism) is a tour around the establishment(/a map :-P). We did feel a bit bewildered as to the layout of the club and we're pretty sure that we didn't see all of it. It was only at the very end of the night as we were leaving that we noticed the chill out room which would have been lovely to spend some time in earlier. But we understand that it was a very busy night, that we weren't the only newbies there and that the staff were most likely stretched pretty thin already. We're not knocking the staff here, in fact they were all fantastic and worked really hard to make the night as amazing as it was, especially the lovely lady manning reception. Big up to her!
We are both very much looking forward to our next visit and to discovering the little nooks and crannies that we missed last night. "Sorry" we remained somewhat wrapped up in enjoying each other, but we promise to spread our wings a little more next time. Anyone who saw us and would like to drop us a message please do. Any offers of a tour will be most welcomed ;-)
Annie & Si
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Fabulous
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1 January 2014
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| This club seems to get better every time we go and new years eve was the best yet, dance floor was busy and so were most of the private rooms not forgetting the dungeon which my wife seemed to enjoy very much .Will be back soon ! |
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Fabulous
by geordies
1 January 2014
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| Many people have different ways of describing the swingers club they go to.
Our way of describing Xtasia to people is the word STYLISH !!
And New Years Eve was no exception, just about everyone made the effort to dress for the occasion (until after midnight when clubwear or near-nakedness ruled).
As usual the owners and staff made sure everything ran like clockwork. The barstaff sure earned their pay last night !! Worked their pretty butts off.
We'll be visiting the club again before too long even tho it takes more than 3 hours each way for us. |
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Fabulous
by
1 January 2014
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| Have been to Xtasia a few times now -and while being honest, the atmosphere can vary that is in part due to the mix of people you get in there. On NYE everything seemed to drop into place. The low numbers of single guys in the night probably helped.
Good mix of music - but missing any northern soul which could have been good after midnight. The staff did a great job last night...Loved the strawberries and chocolate fountain. ...and bar staff brilliant as ever.
The planned improvements should only make this place get better in 2014.... |
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Fabulous
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1 January 2014
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| We have been to lots of clubs all over the country and dont leave reviews untill we have been a few times. We have just got back from the New years Eve Party and we have had a great time, Gaz got to whip and spank Dee and three other girls in the dungeon, Dee got spanked and whipped by a very sexy young lady who kindly rubbed it better, it was just fantastic. we love the dungeon and Dee is enjoying the BDSM side more and more.. Gaz would like to thank the very lovely ladies who asked him to whip them, he hasnt stopped smilling. its just a shame there is only one fully private room, which is far to small to be of use for more than two people, there are mirrors angled to look over the walls on all the other rooms so you are never really private, which is something that the club could do with, a lot of the single guys tend to shout comments that can be really off putting when your in the throws of things.
we also wish we could understand why most of the couples will not make eye contact with each other, a smile and an hello would not not result in you having to fuck them, its just polite.
there is still work going on in the club so it should just get better and better.
we will be back. |
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OK
by Bit of fun cpl
29 December 2013
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| Nearly a year since our last visit and a lot has changed, all for the better with even more improvements going on. Called in on Friday and the club was spotless and the staff as usual very friendly. Unfortunately it was a little bit cold and very quiet until late on when it did seem to pick up a little. Only real complaint is the music was too loud and you could not talk without shouting. Only a minor point and it did not spoil the visit to a great club. |
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Fun
by Sexxxes
23 December 2013
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| Enjoyed the Xmas party Saturday 21st, one of the busiest nights we have seen and a good mix of couples. Had some naughty fun with a couple we met there, hopefully we'll be back soon!! Complete bonus too was FREE entry due to the number of times we had visited before. |
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Fabulous
by Perverts
22 December 2013
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| Had a fantastic night at Xtasia, hats off to the owners for pulling all the stops out - greeted with a glass of bubbly on arrival, the dj was on top form and a luscious huge chocolate fountain adorned the bar mmm (all very tastefully done).
We were literally spolit for choice with totty.
Enjoyed a few hardcore whipping sessions in the dungeon, some girl on girl & then an amazing frenzied session with a couple in the camera room.
All in all an awesome night.
Thanks guys :-) xxx |
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Fabulous
by KinkyS
22 December 2013
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| Well that was the best xmas do ever....thanks to all the staff who were in the xmas spirit you put on an amazing night so glad we could make it. Loved the choc fountain such a naughty treat. Met up with some great friends and also made some great new ones aswell.....the atmosphere was brilliant lots of fun in the play rooms. Thoroughly enjoyed the party in the dungeoun (get in touch girls if you ever fancy round 2 xx) love the play rooms and now we can add the camera room to our list....it only leaves behind the bar! Big thanks to the dj played a great mix of all different genres.....played my favourite tune so gold star from me, even my injured wrist couldnt keep me off the dance floor lol. If you are looking for a great night out with great owners/staff/members...... then this club should be on your list of to dos for 2014. |
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Fabulous
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22 December 2013
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| Had a great night at xtasia again,me a my partner go a couple of times a month and it the best night you can have,,the staff are great,paul and toni the owners are always welcoming,the play rooms was full to busting,and the glory hole room what me and my partner like very exciting lol,recommend this club to everyone even if you dont play,,see you soon xtasia x |
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Fun
by DevaDuo
22 December 2013
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| ~Went to the Xmas Party last night.
Been Members here for 10 yrs and have seen the changes, lately all for the better.
The new owners are tastefully updating the Club and doing a very nice job
The staff are all new and are all happy and helpful.
The Night was busy but not to the extent in the past.
Plenty of fun being had in the Playrooms and when we joined the main room (twice.....lol) it seemed more like a Roman Orgy. Fun was had by all.
Would really recommend this club but because of it's size it really needs to be busy/full to get the atmosphere going.
We'll be back |
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Fabulous
by Yohoho
15 December 2013
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| Went to this club for the first time on Friday. The music was great. The foam so much fun. It's just a pity more people didn't strip off and join us. The dogging area upstairs was a first for me. Loved the fact that the dungeon had floggers supplied. The play rooms were busy for most of the night. It is interesting watching those playing through the mirrors. Could do with more private play rooms for those shy like me. Staff was great as well xx |
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OK
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14 December 2013
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| Visited for the first time last night. Think we need to try a Saturday night instead. We were put off by the sheer volume of single men who seemed to be in 'packs'. Coupled with the fact that the couple's room had two open doors where men had congregated and the lack of private lockable rooms we decided to leave early. Apart from that we enjoyed to nightclub atmosphere and will reserve any further judgement until we have tried a Saturday night. |
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Fun
by Bestbuddies
14 December 2013
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| We had a great weekend of fun at the club, we met up with many friends off Fabswingers especially on the Friday night. We have only been on a Saturday night a couple of times previously and not enjoyed it so much but on this occasion we had a brilliant time. The music was more for our age group (old farts) and the atmosphere was fantastic. Many thanks to the management for putting on this free weekend for fabswingers members x |
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Fabulous
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14 December 2013
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| I said it before and I'll say it again...this is the best club in the midlands..period!! They attract the sexiest women...the music is great and the staff are on your side...i had a fucking ball and so did my cock and balls...thanks for a great night and keep doing what you're doing coz it makes sense and it's fucking fun...kind regards..Silva :-) |
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Fabulous
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11 December 2013
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| We went last sat for our first ever visit to a club. So glad we chose this place, being a free event meant that it was busy and there was a great mix of ages. The DJ was really good, playing a mixture of tunes. The choice of rooms is great. We played in the large couple's room and the silhouette room. Was great to see people playing everywhere, even on the dance floor. The dresscode is good as I prefer to keep a little but covered, wouldn't feel as sexy in a towel. Drinks prices are very reasonable. All of the staff are very helpful and hospitable. Met some very sexy people. We will definitely return. Want to try out the Jacuzzi!! Xx |
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Fabulous
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11 December 2013
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| After attending the free Christmas party at xstasia on Saturday night and reading some of the reviews we thought we would add ours!
We had never been to a club before and after a meet didn't happen we decided somewhat spontaneously to try a club. After a little bit of research both on here and club websites (some of which are truly awful!) we got in touch with xstasia. We are so glad we did! Everything from our phone call enquiry to the actual night there was brilliant!
After calling the mobile number on the website but not getting through we were called back, which I hadn't expected! All my questions were answered and our circumstances taken into account.
On arrival we were greeted by friendly and helpful staff on the door and reception before being given a tour. The bar was fairly quiet but we had arrived what I would consider early with hindsight (around 9.30pm) but by 11 the whole place was getting really busy! We felt somewhat nervous as it was our first time but everyone made us feel very comfortable, from the staff checking on us during the night to some of the great people we met!
We felt so comfortable we got down to some fun and spent the rest of the night in the silhouette room just the two of us before meeting a couple in the chill out room and then playing in the couples room which was heaving!
If you're looking for a place where you can get dressed up for a night out, have cheap drinks, a dance and meet great people, xstasia is for you!
Only criticism is that the couples room, despite seeming big when empty, when filled up it was VERY cramped! We had to wait for some space! Going to see that as a positive thing though!
Thanks for the great night! X |
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Fun
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11 December 2013
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| ...and I'm the mutual friend that twisted his arm and now can't get him out of there ;) having said that, its usually my suggestion to go though, lol. Lookong forward to another evening there soon. |
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Fabulous
by evil_homer2
10 December 2013
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| Absolutely love this place. I had my arm twisted into becoming a member by a mutual friend and I haven't looked back. The club is only a short walk away which plays a massive part in my deciding to go there on a whim on a friday. The staff here are outstanding, friendly, helpful. The people you meet there are cool, the events they hold (like the BMFC and the recent Fab Free Fun Fingy) are always worth going to. Loving the new jacuzzi and sauna room, and definitely loving the fact that they're open on more days of the week. See ya at the foam party! |
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Fabulous
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9 December 2013
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| funktabulous.
We are members of xtasia and chams, however, normally opt to go xtasia for a number of reasons.
Its partly because its nice to actually get dressed -especially for the girlies-and meet people in this sort of setting. We both enjoy the whole buzz of seduction dressed at the bar.
Perhaps an easier way of putting it would be that getting undressed before you start the evening sometimes feels a bit mechanical?
This is in no way a criticism of chams which serves, we think, a different purpose.
Another thing which might sway us towards west brom is the kink link; we love the fact that we can indulge in bdsm and the variety of options available there: crosses, benches restraints.
Whilst listing the reasons we enjoy the place so much, the owners and crew and are (fab)ulously personnable, enthusiastic about the scene and lifestyle and you get the sense they live their passion as much, if not more than run a business.
We have seen a big change in the club since its new ownership. I doubt we would spend as much time there had it not taken place.
We also love the mix of crowds: phukt2 was a fantastic laugh, lots of new-to-us pretty people most of whom seemed to end up in a big orgy at the end of the night.
Keep up the good work xtasia, the themed nights, the dressing up, the new and different nights. Its great to visit a club which seems to constantly reinvent itself and isnt stuck in the same old rut week in, week out.
And lastly a big thank you for your "thank you" week end, we had a fab time indeed.
Apologies for spelling, english isnt the primary language here. |
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Fabulous
by grogg
9 December 2013
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| it was my first visit to the club for some time and on a Friday night and as always was warmly greeting by the lovely and friendly woman on the reception
the staff are helpful and friendly and the club was busy with people enjoying the dance area and social areas and the jacuzi had plenty of activity . enjoyed the experience and met some new and good and genuine people and the club offers a good , safe and enjoyable environment for people to socialize and play in |
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Fabulous
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9 December 2013
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| Another great weekend at xtasia just need to book the week of work next time as so tired today. From the moment you arrive you are made to feel welcome and always staff on hand if you have any questions. Bar staff outfits was amazing including martins sexy halo and the drinks are so cheap. The atmosphere was electric and was not long before the playrooms started to fill up. Came away happy and feel that the club owners are always looking to put the members first. Brillant Paul & Flirt and the team thankyou x |
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Fabulous
by KinkyS
9 December 2013
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| Where do we start? I normally leave a brief review but seen as we spent the whole weekend there I think the club deserves a bit of an essay.
We are regulars at Xtasia and the fact that Paul & Toni opened up their club for free as a thank you xmas treat was awesome. We had never attended on a Friday night but thought why not, we were so glad we went the single guys that did attend were all very respectful and not intrusive in anyway in fact they gave the place a different atmosphere and it was great to see a few up on the dance floor busting some moves. I'm not sure where the previous reviewer was looking suggesting the dance floor was empty? But, I for one enjoyed spending most of the evening on the dance floor round the poles having a really good night with another couple of girls who were practically naked. We were at the end where the toilets and the smoking area are and did NOT notice any "aroma" from the men's loo (I don't touch a drop of booze at all so would have noticed, the exit door being opened was also nice & refreshing as it was pretty hot in the club and although as a non smoker I think it is a great area with nice seating where you can socialise and get to know people if you feel you can't do that in the club area)
Warm up night out of the way we then rang the bell at 2pm the next day to meet friends for bubbles and a giggle and a nice toastie.
Saturday night was so much fun, yes people arranged to meet up with swinging friends that's the whole point isn't it to have a social and when I see people suggesting that it is not a swinging club - did you actually see inside the playrooms? There was hardly any space to move every inch was being "utilised" to the point where there was naughtiness on the dance floor and other little pockets of the club! I'll just say that for those that comment on the music - the DJ's aren't mind readers - you've only got to ask for your favourite tunes and they will happily oblige knowing it will get you up on the dance floor - if you don't ask you don't get!
Over the last few months of attending we have met some fab people and had some rather naughty nights in the club, we will never forget our first night and the best advise we were given by Paul "It's your night you'll get out of it what you put into it, don't be frightened to mingle and introduce yourself to people" and that's why we have so much fun both social,fetish & swinging. It only takes a smile & a hello and it can lead to so much more the facilities are the best, having the choice of both dry/wet/dungeon & night club there is something for everyone and those that know what they want and are confident enough to throw themselves in will always have the opportunity to swing with others.
We weren't fit for the Sunday event, as we continued our night with an after party back at the hotel but I'm certain we will get a fetish afternoon in sometime soon and can't to sample it.
The staff are amazing loved the outfits and they really interact with their members always get a warm smile and a little chat with all of them, it was great to see them manage the numbers really well and those that had a little to much to drink were spoken to swiftly to avoid any issues, xmas hats off to you all for putting up with us crazy bunch, see you next weekend x |
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Fabulous
by scaramouche
9 December 2013
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| This was my first visit for years and I had the opportunity to meet Paul. I had a great night meeting friends I know from the midlands and two lovely couples I met for the first time who had travelled from Glasgow and Aberdeen...they were great friendly people like everyone else there that night. It was a well organised event and good to see the staff checking all areas to make sure all was well and people were having fun. I never saw anyone all the worse for drink at anytime during the night :) The bar was well stocked and prices very fair. I have visited 6 or 7 clubs and I would put this in the top group. The Dark room was well subscribed and great fun for the uninhibited!.. Visiting as a single guy I felt completely at ease and fun was available if ones approach was respectful and genuine. I look forward to my next visit Many thanks to the owners, management and staff all your efforts are appreciated. |
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OK
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9 December 2013
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| Have been a few times now and went on the ffff Friday evening. The evening didn't start well as had to drive around for twenty minutes to find somewhere to park as the Temple next door was heaving! The place was quite busy, busier by far than we have seen so far, but even by 11pm there was no one on the dance floor despite it feeling like a nightclub rather than a swinging club. Despite the crowd there really didn't seem to be a party atmosphere and I can't quite put my finger on why, is it the lighting? Maybe the way the seating is arranged? What wasn't pleasant was the whiff from the gents loos that permeated one end of the bar/dance floor. We had to move away as it was making me feel nauseous. I know men's toilets are difficult to keep peachy fresh having run a pub myself but it wasn't very nice. The fire exit at that end of the room was also open and shut, open and shut, is it a smoking area? Did make for chilly drafts though whatever. We didn't stay late, mainly because of the uninviting atmosphere and I agree with previous reviews that people were difficult to engage with, so not much point really, like to dance, no one dancing, like to swing, no one wanting to swing with us. Billy no mates and off elsewhere for us. Such a shame as I know the owners have tried really hard to get it going as a swingers venue, but from my limited experience it isn't quite there yet for me. |
